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Do you know any porn stars?

What are they like off-camera? Are they nice or arrogant? Do they like their fans? Do they sign autographs? Are they Gay-For-Pay?

by Anonymousreply 49October 11, 2025 6:33 AM

I've only known two, and both were very nice guys. I don't know if they signed autographs (no one ever asked for one while I was with them). Both were strictly gay -not bi or gay-for-pay. If they had bee arrogant I wouldn't have hung out with them.

by Anonymousreply 1October 9, 2025 6:59 PM

I know two, both relatively normal and openly gay. They love attention from fans and usually have them call them by their real names in person. One is an exclusive bottom in his films but only tops in real life. Both escort and one is a kept boy by a married family man who lives out of state, in a ruby red one of course.

by Anonymousreply 2October 9, 2025 7:28 PM

I'm good friends with a straight porn star, probably one of the more well known straight porn stars from back in the "golden age" of porn, the 1970s and 80s, a contemporary of stars like John Holmes, Jamie Gillis, and Ron Jeremy.

He's an intelligent, kind, gentle human being. He's had some tremendous struggles over the years, but he's always remained positive and optimistic. A really great guy.

by Anonymousreply 3October 9, 2025 7:39 PM

I knew one back in the ‘70s in New York. We would get together for sex a couple of times a month. He said he really liked me because I didn’t demand that he fuck me with his enormous cock. I was perfectly happy exchanging blowjobs.

by Anonymousreply 4October 9, 2025 7:55 PM

I've met a few minor ones briefly over the years, both when I lived in NYC and also (weirdly enough) Portland.

One thing I found that was interesting was that two of them I met said that their sex lives were taken up almost entirely around their work: they were at the point where they had sex mostly only when they were working (i.e. escorting as well as doing porn scenes). They suggested that their work was so all-consuming it was hard for them to have partners outside of it.

by Anonymousreply 5October 9, 2025 8:04 PM

Scads, loads, plenty, tons, dozens, slew, bunch, barrels, bundles, heaps, loads, lots, piles, plenty, scores, stacks, tons, zillions.

and they were all different. Like any other profession.

by Anonymousreply 6October 9, 2025 8:09 PM

I’ve met a relatively well known guy who does only gay porn, married to a woman. His website is him smiling and smiling and putting forth this persona whereas in reality he is one of the least warm people I’ve ever met.

by Anonymousreply 7October 9, 2025 8:12 PM

Live in West Hollywood - had a couple live in my complex. Don't really remember anything about them. Well, wait, one dated my best friend prior to getting into porn. They broke up and he turned to porn.

He was a whore though....cheated with everyone except me. Maybe that was smart of him to do that...I would of let him fuck me and then tell the best friend.

by Anonymousreply 8October 9, 2025 9:24 PM

R8" He was a whore though....cheated with everyone except me"

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by Anonymousreply 9October 10, 2025 3:04 AM

I knew Jon King 100 years ago. We were good friends for a few years then life took us in different directions. He was one of the sweetest people I ever knew but that boy was cock crazy like no one Id ever seen. Porn must have felt like getting paid to have fun to him. He even came on to me and my husband (who he knew absolutely would never have shared me) even though I had told him a million times I didnt see him that way. I once drove him from Gainesville to Savannah to see his parents (who were the nicest people ) . Actually hes one of the first aids patient I knew very well .Trust me,he didnt stop fucking around either.

by Anonymousreply 10October 10, 2025 3:30 AM

Why are you all acting like it’s classified info? Name names, they’re porn stars, not spies.

by Anonymousreply 11October 10, 2025 4:02 AM

Dred Scott and Billy Santoro.

Dred Scott, aka "Butch" was a hustler but he was such a sexaholic he also just gave it away for free...he was constantly at the baths/in the bushes when he wasn't actively hustling. But, he was nice to me when my shit got stolen at Club Z in Seattle and he gave me a cigarette.

Billy Santoro, aka Bill Grey, was personable but also a mess....obviously. He went through a lot of jobs in Seattle before starting his porn career. And, he was always a Republican.

by Anonymousreply 12October 10, 2025 7:24 AM

Serious question: are there any porn stars today?

Any equivalents in fame to Jeff Stryker? Casey Donovan? Ryan Idol? Joey Stefano?

(I fucked one or the ones I listed above. OP, does that count?)

by Anonymousreply 13October 10, 2025 7:37 AM

How about some names, assholes?

by Anonymousreply 14October 10, 2025 9:44 AM

r14 The last two times I provided a name, asshole, I was met with "oh, you did not," and another time, "He's so fucking ugly, how could you?"

So no, no names, asshole.

by Anonymousreply 15October 10, 2025 10:10 AM

R14 sounds so emotionally well regulated.

by Anonymousreply 16October 10, 2025 10:15 AM

There was the volupté passagère with Michael Lucas in the early 1990s.

by Anonymousreply 17October 10, 2025 10:43 AM

[quote] Serious question: are there any porn stars today?

I would say no. Not at that level.

