Has your taste in men changed over the years or has it stayed static?

It's changed. As a teenager, I found a lot of pretty boys (i.e. Leonardo DiCaprio) attractive. When I was in my early twenties, my taste changed a bit and that kind of look does nothing for me anymore. I tend to be drawn toward men with darker features who have a bit of gruffness. Middle-aged men, too. I couldn't get a boner over someone like DiCaprio today even if I tried.

It's only gotten younger.

Do you want to hear about cartoon network shows? That’s how you learn about cartoon network shows.

I still prefer 25-40. I mean, when I was in college I liked college guys, but out of college it has remained 25-40.

I've always liked porn with guys who are roughly my age. I think it's easier to imagine having sex with them.

All of my significant relationships began when the guy was fifty-three years old. But the last one lasted and is now pushing ninety.

R6, congrats. Hope you dudes are happy.

Mine has stayed fairly consistent. I guess that's what pubescent imprinting does. I've always liked pretty, thin to lightly muscular guys either blond or brown haired with little to no body hair. I am a Timmy fan indeed. I also like nice asses on guys which is not something found on waifish pretty guys. Thus those two aspects tend to be mutually exclusive.

Shawn Mendes is the gold standard, all others seem to fail in comparison.

R9, are you forever doomed to masturbating over Shawn Mendes' asshole?

[quote] are you forever doomed to masturbating over Shawn Mendes' asshole?

Oh, honey, R9 is doomed.

I wanna see R9 hitting on some Shawn Mendes-looking Starbucks barista. 😂

Get it, R9! And show us his asshole after.

I started much as you did, OP.

I was attracted to men 10 or 20 years older. My few experiences with men my own age suggested they were not at ease with themselves nor comfortable with what they wanted. And I liked the look of men older than me. Some of the best sex I had as a teenager was with men in their 40s. I think I had 43 in mind as a sort of ideal age.

That relaxed a bit over time and in my I was drawn to men my age or more likely a decade or so older, with a handful of younger men in the mix, for the sake of comparison.

My 40s and 50s were a sort of peak desirability. There were still older men interested but less so. There comes a point with age where the younger people you never noticed are almost the only ones to notice, so in my case I followed up more where most of the interest was - men my age and younger men.

I used to never fuck dudes younger than me but now the guys younger than me are starting to look older than me so I don’t mind.

It's always been men 35-50. Now they're kids but it started with an attraction to older men.

R13, back then, I rationalized it as I'm far too mature for these immature little boys.

Now that we're all old motherfuckers, that argument doesn't hold.

Same type, just older now.

I love the aroma of a Mediterranean man's pits.

The type is static - thin, ideally somewhat androgynous, often a bit or a lot effeminate, but otherwise similar to R8's preferences. The age range has widened as I have aged, and I am less put off by body hair now than I used to be

I’m still attracted to the same androgynous boys I loved in high school. That’s why I’m abstinent at the age of 68.

I forgot to add what R19, v8fairy, wrote, which is the case with me as well:

[quote] androgynous, often a bit or a lot effeminate

I love femininity in men.

One of the few very hairy guys that fit my taste is Henry Cavill but my appreciation for him comes down to my other element of attraction, his ass, as well as his gigantic tit muscles”.

My experience is similar to R1.

I've always been attracted to v8fairy's mind through his posts, but sadly I am definitely not his type!

Never. 27 has always been my perfect age in partners.

[quote] I’m still attracted to the same androgynous boys I loved in high school. That’s why I’m abstinent at the age of 68.

Same here to some degree, though I do have a partner in whom I have limited remaining physical interest or attraction and am about 20 years younger than R20. Even at my age, I may as well not exist to those of the age I prefer. I also don’t want to be or seem a predatory Gustav von Aschenbach-type by even attempting to pursue them. I certainly do not live by the gay equivalent of Wooderson’s (McBongo) maxim from Dazed and Confused:

[quote] That's what I love about these high school girls, man. I get older, they stay the same age.

Very similar to OP -- except I'm older.

When I was 15 to 20, I wanted a 35 year old daddy to scoop me up in his arms and take care of me.

When I was 30, I wanted the same thing. when I was 40, I wanted a 50 year old.

Now, I'm early 60s. To me, an older guy now is someone who is in his 80s.

I had some success (but not wealth per se) this time around. Next, I'd love to have a partner.

[quote] To me, an older guy now is someone who is in his 80s.

And, you hope, soon six feet under.

Ha R27

my luck, I'd marry a guy 85 and he tells on the honeymoon: Eat my ass, bitch! I'm 65!

[quote]I love femininity in men.

Fuck yeah R21, I dont seem to be alone in this, there's a few of us here that like em fem and dainty. Cavill is real pretty but a touch too masc for my liking

[quote]I've always been attracted to v8fairy's mind through his posts, but sadly I am definitely not his type!

R22 I am very flattered, but alas I suspect you're right about the attraction but given your byline

Some things have stayed mostly static. My dislike of long hair and excessive tattoos, for example. Still mostly into masc, but not the type of masc that doesn't know basic hygiene.

Age range has expanded considerably. Young chicken to old geezer can all catch my eye depending on their features.

Hairy apes from the get go, but now they should be bald. The Mitch Pileggi affect in the later 90s really did something for me.