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Ben Barnes XXXV - Bangin' The Younger Years. AGAIN. Continued. *sigh*

Yup, Ben's mid life crisis not only continues, but gets worse.

by Anonymousreply 433August 15, 2025 12:23 PM

Why is the world a better, more beautiful place when we stop paying attention to this idiot? Who dressed him in these PLURAL fucking travesties and do they still have a job tonight? Because they clearly don't deserve to. Jesus fuck this is horrifying. It's like the younger his girlfriends get the older his apparent grandpa ass wants to appear. Why was that horribly fitting cardigan ever thought into existence, much less made, much less put on his body? Why? But then he throws in the easter egg of those beloved all whites on his feet to let you know he's still just a man-child. Did he apply his own bronzer or is that just how diseased his skin naturally looks these days and no professional can save him? At least his hair doesn't look as much like the used floor mop it usually resembles, so thank God for small miracles.

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by Anonymousreply 1July 3, 2025 11:47 PM

Aubrey was there, Ben barnes fans stephanie has a pic of them in black and white from the after party

Is she wearing a cross? And his jacket from Kevin’s party?

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by Anonymousreply 2July 3, 2025 11:48 PM

Yes indeed, not only was she there, she wore his striped Boss jacket from Wimbledon last year. Because obviously she doesn't have proper clothes of her own, she just couldn't help but wear Ben's infamous jacket as a signal to everyone of her privilege. She knew there would be pictures, professionals were hired to cover the whole thing. She looked fucking ridiculous in that huge hanging sack, but she didn't care, she was showing the fuck off to rub it in everyone's face.

It's the same exact thing she's been doing the whole time. Choosing a profile pic of her cat laying on Ben's rug for one of her many, MANY new Instagram accounts. Posting her selfie driving Ben's car. Posting several times over and over painting the pink crap that recently appeared on Ben's dining room wall. Over and over, she makes sure to return to her peacocking drunken display up on her privileged London balcony, FAR above the rest of Ben's measly fans. Because this MeanGirl is undeniably a vicious little *cunt* under that fake smile. Utterly bereft of ALL grace and humility. Completely unfit for anyone respectable. Obviously auditioning to be a Real Housewife of the Hollywood Hills.

Ben claims over and over that he wants to be a good guy and put good things out into the world. With this girl beside him, he has failed catastrophically in that at every possible turn.

by Anonymousreply 3July 3, 2025 11:48 PM

His hand in his pocket says so much. When his arm is around the nepo baby, body is leaning away from her. He knew they were taking a picture together, he showed zero affection. The body doesn’t lie. This feels like another peyton, his friends are all working, she is a place holder. She loves trolling this new one. The others at least had the class to ignore it. Maybe if she had an actual career she would be more interesting than her cat.

by Anonymousreply 4July 3, 2025 11:48 PM

Love how this is not the only place where many people are talking about how much they see Aubrey for who she is.

by Anonymousreply 5July 3, 2025 11:49 PM

At a friend's urging, I took a longer look at the footage from each premiere to compare. And Ben looked much more settled and himself in London. There was A LOT more smiling. There was a lot more charm on the carpet with considered answers to questions. It was far closer to the old Ben we used to see years ago. He appeared to be all around happy to be there with his parents and a mystery guest that *wasn't* Skeletor.

But then there was the LA premiere. Where he looked practically sullen all evening. And anxious. Constantly moving his hands about as he apparently couldn't keep them still. Barely a genuine smile all night long. He looked like he was absolutely over the whole thing and wanted to be literally *anywhere* else, like he couldn't wait for it to end, and it made him look like absolute shit that night. And that was the premiere that he took Skeletor to. Because OBVIOUSLY, she's such a good, calming, supportive influence on him. So good that he was leaning as far away from her as possible as they sat next to each other in the theater, and so good that he put his arm around another man instead of acknowledging her with his otherwise available hand firmly in his pocket.

Truly, a "relationship" toxic dreams are made of.

by Anonymousreply 6July 3, 2025 11:50 PM

So let me get this straight, because just how transactional is this relationship? Skeletor's latest grifting "career" attempt is as a great "artist." Of course almost every single canvas looks like she was simply in the backyard playing in the mud, but at least her new daddy's proud enough to hang his little girl's playtime up in his dining room! Though Benny has previously admitted that he's such a thrifty cheapskate he's not going to spend actual money on real art so I guess that makes sense.

But Ben made the mistake of leaving a comment on one of Skeletor's new posts. And it drew a trolling reply about Ben. Which drew more and more replies making fun of Ben. And all those comments trashing Ben were left up for everyone to see and read. Skeletor returned to the post again and again throughout the day to like and reply to the comments as they came in, but she left up the comments that trolled Ben. However, there were comments and dm's that were critical of her that also came in. Those she deleted immediately, also blocking the accounts. Because that was against *her*, so she cared then. The negative comments about Ben she left up for weeks. That is, until the day after Benny agreed to take her to the LA premiere (sloppy second premiere's the charm I guess?) and allowed her to wear HIS jacket. It was only after he agreed to take her looking like that that she finally hid all the negative comments. And I do say HID, not deleted, not blocked. They're all still there, maybe just waiting as blackmail so Ben never says no to her demands again.

So just how transactional is this purportedly loving supportive "relationship" and just how desperate is Ben's obvious mid-life crisis getting?

by Anonymousreply 7July 3, 2025 11:51 PM

But speaking of her newest venture. . . Skeletor is DM'ing with Ben's most obsessive FanFraus. I repeat, Skeletor is in Ben's most ardent fan's DMs. Where she's attempting to grift off their utter desperation. Because a bunch of them IMMEDIATELY flocked to her comments saying they really wanted to buy one of her mud-based paintings and she told them to DM her for pricing. Because she doesn't have a website. She doesn't have an actual store of any kind. She only has Instagram DMs, like a *real* artist. But I guess that makes sense, because she doesn't have any real customers, just frighteningly obsessive Ben Barnes fangirls so desperate for his love and attention that they'll effusively comment offering her money in the hopes that he'll reward them with a big wet kiss at the next con.

Well Ben has made an entire career out of exploiting his FanFrau's desperation lately. And clearly, he's taught Skeletor well. And why not. She's obviously good for literally nothing else.

by Anonymousreply 8July 3, 2025 11:51 PM

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by Anonymousreply 9July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

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by Anonymousreply 10July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

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by Anonymousreply 11July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

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by Anonymousreply 12July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 13July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 14July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 15July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 16July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 17July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 18July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 19July 4, 2025 9:39 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 20July 4, 2025 9:40 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 21July 4, 2025 9:40 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 22July 4, 2025 9:40 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 23July 4, 2025 9:40 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 24July 4, 2025 9:40 AM

According to all known laws of aviation, there is no way that a bee should be able to fly. Its wings are too small to get its fat little body off the ground. The bee, of course, flies anyways. Because bees don't care what humans think is impossible.

by Anonymousreply 25July 4, 2025 9:40 AM

Haha he’s let her do it again! Managed to ruin the last ever ASOCAS by posting a pic of the Eiffel Tower and some horrible classless selfies - to announce her arrival in Paris. She’s one spiteful little madam.

BUT… Barnes obviously enjoys all the drama! This is the 2nd time she’s location photo-dumped. She must be ecstatic because he’s allowed her to post!

What a gent! Take a load of your fans’ money hand-over-fist for this fancon, then allow your placeholder gf to sneakily post pix showing she’s there - just to spoil their day.

Like… the mentions of ‘his new cat’. Look, Benny - people know it’s hers, ok - so you must think they’re all dumb. You think you’re the cleverest person in the room but hey, you’ve managed to pick yet another grifter/attention seeker.

Also it springs to mind that he took her to that museum to show her what REAL art looks like 😆 maybe her efforts will improve somewhat now!

by Anonymousreply 26July 5, 2025 11:07 AM

Obsessed ^

by Anonymousreply 27July 5, 2025 1:17 PM

I think it is so sad that for a year she has absolutely nothing happening in her life that all she does is paint in her parents house backyard and at Ben’s house and follows him around the world. Of course letting his fan girls know he is the center of everything for her, all the while he distanced himself for her at every second which is embarrassing for her. If she didn’t post stories or have socials and we just watched Ben we would never know they are together. He simply does not care enough to claim her. His views on his new video, so low. They are both so basic, it’s so boring.

by Anonymousreply 28July 5, 2025 2:53 PM

Just for the record she went to Canada this time last year to visit him on set of the institute where she met Joe, they went to NY together to film nevermind music video and that brand deal tennis game, then Christmas trip with his family in London at the concert (we get sighting and tagged photos from her friends her showing us they were together), then she sang at his show in her hometown in Portland, then she went to his London show for Valentine’s Day, then brought her family to LA for his final show, now she went to his meet and greets in Paris.

What has he done for her? Put her in HIS music video, gave her a slot in HIS show and never promoted it, and took her to a concert with HIS family and we all know that ticket for probably for his brother anyway but she was there so why not tag along. Also saying he loves his band and loves his cast mates and loves everyone but her.

by Anonymousreply 29July 5, 2025 3:05 PM

Excuse me first NY then Canada as they started filming is September, tennis was in the summer

by Anonymousreply 30July 5, 2025 3:06 PM

Aubrey needs hair plugs.

by Anonymousreply 31July 5, 2025 4:49 PM

Just saw a video about Meg Ryan and Dennis quaid and how Dennis was an alcoholic and cheating throughout their marriage, but then Meg had an affair with Russell crow and that ruined her career entirely. Funny how Ben was obsessed with Meg Ryan movies because she looks exactly like jules and the affair he had with Jules has also ruined his career. Hollywood age old story I guess.

by Anonymousreply 32July 5, 2025 4:59 PM

Stolen time is literally about their affair, he wrote a whole song about it.

by Anonymousreply 33July 5, 2025 5:04 PM

Remora is a bible thumping whore who has nudes online and got herself a pathetic white man to take care of her so she doesn't have to work. Ben is her sugar daddy who's on a budget because he can only afford to take her on trips when it's work related and comped or he got a discount.

by Anonymousreply 34July 5, 2025 5:14 PM

Why is Ben using bronzer to make his skin look darker at The Institute premiere? His face and neck looked orange and ridiculous while his chest looked like Casper the ghost. Obviously he didn't learn his lesson after the backlash from using makeup to imitate a Latino in that one movie. I really would like to know his IQ level.

by Anonymousreply 35July 5, 2025 5:31 PM

So before I went to bed last night something told me to check Benny's Instagram. Maybe because I knew the ASOCAS con was this weekend, but something told me to check last night. And I wound up finding several pictures of him out and about in Paris taking selfies with fans. And Benny, as per usual since he's gotten back to LA this year, looked positively sullen in all the pictures I found of him. There was a very small smile on his face in each, but it was 10,000 miles away from his eyes. And I remembered the old days (I will admit, even fondly), when Ben always looked happy in pictures with his fans. When his whole face was always smiling big. Back then, he practically always looked like there was joy in his life. I haven't seen evidence of that Ben since he was on tour early this year. When he's not being paid to perform in his mask, I've only seen evidence of apparent haunted depression since he got back to LA in March. And that's exactly what I saw in these Paris selfies too.

