Mrs. Dan Savage

He has Poz nips.

Face looks better than I expected. New filler? Blown out pic exposure?

I like those chaps and they would be very sexy on a 25 year old ripped skin head SM gay.

He looks good

He's a handsome man and very fit, but in some ways his looks appear over-the-top. A bit of fat looks good on a man as he ages. And why do men do that to their nipples? They look like ejector buttons. Why do that? Natural nipples are so sexy on a guy

He has old man body and has had that for last 15 years. It’s all saggy and leathery.

There are photos of him tied up and getting whipped in public with blood running down his ass and thighs. What possesses someone to do that?

R6 Why don’t you call into Dan’s radio show and ask that question?

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He still has one?

Nah, I'm good. This insufferable fame whore is beyond repulsive. And I'm sure I'm not alone in my opinion of this skeevy trainwreck.

He supposed to be a nasty bitch on top of being a vain and obnoxious one.

Gurl! Those aren't chaps! They are acid wash jeans !

What exactly do people do to their nipples to make them do this? Is this a fetish thing? I had a handyman who liked to work shirtless and the first time I saw his nipples, I was speechless. They were practically an inch, jutting out. I think he liked showing them off, frankly.

Does he have OnlyFans yet?

A shitty mess.

While I find him almost as insufferable, Mr. Dan Savage is much hotter but alas stingier with the thirst traps.

I think you need to use a hosting site that actually works OP. But what I can see of Mr. Miller I find disgusting.

That body at OP looks to me like it’s the result of anabolic steroids and titty-growing suction pumps. I used to see a lot of older gays with similar bodies at the big expensive circuit parties like Montreal Black & Blue and the White Party.

They are chaps. Leather or thick vinyl. I think they are hot. But not on Mrs. Savage.

Leather.

"ML Day 2. Let’s go @mr.s.leather! • Thanks for capturing @pupamp. (Meant to mention the chaps were made for me by my good friends at @cockeyekink)"

There was a time where he was modestly appealing.

Poz guys have those nipples for some reason. Probably the medication.

Keep in mind that Dan is older than Terrie. They were in a throuple with a young guy not too long ago. It’s all very very sad. Their son seems to want nothing to do with them. I can’t blame him.

I don't know why imgbb pics never show up for me. It shows "uploading this content requires registration".

I don't understand the Larry King tattoo on his left arm. It's kind of a boner killer.

Grizzled Jerky, party of one! You're table's ready!

I'm very wary of gay men no longer in their 20s who relentlessly present in a hyper-sexualized manner.

He was hot when younger. He's doing the massive muscle daddy thing and I don't find that appealing. A nice body with good pecs and abs, yes, yummy. But that big is too much and screams steroids.

He’s in his fifties stumbling around in a jock strap and chaps, looking grizzled and roided out. He was hot 30 years ago, but he’s failed to change his appeal with the passing decades, clinging to something that time has long erased, his anxiety over aging given way to creeping self-deception and unintentional self-parody.

A whisper away from Mae West in Sextette.

Those nipples could cut glass!

Drugs. I blame drugs.

Dan has hinted on multiple occasions that his physical standards are impeccably tight - BULIMIA tight - and he and Terry prefer their men to have single-digit body fat. It's surely why they so rarely have threesomes. But it seems Terry's rules are looser than Dan's, given the whoring he's been doing all these years.

Can you blame Terry for being such a mess? He's a low-rent farm boy from Spokane, who spent 20 years as a housewife to a gay who wrote about bad sex for a living. No wonder he had a midlife crisis.

Terry's Instagram is depressing; he seems to have emotionally regressed to the point that he's now younger than his son. In a recent Father's Day post he called Dan and their son "two of the most important men in my life," which sounded like he was trying not to alienate another, closer partner than Dan.

It's hard not to wonder whether some of his extended midlife crisis could've been avoided if they'd postponed adoption. He was too young for the Donna Reed role that Dan eagerly wrote for him and his image eventually became a liability that probably sidelined some of Dan's ambitions.

R30 Dan had ambitions?

It's always sad when a person's reach exceeds his grasp.

