Male prostitution

The invention of the blowjob.

I know nothing about this subject

If I tell you everything I know, will I be forgiven?

Might as well spill. Years ago when I first moved to NYC at age 43 I had a fetish for hiring porn stars for sex. It turned me on to have enough money to hire them and know exactly what I’d be getting, but the real fetish was a sort of “6 Degrees of Kevin Bacon” game in my brain. I wanted to be sexually connected to all the hot gay porn actors (“stars” if you call them that) and be able to trace it with specificity. Which I pretty much can, now. To anyone.

I hired a dozen of them, carefully chosen, over 4 years or so — criteria were simple: they had to turn me on sexually, we had to have real Sex sex, preferably fucking - and they had to have a porn history that would boost me, fetish-wise, with the 6 degrees thing.

Four were fantastic, four were very good, three were good enough, and the other one is sitting in a Rikers jail cell. Also stayed lucky, zero STDs.

Al Pacino was a male whore. Brad Pitt, definitely, too.

Please name them r4. We are all sying to know. Details.

It was huge during the Roman era; still is at the Vatican.

Another stealth Clint Eastwood thread. Everybody knew about your stable of hotties in Carmel, Clint.

When I was a gayling, I learned that a young dude doing push-ups on a Hollywood fire hydrant was a sign that he was offering 'services.' Ahh, analog times.

You got questions? Ask me.

Thomas Jane asserts that he was NOT an actual prostitution whore.

Women never hire them, right? All of these gigolos for women are just lying straight through their teeth.

I think there are whores who only service women but it's probably an extremely niche word-of-mouth business. I doubt any of those guys have profiles or websites.

I want to know about the dude in Rikers

I heard that after the fall of the Iron Curtain, young Slavic men's dicks and holes could be had for the price of a quarter-pounder. Was that true?

Never, ever divulge the names of your conservative/right wing clients.

Why not just ask them yourself OP:

I know a bipolar extremely sexual woman who hires bisexual guys for sex off of rentmen. She’s had enormous success. She has sex, I think, every day. The last was a 9.5 inch Arab.

R18, is that bipolar woman named Britney Spears per chance?

Her life sounds pretty good, r18.

R8, Clint ALLEGEDLY got his start in showbiz as a rentboy.

Workin’ 9.5 beats workin’ 9 to 5!

I AM NOT A PROSTATUTE !!

Teresa Giudice after realizing her husband employed a rentboy:

It's wonderful. A fat whore like me can dial up a hunk to tickle my fat flaps to ecstasy. Fat whores rejoice!

[quote]I heard that after the fall of the Iron Curtain, young Slavic men's dicks and holes could be had for the price of a quarter-pounder. Was that true?

R15, I don't know, but it seems like half the guys in Eastern Europe end up showing their holes & cocks at Bel Ami.

A lot of gay influencers are male prostitutes or kept boys

I was the French lieutenant’s whore.

OK R6, here's the list. In chronological order I've had sex, paid sex, with these 12 porn models/actors/stars.

2013 Gavin Waters - hunky blond bisex guy who did like 100+ films in the early 2010s. Gorgeous and super-friendly in person but constrained sexually, lots of limits compared to what he did in porn, think it was probably an agreement with his GF/wife

2013 Tommy DeLuca - butterface but awesome dick, long porn history throughout the 2000s and early 2010s

2014 Nick Capra - gay Italian lunk, huge porn career, extremely sexy in his good years, 2014 was just when he was starting to get messy, eventually needed a lot of rehab. Still a phenomenal fuck though, and a great kisser

2014 Julien Hussey -- BelAmi studboy with the most kissable lips ever, was subletting in NYC for a summer. Wanted me to pay extra for his kinda hot roommate to join in but I was only interested in Julien

2014 Christian from Treasure Island Media, bareback bottom. I was newly on PREP at the time and went for it. He has a porn video called "Christian: Legendary Hole" and I do know what they mean

2015 Jake Deckard, Titan/Raging Stallion hunk from the mid to late 2000s. Didn't escort often, I pounced on that opportunity. It was HOT. He's also a talented massage therapist, I got a great full body massage from him separately two years before the sex

2015 Austin Wolf - 6 ft 4, 240 lbs, so hot in photos, but I found him unfriendly and narcissistic in person. Not shocked that he's a pedo given his obvious tastes in very petite young twinks in the videos he did for OnlyFans etc in the years right after I met him. He's now in a Rikers cell awaiting trial.

