After careful consideration, I believe that Johnny often blacked out, & behaved inappropriately. However, I also believe Amber behaved inappropriately, & she got to a point where she was willing to outright lie, in order to pile on accusations that were false, in order to legally compromise Johnny.
They just weren’t a good match, however, he met his match when he met her, & both went ballistic, when things fell apart.
They weren’t well suited for one another, & one or both of them should have sought out therapy, & taken good advice, by walking away from the relationship IMMEDIATELY, once things started to go downhill.
Instead, both kept on seeking out ways to make things work, when it was clearly obvious things wouldn’t work. How could they, when both were constantly high and/or drunk? You cannot find common ground with a substance abuser, and/or with a malignant narcissist.
I believe Johnny went all out to defend his honor, because while they were both at fault, Amber made a decision to deal him dirty, & he wouldn’t let that stand. I too, would & will defend myself against false accusations, so I understand where he was coming from, however, her bullshit caused him to react repeatedly in a negative manner, & that’s when he should have realized that you cannot appease or compromise with a woman like Amber.
Say whatever you want about Johnny. Is or was he fucked up in various ways? ABSOLUTELY. But Amber made a decision to target & exploit his weaknesses for cash & prizes, rather than doing the right thing, & letting it all go.
Instead of becoming healthy & strong, Amber made a decision to take a few things that were true, exploit those few things that were true, & use them as a cudgel against Johnny, while ALSO adding on complete fabrications.
This 👆🏽is why Johnny flipped out and went all out & hard against Amber.
Somewhere in her story, Amber told right out lies about Johnny. His career was already in the shitter here in America, yet he chose to pursue justice because he knew deep down, that some of her stories were total bullshit.
There were plenty of legit issues that she could have used to go up against him, yet she chose to embellish, & outright lie about specific incidents, & that sent Johnny over the edge.
I totally understand Johnny fighting back.
If someone told 90% of the real truth about me, yet chose to make up 10% about me, making me out to be a monster? I’d fight back like all fucking hell, too.
Johnny isn’t perfect, nor is she, but either way, neither of them should be excused for outright lying about the other.
Hopefully, both have moved on, & have become better people through therapy, & deliberate, mindful, therapeutic practices that allow them both to not let something like this happen, ever again.