But then today, I saw the reason why. And it's the Same. Exact. Reason. it's been this entire year. Because he brought Skeletor with him to Paris. Just like his very distracted, nervous performance at his London concert (according to the fangirls that complained about it online afterwards). Just like his depressingly low energy final LA concert. Just like the surprisingly fewer and fewer self taped moments we've gotten from home this year. Just like the Institute's LA premiere (as opposed to the very different London premiere!) which was the worst I've seen him yet. Since March, it's always the same anxious, haunted depression, and it's always when she's around. So is it *because* she's around and absent when she is, or is that just too obvious a coincidence for Benny?

But now Skeletor. Returning to her one true form showing the fuck off from her London balcony. Except this time it's from her Paris balcony with Ben. Just like how she knew that she'd be photographed at the LA premiere so she wore that embarrassingly ridiculous oversized hanging sack known as Ben's suit jacket instead of her own clothes, she knew that fangirls would be all up in Ben's life because of ASOCAS, so she made goddamn SURE to exploit her extremely privileged position to show everyone that yes, she was there too. With him. Making sure to even show herself eating an emojied Paris croissant, Benny's known favorite thing in the world. And if you doubt she was putting her extreme privilege on full display, she's recently created MULTIPLE private Instagram accounts for all her friends and family. She *could* have posted this trip to those accounts, isn't that why they're there? But she didn't do that. She made absolutely certain to post herself in Paris with Ben publicly for all his fangirls to see. While the con was going on. Because this little girl *NEEDS* to show off her privilege like the rest of us need to breathe oxygen. Because this little MeanGirl is an absolutely vicious little fucking *CUNT*.

by Anonymousreply 36July 5, 2025 5:34 PM

Aubrey wears Ben's clothes because all she has in her closet are bikini's and crop tops. His rags are the next best thing for her.

by Anonymousreply 37July 5, 2025 5:43 PM

Well he could also be depressed because his career has tanked. The last time he was on a set working was almost a year ago. His distraction of music and a tour and live tour videos are becoming more and more irrelevant by the day. Him releasing a deluxe album like he said in that interview who cares, no one cares right now. Every time Aubrey pops up his views on YouTube sink lower and lower so her love clearly is not helping at all. Also Aubrey and him are unemployed, so they literally are not busy. They sit in LA doing what exactly? Absolutely fucking nothing. It’s sad.

by Anonymousreply 38July 5, 2025 5:48 PM

R38 Not denying at all that the unemployment could play a part, but I will stress that he wasn't like this while he was on tour. But back then, he was surrounded by people he repeatedly said he openly LOVES. He was happy, and joyful, and dancing all the time, and smiling the hell through selfies with fans, and literally saying multiple times on stage that he never wanted the tour to end and that he immediately wanted to put together another one. He literally said he never wanted the one thing that kept him away from Skeletor and His Cat to end. And once it did, he hasn't stopped looking depressed in nearly every shot we see of him. Once he went home to her. Even if he is still unemployed and sad about it, she OBVIOUSLY doesn't bring him to the same joyful dancing spirit that his bandmates did for two months straight. What kind of loving, supportive, *SHOULD* be joy-inducing apparent girlfriend can't make a guy as happy as his friends and bandmates? One who very, VERY clearly isn't right for him, but he's so unbelievably stuck in his mid-life crisis that he's stubbornly refusing to ever go deeper and allow himself to feel and consider what's absolutely plain as day to every single objective person out there in the world.

by Anonymousreply 39July 5, 2025 6:18 PM

Totally agree. The institute premiere in LA he looked so nervous in videos constantly touching his hair, full of anxiety and the worst we have seen him in years. Someone in love radiates that love, you cannot fake it, you have it or you don’t. I don’t see them radiating at all, I just see a little girl happy to get some attention.

The fact the band does not follow her at all or support her speaks volumes. Those are people who are seasoned musicians who can see a deceitful person a mile away, they met her and played with her and none of them want anything to do with her. Not even Charles who has known Ben for years or the girls who seem very down to earth. When he says he loves everyone he means it, clearly this relationship is just his mid life crisis playing out like you said.

by Anonymousreply 40July 5, 2025 6:55 PM

R34 I’m laughing out loud as that is so true!

During one of his press day interviews, Benny rather wittily referred to The Institute as ‘Baby Shawshank’. Even sulky nepo baby Joe cracked a small smile at that.

It made me smile too as I’d just been thinking that Benny had managed to get himself a Baby Ho as his new ‘companion’. Benny was never enough for the Ho and it’s the same with this gal. She’s got big and expensive expectations of him.

He doesn’t realise that he’s got hold of a snake by the tail. He thinks he’s in control but he really isn’t. She’s acting like he is… for now! 😂

by Anonymousreply 41July 5, 2025 7:48 PM

Remora's bestie recently got engaged in Paris so Ben probably felt obligated to give his female shadow gf a chance to experience the city too. You know, so she can have a nice girl's chat to compare experiences. But obviously Remora's trip to the City of Love will not include any sort of pda or sense of acknowlegment from him because that's against his rules of affection.

by Anonymousreply 42July 5, 2025 11:55 PM

Aubrey out drinking that jesus juice and other spirits back in the day.

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by Anonymousreply 43July 6, 2025 12:45 AM

R43 Tell me you desperately leaked your own nudes to the internet for attention without telling me you leaked your own nudes.

Because the term Attention WHORE has literally never been more appropriate I'd wager.

Ben Barnes, spiraling faster down the whirlpool towards rock bottom at the call of his Siren.

by Anonymousreply 44July 6, 2025 4:13 AM

Baby it’s a-what he liiiiiikes …or so it seems.

On the surface, acts like a 6 year old prancing about in her Jim jams and big hair bows and what have you. And then OOPSY these slutty little numbers get ‘leaked’ onto the interweb for all to see.

Still doesn’t generate that attention she craves. And if she now thinks being with Barnes is going to get her that, she’s sadly mistaken.

Desperation is wholly unattractive.

by Anonymousreply 45July 6, 2025 5:58 AM

I think R34’s description of Mr Barnes needs to be highlighted and recorded on the DL Walk of Shame :

“Sugar Daddy on a Budget”

Love it. I hope Ms Cleland realises that this Paris trip is on Empire’s ticket… he’s not parting with any Benny Euros for ya, honey 😆

by Anonymousreply 46July 6, 2025 10:22 AM

Can you guys find something interesting to talk about we are bored

by Anonymousreply 47July 6, 2025 3:53 PM

Welcome to the Ben Barnes fandom it is incredibly boring because he is a middle aged man. The only interesting thing about him is the decline of his career because of his secret affairs with attention seeking woman. It has been glorious to watch. Every move he makes it just get worse and worse. Cool you took the time to read these and comment when you could literally find something more interesting.

by Anonymousreply 48July 6, 2025 3:58 PM

Still boring, spice it up a bit. Tell us something you guys haven’t already said 600+ times over the various threads

by Anonymousreply 49July 6, 2025 5:37 PM

Aubrey really has only her cat and the same paintings in different colors to offer as content. A child could make the reels she is making, and no one is buying those paintings. I really see it as her trolling at this point. The delusion there that she thinks she is actually doing something worries me a bit. It worries me for Ben’s mental as well considering this granola human is who he lives with? Does she even follow current events? Is she intelligent or informed at all about anything besides herself? All we have got for six months is her cat and vapid behavior. If they get engaged then Benny boy is more stunted and is more emotionally immature then we ever considered him to be.

by Anonymousreply 50July 6, 2025 5:52 PM

Her follow current events? Highly doubtful. That idiot spends her days watching Netflix, music videos, cartoons, and her cat hacking up hairballs.

by Anonymousreply 51July 6, 2025 6:18 PM

R50 Because literally the only thing Ben will claim publicly is His Cat. He refuses to claim her. The cat is more important to him. He shows more respect for the cat than for her. And since the cat is the only thing he ever talks about, she has to constantly post with and about it. Because that's how manipulation works. Because Skeletor needs to beg Ben's FanFraus for attention and for their dm's, but she'll never let them forget what her privileged position is life. But then again, they already know, that is literally the only reason they're there. This is one of the most exploitative relationships I've seen in a long time. And it's literally all they have for each other. Two grifting peas in a mid-life crisis pod.

by Anonymousreply 52July 6, 2025 6:26 PM

You’ve already said all that. Surely with the amount of time you people spend on this you’ve found something new? Surely. Share it with the class

by Anonymousreply 53July 6, 2025 9:05 PM

Hun, he brought her to Paris on a work trip and she's spent A LOT of time on socials when he was working. Because apparently she has nothing better to do while in The City of Lights? And according to my friend, he literally checked out of the con's party last night and just started texting someone as he stood against the wall. When he was *supposed* to be doing his job and working the party that all these fans paid for. He just dropped the mask and started playing on his phone instead. Like the true unemployed professional that he is.

But Thursday is her birthday, so maybe she'll give you some excitement then.

by Anonymousreply 54July 6, 2025 10:14 PM

If he goes public with her on her birthday, does that put an end to all these threads? Because the sole point of them is him being secretive about her

by Anonymousreply 55July 6, 2025 10:28 PM

I doubt he will do anything for her birthday and these threads have been going on for years so no they won’t end. Unless Ben completely becomes a has been and continues to not book work and disappear completely then sure. We will all forget about him. Aubrey you want to be famous you should be happy someone is talking about you at all. No one is making you read these and comment. The fact he was at a party with fans is such a pathetic way to make money. At 44 that is what he is doing, no wonder he checked out.

by Anonymousreply 56July 6, 2025 10:50 PM

Is he white?

by Anonymousreply 57July 6, 2025 10:58 PM

Ben needs to gift his current notch in his bed post a decent stylist for her birthday. The bitch is walking around Paris (one of the fashion capitals of the world) looking like a frumpy ass mess. That oversized white shirt, exposed bra, and striped pants? Um, no.

by Anonymousreply 58July 6, 2025 11:12 PM

R58 He obviously can't afford one for himself (have you seen the unbelievable absolute shit he wears lately? He wore drawstring pants over his bulging muffin top today at the con!) so how could his unemployed ass possibly gift her one?

by Anonymousreply 59July 6, 2025 11:22 PM

Someone posted a bunch of pics of Aubrey and tagged Ben. He quickly deleted all of them except for two...a blurry screen shot of him giving her a peck on the cheek at Kev's party and "fan" art of her that's already posted on her tagged page. This pair is trolling his fans again! Ben is trying to act like he is claiming her now when she needs to sell her scribble scrabble to his fans and he has a shit tv show to promote. What happened to him removing all evidence of her? Them two are not fooling anybody. Such a disgusting "relationship" they have.

by Anonymousreply 60July 7, 2025 2:48 AM

Ben is hiding so far back in the closet he can't see where the light gets in. Just find the man of your dreams already and live a happy life.

by Anonymousreply 61July 7, 2025 3:07 AM

Wardrobe, R61.

by Anonymousreply 62July 7, 2025 3:52 AM

Ben and Aubrey must have something planned for a week when it’s her birthday and his new show is premiering if he is leaving up those troll pics. He always deletes the tags. This new loser, unemployed, troll that Ben has become is so sad. The one person sympathetic to Aubrey who has been spamming these threads we can see you talking to yourself by the way. Coral is wrong, it’s not that one person who thinks Ben is talking to her, Aubrey loves to troll. She has been doing it for five months. That kissing pic is from April. Why does the band never like any of your posts Aubrey? It’s obvious who she is. Watching his career spiral into nothing, should be studied how bad he has been playing all of this. When he trolled the trolls with JH he disappeared for six months and didn’t work on a set for a year and half. Same pattern, just like her wearing a bow at the London show because we talked about it here. He can’t help himself now can he.