He’s yucky.

In her younger, firmer days.

Well, that's one way to get older. Definite 'roid abuse.

Their adopted son probably has a steamer trunk full of issues, having been raised by these two. Some gay couples make great dads but it's not difficult to have doubts about this pair.

Does he have the giant silicone filled balls in OP's pic or is his jock stuffed?

I didn't know that about Dan Savage, r29. I remember reading that he was chubby as a kid so maybe that's why he's only into super-fit men.

Dan is pretty damned fit himself.

He's fucked up, he's into hardcore bloody S&M and he's an exhibitionist, and I've never met an exhibitionist that wasn't a bundle of damages.

R11- It sounds like you're talking about Dan Savage.

[quote] Their adopted son probably has a steamer trunk full of issues

Does anyone, anywhere know anything about DJ?

Say whatever else you will about Dan and Terry, but I've never even seen a photo of their son. For two people who actually talk for a living and generate income from the visuals based medium of Instagram, they talk about him very rarely and don't resort to coy faceless photos or "vaguebook", esoteric comments.

They protected his identity exceptionally well as a child and now that he's almost 30 continue to allow him to chose anonymity.

He was a geeky kid. Then he began cosplaying this Tom of Finland shit. He looks horrible. He has the body of someone who sleeps in the sun all day. Everything is saggy and gross. He has grey pubes and a shriveled dick. It must be drugs.

R40, yes. His Facebook page was posted on the DL Reddit a few days ago.

R40, they made an entire stage play about his adoption. They gave out his full name. They tried to sell his story but there were no takers media-wise. If they were offered a reality show they would have done it.

Here’s DJ, and Terry’s real name is Terrence Hecker. All three live in Seattle. DJ left home to live with his mom as a teenager. He’s 27 now. He’s linked up to her on his socials but not them. I don’t blame him. His name is DJ Elliott.

There’s a younger photo of DJ in some parents pride thing from many years ago too.

Yeah but what do his nipples look like?

He covers them.

I can’t imagine living in a house where your dad has a dungeon.

Someone on Reddit said DJ will eventually published a “Daddies Dearest” book.

Looks like he's wearing a muscle suit..

R48 Why not? It’s just so mainstream and normal.

R22 you need to get out of the basement. It’s nothing to do with status. It’s how heavy they are into nip play.

Steroids

You know you've fucked up as parents when your adopted kid (for whom you went to great expense to acquire and raise) would rather live with his sloppy former addict of a birth mother than with you.

R54 yep, but we’re supposed to give deference and worship people like this

Was she a former addict, R54, or did you just assume that.

I remember reading the book when it came out and I recall Melissa as just being single and unemployed and scared. And I also recall that she selected Dan and Terry specifically because they promised her as much access to the child as she wanted. Since he'd known her all of his life, why would it be surprising that a teen would elect to do something different with the safety net of "home" only a three hour drive away.

Someone above mentioned that he lives in Seattle now. Again, if life with the dads was so horrible why wouldn't he just stay in Portland with her?

I also happened to remember that he was there in his early teens. So, when did he leave and for how long?

[quote] Several days later, I asked Mr. Savage, Mr. Miller and Mr. Brown how they thought the debate had gone. (DJ, Mr. Savage and Mr. Miller’s 14-year-old son, ate with us but left before the debate, so I didn’t bother him with questions.)

You have a point, r56. Still though, having a father like Terry and what he does in public and is now making porn and BDSM videos, cannot be easy.

“ don't understand the Larry King tattoo on his left arm”

Ha! I thought “why is Mike Wallace on that bicep”

Is that leathery skin look from too much sun?

[quote]I remember reading the book when it came out and I recall Melissa as just being single and unemployed and scared.

I'm not R54, but the mother's background was a central part of the book and its promotion. It might've even been mentioned on the dust jacket, either in the synopsis or the Publisher's Weekly blurb that includes "They met Melissa, a homeless 'gutter punk,' whom they liked, although they worried that she drank and took drugs recreationally at the beginning of her pregnancy."