For lots of reasons, mostly that content comes from everywhere now and not just a few porn companies.

by Anonymousreply 18October 10, 2025 11:01 AM

And a few years before that, in grad school, my mature gentleman patron would surprise me with hired porn stars for an evening of amor momentaneus. Famous faces included Kevin Williams - very sweet, and Steve Hammond - so handsome but not into it. My friend was old!

Then my own amores fugaces with Tim Kruger in the early 2000s, and he loved to bottom!

If I were around 45-50 yo today there are a few I would like to get to know as people or sex partners. That Ukrainian slut Alec Kof, who is 40 and looks good. I listened to an interview with him and he seems engaging. Some other eastern or Central Europeans. Have had a crush on Helmut Huxley for years. I'll just appreciate his tall charming beauty from afar. I'm also drawn to freaks such as lAustrian Robert Royal and French Canadian Leo Louis. They might be fun guides around a city.

A few South Americans when they seem laid back sex gods.

by Anonymousreply 19October 10, 2025 11:15 AM

Are OnlyFans content creators really porn stars? Or is that a different level?

by Anonymousreply 20October 10, 2025 11:35 AM

I think it's OnlyFair.

by Anonymousreply 21October 10, 2025 11:43 AM

R20 Some OnlyFans models are porn stars and some are porn models.

There are some who make a million being like Playboy magazine with mostly pictures and then there are some who make a million having sex on camera.

by Anonymousreply 22October 10, 2025 11:46 AM

OnlyFair that i know them

by Anonymousreply 23October 10, 2025 11:48 AM

Johnny Hazard.

Nice guy, smaller than you'd think and very funny/smart.

by Anonymousreply 24October 10, 2025 12:21 PM

When I lived in Chicago I saw Matt Cole doing a walk of shame home a few times in the mornings as I was headed to work. (He lived in the building where I stayed with friends while looking for an apt.)

A few times I saw Jason Adonis in a suit in the Loop. Was curious if he worked there or was hired as an escort to visit some trader or something, never found out.

by Anonymousreply 25October 10, 2025 12:29 PM

I had a close friend in high school (we're talking very early 90s here) who made it very clear that right after we graduated, she was driving to Florida to become a porn star. She had sent her pictures in to some low-rent studio in Tampa (I think) and they offered her a "contract." She was always very sexual and free with her body. Hers were the first bare breasts I saw. She would show them off at parties all the time. Shockingly enough, there was very little judgement of her because she was so fun to be around. Didn't drink, didn't do drugs.

She only stayed in Florida a month or so. Didn't like making movies. She said it was much more work than she thought it would be. She only worked for two weeks or something, but they had her doing a bunch of scenes every day.. If you did a search for her, you would think she was in porn for years.

Now she had a flower shop not far from our hometown. She's very open about her porn past, but I have no idea if everyone knows about it.

by Anonymousreply 26October 10, 2025 12:33 PM

I never knew Billy Santoro, but he was a fixture in the neighborhood and famously got caught stealing from a local bar he managed (and claimed to own). His husband was a bartender at my local happy hour place. People were divided about him--some liked him, some found him arrogant. This is the guy Billy beat-up.

A friend of a friend is David Benjamin, who I have met. Very nice guy, very bright. Had a number of typical DC-type jobs before doing porn and escorting. He tried real estate when he left porn, but it didn't take. Last I heard he was a working as a trainer and not doing so well. He genuinely liked escorting, but got burnt out from it. He seemed to have a midlife crisis, where he wanted fewer boundaries in his life and has never gotten past it.

I've stayed in touch with another porn guy with a DC connection. I won't say who he is because he has a nice quiet life, a relatively stable occupation and a husband. He was a character--a bright guy with a lot of curiosity about things, but not a great education. Stereotypical WV background---teenage mother, family with too many drugs and too much religion. Always a lot of drama, but also an odd sweetness.

by Anonymousreply 27October 10, 2025 12:34 PM

Ages ago I believe there was some sort of annual "porn-expo" in NYC (I'd read about it at joemygod). I always wanted to attend because a) it sounded hot and b) supposedly lots of guys from gay porn attended. I figured it would be an easy way see someone like Colby Keller in person.

I doubt that kind of event exists these days, except that Vegas Hustlaball. But if there were a porn-expo, I'd like to meet Killian Knox, Greg Dixxon, Timothy Chance, and Beau Butler. Dirk Caber and Colby Keller too

by Anonymousreply 28October 10, 2025 1:02 PM

You are better off having not meeting Dirk Caber.

by Anonymousreply 29October 10, 2025 2:26 PM

I met Caber at an art exhibit. We talked about music rather than porn--he was very personable . Shorter than I expected, even for a porn guy.

by Anonymousreply 30October 10, 2025 4:11 PM

Visit Palm Springs.