by Anonymousreply 63July 7, 2025 4:17 AM

A happy man in love doesn’t troll the trolls on his social media. It’s obvious how this man is really feeling when he isn’t performing for paying customers. The fact him and Aubrey spent most of the their time together in Paris on Instagram says so much.

by Anonymousreply 64July 7, 2025 4:39 AM

Which political party is Aubrey associated with? A. Democrat B. Republican C. Independent D. Other E. Not a member of a party

by Anonymousreply 65July 7, 2025 8:53 AM

I am laughing hysterically at the fact Aubrey called herself a 'crumb queen'! For those who don't know, it is a slang term that means someone is insignificant. A worthless loser. A nobody. It is also related to the dating word 'breadcrumbing' - someone who gives just enough attention to string someone along without real interest. She finally admitted the truth about what she is and how she treats Ben!

by Anonymousreply 66July 7, 2025 9:36 AM

R66 she is literally giving us fuel

by Anonymousreply 67July 7, 2025 12:11 PM

Fan accounts have started calling them a power couple right before her birthday. Just what she wants, all the attention.

by Anonymousreply 68July 7, 2025 2:23 PM

R68 Power couple? You almost made me spit out my matcha tea with that one. Only in their dreams! Neither of them are making big baller moves. Aubrey lives in irrelevancy and Ben is hanging onto Hollywood by a thread. He won't even hold her hand for a fucking photo! Wouldn't be surprised if she and her friends made those accounts.

by Anonymousreply 69July 7, 2025 3:03 PM

Bless my friend for finding this and sending it my way! And I'm just going to quote her, because I cannot say it any better!

"Have you seen this? WTF is this?!? He looks like an anthropomorphization of yesterday's leftover lumpy oatmeal FFS!!! Can he come off looking any more depressed? He looks like he's gained 15-20 fucking pounds since he's gone to Paris! Is he stress eating? Is he this fucking stressed out because his fucking cunt of a girlfriend is there with him?!? He looked like absolute shit in the selfies from when they first arrived, but it's gone straight downhill cause now he looks like putrefying shit that's been out in the summer sun and humidity! Why the ever loving fuck does he ever bring her anywhere considering the unbelievable wreck he becomes when she's around? And why won't he see it when everyone else in the world can cause the picture evidence is all the fuck over the internet!"

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by Anonymousreply 70July 7, 2025 4:07 PM

I did notice he had a little man boob in that white shirt with the plaid. It was not hot. May their love never find me.

by Anonymousreply 71July 7, 2025 4:45 PM

Time to start posting those Alo gym videos with the trainer again.

by Anonymousreply 72July 7, 2025 5:00 PM

R72 Those were before Skeletor. A time when he was still capable of not looking like incredibly depressed middle aged shit all the time. The world will never get that happy and fit version of him back as long as he remains with her, caught in her manipulations because he's just that desperate.

by Anonymousreply 73July 7, 2025 5:56 PM

Asking the collective, you’ve all been really critical of any vagina bearing human he comes in contact with. So what kind of woman are you all aiming to see him with? Because the standards here are crazy

by Anonymousreply 74July 7, 2025 6:20 PM

A lot of my contempt comes from the fact Ben doesn’t respect these woman enough to be honest to his fan base but then expects their money and their views and time and energy. He has been hiding woman forever, which is wrong. They have a right to know if he is seriously with someone.

With Jules it was her racism and her grifting that really was the problem. She displayed a selfishness and a wanting to take money from fans that Aubrey also displays. It’s distasteful and vapid. The moment Ben was serious about Aubrey if they were open about that like every single other celebrity on the planet and then used their socials to get to know them as a couple in an authentic way, I don’t think there would be as much hate besides the crazies. They use socials as a means of profit not as a means for community. Aubrey is just like jules who is just like every other woman trying to be famous in Hollywood.

A genuine human, an intellectual who cares about things besides herself, is the standard and I don’t think that is a lot to ask for. You can’t ask integrity from people who are always wearing a mask. Ben and all these woman he plays with are just wearing that mask to sell an image to make money. It’s gross. We can always tell when someone is faking being authentic, it never works.

by Anonymousreply 75July 7, 2025 7:41 PM

R75 You’ve hit the nail on the head. They’re being total fakes to the fans but also to each other. Neither of them know the other well at all.

Ben Barnes has let himself become corrupted by Hollyweird. He’s got all the outward trappings of the Tinseltown lifestyle… house, car, various wannabe actresses/models as his dates.

His house nearly got burned down 😬, his fancy car is leased, his women are attention-seeking fakes. This latest one has managed to move herself and her cat in with him and must be feeling very smug.

(He’s a dog man, love - always has been, always will be).

These women are not actually interested in him, they just want any reflected attention or connections they •think• they can get by being with him (yeah, you know it, Cleland!).

The women would never confess to that motive, of course.

And he’d never want to admit that’s why they’re with him. He seems to think Raya is a safe place! How wrong can you be?!

by Anonymousreply 76July 7, 2025 9:32 PM

R74 That kind of woman is out of his league right now. He needs to see a professional therapist to work on the obvious issues he has in order to become a better man. The things he's done in the past and continues to do are well documented, so no need to go into detail here. He needs to accept his flaws, work on himself, and apologize to his fans and the haters (because they have valid reasons to not support him). Once he does that he could be a great partner to a mature woman who is close in age, has her shit together, and doesn't play childish games. It's a mind-set thing. Until then, let the well-deserved bashing continue.

by Anonymousreply 77July 7, 2025 10:14 PM

R76 R77 Never have I agreed so much in my life. If any of that actually came to fruition, I might just actually start respecting him again. Might even come to enjoy him and his projects anew. I once used to till I realized who and what he really was under that charming Mask. If he actually managed to genuinely grow up and get his shit together and stop making the worst possible choices for his life because his ego feels desperately entitled to some fantasy life that keeps him young forever, he *might* actually eventually become the Good Man his lies tell him he already is. But by his own admission, the people he keeps closest do NOT help make him better. They only enable him further down the spiral.

We've all seen this show before. We all know it doesn't end well.

by Anonymousreply 78July 7, 2025 10:38 PM

Is he, you know, a fag?

by Anonymousreply 79July 7, 2025 10:43 PM

R65 The correct answer is (E) not a member of a party. No surprise there, she has bird brain. Bonus fact: her dad is an Independent.

by Anonymousreply 80July 7, 2025 11:56 PM

I wonder what his parents and brother really think about her. What has transpired since that disastrous London show where Ben was in tears a couple days later and made a video eating a croissant in Paris to the song 'Earned It' by The Weeknd (obviously about Remora)? They can't possibly want their son and brother to settle for a lazy girl who has done absolutely nothing with her life besides party and play with a cat all day. Now all of a sudden she's a commission painter only after she met Ben. No, she just needed something to say to try and impress his family.

by Anonymousreply 81July 8, 2025 12:35 AM

R81 "No, the privileged little girl who's never had a real job in her life just needed something to try and help bring in money since Ben remains as unemployed as ever with no prospects knocking, so she turned to grifting off his fans like he does to try and make herself useful and 'worthy' in his family's actually VERY highly accomplished eyes."

There. I fixed it for you. ;)

by Anonymousreply 82July 8, 2025 1:00 AM

Wow, folks here seem very invested in the “girlfriend “ — what gives?

by Anonymousreply 83July 8, 2025 2:13 AM

Benny needs his eyes tested (as well as his head ofc). He’s left two of the ‘aubreyfan’ posts on his grid.

It’s a troll and he hasn’t even clicked 🙄

by Anonymousreply 84July 8, 2025 7:49 AM

R83 We are in awe of his latest choice.

Poor choice, that is.

After Hough, surely he would choose wisely. But no. He has himself another version of her.

Which kinda makes sense, because he is still - still - not over her yet. He has just spent a fortune on an album (and a tour) all about her.

Maybe he thought it would make a difference somehow and she’d want to be with him finally..

by Anonymousreply 85July 8, 2025 7:57 AM

Which one of you insane cunts RUINED my thread about Stephen King's new tv show "The Institute"?

[bold]WELL?[/bold]

by Anonymousreply 86July 8, 2025 8:07 AM

It was the person above you ^

by Anonymousreply 87July 8, 2025 8:10 AM

I really miss when Ben was hot. The punisher I think was the last time I saw him as attractive. After that it has all gone downhill. Billy he had it, then he ruined it. The amount of troll accounts talking to themselves in the comments of that Ben and Aubrey forever page that has one follower is wild. The only ones who care are the trolls. Not even his fans that write in her comments are standing up for her. Crazy Renee her mom of course is back in her comments and so obsessed. Benny constantly posting about the institute because no one could care less about that show or his character is sad as well. After the 13th it will just be pathetic live videos no one watches and him trolling with Aubrey.

by Anonymousreply 88July 8, 2025 4:23 PM

R84 I think you gurls may underestimate just how unintelligent he is. Ben Barnes is shockingly and staggeringly unintelligent. There have been more troll posts throughout the day that he's seen and removed. But he left up the latest fake fan account post even though this one went more explicit in that it's actually trolling him. But he clearly doesn't understand because it's still up in his tags. Because he really is just that fucking stupid and desperate to trust people. It's astounding how childish he is.

by Anonymousreply 89July 8, 2025 5:08 PM

R84 'aubreybenfan_' is definitely a troll account. Maybe he's just looking at the photo and positive message below it, not the username. We all know he's stupid, but now we can add blind to the mix. For someone to create an "adoring fan" account is next level trolling.

by Anonymousreply 90July 8, 2025 5:10 PM

R85 The all time greatest description that was ever shared with me was referring to Skeletor as Temu-JulesHough. Truer words have never been spoken. Hope Benny's enjoying settling for his cheap knockoff that literally no one with a brain has ever wanted to buy.

by Anonymousreply 91July 8, 2025 5:14 PM

R91 What a combo.

On_a_Budget_Sugar_Daddy and AC_aka_Temu_Jules

Buy your AI-created action figures now. Before they’re gone!

by Anonymousreply 92July 8, 2025 9:05 PM

Oh my God this is fucking GOLD! Who did this? LOLOLOLOLOL!

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by Anonymousreply 93July 8, 2025 10:07 PM

The fact that jules is the ideal, when that woman would be nothing without her daddy buying her Broadway roles and her brother getting her on dancing with the stars, and exploiting her relationship with her ex husband for a click bait. That woman has exploited every relationship, including the situation-ship with Ben. She is his dream girl, that is actually wild. No wonder he is with Aubrey who looks and acts like she is 15. It’s been five years and he is still singing songs about jules, that is his musical legacy. Julianne Hough his fuck buddy he thought was true love.

by Anonymousreply 94July 8, 2025 11:21 PM

The comparison post is untagged now! He’s having to keep checking his tags… it’s just like the ‘good old days’ of the Hough Era.

He just doesn’t learn. He let Cleland drop her ‘trying to be arty’ set of photos on DAY 1 of the convention. She couldn’t wait until it was over? She might’ve cost him a few on-the-day purchases!

And it also stoked up the trolls. They were just waiting for an excuse.