In interviews, they sometimes gave the impression it was a bit more than recreationally. Oddly, the book would be just as controversial today as it was then, but for different reasons. Even by 2011, over a decade after "The Kid" was published, there was an uncomfortable 'gutter punk' interlude when Dan and Terry were interviewed on NPR. That said, their son is an adult now who values (and deserves) privacy. His upbringing was unconventional but if he has three parents who love him, that's three more than some people have.

Always liked Savage, smart, funny, and sexy as hell. Terry? Meh.

But the hand-wringing over how the son must hate Dan and Terry is ridiculous. Most of you loathe your own parents, and they weren’t even writing about anal or posing in ball gags. So please, spare me.

[quote] Always liked Savage, smart, funny, and sexy as hell.

Hi Dan!

I assisted a friend, who interviewed and photographed Dan Savage before one of his shows. Handsome, Nice, Normal, Big Biceps...that's all I remember.

Titpig's ghost approves!

I went through a phase where I read three of Dan's books and a bunch of his columns. I eventually got tired of him because I could read a question and then accurately predict his response. Hiding his columns behind a paywall was the final nail in the coffin. I still like him but he doesn't seem as relevant as he once was.

I wonder if Terry is much of a conversationalist? Or if Dan keeps him locked up in the dungeon?

vérificatia of Dan Savage size meat?

I ditto r67s request.

That gaping maw that is his husband’s cunt makes me assume he was packing, otherwise, why would they get together? Miss Miller won’t accept an average cock on her paramours.

R69, money.

Terry is some sort of paid model for "Mr. S Leather," and I always laugh when I see it hashtagged #mrsleather (Mrs. Leather).

Terry! Is he here? Look for an eldergay who thinks he looks like a gayling!

Oh wait, it’s DataLounge, you’ll never find him in the crowd!

R67 Give me an A, Give me a V, Give me a G

[quote] Their son seems to want nothing to do with them. I can’t blame him.

These sort of people have the nerve to adopt and raise a child?

Dirty sex having people, r74?

Top 1% elite sex obsessed people who make their money from sex obsession? I’m not judging, just saying.

Dan Savage doesn't have big money, does he? From what?

Book deals, hit columns, radio shows, media appearances. Dan has money.

1% money?

R78- He’s a cunt. In a documentary, he said that gay men who are not attracted to a feminine gay men are misogynistic. People should be allowed to like what they like. Sexual attraction is such a personal thing. It feels so oppressive to be berated for your natural attractions.

Is that really what he said or are you just presenting it in the least flattering way possible? It makes sense that the most militantly anti-femme gay guys also have a low opinion of women.

Mrs.Savage seems like she’ll be one of those really nasty , grizzled old bottoms in Palm Springs with deformed nipples and a hole with the depth of the Mariana Trench.

She will still be screaming “I WANT COCK” in 5 years, when she’s 80. She’s just an old heifer in heat.

I'm more interested to see how Dan Savage looks without any clothes on.

Maybe one of Dan's multiple boyfriends can get you a photo R83.

I meant the 1% of sex obsessed people, not the 1% of wealth.

Mrs Savage has a dirty jock strap on...it's grey...yikes Also, wonder what type of nipple clamps she uses?

His jock isn't dirty looking. It's dark over the bent down 3/4 erect cock, which is of course in a tight cockring to keep it voluminous. Not to mention the pumping. The jock is unbleached cotton with rubber threads. The old fashioned kind. Such classics are a fetish. Also it's a "swimmer's jock". Yes, that's the one swimmers wore in olden times. That's why the band is so narrow.

It's likely a BIKE brand, #58, and worth a few bucks.

Well it IS dirty looking, but just because it’s old and weird, not because of actual dirt.

its stretched over his junk, so the threads are more spaced. Those jocks are not smooth fabric they were knits with many layers. The spaces create dark patches.

I know a dirty jock, because that is a fetish too. A very well known one. You Maiden Aunties don't have an eye for the details of kink. Like the twat upthread who suggested the chaps are bleached denim.

