R12, I watched some of his vids over the weekend, & I’m not writing what I’m about to write to in order to hurt anyone or cause division
The above stated, I assessed that Charlie definitely pinged.
I wonder why people of means, including his father, decided to kick this movement off when Charlie was only 18?
Was it to give him purpose, because he had dropped out of college, and/or, was it to circumvent something within him, that they refused to accept, and by extension, he chose to not accept it as well?
I once lived next door to this ultra conservative couple, whose youngest son was a very sweet, sensitive soul. He always sought me out in order to chat, & share with me what challenges he was facing as a teen at school, at home. He always spoke about how mercurial his father was, even violent at times. He couldn’t understand why his mom wouldn’t leave the man, since his mom actually had money & means to leave him.
The old man would go into the yard every night, and spend at minimum 1 half hour to an hour, shooting his rifle or gun, & no one ever said anything about it because the father was a cop.
The kid had no say nor autonomy, and if he wanted to assert himself, it was war. As soon as he turned 18, he was outta there, & would visit his mom while his father was at work, then he’d stop by to catch up with me, & he was elated to be on his own.
He was a very bright young man, & had he been born into a normal, loving family, he may have gone to college, & become a veterinarian, which is what he wanted, but that wasn’t his path at that time, because he came from a family where his own father saw him as a threat and as someone to beat down into submission, rather than nurturing him, and supporting him in his dreams and endeavors.
It was heartbreaking to see it all unfold, and sadly, I too can attest that when one comes from an conservative/authoritarian styled family, it’s all about getting out asap and surviving, instead of flourishing and thriving.
Perhaps this is what Kirk hailed from, as well.
Again, I’m not writing this to hurt anyone. I’m writing this because I have excellent gaydar, and I picked up on it, video after video.
Perhaps I’m way off base. Heck, I’m probably wrong, but I don’t think so.