You can't swing a dead cat or a limp dick without hitting a bunch of 'em!

by Anonymousreply 31October 10, 2025 4:17 PM

R15 Who gives a shit? Grow up and post the names.

by Anonymousreply 32October 10, 2025 4:31 PM

r32, no

by Anonymousreply 33October 10, 2025 4:32 PM

When I lived in Chicago...A couple that did porn lived in my building...Also a customer at where I worked did a couple of scenes with that Boston couple that had a website....I also had a slutty friend who was always bringing porn guys around....(He is a way butch hairy bottom)

by Anonymousreply 34October 10, 2025 5:17 PM

Billy Santoro has a reputation in more than one city for being light fingered with the till at bars he worked at.

by Anonymousreply 35October 10, 2025 9:44 PM

I know two, one ‘retired’ but does escort. The other is active on OF but is better known for his studio work. Both are really nice guys and very easy on the eyes. The one who retired told me some real horror stories about the porn industry, poor pay, terrible working conditions and forced to perform acts that weren’t previously agreed to. I’m glad he decided to opt out. As for the guy who’s still performing before the cameras he’s pretty well known and a real sweetheart not sure how much longer he’ll keep plugging away. Sorry I didn’t name them, but their personal friends and want to continue to be.

by Anonymousreply 36October 11, 2025 12:30 AM

R26 " she was driving to Florida to become a porn star."

you lost us at she

by Anonymousreply 37October 11, 2025 12:34 AM

R32 PEOPLE are you MAD? They are Porn STARS!!! LPSG ROYALTY!!! We would never dream of BETRAYING their SACRED TRUST. As their ACOLYTES we would NEVER disclose our SACRED WHORES REAL NAMES. BLASPHEMY!!!

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by Anonymousreply 38October 11, 2025 12:44 AM

Why, we were raised by one of the finest!

by Anonymousreply 39October 11, 2025 1:00 AM

Steve and I met at a local bar; we were about the same age and went to nearby but different high schools. He was one of those always-on types; loud, high-energy, nellie vibes with vocal fry. He loved doing half-assed, low-rent drag, then hitting the clubs in WeHo. We hung out for a bit after high school, then drifted.

Cut to a few years later, I wander into a porn shop and gay-gasp... there’s Steve’s handsome face on a video cover, starring as 'Matt Gunther.' Second gay-gasp when I saw what he was working with. Had no idea. Good for her.

Gone too soon, lost to the plague. RIP.

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by Anonymousreply 40October 11, 2025 1:10 AM

[quote] How about some names, assholes?

No one owes you anything, toots. Especially with that nasty attitude.

by Anonymousreply 41October 11, 2025 1:14 AM

[quote]with that Boston couple that had a website

We lived a couple blocks from each other during the 2008-2012 timeframe, and I would see one or both of them at the gym a couple times a week. The young one was so fucking hot at that time, even hotter than in their (at the time) pretty basic, candid Xtube videos. I tried a couple times to hook up with him/them; but they were a hard pass unless I was willing to let them film it.

by Anonymousreply 42October 11, 2025 2:09 AM

I didn’t know him well but there was that super hot, mustachioed model (I don’t know if he ever did out ace out hardcore porn with other guys) who co-owned/bartended at the gay bar The Den in New BrunswIck, NJ. He had no airs about him at all.

by Anonymousreply 43October 11, 2025 2:19 AM

*out and out

by Anonymousreply 44October 11, 2025 2:19 AM

"That Boston couple" was Maverick Men aka Cole and Hunter, right? Hunter was the younger one I think? He was so my type. I'd have let them humiliate me on video.

by Anonymousreply 45October 11, 2025 2:39 AM

R40 remember your Steve my "crazy Matt" well. He refused all AIDS meds but crack. Wound up being kicked out of hospice for violently attacking fellow patients. Would see all 90lbs of him wheeling down Santa Monica Blvd in his wheelchair in his underwear screaming obscenities at passing traffic. Stole money from everyone who tried to help him. In the end no one would have anything to do with him. Recall they had to tazer him to get him in the ambulance. Wound up dying strapped to his bed. You dodged a bullet with that crazy bitch. Gone and good riddance to bad rubbish.

by Anonymousreply 46October 11, 2025 2:59 AM

R40 almost forgot the "best " part about your sweet Stevie. My neighbor at the time took him in off the streets. One nite he awoke in pain to Matt biting him in the leg. Screaming "NOW YA GOT COOTIES BITCH" Robbie called 911 and when the cops came Stevie tried to bite them too. They tazered and gaged the rabid cunt. Later in the ER he spit on any nurse who came within 10 feet of him. Luckily Robbie did not test positive after the attack. But lets forget all this unpleasantness R40 because Stevie was Matt Gunther an HONEST TO GOODNESS PORN STAR!!!

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by Anonymousreply 47October 11, 2025 3:21 AM

I hooked up with Morgan Black back in the Craigslist days. I didn't know he was in porn and was a bit surprised such a sexy man agreed to me swinging by. He was very sweet, and fun in bed. We talked for a while after, he said he was new in town and crashing at his friend's place in Hells Kitchen, but didn't mention porn. Found his work on the web awhile after - just made the whole encounter hotter.

by Anonymousreply 48October 11, 2025 3:31 AM

r43 I assume you mean Steve Kelso.

by Anonymousreply 49October 11, 2025 6:33 AM
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