2015 Alex Graham (Joel from CorbinFisher) Adorable, humpy, was more fit-fat in person (he had left porn by then) but I'm into that. Great personality, surprisingly good conversation for a while afterward, he was living in Mallorca or Barcelona (i forget) most of the time and liking it

2015 Rafael Carreras, lean fit hung sexually voracious Cuban, long 20 year porn career. Great sex, that dick is a perfect 10. He fucked me raw in my own bed and we showered afterwards. Complimented me on my butt.

2017 Alexander Volkov, muscley Russian who did films for Michael Lucas. Nice huge round butt. Friendly. He was in the process of getting a huge tattoo across his entire back, and he'd just had a major ink session and it hurt so we could only do certain positions. Still a good experience

2018 Jonah Wheeler, lean foxy 'otter' sexy-nerd type, vers and kinky. This one, we hooked up in a social situation and I fucked him in my bed at home. (Free, not escorting) This was shortly before he became "Jonah." We have dozens of mutual friends. He's smart and sexy, slightly Aspergers-like but in a uniquely hot way. Would fuck again anytime

2018 Ian Greene, dark curly haired slutty porn star, did a couple of gangbang films. Great ass, wicked sense of humor and what I loved about this one was, he's the only one of the bunch who came, intensely, while I was railing him. You never know otherwise how much he's enjoying it and into it if the whole dynamic is you're paying him. But Ian was INTO it, he wanted my dick and was very sexually turned on by our encounter

That's it. Probably done for now, I'm getting older and the fetish kind of ran its course. I will say, all except Austin Wolf were great to meet and several of them pursued me afterward on text for follow ups. Makes sense: I was better looking than their average client, I paid, I didn't get weird or drugged out on them, I have good personal hygiene and I'm actually good in bed. I didn't need to pay for sex, I just wanted to in their specific cases. Surely I was in the upper tier of how favorable/unfavorable their clients are. You can imagine what kinds of men a gay male sex worker might have to deal with.

Tea, spilled.

I prefer to hire Massage Whores, usually every three weeks or so. I don’t wanna fuck it’s too much effort so Massage Whores are perfect for me. I get the intimacy and they do all the work.

Yeah, you sound awesome, R29.

R17 - I could tell that guy was a tweaker within the first few sentences.

Re R17 fuckin’ hide your wallet. But then again if you are so desperate that you hire him you deserve what you get.

R32, yeah his absolutely manic chatter at 100mph and the yikes teeth were a clue. Such a shame, there is obviously a vivacious and fun personality in there.

R29: I can attest to what you said about Jake Deckard. An beautiful body, an amazing massage, (I was trying not to doze off), and he's a really nice guy, to boot.

R4 R29 Which ones are the fantastic four? Which four were very good....which three were good enough? The resident at Rikers Island was already established....otherwise thanks, good read

Fantastic: Jake, Rafael, Jonah, Ian

Very good: Nick, Christian, Alex Graham, Alexander Volkov

Good enough: Gavin Waters, Tommy, Julian

R37 - and how much were they? Asking for a friend.

r4, I love Jonah Wheeler. I would love a bit more detail on his kinky tastes, if that's not too personal.

[quote] Women never hire them, right?

You'd be surprised!

Thank you for the ACTUAL TEA. It's so rare here these days, so it needs applause. Thank you.

R39, Jonah (I know him by his real first name) is every bit as verbal and fun and into role play and saying audacious things in the middle of sex, as he is in his videos. It's not a contrived act. He truly loves sex, and is 100% vers (great at both). I only fucked him but have seen him fuck guys like a real top at mutual friends' parties. Also his butthole was quite smooth (at the time at least) for an 'otter' type, don't know if he waxed it or what but it was sooooo nice.

Most welcome R41! Been wanting to share this for years now. This thread seemed as good a place as any.