Terry's kink looks, and practices, from what I saw of the dungeon leaks, are very old school. My excursions into BSDM kink were 3 decades ago and Terry's looks were old school THEN. The 70s were half a century ago.

I think she’s absolutely fabulous

He’s my role model!

He’s exhausting:

R81- The documentary is called Do I Sound Gay? ( 2015) . He says that- not the exact words . The video is posted for free on YouTube.

Is Savage still pimping out that grizzled petri dish? He needs to trade him in if he wants to keep getting threesomes.

He's got the skin of a gas station hot dog, and the sex appeal of a gas station toilet.

He’s exhausting AND my role model

Is he still going to the Seattle Symphony in ludicrous outfits?

He’s still goin to anything in ludicrous outfits

He's a Petri dish and a "leather cleaner".

in this photo he hasn't really gone anywhere he is modelling his fetish gear in the shop that made his chaps.

The getting whipped until he bleeds is a sign of severe mental illness.

Not really

For those who don't remember: back in the day there was an anonymous website where a "leather daddy" exhibited himself in his attic with a number of men, most notably a personage called The Australian Slut Slave. No faces or identifying marks such as tattoos.

Some keen-eyed observers figured out it was Terry due in part to the fetish clothing he was wearing that he'd worn elsewhere. Then it went further — a few of the photos were of Dan in a mask or something.

Much merriment ensued for about 24 hours until the "leather daddy" FRANTICALLY began trying to yank down all the pictures across the web. Terry and Dan never spoke of it. I think their kid was in his early teens at the time.

r103 also IIRC, it was in their attic that they had posted pictures of before.

1) Yes, it was a sex attic. They later turned it into their home gym

2) I don't know if it's a triad relationship but Terry has had the same boyfriend for many years now. I think maybe Dan has his own boyfriend but he's more private about that.

3) DJ is still part of their lives. Terry just posted about them all getting together.

4) I know "back in the day" that Dan's biggest money came from lectures....visiting colleges to do his dog and pony show. I don't know if that's the case now that that Dan is 60; do college age kids know or care who he is?

5) Dan is definitely an extroverted introvert. Or, vice versa. Terry is far more outgoing.

Terry does have an amazing rack

He’s a true slut, not a whore, a SLUT

[quote] Dan is definitely an extroverted introvert

Huh?

Terry has saggy grandpa titties and those nipples scream poz. It’s a side effect of HIV meds.

You’re nutz. Medication-induced poz nips?

Get some help..or some brain cells.

As a child, my favorite movie candy was Poz-Nips.

R111 I preferred Peanut Butter Ayds.

Oh goddam R111 I havent laughed so hard in years ! Then R112 killed me off ! Thanks fellas I really needed that .

He’s into LEATHER

R114 The best gays always are

The best scene queen gays always are.

He’s definitely on the scene

2009. Seattle.

As dusk settles in over the city, long shadows are cast over a sex attic in the tony Capitol Hill neighborhood. A steroided man in leather chaps and boots tightens the nipple clamps of another man bound in a sling. The man in the sling moans and involuntarily ejaculates.

The man in the chaps jumps back. "You got cum on these chaps!" he shrieks. "They're not mine, they're for a photoshoot! Oh, God, they cost $2,000! They better not be ruined!"

Downstairs, a teenage boy has paused his video game to put an Amy's Organic Mac 'n' Cheese dinner into the microwave. As the turntable goes around, he looks skyward, his expression blank.

Here are caps of his first porn movie.

Terry is beyond mere leather.

He is merely beyond

R118 Marry me!

Oh dear, R67. No accent aigu in verificatia. It’s a Latin word.

Kind of sad when someone becomes a parody as a “career”. Life ain’t easy.

"Terry is beyond mere leather."

You can gild the lily with all kinds of leather costumes and S&M set decorations, but the bottom line here is you have two old kaweens bumpin' pussies.

He's into being cut and whipped to the point of bleeding R125, I'm not sure if that involves bumping anything as well.

How does she keep those stretched out cunt flaps from dragging on the ground? They’re probably so slack that she could pull them over her head.

I think the Sex Attic was more like 2013/14.

Is it a sex rocking chair now?