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Do gay guys date?

Or is that considered a hetero thing now?

by Anonymousreply 11July 9, 2025 2:48 AM

I usually don't even consider intercourse until I've dated someone for a few months, when I do start dating someone, I like to make sure I have an impartial person along to neutralize the sexual tension until a time where it's more appropriate, but yes, I do date.

by Anonymousreply 1July 9, 2025 1:54 AM

What the fuck are you even talking about OP? Of course gay men date.

by Anonymousreply 2July 9, 2025 1:54 AM

This is how I imagine R1:

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by Anonymousreply 3July 9, 2025 1:57 AM

OP, take a break

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by Anonymousreply 4July 9, 2025 1:58 AM

I don’t hook up with strangers, I like going on dates and seeing if we are interested in each other. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and we had a great start with a lot of fun dates. We initially met for dinner, sat outside and had a conversation that was really nice and comfortable. I knew I liked him and wanted to see him again.

I know maybe a lot of the gay culture is immediate hooking up, and if that’s what you want then go for it. There’s also another segment of gay culture that likes to go out on dates and have a courtship,

by Anonymousreply 5July 9, 2025 2:19 AM

I do my best work with a guy I've gotten to know at least a bit, hookups do nothing for me.

by Anonymousreply 6July 9, 2025 2:21 AM

I love hookups, and also love dating.

by Anonymousreply 7July 9, 2025 2:35 AM

Last time I dated was 20 years ago. The guy is still in my house and won’t leave.

by Anonymousreply 8July 9, 2025 2:36 AM

r8, You must be a hot piece...mazel tov.

by Anonymousreply 9July 9, 2025 2:38 AM

Do gay men date?

NO, they fig.

by Anonymousreply 10July 9, 2025 2:39 AM

[quote]r5 I don’t hook up with strangers, I like going on dates and seeing if we are interested in each other. I’ve been with my boyfriend for a little over a year now and we had a great start with a lot of fun dates. We initially met for dinner, sat outside and had a conversation that was really nice and comfortable.

Have you two had sex yet?

by Anonymousreply 11July 9, 2025 2:48 AM
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