Only one: Casey Donovan for the price of the room. It was at his Key West guesthouse, Casa Donovan, me and my friend Dennis were the only guests, and he didn’t charge.

That would have been in 1978. Years later I read something by Dominic Dunne saying he had a session with him, then “the hottest porn star in America” in NYC in 1980 and Donovan charged $50 for the afternoon.

[quote] Did you ever whore around?

That is so crude and offensive.

What I do is host gentleman callers.

Rounds, Numbers, Santa Monica Blvd...

been there

done that

Wolf's per-hour rate was $500.

Wolf Blitzer?

At least half of the young good looking men trying to make it big in Hollywood are whoring in some capacity.

[quote]Where is it most common?

Online.

R29 I am JEALOUS!

R47 yes it was and he demanded 100% prepay over PayPal to seal the deal. This was my one stupid mistake, I was getting asshole vibes from him but I went ahead. Everybody else was $300 more or less.

Oh well. $500 wasted, not the end of the world. Mister Smith has plenty of time these days to sit back and tug addictively on his own nips. Which is pretty much all he wanted to do when I came over to his apartment.

OP- I have an announcement to make-

My name is Fred Garvin/Male Prostitute.

R52 I found out his rate because he swanned through town on RentMen and I reached out. No way I was paying that for one hour's worth of time.

Best,

R47

Another time Bryan Knight was going to be in town so I reached out. I didn't hear from him until long after he'd left town. He told me he'd be happy to fly in and his conditions were that the clock on his hourly rate (I forget what it was) would start the moment he woke up on the day he'd be flying in, I'd pay his plane fare AND hotel AND expenses and he'd remain on the clock until he crawled into bed the day he flew back home.

I said nay nay.

[quote] Women never hire them, right? All of these gigolos for women are just lying straight through their teeth.

Oh, I dunno about that. Carol Brady was known to share some Latin gigolos with Mike from time to time.

R54, I have a Bryan Knight (non) story as well. He was living in upstate NY for a while and I thought about going up there for some paid nookie on his turf. Never quite got a strong enough urge to follow through. “… and then she died”, as the DL saying goes.

He would have been my tallest ever at 6’7”. His big mammalian body and overall size and decent-seeming personality were appealing to me at the time.

[quote]Four were fantastic, four were very good, three were good enough, and the other one is sitting in a Rikers jail cell.

For being lousy in bed?

R57 he was arrested and jailed for being a pedo and trader of CSAM (google the acronym if unfamiliar).. the details were highly disturbing, there are multiple DL threads on it

R54 - Jeez - Mr. Knight really thought highly of himself that he could charge what 20+ extra hours for 1 hour of work? It's called a day rate which should cover his time if he's going to be an asshole about it.

What an asshole. I suppose some guys may have that type of money to burn, but that's ridiculous. He's not even that good looking?

R59 I agree, most escorts wouldn’t pitch that in detail without first establishing that the client is potentially up for it.

Whores tend to be very nice when you're paying them.

Tommy DeLuca - was my butterface near-retarded horsehung tri-state italian dream stud.

Tommy’s dong was so big I could only manage to suck two thirds of it while gently squeezing the root. Some struggles are fun.

Did you notice the tommy's trick to get himself to come. He must kind of grab it and scratch and rub at the root. It's a little repetitive motion. seen it in many of his scenes. He seemed so sweet and simple. then as his twink years faded he did some really gritty porn with the hard core makers. He didn't look so good. did he do his really dated repetitive sex patter? I loved that about him too. the stupidest most basic sex talk repeated over and over.

I hung out with three guys who were roommates, and they all went into sex work, the into print porn, and then into video porn.

They were all amazing to look at, tall and fit, fun to be with. Blonde, auburn and black hair. Like a set. They loved sex but had gotten a bit blasé and sought novelty and admiration. Up for anything.

One had a regular weekly date with a beat cop, who would get blown through the open zipper of his uniform, his gun in its holster banging against his head as the copy growled, "I'm gonna blow your head off."

Alas, poor boys.

Such class in a respectable profession.

R59 now that you mention it, I'm pretty sure his Massage Whore fee wasn't included in those payment demands.