You’re supposed to be a ‘private’ person, Barnes. So keep your little bitch on a tighter leash.

by Anonymousreply 95July 9, 2025 12:06 AM

He took her to Wimbledon. Coral has pics. She can’t buy new clothes apparently. Her birthday gift.

by Anonymousreply 96July 9, 2025 7:25 PM

Also have no idea where that picture came from because no one cares Ben took her, there is nothing online I can find about him even being there.

by Anonymousreply 97July 9, 2025 7:44 PM

Anthony Gordon did wear the exact outfit Ben is wearing 5 days ago to Wimbledon so he can’t even be original. Basic being basic

by Anonymousreply 98July 9, 2025 7:48 PM

I never want to hear he doesn’t read these fucking threads. Right after I said he was there at Wimbledon and coral has it he posts about it and Aubrey is not highlighted. Like she wasn’t even there.

by Anonymousreply 99July 9, 2025 8:21 PM

R97 The source was a random instagram account called Broken Rackets Tennis Lifestyle (BBF quoted this). The photo was on their stories and Barnes was tagged on it.

Cleland wasn’t named or tagged.

by Anonymousreply 100July 9, 2025 8:42 PM

I meant Ben didn’t highlight her in his post, but sure she was not highlighted anywhere I see. I mean she is literally a no name with no job and has just been following him around since September of last year. Why would she be.

by Anonymousreply 101July 9, 2025 9:00 PM

Wait so he was tagged in the pic with Aubrey and before his post about his little outfit he untagged himself? And her birthday is tomorrow when she went to Paris for his thing and went to London for his brand deal. Does he like her because she just follows him around? Does he even like her at all?

by Anonymousreply 102July 9, 2025 9:49 PM

R102 The photo was on ‘brokenrackets’ stories with a bb tag, but that doesn’t show on his tag grid. He untagged some troll posts but no one’s reposted the couple photo yet!

Does he even like her? Well, she has her uses. But look where she’s been recently so it’s quid pro quo

by Anonymousreply 103July 9, 2025 11:04 PM

So they did wind up in London. Cal, their roommate, headed there practically a week before the Paris con. Yet Skeletor and Benny, whose family lives there, went straight to Paris a day before? Is that not strange? Especially after he went to London a week early, *without* Skeletor, for The Institute premiere a month ago. Which is what he always does. But this time, when Skeletor *was* with him, he didn't go and stay in London beforehand. Makes you wonder, no? London is just a short train ride from Paris afterall.

But yes indeed, Skeletor was with him at Wimbledon today, even though she did not at all look like she was enjoying the time. Unlike Ben, who looked like today's game was the first time he'd experienced something he loved since his touring days. He looked completely engrossed by the match and it's the first time I've seen him genuinely happy since February. Skeletor could have gotten up and left and Ben would not have noticed. Which makes sense considering he once again denied her existence to the world when he posted about attending today. Posted all the pics, *except* for the one that included her. They've been together, and she's been plainly leeching off of his fame and contacts for an entire year now, everyone already knows about her, but Benny *still* refuses to acknowledge that she even exists. He posted all about his dad and his birthday at Wimbledon last year, but for Skeletor and her birthday tomorrow? Ben denies her existence in his life. Exactly as she deserves.

Skeletor however, did subtly let everyone know she was there, because the little attention Whore literally cannot help herself. She had stopped liking any of his posts after early June. All of his music posts that he's so proud of? Nope, never likes those anymore. Premiering the trailer and stills from his new show (and only employment) that's about to start? Nope, she only ever eventually came back around to double tap the most recent post, she denied it originally. But then again, she only came around to like it *after* he took her to the LA premiere. Just like she only finally hid the nasty comments about Ben in her own art post weeks later, *after* he took her to the premiere. No sirs, the only two posts of his that she's immediately liked in a month were the LA premiere, and today's Wimbledon outing. Because those were the only two posts where she was involved, and she wants EVERYONE to know it. As per usual, she NEEDS to show herself off, but Ben refuses to let her, so she tells him to fuck off with this move instead. But all it does is prove that she obviously doesn't care at all about his careers anymore, be it acting or his music. She only cares about him when it includes her. She only likes when she's getting something out of it. Because she is absolutely nothing more than an assiduously manipulative Cunt.

by Anonymousreply 104July 9, 2025 11:19 PM

Agree with coral that for Benny to say he is so honest about sharing his life and still be hiding Aubrey when we all know they have been together for so long now does make it seem like something is wrong. All I can think of he does this because there another woman whose feelings obviously come before his relationship. Once again just looking at his socials Aubrey does not exist at all. The hate has been happening so what at the point. He should have posted that very professional pic of them together at Wimbledon, the constant hiding her fuels the trolls and it doesn’t make sense.

by Anonymousreply 105July 9, 2025 11:19 PM

OMG, the Sloan blind from the lovely Coral! Will Ben hide Aubrey in an underground bunker now?

by Anonymousreply 106July 10, 2025 12:33 AM

What’s “tag grid”, precious? What’s “tag grid”?

by Anonymousreply 107July 10, 2025 12:36 AM

Happy birthday to the self-proclaimed 'crumb queen'! Her pageant mom should be so proud. Oh goody, I bet Aubrey can't wait for what Ben has planned for her. Like another stay at a place where j. ho's perfume is still lingering on the bedsheets. The handwritten Dr. Suess-style love letter about how lucky he is to have her. The off-key serenade while he badly plays at the piano. A gift of jewelry, because obviously that is standard for him. And of course, getting all the hugs and kisses she desires, indoors of course, since that is the only time he will touch her. Enjoy being a basic bitch at 32.

by Anonymousreply 108July 10, 2025 8:19 AM

R108 You speak the truth - I was laughing as I was reading through. The whole thing is sad, amusing to watch… and completely fake. It’s the LA influence.

R105 Yes, they’ve been called out a few times now very convincingly… rebound, placeholder, whatever. That’s her.

by Anonymousreply 109July 10, 2025 9:18 AM

So he hasn’t posted anything yet for her birthday, shocker, but he did untag the troll posts that popped up today so he has been on socials. He can’t even spend her birthday not on his phone on socials.

by Anonymousreply 110July 10, 2025 4:05 PM

Weird how Aubrey let us know she was in London for the holidays with him, in London for his Valentine’s Day show, in Paris for his convention, and the pic leaked of them at Wimbledon so she didn’t need to tell us she was there. Now on her birthday, silence. Just weird.

by Anonymousreply 111July 10, 2025 7:08 PM

R111 She’ll find a way.

by Anonymousreply 112July 10, 2025 9:59 PM

His clock is ticking…soon his uterus is gonna say “game’s over.”

by Anonymousreply 113July 11, 2025 1:52 AM

R113 Yeah, he totally saw her in that Glen Powell photo and used the excuse of needing his house redecorated to get to know her. Then rushed into a relationship so he can have a baby and catch up with his brother in life. She's only compliant because she needs a man to take care of her. They're both so immature and falling deeper into that dark abyss.

by Anonymousreply 114July 11, 2025 9:53 AM

Funny she lied and said she's an interior designer, but when he discovered she's not he didn't care. Desperate!

by Anonymousreply 115July 11, 2025 10:19 AM

He did this exact thing with Peyton for the Miami brand trip. He took Peyton to that and we only knew she was there because she was in the back of some random videos. Ben never acknowledged her being there and posted solo pics. Here he is again, without that one picture we would never know Aubrey went to Wimbledon which was a brand trip for him. Garfield showed PDA with Monica, Ben can’t seem to even touch Aubrey except drunk at Kevin’s birthday. If Aubrey really thinks she is special, he is doing what he has always done with the woman he hides. Even Aubrey’s special day and he can’t even be proud that it’s her day. If it’s not about him and his money, he doesn’t even bother.

by Anonymousreply 116July 11, 2025 1:16 PM

Could Aubrey look any more sickly in the Deuxmoi post? The mid life crisis!!! The last pic! How much did he pay Deuxmoi to post this?!! Ridiculous, all of it. She has that ugly jacket.

by Anonymousreply 117July 11, 2025 4:53 PM

R117 They both look like shit because they are pieces of shit. Lmao at this these photos.

by Anonymousreply 118July 11, 2025 5:00 PM

Her birthday gift right before they both fall into obscurity because literally he is not that famous and she is unremarkable.

by Anonymousreply 119July 11, 2025 5:04 PM

JH really did a number in him. He is obviously doing this to prove to JH he isn’t alone. This is exactly what Jules does all the time, calls backgrid and has Deuxmoi do a sighting of her.

by Anonymousreply 120July 11, 2025 5:11 PM

The comments, all 20 of them! 🤣 he really thinks he is like a celebrity and not a D list loser.

by Anonymousreply 121July 11, 2025 5:27 PM

The last pic he looks like a troll, literally paying to troll the trolls. Deuxmoi has Aubrey’s full name which shows he paid for that post that literally makes him look bad. He is trying so hard and no one is going to watch that show, no one is watching his live videos, this man is so delusional.

by Anonymousreply 122July 11, 2025 5:51 PM

I know why he did this, jules is with brooks and his pregnant wife or fiancé right now. Ben is trolling jules. He will never get over that she cheated with him, then dumped him and went back to brooks and then after the divorce she didn’t want him.

by Anonymousreply 123July 11, 2025 6:04 PM

The story of brooks with the song humble by kendrick. “Bitch sit down” the shade!!! Jules crazy ass I never thought, this anti fandom fucking thanks you girl.

by Anonymousreply 124July 11, 2025 6:07 PM

The DM caption has her name in it. First EVER mention. She or her bestie arranged this! Muzzle back on after Paris, this is her next move.

by Anonymousreply 125July 11, 2025 8:09 PM

I think Ben and his people arranged it for press for the shows release on the 13th. Even though all the comments are hating. You have to pay Deuxmoi for her to post you. This is Ben’s birthday gift to her. They both look horrible, that girl needs some nutrients. She does not look well.

by Anonymousreply 126July 11, 2025 8:49 PM

Troll fan account tagged the Deuxmoi pics and within a half an hour he untagged them. Not sure why he would do that though. If this was her move, Benny boy is gonna hate that.

by Anonymousreply 127July 11, 2025 8:51 PM

Photos are on Just Jared too.

by Anonymousreply 128July 11, 2025 8:58 PM

R112 You were so right.

by Anonymousreply 129July 11, 2025 9:08 PM

Ben has a contact at just Jared. Funny they came out hours after Deuxmoi post with both their names hashtagged.

by Anonymousreply 130July 11, 2025 9:09 PM

Just Jared stories posted jules with brooks first and then Ben. I knew jules had something to do with this.

by Anonymousreply 131July 11, 2025 9:12 PM

At least in the just Jared article she looks awful.

by Anonymousreply 132July 11, 2025 9:16 PM

R129 Yes indeedy! I knew she would. It’s like deja vu with the Hough-type move.

