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At what age is one officially an older gay

He is over ten years younger than me but I don’t feel old. This guy is so fire 🔥.

by Anonymousreply 28October 14, 2025 12:55 PM

Shit I forgot to post the link. Though I can’t find the clip I originally intended to link with him calling out for older gays.

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by Anonymousreply 1October 13, 2025 2:26 AM

It really depends. I am 46 and people routinely think I’m in my early thirties. Meanwhile, some of my high school classmates look seventy. Aging is weird.

by Anonymousreply 2October 13, 2025 2:31 AM

Gurl I'm 66, what am I ? A cadaver?

by Anonymousreply 3October 13, 2025 2:34 AM

192.

by Anonymousreply 4October 13, 2025 2:35 AM

When it hits...

by Anonymousreply 5October 13, 2025 2:36 AM

The median age in this place is around 62, so you’re asking a rather skewed segment of what was the question again?

by Anonymousreply 6October 13, 2025 2:36 AM

[quote]It really depends. I am 46 and people routinely think I’m in my early thirties. Meanwhile, some of my high school classmates look seventy. Aging is weird.

Gurl. 🤔

by Anonymousreply 7October 13, 2025 2:47 AM

“When do you hit daddy phase?”

by Anonymousreply 8October 13, 2025 3:35 AM

[quote] This guy is so fire 🔥

However old you are, you're too old for this.

by Anonymousreply 9October 13, 2025 4:01 AM

When they colonize life on Venus, Rose.

by Anonymousreply 10October 13, 2025 4:52 AM

[quote]He is over ten years younger than me but I don’t feel old.

Based on his apparent age, you're clearly confusing the age you think you look for your chronological age, or are you just using "over ten years" as some form of ironic statement since 40 years is also technically "over ten" years.

by Anonymousreply 11October 13, 2025 5:15 AM

Yes, R7? Was there a question in there?

by Anonymousreply 12October 13, 2025 5:20 AM

He’s not all that OP. All I have to say is three little words and he’s finished. Tragic actually. You can have him.

by Anonymousreply 13October 13, 2025 5:26 AM

Gay life is brutally ageist. Despite the recently popular daddy fetish, in general gay men feel they passed their prime at 30. Just grateful to be alive after 50. Never thought it would happen.

by Anonymousreply 14October 13, 2025 1:36 PM

18

by Anonymousreply 15October 13, 2025 1:59 PM

I don't get it, R13?

by Anonymousreply 16October 13, 2025 2:19 PM

You only become and "elder gay" when you allow yourself to funnel inordinate amounts of energy and value in looking "younger" than you are. Botox, fillers etc, all reaffirm the incorrect notion that age is unattractive. I guess those things can work in moderation, but in excess, they amplify desperation rather than fooling he eye of the casual observer.

It's easier for some than for others to realize that self acceptance and affirmation is all you need and probably all you wanted your entire life, but were seeking from peers or other men. Where is your value? Where is your attractiveness coming from? It's not from your age.

We all know people who "shouldn't" be hot, but somehow are. They know something many of us don't.

by Anonymousreply 17October 13, 2025 2:25 PM

Age is only good on a gay if he's very masculine. The aging queen is not an object of lust for anyone. Which is sad, because we all deserve to be loved.

by Anonymousreply 18October 13, 2025 6:15 PM

R18 some not-so masculine guys do age very well (especially if they stay slim). There are some aging queens that I lust over

That said your last sentence is absolute truth, ww'd just for that

by Anonymousreply 19October 14, 2025 2:18 AM

[quote]This guy is so fire 🔥

You have a mental age of 12 so you'd better not mess with that one year old.

by Anonymousreply 20October 14, 2025 2:57 AM

24/25

by Anonymousreply 21October 14, 2025 3:08 AM

30 - it’s just like the Logan’s Run carousel but a figurative death.

by Anonymousreply 22October 14, 2025 6:55 AM

You’re not “elder” until your 60s.

But, ask me again once I’m there in about 10 years and I might change my tune.

by Anonymousreply 23October 14, 2025 8:26 AM

When the stench of your Ben-gay becomes overpowering and you find yourself droning on about about life pre-covid despite the bored vacant look on the faces of the regular gays. So 28 or 29.

by Anonymousreply 24October 14, 2025 10:20 AM

Old is however old you are plus 10.

by Anonymousreply 25October 14, 2025 10:38 AM

[Quote] I don't get it, [R13]?

The dude talks about fucking his twink power bottom yet all it takes is the twink to say three words and he nuts. Hardly the way to satisfy a power bottom.

by Anonymousreply 26October 14, 2025 11:21 AM

When your moles start to take on depth.

by Anonymousreply 27October 14, 2025 12:49 PM

In the US, senior citizenship officially starts when you're eligible to collect Social Security,, so I date elder status from that.

by Anonymousreply 28October 14, 2025 12:55 PM
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