Best,

R54

When was the last time you saw a male prostitute street walker in Weho/LA? I'm going to say 2001-2002 on Santa Monics Blvd around Western I think by that big private storage rental place?

I think street walkers are over. Whores advertise on Grindr and Scruff, and often announce when they've taken up residence for a day or evening at the local bathhouse. They announce they're looking for "generous" or "gen" to make it clear they're selling their wares, not giving them away.

Joel from Corbin Fisher. Lucky you!

In old country, prostitution is way of life.

Tommy Deluca was my next to worst porn star encounter. Decent dick but bland in bed and not great bedside manner to make things more relaxed or connected. Definitely not worth the expense.

Killian Knox was/is exceptional in bed. I think he’s dropped escorting now for studio scenes and OF though.

Tommy DeLucca used to blow me at the, now gone, NYSC on W 41st. He was pretty good and always swallowed. Bryan Knight blew me once after a beer blast at the Eagle. I love a good BJ.

I have NEVER hired a prostitute for sex.

The men I generally see on Rentmen.com are guys that would have to pay ME for sex- they're not attractive to me.

My ex used to slit shame me and something happened after our breakup I found him on Rentmen. It says he likes PNP. Talk about dodging a bullet.

Slut* not slit.

Does anyone remember The Numbers? The original one on Sunset? It was a male hustler bar, you had to enter from the back, walk down a spiral stairway with mirrors into a tiny bar full of older gentleman and young men all trying to make a date. Believe it or not, the food was good too. You could dine on escargot and steak while watching the "show".

[quote]2014 Julien Hussey -- BelAmi studboy with the most kissable lips ever, was subletting in NYC for a summer. Wanted me to pay extra for his kinda hot roommate to join in but I was only interested in Julien

Thanks for the info, R29. Julien Hussey is supposedly straight. Was his roommate a gay guy? What did you end up getting to do with Julien? Oral? Fucking?

[quote]2015 Rafael Carreras, lean fit hung sexually voracious Cuban, long 20 year porn career. Great sex, that dick is a perfect 10. He fucked me raw in my own bed and we showered afterwards. Complimented me on my butt.

R29, yeah, based on his porn videos Rafael Carreras has always struck me as a genuine sex God. Excellent oral skills/deep throating from what I've seen, yes?

Just curious, how old are you, R29?

“Adult film actor and generally good human being Bryan Knight went to bed on Sunday, September 3rd and did not wake up,” Lewis said in a video released on X. “

Generally good. WTF.

Biaggi charges $500/hour

When your shelf life is about five years, you charge what the market will bear.

R78 — Julien more than any of them had a distinct hustler/trade vibe; he was friendly and smiling, and willing to kiss but the energy felt transactional. I truly thought he was bi or gay from what I’d seen on Bel Ami scenes, but with me he seemed more straight/heteroflexible. And just a bit taller, stronger, older and more masculine than his BA scenes. Mutual oral only, mostly me sucking him. He needed to open his phone and watch some porn for a minute in order to cum, and I assumed it was straight porn. His cum tasted good. I only got a quick passing look at the roommate, seemed nondescript tan-skinned light brown hair 20something… Julien kept teasingly offering to bring him in to join us for an extra $200, then $150 when he asked a second time. I smiled and said he seems nice but I only brought $300 and can’t spend more.

But it was worth it — in my fetish this was a score! Julien got me up to just 2 degrees of sexual separation between me and around 20 of the ponies in the Bel Ami stable.

R79, I’m now mid 50s. A year or two older than Rafael Carreras and Jake Deckard. I was ages 43 to 48 during the exploits listed at R29.

R75 as an escort or as a client?

What set off the episode?

I haven't used escorts, but I wouldn't rule it out forever. I'm cheap and don't want to spend that kind of money for a fleeting 90 minute experience. But I'm in my mid-fifties with average looks. And every now and then it hits me hard that men in their twenties or thirties are not running after me anymore to get a good fuck. Maybe I'm late with my mid-life crisis but it's tough sometimes realizing that. So, yes, I can see why some men like to hire a hot guy to get physical and feel wanted.

I honestly could care less, and I’m sure the feelings are mutual.