R126 other way round, DM pays backgrid.

by Anonymousreply 133July 11, 2025 9:16 PM

That whole article makes it seem like Aubrey actually has a job. We all did say she was using Ben to further herself and it talks about her paintings and how Ben likes them and comments. This has been planned for a while. She got exactly what she wanted, a higher profile.

by Anonymousreply 134July 11, 2025 9:20 PM

Their little stunt will carry a heavy backlash and it will not be good, especially for Aubrey when people discover the truth about her. She is not a singer, not an artist, not an actress. Not anything but a jobless leech. Ben is no better. That Just Jared article is hilarious. 😂

by Anonymousreply 135July 11, 2025 9:38 PM

[quote] I think Ben and his people arranged it

Ben has people?

by Anonymousreply 136July 11, 2025 9:41 PM

Aaron did a post begging people to watch the music videos and the live performances. Benny boy is getting so desperate. It’s so obvious, he just cannot handle how far he has fallen off since those paparazzi walks in 2020 with Jules. 11:11 video on YouTube three years ago had over a million views, now he is lucky to 10,000. I have to say watching his career go from westworld top of the game, to now this has been such a glorious slow burn. All because he is just so stupid and narcissistic.

by Anonymousreply 137July 11, 2025 10:02 PM

Desperation also means he probably hasn’t lined up any acting jobs for the rest of the year. Watch that deluxe album coming out next week just to give him something to do.

by Anonymousreply 138July 11, 2025 10:06 PM

They just want privacy so their relationship can flourish which is why Aubrey is constantly posting when she is with him for big events where all his fans are and calling the paparazzi on himself on her birthday and bringing her to his premiere for his tv show. They just want to be private you guys! Duh! How dare we be disrespectful of their need to be so private and not in the public eye at all!

by Anonymousreply 139July 11, 2025 11:46 PM

BBF has more pics. The fact they did a whole sidewalk photoshoot with different angles. Haha! Two words: completely contrived.

by Anonymousreply 140July 12, 2025 12:46 AM

Troll tagged him hours ago in more pics and he just untagged them, what is it 2am now in London. Benny boy can’t sleep, out drinking and checking his tags? How dare people tag him in pics he clearly wants everyone to see considering they were sent to Deuxmoi and JustJared. Or did cleland do that?

by Anonymousreply 141July 12, 2025 1:08 AM

I see I missed some utterly hilarious bullshit today! Plenty has already been very astutely said, but I just have to add on a bit. Benny called Backgrid. As a birthday present to The Replacement named Skeletor, he called Jules Hough's favorite people in the world to introduce his girlfriend with literally the most ridiculous lies I've ever, ever heard. Outside of leaking her nudes for everyone on the internet to see, Skeletor is not known for literally anything. She is not known for being an actress, because she's literally never had anything more than remarkably forgettable bit parts or background scenery. She is not known for being a singer, she merely got rejected by American Idol THREE separate times. Benny himself just called her A Local Talent when she sang with him once on tour. She is not an artist, she rolls cheap hobby store canvas in the mud of her backyard and calls it Abstract Art as she begs Benny's FanFraus to DM her with their wallets open. In reality, not the fanfiction Benny paid for, she is utterly worthless.

But obviously Skeletor isn't happy enough with their failing transactional "relationship." Benny himself clearly isn't worth the price of admission, it's obviously only his fame and contacts that she wants, because she is a vicious little cunt. I mean, just look at her in all these pictures. She looks like she has one foot in the grave. She's actually twelve years younger than he is, but here she looks twelve years older. Maybe being in any sort of "relationship" with Ben Barnes ages you in dog years? Either that, or it's true what they say. When you're that evil and dark and selfish on the inside, it eventually makes it's way to your outside as a warning to everyone who takes one look at your sickly visage to stay far, FAR away. And Benny took the diseased walking picture from his attic out for pap walk exposure as a literal birthday present to us, so the whole of the internet could see just how decrepit dating Ben Barnes leaves you. The most toxic relationship I've ever seen.

And just to make Ben jealous, I pride myself with seeking out actually genuinely good women to have as my friends. And thankfully, as only a Good Woman can, one pointed out the best part of Ben's birthday present to his cunt girlfriend. Not only does Benny look like he's walking his dog as she constantly walks behind him like the good submissive TradWife she desperately wants to be, but he has his *phone* in his hand. He called the paps to introduce his girlfriend to the internet, but he can't even show her the barest, slightest bit of respect by holding her hand On. Her. Birthday. He would rather hold his phone than his girlfriend's hand as he introduces her as her birthday present. I will repeat. This is the most toxic "relationship" I have ever seen. Skeletor is an undeniable cunt, but Ben Barnes is NOT anything close to a good man. Period.

by Anonymousreply 142July 12, 2025 5:22 AM

R141 Cleland and one of her little besties did that. Definitely. This is like deja vu 2022. This is EXACTLY what Hough did. Cleland learnt from an expert in media manipulation. Not quite at her level but getting there.

Benny says No Pix. The girlies call Backgrid & various media outlets, mostly obscure but Just Jared picked it up, unaided or otherwise.

Benny: realises he’s gone Back to the Past. He doesn’t get papped anywhere… unless there’s a disgruntled female in the mix.

Ask yourself, Benny: how did the pap know where you were? Who wrote those GLOWING descriptions of Cleland?

Why do those articles all sound like the posts her friends made at your Portland show?! You’re very much a bit player in them, same as in these articles. Why would that be? Why do you always surround yourself with these blatant attention seekers?

by Anonymousreply 143July 12, 2025 7:46 AM

The newsfliplive post he is tagged in with the description calling Aubrey an American idol star with roles on HBO max shows and how there was all this speculation if they were together really is making me think Aubrey did this. The description makes it like she actually has a career when does she even have representation? None of it talks about Ben or his new show. If he did this as her like debutant style of introducing this woman to society, why wouldn’t he plug his show that comes out soon. Most of the comments are hate. Most people have no idea who he is. Ben untags everything related to this. Idk i can’t imagine him not doing all of this, but if this is all her the mean girl fame whore is far worse than we thought. This is diabolical behavior, this is baby trapping, take all your money, ruin your life behavior. Unhinged. If he let her move in, she feels like she has power now. Ben is just running from it.

by Anonymousreply 144July 12, 2025 12:15 PM

If he did this to push his music well let’s see how that goes. Without this the numbers were super low, falling with each new release, the deluxe with the same music is coming and let’s see. I doubt the numbers will get better. At the end of the year when these two are booked and busy then we can say oh that worked. Just kidding this all was a shit show, Coral I don’t feel bad for trad wife she is making all these choices and I don’t like her. She is fake and ugly inside and out. You know who I like and respect peyton. Tamsin clearly was the best, that’s why she left Ben for the better option immediately he didn’t deserve her at all. Peyton I feel bad for spending years trying to get Peter Pan Ben to have an adult relationship.

by Anonymousreply 145July 12, 2025 12:30 PM

Well well! NOW we know why she arranged that papwalk yesterday.

She has just posted a story about being in a film.. The Prince.

So it all fits! She decides to do a hard launch of the BB ‘relationship’ - calls the paps, feeds them all that ‘fabulous Aubrey Cleland’ BS bio and now this pops up.

It’s not just amusing, it’s hilarious! The muzzle is off with her agenda now fully visible.

Good luck Ben Barnes… your little bitch has just bitten back. What you gonna do about it?! I’m thinking some music posts, hmm?

by Anonymousreply 146July 12, 2025 12:33 PM

Just like no one is going to see his show, no one is going to see that. Mamet has gone full MAGA now and his reputation is shit. Far from the celebrated writer of the past, he is deep in that Republican bullshit. She is a trad wife so I guess makes sense. I think Ben and Aubrey live in fantasy land, like anyone besides the few here and on tumblr are checking for her.

by Anonymousreply 147July 12, 2025 12:39 PM

R145 I don't feel bad for Aubrey either. That skank has been a troll since the beginning. They are in it together and their calculated moves are not working because they are bottom feeders. 🤡🤡

by Anonymousreply 148July 12, 2025 12:39 PM

Hey bens fans who were going so hard for Aubrey in the comments, now is your time. Share her win, buy her paintings, get her followers which is what she wants. Since you love to fight how these two are just being put upon and are totally not orchestrating all of this, make her famous. That is your role by the way, Ben views you as being only good for that. Boost his ego and image in this industry. Let’s go! 2 million totally not bought followers. Where is his fan base? She doesn’t want privacy when she is talking about her projects and her paintings. Go for it. We are waiting.

by Anonymousreply 149July 12, 2025 1:07 PM

If Ben is trying to emulate Andrew Garfield and Monica, a reminder Andrew and Monica are oscar nominees and have real brand deals with Dior and the like. Also they are both starring in a movie together that is up and coming. So this trying to be Hozier, trying to be Andrew, it is really sad.

by Anonymousreply 150July 12, 2025 1:15 PM

That girl wasted no time lol her next move will be making her insta FULLY public again and allowing tags.

by Anonymousreply 151July 12, 2025 1:18 PM

Is Ben dating a Republican black Barbie? Is Aubrey the next candance owens? He understands the entertainment industry doesn’t like trump. He should just stay in London and work there at this point if his gf is maga adjacent. He is an immigrant after all, a foreigner.

by Anonymousreply 152July 12, 2025 3:33 PM

Friend found this overnight in his tags. Yes. Yes it is indeed perfection.

They do say a picture is worth a thousand words.

Does Benny even *like* this girl at all? Because he very obviously doesn't love her.

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by Anonymousreply 153July 12, 2025 4:21 PM

The one thing that is different from JH 2022 is Jules called him a close friend to people magazine and every other outlet.

They were just longtime friends, that was her narrative. When we know Ben wanted after two years of on and off, her not ready to be his per his lyrics (when she had a model bf for a year) and then him after a break up apparently (mystery woman) flying to NY after the wrap of shadow and bone and seeing her Broadway show and staying with her at that townhouse that she would say they were a couple. Then they would do the multiple paparazzi walks they set up throughout NY. Tip off Deuxmoi that they were so in love with sightings. She went with he is my friend and right after he left NY she started dating a doctor and called the paparazzi to catch them on Valentine’s Day.

Yes this is jules model for media, six months in do a walk for the press, break up, try and sell you something worthless, go to some random event, find a new person, do it all over again. Does this model work for Ben? No, but he is trying.

by Anonymousreply 154July 12, 2025 4:23 PM

Him looking miserable and barely being mentioned except as a prop of support for Aubrey makes me think he didn’t set this up. She did. He knows how to play to the cameras by now. Jules taught him that. He has been doing set up walks for years now even before jules.

by Anonymousreply 155July 12, 2025 4:33 PM

Do hashtags even work anymore as a way to gain followers? Is that just an extremely old and uncool tactic Aubrey and Ben haven’t got the memo about that no is doing that anymore. #scifi like really? So lame

by Anonymousreply 156July 12, 2025 4:36 PM

Barbie is an overstatement when describing her. Barbie has it all. The career, the gorgeous looks, etc. Aubrey has nothing but her cat.

by Anonymousreply 157July 12, 2025 5:16 PM

And I just found this being shared amongst his fans. A perfect story in three parts. Because that pathetically glowing write up they paid for is complete bullshit. His fans will never say things like this publicly in his comments, but privately this is what they wind up sharing with each other. They'll leave a heart comment on his post because they're scared (so I won't out anyone here), but this is how they really feel about Skeletor. Everyone can see right through this MeanGirl to the absolute cunt that is actually inside.

No wonder his follower and engagement numbers have been plummeting all year. Because this is how his fanbase really feels about her AND him.

