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Parents destroying their gay sons

Really sad video and it explains why this man hates himself. Long video but sad listen.

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by Anonymousreply 2July 8, 2025 8:18 AM

Nope. Watched the first 8 minutes and was done. This guy is still mired in all of the minutia of fundamentalist "Christian" shit. All the bible quotes. Instead of saying that his parents died, he says "they went to the lord". Should have stopped watching right then. It was tedious. He can't seem to step back and look at the big picture of his life objectively. He needs to let go of this crap and wash his cult-programmed brain. At some point, it became his choice to give his mother permission to continue doing damage to his self esteem and dignity. Speaking to his mother every single night is infantile. The behavior pattern is similar cult members and abused women. I feel sorry for him, but there are so many others on this planet who are imprisoned and tortured by their own governments or economic reality who have no choices in their lives to escape that reality.

by Anonymousreply 1July 8, 2025 7:07 AM

I sympathize that he had shit parents who shaped too much of his life, leaving him timid and with a poor sense of self.

But damn, when you have shit parents you have to assume an adult perspective, learn to be an adult and look after yourself, and to separate yourself from them -- philosophically, emotionally, geographically, whatever is necessary. When they're dead, all the more.

He can no more draw a line under a point in time than he can organize his thoughts into what could have been a 5-minute video instead of >30 minutes of disorganized, disconnected, pointless ramblings. A little less reflection, a lot less Jesus, and do something, any fucking thing, with what future he has. If you have a shit family, cut them the fuck loose already. And if you have a shit dead family...

by Anonymousreply 2July 8, 2025 8:18 AM
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