Thanks R37 sounds like fun times....might I ask what made you stop back then? Would you consider anymore hookups?

My best friend is an escort. He's older now, and has a steady 4 or 5 guys who keep him in the lifestyle to which he's become accustomed, so he doesn't have to go out and drum up business. He's done well: owns a modest but very nice one-bedroom apt in Fort Lauderdale, has investments and does contracting jobs to make extra money.

Another (former) friend/escort really hit the jackpot. He used to ply his trade at Rounds back in the day. One of his regulars, who was filthy fucking rich, enticed him to leave the biz and be his husband. Said friend lived in an opulent upper east side townhouse and had all the money in the world to do whatever the fuck he wanted. Which in his case was getting barely legal latino rent boys to fuck him all day.

His number eventually came up when he rented an underage kid from the piers. The kid tried to blackmail him then reported him. My friend ended up in jail for months and then on the sex offender list for life. Not that it mattered. His sugar daddy died a few years later and left him everything. Millions and millions of dollars, the townhouse, a house in Quogue, a house in the British Virgin Islands.

I got a rentboy twice, two different guys, different occasions. I'm reaching elder status now but this was 20 years ago when I was pretty fit and very cute. I was curious. Of course I could (and did) get laid. But I wanted the experience of having someone really hot, at least one point above my "solid 8" looks. I lacked confidence so I rarely took my shot at the really hot guys I'd encounter in gay world, which I regret now.

But I don't regret hiring two different, very hot men, about 6 months apart. The first one was indeed hot but had a very dull personality. I enjoyed the sex and playing with his hot dick, but he was wooden and unfriendly. It made me uncomfortable during the sex, which took it down a notch but was still pretty great. 4 stars, but I felt a little disappointed.

Six months later I did it again with a new guy. He was also very hot but the opposite of first guy in personality. Very friendly and charming. I know they're acting but it felt genuine and it was very enjoyable. He was funny, too. It was like hanging out with a friend, instant rapport, big flirt. Kept complimenting my looks and saying I was "a treat" to encounter. Again, flattery is cheap but he was so sweet and convincing. I was paying for a full experience and he provided it, with excellence.

Amazing experience all around, and better sex because we were both into it and each other (or acted that way). Still pull that memory out of the spank bank regularly. After that I just got it out of my system I guess because I never did it again, not counting happy ending massages.

R89 interesting story. What does being on the sex offenders list for life entail, are you allowed to travel overseas?

One time only hooked up with one. 200 bucks and he came while I was out of the room. Realized I needed to end this one time fantasy fast. Gave him his cash and said thanks for cumming. Never again.

Were you washing the dishes? Doing your hair? Who leaves the room during sex? What were you doing that was so pressing you had to leave while your sex partner is about to climax?

R82 - I think Shakespeare said it best:

“For I must tell you friendly in your ear,

Sell when you can: you are not for all markets.”

R81 Biaggi is nutz—certifiable..

Here is Bel Ami porn star Julien Hussey who was hired by R29/R83.

In this 2-minute clip he takes multiple loads to his pretty face:

Left the room to get some towels-I don’t know nothin bout birthin babies.

Thanks, [R96] for that. Those lips are wonderful. And now wonder he has such a nice complexion!

Was walking down the street one day and there was Jack Dixon, one of my size queen porn crushes. Hired him twice. Super nice guy, unbelievably well equipped, and knew how to use it.

R88, reasons why I stopped:

- my "6 Degrees of Kevin Bacon, gay porn version" fetish ran its course. Madonna once gave an interview in which she said, truthfully, "I think I've met everyone." Similar feeling.

- in my 40s I was still working out 4x a week and in very good shape, it felt plausible that at least half of the escorts, the 100% gay ones, might -- *might* -- have found me sexually attractive in real life. A decade later that just feels implausible. Aging is real.

- One day during the pandemic i added it up, looking back, and realized I'd probably spent $4K maybe even $5K on this. That felt like enough. Some truly hot memories, but... enough.

five grand seems like a deal, if you honestly had fucked that many

R100 that's money well spent. You had a great time and now you have great memories. I'm sure you've dropped at least that much on a vacation or two with the same results; great time, great memories. Why feel bad if the escapism was sex and not travel?