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by Anonymousreply 158July 12, 2025 5:17 PM

This is my favorite photo. “Why you gotta be so rude” per jules story song. 🫵

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by Anonymousreply 159July 12, 2025 5:34 PM

R159 Look at how old and sickly she looks. There are children in Gaza that look healthier than she does. She looks absolutely disgusting. This really is what dating Ben Barnes does to girls. It's staggering.

by Anonymousreply 160July 12, 2025 5:42 PM

Ben wears makeup and should have told her she needed to blend that contour better. She wears the hair up because it is so stringy probably because she is underweight. Watch she’ll get pregnant by the holidays, Ben will probably be fat by then considering he doesn’t have an acting career anymore and begs for attention on socials.

You know the maga crowd doesn’t acknowledge the death of those kids in gaza, those kids are terrorists after all. She is a rising movie star, why would she be bothered to take time away from posting and making an account about her cat to acknowledge a full genocide, that is crazy talk.

by Anonymousreply 161July 12, 2025 5:52 PM

He's been hiding his girlies for decades and when he finally does the staged "this is my girlfriend reveal" it flops just like his shitty music and tour. At least he's consistent.

by Anonymousreply 162July 12, 2025 5:53 PM

Given her initials, can we legally change her name to Attention Cunt

by Anonymousreply 163July 12, 2025 8:15 PM

Did anyone get the deleted 2 second story she posted? It looked like Ben’s hand holding hers!!!! But it flashed for a tiny second and then said story unavailable

by Anonymousreply 164July 12, 2025 8:18 PM

NYC 2022 in the park … BB spots the pap, takes off like a startled giraffe. Same thing this time. Girlie can hardly keep up with him. So amusing.

by Anonymousreply 165July 12, 2025 8:51 PM

Just caught up on some of Coral's blog. "Creative writing degree and very bad sales pitch" is going to go on Benny's tombstone! LOL!

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by Anonymousreply 166July 12, 2025 11:16 PM

And one more piece de resistance from the blog. I will repeat, does Benny even like Skeletor at ALL, because he definitely doesn't love her. It's all just one big LIE that he's continuing to desperately try to convince himself of. It's so entertaining to watch him and her fail.

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by Anonymousreply 167July 12, 2025 11:20 PM

Be careful because we know they read these because otherwise where has the months of speculation been happening? Only here and that blog. She did delete the hand holding story today, so sure we are going to get them sucking face and him touching her ass but just enough so the Jesus fans don’t attack. Idk knowing Ms. cleland wouldn’t put it past her to do a sex tape at this point, since the painter trad wife Nara thing isn’t really working out that great. Bens fans where are you in your support for Mrs. Ben Barnes? Her numbers haven’t gone up.

by Anonymousreply 168July 12, 2025 11:35 PM

R168 Her numbers haven't gone up and his are still plummeting because of what I said in R158. His fans actually hate her in real life and in private, and they're disengaging from him more and more. The numbers prove it. And he has a show premiering *tomorrow* for the ONE and only very low budget piece of employment he's had in THREE. YEARS. In a time when he *needs* increased engagement if he doesn't want to go ten years next time without a new job, he pulls this fucking backgrid stunt. And it's backfiring before our eyes. He's failing faster and faster.

Plus how do you know she doesn't already have a sex tape back from the days when she leaked her nudes online? It's obviously not above the Attention Whore.

by Anonymousreply 169July 13, 2025 12:05 AM

And originally came here because a friend found this review. Oh fuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuucccckkkkkkkk Benny's never working again LOL!!!!! He already obviously can't get cast in anything good and now he's self sabotaging whatever he has left sinking so very low that he's doing pap walks with the girlfriend all his fans hate.

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by Anonymousreply 170July 13, 2025 12:12 AM

R169 good, he needs humbling. I do hope she baby traps him and he is stuck with her and her family for the rest of his life. You share children, you are together forever. This man is 44 next month and still doesn’t get this game, let him learn. He should have got his money way up before all this karma hit him. what goes around comes back around.

by Anonymousreply 171July 13, 2025 12:14 AM

The start of that review calls it bland soup and disappointing. Bens entire part drags the show and it feels cheap. This is before it is even out this review comes in. Amazing!

Ben Barnes is the lead because it is so low budget! This literally made my day! Aubrey new project is MAGA. It just gets better and better.

by Anonymousreply 172July 13, 2025 12:19 AM

Will Ben be nominated for a Latin Grammy?

by Anonymousreply 173July 13, 2025 12:25 AM

This is a different review coral posted just so the trolls have them all in one place if you want to post them tomorrow for the big premiere day. Especially if Aubrey posts stories of them touching. This one says Bens has charisma but isn’t an inherently interesting actor. Chefs kiss!

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by Anonymousreply 174July 13, 2025 12:42 AM

This face should be on all the reviews, just this

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by Anonymousreply 175July 13, 2025 12:44 AM

R174 R175 LMAO! Too fucking funny!

by Anonymousreply 176July 13, 2025 1:06 AM

Someone’s getting braver… commenting on his Institute post from yesterday. Threw a grenade and walked away, no wonder she’s smirking! Watch out for shrapnel, girlie.

by Anonymousreply 177July 13, 2025 12:44 PM

People don’t love it when a woman makes her bf her entire personality? 4 likes on her comment, Ben of course included, the fans aren’t showing up and out. When will it hit them this all made them look stupid and he just alienated his paying customers? In six months when he still is not working? We know this show which every review says he is the worst part isn’t helping his status or pocketbook, of course add the mediocre woman on top of it.

by Anonymousreply 178July 13, 2025 12:54 PM

MGM+ did a post 17 hours ago saying two episode premiere tomorrow and it literally has 286 likes and 13 comments. If anyone needs an indicator that no one is going to watch this, there you have it.

by Anonymousreply 179July 13, 2025 1:38 PM

Why all the interest in this closeted homosexual?

by Anonymousreply 180July 13, 2025 2:58 PM

We understand that Aubrey spammed those threads because she had that paparazzi walk all set up. We get that now. She thought that would stop this, so then when their names were googled this wouldn’t be one of the things that pops up. Coral you were wrong, you are wrong they don’t read these, but keep riding for Aubrey.

by Anonymousreply 181July 13, 2025 6:13 PM

Yeah fuck you Coral lmao

by Anonymousreply 182July 13, 2025 10:56 PM

Can someone tell Nadya Barnes the crackhead to shut the fuck up lol why is it so delusional

by Anonymousreply 183July 13, 2025 11:03 PM

Are we sure this dude isn’t one of us? The beards… I mean the “women” look more and more masculine. Or it is it the overly thin bodies. Cheers to lavender times for the two.

by Anonymousreply 184July 13, 2025 11:58 PM

That is called severe mental illness, she obviously needs help. Aubrey and Ben are delusional enough, they think they are celebrities at this point.

by Anonymousreply 185July 14, 2025 12:00 AM

182 exactly 183 the Barnes fandom could make a mental facility rich

by Anonymousreply 186July 14, 2025 12:13 AM

I wonder if this dumb dumb drop out thinks she has a prize. Freaking grifter with those paintings. My dog’s diarrhea was more inspired than her art. And who sells paintings in DM’s on IG? And what black woman running around with her hair all messed up just like her goofy Mom? Both aren’t white. Ladies you need to embrace the real you because being with a white man will never make you so. And Coral this was planned since they left LA and packed that horrible pimp jacket from Wimbledon last year that doesn’t go with anything but those equally horrible pants. So definetly yes f^ck you Coral. She isn’t lovely. And both of them in London looked like they could use a good scrubbing. Fangirls my adult advice is to run away from these two psychos and don’t give them any more of your monies.

by Anonymousreply 187July 14, 2025 12:44 AM

[quote] Ladies you need to embrace the real you because being with a white man

?

by Anonymousreply 188July 14, 2025 12:46 AM

[188] there are trying to erase their blackness. Aubrey over straightening and coloring her hair to the point she is losing it now. Both never acknowledge their blackness.

by Anonymousreply 189July 14, 2025 12:49 AM

I think you misunderstood the question mark, R189.

by Anonymousreply 190July 14, 2025 1:01 AM

[189] sorry dear.

by Anonymousreply 191July 14, 2025 1:26 AM

A MAGA movie where she has 100th billing is just laughable I can’t wait for the liberals to pick that one apart. She boost her connection to Nic Cage but Nic Cage will suck a d for a check nowadays. Bad art that her shifty equally grifting boyfriend co-signs on. And why did they think that little stunt would make them relevant .? Nobody cares about your delusional D list boyfriend who both of you think is wrongly an A lister. Do us a favor and exit from our threads. Unlike those fangirls who are pissed off, we know how to scratch deep.

by Anonymousreply 192July 14, 2025 2:07 AM

According to someone Let’s remind everyone that the Sloan piece came out just before they were heading to Europe. We have a funny feeling crumb Queen and her crew leaked the first part of the blind but didn’t know Sloan and others would dig even deeper and dig up that part about Bella Hadid. This blew up in their faces really bad. Reviews are mixed for this series and slices of humble pie are being served in abundance. So beautiful I might cry.

by Anonymousreply 193July 14, 2025 3:00 AM

Yeah agreed eat shit Coral

But someone seriously put Nadya on a leash because what the fuck

by Anonymousreply 194July 14, 2025 3:28 AM

Someone needs to put a muzzle on Nadya stat. Plus she is stealing from the trolls. It always the insane ones who ruin it for everyone else. What actual fuck is wrong with her?

by Anonymousreply 195July 14, 2025 5:51 AM

^ yeah what this person said

by Anonymousreply 196July 14, 2025 9:00 AM

That is so true R189! She absolutely leans towards one part of herself over the other. Also just look at her friends and who she dates. There is a commonality.

by Anonymousreply 197July 14, 2025 9:50 AM

Fan girls. Save your money and spend it on someone else worthwhile. Someone who is not a grifter like his girlfriends are. Someone who got desperate and called the paps on himself. You owe this to yourselves. Do you boos. Like the man sang “I wish for you to be happy. I wish for you to be free.”

by Anonymousreply 198July 14, 2025 1:19 PM

To the fans sending Coral screenshots of these threads because she clearly never has anything new to say on her shit blog, did you ever think just because you block one account doesn’t mean we can’t have multiple. How do you know we aren’t all the same person? Coral did nothing with that good morning post. Name me if you are so fucking smart? Idiots. Stupidity mixed with mental illness, Ben Barnes has the best fanbase. He did con you all for a decade into buying his shit. Aubrey is now doing it as well, she is not innocent, we all know that will be proven correct.

by Anonymousreply 199July 14, 2025 1:22 PM

That time when Benny rewatched Dirty Dancing for her birthday to hear the line "Nobody puts Baby in a corner" and confusedly thought to himself,

"Hold my beer. . . ."

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by Anonymousreply 200July 14, 2025 3:44 PM

Silence, yep that’s what I thought.

Funny that Ben didn’t comprehend that him going public with Aubrey was the goal, we all knew his fans were going to leave with this confirmation. The views speak for themselves, with every bread crumb Aubrey would leave, the views would decrease. That show hasn’t even made a dent, all the reviews call it boring. Hope his cell phone commercial contract didn’t end. They took the bait and call it a win.

by Anonymousreply 201July 14, 2025 7:29 PM

Just read more of Coral given the posts here and unfortunately I think she's a victim of her own bias against Ben. She literally blindly hates him and sees him as the villain and therefore everyone in his orbit as innocent victims of him. And that includes Skeletor. She acknowledges that he directly grifts off his fans, but then denies that that is exactly what Skeletor has newly started doing as well by begging his most desperate Fanfraus for money for her cheap hobby store "artwork" through DMs.Coral claims she doesn't pay attention to him, only knows what her muffins tell her, so maybe she's missed all the MeanGirl trolling that Skeletor has been doing to his fans from the beginning.