Okay, but how do you fake interest in a client who's specifically [italic]not[/italic] attractive? Money only goes so far ...

From what I've read, they get clients who are decent-looking, but lonely, regularly.

In Europe you have Planetromeo (Hunqz) with plenty of hot guys.

[quote]Aging is real

That doesn’t matter if you pay enough R100.

I’ve been seeing Massage Whores for about ten years now and have spent thousands on fees and will do so for as long as I can.

Respect to you R105! There's something far less undignified (imho) about paying for sensual semi-erotic full body massages at age 65 or even 75, than paying for a sexual encounter where the sex, full on coitus or at least a blow job, is the entire point of the encounter.

A gigs a gig.

[quote] One had a regular weekly date with a beat cop, who would get blown through the open zipper of his uniform, his gun in its holster banging against his head as the copy growled, "I'm gonna blow your head off."

Uh, that's kinda hot.

[quote] Were you washing the dishes? Doing your hair? Who leaves the room during sex? What were you doing that was so pressing you had to leave while your sex partner is about to climax?

Reading Datalounge, of course. Those Theatre Gossip posts don't read themselves!

Earlier today a young man knocked at the door and I made the mistake of answering it. He was a pretty good-looking guy - mid-20s, fit with thick reddish-blond hair - who asked if I were the homeowner. I semi-lied and said "No" (the house is in my husband's name) because I wanted to avoid the sales spiel. He explained that he was with some pest control company doing work in the neighborhood and was looking to drum up additional business as long as they were here.

I asked him if he had any materials he could leave with me that I could pass them along, to which he said: "Just myself, but I'm more expensive . . ." It totally went over my head at the time because I was more focused on getting rid of him than what he was saying, but when I closed the door it suddenly hit me was he just said. Cheeky boy!

You must not live in the US r110, UK maybe? No one knocks on doors anymore to sell services and even less answer them.

[quote] Earlier today a young man knocked at the door and I made the mistake of answering it.

Wow, I wouldn’t answer the door if I wasn’t expecting someone. Not unless I had a firearm to take care of them.

Oh please. The Witnesses are here every month, people running for office come by and campaign, UPS and USPS need me to sign for stuff. Where do you live that’s so violent?

Wrong, r111. I live in the US and have also had a random pest control person knock on my door.

Think twice the next time you're absolutely certain that something NEVER happens because it hasn't happened to you.

R111 - Nope. Live in the suburbs outside of DC and work from home. At least once a week someone knocks to either offer a service like lawn care, pest control, gutter cleaning, tree trimming, etc. or to sell something or collect for charity. Do you live in NYC or some other urban locale?

R115 - agreed - there are tons of home services companies that are told to stop by neighbors' doors to hang door flyers or to promote the services.

And don't get me started on the solar company bros. At least that's how it is in SoCal.

I’ve been going up to Montreal and fucking a stripper I met at the club. After a night of lap dances my big head shuts off for my little head. Three times now I’ve fucked him in the dark room. Took him back to my hotel the first time, he was such a sweetheart that I was smitten.

Health wise, I know it’s dumb as hell. Especially since we didn’t use a condom. I’m sure that’s community hole at that point but whatever, seeing him dance while holding my load in him was oddly super hot.

r86 I'm very much in the same "predicament." I don't really see the problem with hiring an "escort." In a way it's easier than getting on the apps, where you are asked 10,000 questions only to be rejected.

My question is, when one reaches out to these gentlemen callers, how does one ask what their rate is: I'm always paranoid that they me be some undercover cop in a sting operation, and I'd get nabbed on a solicitation charge. What's a "safe" way to ask their rate?

[quote] My question is, when one reaches out to these gentlemen callers, how does one ask what their rate is: I'm always paranoid that they me be some undercover cop in a sting operation, and I'd get nabbed on a solicitation charge. What's a "safe" way to ask their rate?

The best people to start off with is family and friends, checking to see if any of them are escorts and if they are someone you’d want to hire. Hopefully, they’re someone you can trust more than a stranger on the street or on the internet.

I’ve NEVER been reduced to having to hire someone to have sex with.

^ has always depended on the kindness of strangers.

R86- I hear ya. I’ve been going on gay cruises since 2009 and in the early years of the cruises when I was on the treadmill in the fitness room guys would take the treadmill next to me just to check me out or linger near the treadmill to check me out, but eventually that stopped and I just got finished with a gay cruise and I felt totally invisible. I’m 59 years old.

So true about feeling invisible. I remember as a kid and teenager I wanted invisibility as my super power. Now that we old farts are there - do we use it for good or for evil?

R112 how very American of you.

Or Swedish

Here's a video of R112 at home

[quote]You must not live in the US [R110], UK maybe? No one knocks on doors anymore to sell services and even less answer them.

I just had someone knock on my door yesterday (also for pest control) in the Denver suburbs.

He was also young and hot (and driving a onewheel which I thought was kind of ... odd for door to door sales but whatever.

hookers these days are pricing themselves out of the market.....They want 350/450 for an hour...The demand can't be that hight

R111 is an elderly shut-in living in a cabin 15 miles outside of some small town with one traffic light. Where I live people regularly knock on my door to sell stuff, get me to switch internet carriers, talk about election campaigns, talk about Jesus, etc.

[quote][R111] is an elderly shut-in living in a cabin 15 miles outside of some small town with one traffic light. Where I live people regularly knock on my door to sell stuff, get me to switch internet carriers, talk about election campaigns, talk about Jesus, etc.

A shut-in is someone who would enjoy all those strangers coming to their door, despite the shut-ins being more likely to become a victim.

My ex used to slut shame me and then got caught up in the flyoverstan “party” scene and became a RentMen whore. Lives in mom and dad’s basement. His functional adult years were with me, no joke.

[quote] is an elderly shut-in living in a cabin 15 miles outside of some small town with one traffic light. Where I live people regularly knock on my door to sell stuff, get me to switch internet carriers, talk about election campaigns, talk about Jesus, etc.

I live in NJ in an upscale town. No one, but no one, just walks on your property and comes up and knocks on your door here. It's just not done. Not even kids for Halloween.

Perhaps in poor communities.

I know there are expensive houses in NJ but when I hear upscale and NJ in the same sentence it just doesn't sound right. It's almost as bad as saying that I live in the rich part of Scranton.

R143 I think Teresa Giudice

R134 FYI

[quote]I think Teresa Giudice

I had a regular rent boy early 2000's as Im a scheduler..... We'd block off time for each other each week & extra as we liked each other. It got to the point where I wasn't billed & I questioned it as he enjoyed our time & friendship. We became really great friends. He kept doing the rent boy gig, we'd mess around here & there, more out of nostalgia & to get off. He was a safe one for sure & continued to be. NEVER an STI between us. We are now both in our late 50's, living within 75 km of each other. Both in LTR's & happy. We hang out as friends. He had his past, he did well. He helped me through my deep lonely times, and Im happy to know him.

I was in my 20s living in NYC. This was the early 1980s. Back then there were ads for male prostitutes in The Village Voice and underground publications. I don't remember where I saw it, but there was an ad for a bodybuilder visiting NYC. That's the kind of guy I wanted and it was not something I was going to find at Uncle Charlies. The price was 75$, a lot of money back then, especially for me, but I decided to go through with it. I called and made arrangements. This is what showed up at my door:

Were you happy with him, R139?

My experience is that given sex is their business, it is odd that they aren't usually better at it than amateurs.

[quote]This is what showed up at my door

Brandoesque with a hint of Mr Burt Reynolds. Plus a Midnight Cowboy vibe. I imagine his dance card was rarely empty.

I hired some whores for a couple years in my late 40s after I was a very successful slut for 2 decades having all kinds of great sex. I guess I had good experiences from the start with paid sex because two were really amazing fuckers. Then I met a Bulgarian guy in his late 40s so my age who was fit and average but masculine in looks, and was one of the most creative intuitive sex partners I ever had. He only travelled through my city once or twice a year so it didn't break the bank to pay him 2x a year which I did for several years. I stopped hiring other whores, as the novelty was gone, and its a waste of money and I didn't want to be that aging guy with whores. I still had fuckbuddies so I concentrated on my fuckbuddies who were my age mostly. Finally, some of them I knew for 25 years before I gave up fucking in my late 50s. Yes I managed to fit in 2 long boyfriend relationships as well.