The infamous Social Media Manager for daddy's company knows how her followers increased after the original Nevermind video, and she can see that most of those all have Ben's picture as their profile. She knows most of her new engagement is Ben's fans. And so she never posts except when she's with him. Except to show off her privilege of being with him. Famously staring daggers at the fan who gave him a rose at the London concert. Peacocking and posing for pictures up on her privileged balcony there, and then posting her famous drunken Fuck You Kiss to the fans afterwards. Posting that she got a haircut while driving Ben's easily recognizable car when she could have posted from literally anywhere else. Making sure to feature herself painting the new artwork hanging on Ben's wall that he always uses for video interviews. Knowing full well that the cat story leaked, and so featuring Simba in every new post she's made since. There are multiple new private accounts that also feature Simba created just last month that she made sure everyone could find. One even includes Simba on Ben's now famous rug just to rub it in that she's moved in with him.

by Anonymousreply 202July 14, 2025 9:27 PM

R202 And the piece de resistance, her new security blanket that she takes everywhere, Ben's infamous Wimbledon 2024 Boss suit jacket. Maybe it's because Ben Physical Touch Is My Love Language Barnes refuses to ever touch her in public so his jacket is the best she's going to get. Or maybe, just maybe, it's because she KNOWS full well just how infamous and recognizable it is to Ben's fans, and so that's why she wears it when she knows she's going to be photographed. To show off her privilege *again*. First was the LA premiere where clearly the wannabe model didn't have her own clothes she could have worn, she just HAD to wear Ben's jacket for that professionally photographed night. And now we have her birthday paparazzi pictures, that were so contrived, staged and desperately glowing that she obviously knew they were coming. You can look it up for yourselves, but it was 90 degrees in London that day. Yet she again just HAD to have Ben's infamous suit jacket on display. Where the artist knew how to match her shoes to her dress, but left his jacket horribly clashing in the breeze. But then, the jacket wasn't actually part of the outfit, it was part of her newest passive aggressive flex for the fans. Because she KNEW her picture would be broadcast that day and everyone would see her using it once again.

Because she NEEDS to show off her privilege, ***ESPECIALLY*** to Ben's fans. She NEEDS to rub it in their faces. She NEEDS to make them jealous. She NEEDS to cause them pain. She NEEDS to bully them into their place. MeanGirl Skeletor is an ugly BULLY at heart. And I've no doubt that she gives Ben all the doe-eyed excuses and explanations about why she oh so innocently pulls all these stunts, just like any good manipulator would. Then she flashes him that oh so loving smile he's literally desperate for and he acquiesces. He condones her blatantly bullying his fans. Hurting them to feel superior. All the while assiduously using him for increased exposure. And *that's* why all his fans privately hate her and talk shit about them behind his back. And that's why his following and engagement have been plummeting all year. Including now, just *after* his new show premiered. His numbers are currently going down. Because his girlfriend is an unmitigated cunt, and she reflects so unimaginably poorly on him that people have been turning away non-stop. His girlfriend bullies his fans, and he just lets her do it. She is NOT a beautiful human, and he is NOT a good man.

by Anonymousreply 203July 14, 2025 9:30 PM

Wonder what’s it like painting with paints from the dollar section of Hobby Lobby and trying to sell it? Can’t even give her Michael’s cause you know the Jesus is her main man. 😂 At RISD we would have ate her alive on critiques. Look any fans here you have been warned.

by Anonymousreply 204July 14, 2025 9:47 PM

Wonder how Mama Barnes feels about this odd pairing 🤔 Her allegedly intelligent, psychiatrist-raised no 1 son in the claws of yet *another* attention-seeking self-serving nasty little American female. Oh, how much Tinseltown has corrupted her precious boy!

I’m envisioning the Easy Virtue ‘meet the parents’ scene x 1000 😁

by Anonymousreply 205July 15, 2025 1:01 PM

This man seems to have a kink for conservative or red like women. She acts like she is a star of the movie but I would give her 2 maybe 3 lines and that’s being generous. Plus it is MAGA movie much like the crap Kevin Sorbo and Dennis Quaid put out. Liberals hate you when you go after the Bidens. Wonder if the next time his diarrhea painting artist puts out a video, she will have a MAGA hat on. Welcome to Hollywood the place where if you don’t have any talent for anything you end up being an influencer. She can’t do even that right. I am watching his career and numbers burn to the ground like a bonfire.

by Anonymousreply 206July 15, 2025 1:33 PM

These threads have been fun over the years. However, I think since Ben and Skeletor crave attention so much it is time to turn our backs on them and not give them any more attention. And that goes especially for her who despite what Coral says is on here messing up a good thing we had.

by Anonymousreply 207July 15, 2025 2:52 PM

I am Nadya

by Anonymousreply 208July 15, 2025 3:14 PM

Ben is with his new girlfriend now not me

by Anonymousreply 209July 15, 2025 3:16 PM

Before she started posting the painting videos that Ben liked and comments on Ben liked only one post on her profile after she revamped it and it was her singing a worship song. As much as Ben has sold himself as liberal in his views, with the woman he dates they are religious and conservative. Jules family is Republican through and through. I wonder if he does this because these woman are more subservient and for a narcissist there is no better option than that, or Ben aligns more with those patriarchal views then we ever knew.

I do agree Aubrey with the jacket, the signaling to fans for months, all that went into this paparazzi reveal with her changing her socials and Ben commenting for months before. These two have made their relationship about seeking attention from his fans especially. So those fans will buy his music and merch, I mean her first post about painting she is asking for money. It’s very obvious the tactic, it is all fake and a set up even her using her cat. Ben mentioning the cat also a tactic, he did all of that in purpose.

If anything that Deuxmoi post was embarrassing, those pictures are horrible. I never thought Ben would turn into a Republican grifter, but here we are. The only antidote for that is to just walk away.

by Anonymousreply 210July 15, 2025 3:39 PM

Nadya we know. We know you spammed the chat you admitted to that on your Instagram, we know you lied when you said you couldn’t post here because you have posted rabbit references as his secret message to you before on the last thread so we already knew that was you. We also know who your kid is and where you are from. You are right Ben doesn’t love you, he thinks you are crazy, really we feel bad because you clearly need some help.

by Anonymousreply 211July 15, 2025 3:45 PM

He is my ex but those girls can’t compete

by Anonymousreply 212July 15, 2025 5:22 PM

You know, I can remember way back in the good days when Ben previously shared pictures of his current show in the wild. I can remember his face on the side of a bus for Sons of Liberty where he took a selfie with the ad. I can remember Westworld on the bus stop where he made sure we could see him in the glass as he stood beside it if memory serves. I don't expect the same from the Shadow and Bone or Punisher billboards because they were way up in the air. Yet today he just couldn't be bothered to put in the extraordinary extra effort of crossing the street to do his advertising job better.

But I wonder what stopped him continuing his selfie trend today? Maybe he's afraid of what he looks like as he spirals faster and faster into ever increasingly looking like shit. Or maybe he's afraid of outing who he's with in London even after their embarrassing pap walk stunt. Is he still hiding even now? Is he actually capable of shame?

by Anonymousreply 213July 15, 2025 6:47 PM

Well he does look like shit and it is so hot in London.

I think those pictures of the institute he is taking from other sources. I don’t think he took those honestly, he is making it appear he is in one place when he is probably with Aubrey in Italy or something. Since the pap walk stunt went so badly they are hiding, or he put her on a plane back to LA who knows. Him trying to promote the show he is starring in because no one gives a fuck about him anymore.

by Anonymousreply 214July 15, 2025 7:45 PM

Ben has not spent much time visiting her family in Oregon and he has not been that busy since his terrible tour ended. The Creeplands are a religious family and Aubrey has not even taken him to church once. Probably does not want to scare him away since he is not a religious person and does not go to church. If he wants to marry her, he better get ready to join a church, regular worship, bible study, and his own baptism. He better seriously think about what he is getting into besides her pants.

by Anonymousreply 215July 15, 2025 8:05 PM

Her pastor and church group were at the Portland show and they all went to Starbucks together and the pastor tagged Ben. He has met her church people.

by Anonymousreply 216July 15, 2025 8:41 PM

Only met them once. He has not been to church and worshipped with them.

by Anonymousreply 217July 15, 2025 8:57 PM

R215 Well put! Yes her pants are the only thing he’s got into so far. I’m sure he was nice and polite, probably said a brief hello to ‘the congregation’ before leaping onto the tour bus and roaring off out of town. Lucky escape!!! 😂

R216 R217 As far as we know, that’s the only time he met them. If he’d visited Portland again after the tour finished - I’m sure Ms Look-at-Me would definitely have treated us to a photo dump of same. That self-satisfied half smirk on her face as she came round the corner says it all. Actions speak louder than words.

I’m honestly not sure Ben Barnes would even pay lip service to all of her church stuff.

by Anonymousreply 218July 15, 2025 9:29 PM

He was the best ex I ever had

by Anonymousreply 219July 15, 2025 10:24 PM

I adore Aubrey. I think she is perfect for Ben and I think you all are haters. I was his best but Aubrey is amazing and I adore her and everything she stands for

- Nadya

by Anonymousreply 220July 15, 2025 10:25 PM

R213 I have to extend my apologies gurls, I was wrong and a friend corrected me. Not only did Ben actually post a selfie with the Shadow and Bone ad he found on the street, he did it THREE separate times. Including the billboard way up in the air. I at least correctly remembered that it was his thing to post the ad selfies, but I definitely forgot and underestimated just how much of a thing it is for him. Or should I say was? Because I still don't know why that didn't happen with today's ads. Ben has always known what sells for him, yet he didn't use his selfie trump card today? Why is that? Why/what are you hiding Benny?

by Anonymousreply 221July 15, 2025 10:41 PM

I took the photo of him in front of those billboards

by Anonymousreply 222July 15, 2025 10:42 PM

I wish I was as good as Aubrey with my paintings. She inspired me to do it all

by Anonymousreply 223July 15, 2025 10:44 PM

He actually did everyone a favor. Nobody wants to see his old, ugly, orange-skinned selfie ads.

by Anonymousreply 224July 15, 2025 11:24 PM

I think the Jesus thing is just another mask she was trying on, just like the singer, and then the actor, and then the interior designer, and now the painter. She is a grifter like JH, do everything badly, but try if there is money to be made. Her leaking nudes didn’t get her famous, so pandering to the church going folks might get her famous, now it’s being Ben Barnes girlfriend that is getting her some attention (mostly hate).

by Anonymousreply 225July 15, 2025 11:45 PM

Nah, the jesus thing is very real. What's also real is Aubrey pretending she likes dating boring Ben. Tennis matches and watching his friends in theatre productions are his version of a fun date night. Other than that he's a homebody. She just smiles and suffers through it. She knows damn well she loves fun, extroverted guys and loves partying at music concerts with her friends.

by Anonymousreply 226July 16, 2025 12:02 AM

Orange skinned? Why?