“I am Iliia, I have 27 years. I am tiger.”

R86- I am jealous of my younger self when I was 29 years old in 1995 and I would lean against a wall in my local gay bar and be cruised simultaneously by good looking guys on my right and left- both leaning into and leaning forward to try to catch my glance- the romantic and sexual possiblities seemed unlimited back then. I rarely left the bar with anyone because I found it too difficult to talk to anyone. Now my prospects both sexual and romantic are very limited. Oh well.

Alexander

R130 Never happens where I live. Used to be kids selling magazines, maybe 20 years ago.

r138 needs to sell his story for a Hallmark movie.

I was paid back in the day a couple times. Fools. I would have done it for freed.

The insecurity being amply exhibited on this thread (by both the johns and the never-johns alike) is pretty awesome.

R136 You are 100 percent correct. I am pretty dumb. I am now going to read every word of your Wikipedia link and every citation in that link and every citation in those links and so on and so on until there is nothing else to read. . . OK I'm done. Guess what. Now you are 200 percent correct. Oh wait. . . I just got a message on Sniffies from the Datalounge Grand Council. . . . They said they've been receiving complaints that the NY v Philly threads never mention New Jersey except as an afterthought. This is not reflective of the DL DEI policy. . . Come on guy. Let's not argue. Let's just fuck. You know peace not war.

R4/R29 thank you for this, very interesting, sound like you had fun!

[quote]You are 100 percent correct. I am pretty dumb. I am now going to read every word of your Wikipedia link and every citation in that link and every citation in those links and so on and so on until there is nothing else to read.

You're tedious. The info pertinent to the discussion is the first graph. Wealthiest States. NJ ranks second in the country.

Thanks to the poster for sharing the tea, especially naming Tommy Deluca - he was such a hot little twink. I saw him during his return to porn and he was still pretty sexy with that huge cock. Alas, he never come across as the brightest bulb but I wish him well.

I was outside Boston for a conference many years ago and hired amateur performer "Chris Crawford" on a whim, he was a hot jock type and I really liked his look. I would have been in my early 30's at the time and he probably wasn't that much younger than me. It was a lousy experience and definitely not worth it. Now that I'm in my 50's lots of guys on grindr hit me up "generous?" but I'm just never tempted - especially with random guys like that. While the idea of having sex with someone I find very attractive is appealing, knowing they are not interested in me would actually be a turn off.

[quote]My ex used to slut shame me and then got caught up in the flyoverstan “party” scene and became a RentMen whore. Lives in mom and dad’s basement. His functional adult years were with me, no joke.

Hi Justin!

The only time I've recently paid was so I could knock the 'sex with identical twins' item off the bucket list.

did they fuck each other too?

R119 - Wait, what?

Look first to family and friends for escorts??

R119 - I only woke up ten minutes ago and my coffee finally kicked in. LOL I get it now.

That was good.

I picked a PR guy off Rentmen—his look was rough trade …a hint of danger.

He had a fat uncut cock and did everything(!) For a few months I was just plain dickmatized, but then we always had pillow talk…he was smart (with a master’s), funny, thoughtful and horny as hell. We became friends outside of the client-escort atmosphere. A real mensch.

His Rentmen profile said he worked in public relations?

No, Rose—it meant penile reanimación..

[quote] Look first to family and friends for escorts??

If you got a hot cousin who is an escort, go for it. Get the family rate.

Mama, face it: I was the slut of all time!

Natalie did it better.

Just that one time…

My HS football hero cousins gave it up to me for free.

R72, if you're returning to this thread, I'd love to hear more about Killian Knox. Damn I had a thing for him from the Raging Stallion videos he did. I see he does a lot of Daddy/Twink stuff now, basically, Killian getting fucked by ugly young guys, even taking facials - which is just. not. my. scene.

However, I'd love to hear something graphic from your encounter with him, one-on-one. And yea, I'd consider hiring him for an afternoon.