by Anonymousreply 227July 16, 2025 12:12 AM

Ben and Aubrey didn’t make the Deuxmoi weekly recap. Deuxmoi is not about it, I mean that last picture I think says it all. She embarrassed him by posting that one. I think that solidifies no one cares and they really thought they did something there with that set up.

by Anonymousreply 228July 16, 2025 12:21 AM

If she is trying to baby trap a multimillionaire we know she has now become a homebody painter boring as Ben.

by Anonymousreply 229July 16, 2025 12:22 AM

R227 He's using something on his skin that makes him look like an oompa loompa. At the LA premiere of The Institute he used it and looked terrible.

by Anonymousreply 230July 16, 2025 12:26 AM

Oh I see, *now* we get our selfie for today. Hi Ben!! Come on in, you have *literally* the WORST possible taste in women, but the water's still warm buddy.

by Anonymousreply 231July 16, 2025 12:31 AM

He didn't pay extra to make the Deuxmoi weekly recap lol What really fucked up his career, besides not being a talented actor, is shunning the media from the start. He felt like they were invading his privacy but there are ways to reveal things about your personal life to make a connection with people without revealing too much. So mainstream media said forget him and made someone else a star. The media holds all the power. Now he's trying to open up to the public, but it's too late. Nobody gives a shit about a D-list has been. So he will continue to do low level podcast interviews from home, while his friend is getting national exposure by performing on Kimmel. Simple as that.

by Anonymousreply 232July 16, 2025 12:50 AM

Even though he was booked to be a musical guest on The Kelly Clarkson Show, they ended up cutting his pre-recorded performance. So what did he do instead? Went to a LOCAL news network to show it. Lmao

by Anonymousreply 233July 16, 2025 1:00 AM

Coral said him and Aubrey don’t read these. When she wore a bow to the London show right after we made fun of that video she had on her Instagram. Ben just happens to post the selfie the same day we talked about it here. They both have been reading these their entire relationship. What losers. It’s only because we are the only ones talking about them.

by Anonymousreply 234July 16, 2025 1:44 AM

[quote] He's using something on his skin that makes him look like an oompa loompa. At the LA premiere of The Institute he used it and looked terrible.

This is orange?

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by Anonymousreply 235July 16, 2025 1:55 AM

He arrives and the oompa loompa music starts to play in the background.🍊

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by Anonymousreply 236July 16, 2025 3:07 AM

Hey Ben come on over to team gay. . Leave the boys alone. We will fix you up real good and get rid of that Trumpian Oompa orange.

by Anonymousreply 237July 16, 2025 4:01 AM

Gay team

by Anonymousreply 238July 16, 2025 4:35 AM

He looks more brown/beige than orange.

by Anonymousreply 239July 16, 2025 4:37 AM

Take a look at the difference here… yes, everyone uses filters but it’s high time for a Ms Cleland comparison pic. Not such a good look in the pap pic, darling.

These people are not flawless, they’re just like the rest of us. Guess she forgot that when she called Backgrid. And that makeup can only do so much without those artificial filters.

And someone called it before in here… her hair. I’m sorry, that’s a hot mess. It looks like wire wool. She’s going to lose shedloads more if she doesn’t take more care.

Benny must want to understand the cat so he can stroke it as a hair substitute.

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by Anonymousreply 240July 16, 2025 10:42 AM

Aubrey has made it clear to everyone that she is soooo blessed to have a family willing to take care of her bum ass well into her thirties. Her mom and dad must be so thrilled Ben took on that burden. She is a golddigger and clout chaser, but Ben is happy with the attention and love she is giving him, even though it's fake love. Is he trying to be Captain Save a Ho? If so, it's not working. One of the worst couples ever!!!

by Anonymousreply 241July 16, 2025 12:35 PM

[238] Right. He need to come home to us. It’s the only way. He is almost there with the “gals” looking like young men. Come dance with us under the disco ball Benny.

by Anonymousreply 242July 16, 2025 12:57 PM

[238] Right. Come on home honey. We will bring out the champagne for you. We will fix you up nicely. He’s halfway there with those “gals” looking like young men anyway. Come dance with us under the disco ball Benny.

by Anonymousreply 243July 16, 2025 1:02 PM

Hannah Galway his costar in the institute just posted all these affectionate pictures with Ben. Wonder how Aubrey feels like he is so physically close with all his costars and his body language with her is forced (or he is drunk at Kevin’s party) or there is zero affection at all. Even with the filters she isn’t anything remarkable, I love the pictures that will live forever as her being his girlfriend are just awful. That is a win.

by Anonymousreply 244July 16, 2025 2:15 PM

He is gay. Idk any straight man who does not want to touch their significant other in public. His behavior is abnormal. Even Aubrey's exes showed her love in photos. Ben has a secret and Aubrey and her crew better find the evidence before the lavender marriage. All he wants is a baby then the marriage will end. Don't say we didn't warn you.

by Anonymousreply 245July 16, 2025 2:34 PM

R245 “ Henry Cavill

by Anonymousreply 246July 16, 2025 2:51 PM

Aubrey should make him take a lie detector test. 😆

by Anonymousreply 247July 16, 2025 2:56 PM

R221 Speaking of continuing trends, can we talk about the quality of selfies that he's been taking all year whenever she's around? On tour with fans? All smiles and a joyful brightness in his eyes despite how tired he probably was. Because he was really happy out there. (How many times did he say he never wanted it to end? Did he never want to go home because she was about to move in with him? I wonder. . . ) At the London premiere? That looked more like the Ben of old. There was no constant fidgeting, no appreciable anxiety on display all night, and he was smiling. At the Paris con with the cast he loves so very much there were tons of smiles and laughter in their pictures together.

Now compare that to the moments whenever she's with him this year. Where he looks sullen. And depressed. And anxiety riddled. And just all around bereft of his beloved joy. Why? Shouldn't the "happy couple" propaganda from their papwalk be making him beam with pride and exuberance? Like the Ben we've always known? Like the papwalks with The Ho? But then again, who amongst us believes you arrange a ***papwalk*** of all things because the relationship's doing well. Or do you do it out of desperation? A last ditch attempt to inject a little vitality and spice into a relationship that's sputtering to a halt? Is that why he behaved in such a hilariously disrespectful manner on their papwalk? Because he for some reason felt forced and obligated, not delighted, to announce her?

And so there's yesterday's selfie. Julian is beaming, happy to be taking a picture with his friend who *supposedly* enjoyed the show he just saw and is advertising. But Ben, just like always lately, instead looks like he's taking a picture with her, waiting just off camera for him to be finished. Maybe she was just upset he didn't include her in the picture he was going to post for the world. And I wonder why. But I'm sure he tries to convince himself daily that everything's fine, he's happy, and it's all going to eventually work out in the end. The desperation of a midlife crisis he can't outrun.

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by Anonymousreply 248July 16, 2025 5:49 PM

That selfie he posted is old I think, all the shadow and bone cast went to that show together like a week ago. So I still stand firm all those pictures on his stories from yesterday were from other sources and he is somewhere that is not London. Also that JB song is not random, he has been doing the same thing for a year now, the whole time he has been with Aubrey. You lot don’t deserve that tea.

by Anonymousreply 249July 16, 2025 5:51 PM

So he's using Aubrey to console him when he feels misunderstood and horny? Because that is what the JB song is about. This is one of the most unhealthy relationships and he needs a therapist. Something is not right with this guy and Aubrey's dumb ass needs to find someone else.

by Anonymousreply 250July 16, 2025 8:16 PM

R249 Perhaps you didn't peep Julian's Instagram, where you would have seen all the pictures he posted with the many, *many* friends that came to see him last night, which included Ben. And also Kazinski, who Julian also followed last night. So if Ben was secretly somewhere else, he would have had to coordinate with Julian and ask him to delay posting the advertisement for his job showing how many people came out to see him and all the wonderful things they had to say about the show, and that he randomly waited until last night to follow Ben's friend Rob that he didn't know previously but who randomly came to the show despite Ben not being with him, and Julian agreed to all of that because he wants to hide Ben's whereabouts too.

Or we could just look to Occam's Razor?

by Anonymousreply 251July 16, 2025 8:55 PM

Aubrey. You back on here stirring up stuff again? Like you did on LA concert night explaining where you were when no one could see you in any pictures? Girl you aren’t that smart. Just don’t. Get off of here and seek mental help and someone to help with your disappearing hair. Please and thank you.

by Anonymousreply 252July 16, 2025 10:18 PM

I saw the girls post about being at Julian’s show like last week and people so don’t manipulate socials at all and strategically follow people to make it seem like one thing when it isn’t.

You think his friends can’t coordinate when they post stuff? He did an entire pap walk and made their instagrams to match what was written in the articles for Aubrey. That was planned and coordinated. Be so serious.

These fucking comments are why you don’t know how that song is significant and it has nothing to do with Aubrey but with another woman who used that song the day of the pap walk in her stories. This one has been around for a long and it’s not crazy Nadya. Now because you twats suck you won’t know.

by Anonymousreply 253July 16, 2025 10:20 PM

[248] what in the world is on his face? You can see the white lines in his wrinkles. Whew that gal is getting haggard and should immediately stop messing with those dummy grifting women he prefers.

by Anonymousreply 254July 17, 2025 12:07 AM

R254 Well clearly no one told him how to use make up to blend in a "tan line" then. Who the fuck let him leave the house looking like that! Does no one care enough to take care of this man? His girlfriend fucking lives with him, did she do this on purpose just to embarrass him? LOL!

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by Anonymousreply 255July 17, 2025 12:23 AM

[254] have you seen her? She is on the hot mess parade just like him. It is like the blind leading the blind. And they both looked dirty in London. I’m sure they have plumbing in the UK. Also her constantly needing that security blanket that fugly Boss jacket is telling too. Model my ass. Painter my ass. Actress nope, nope, and nope. He need to be on our side because we would fix him up real good and whip him into shape.

by Anonymousreply 256July 17, 2025 1:10 AM

Found it! If you thought he looked like an oompa loompa before! And he posted this himself. He took one look at this and thought, NAILED it. So his girlfriend used their papwalk announcement to say how proud she was to be part of the new Maga movie, and here's Benny giving Trump himself a run for his money. Maybe looking like The Donald is what really turns her on!

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by Anonymousreply 257July 17, 2025 3:02 AM

I wonder in the Mary Louise Parker segment on the View did those bitties had to be told what to say who Ben is and that he is a well known singer. That last part is laughable as his music engagement keeps sinking like the Titanic. And asking around at a party nobody knows him all too well except Billy Russo and Prince Caspian. Besides the press junkets that were done in London and LA, he hasn’t had a sit down interview like the View in forever. Guess when he gets back to the states another Zoom interview in front of that god awful piece of diarrhea painting. Bring back Gene or Donny because that ain’t it.

by Anonymousreply 258July 17, 2025 4:06 AM

Coral makes a post about the Ben Barnes Germany FB group and other Facebook groups and then deletes it. Now Ben today does a post, no captions, of just pictures from the institute on his FB only. No post on Instagram or stories on Insta and it’s been up for four hours now. Coral are you working with Ben? That’s why you love Aubrey so much?

by Anonymousreply 259July 17, 2025 3:25 PM

Ben needs to be careful always have these young boys doing his makeup and hair on these jobs. Thinking it is a cute video when it is creepy. Freddie on shadow and bone and Joe doing his hair on the new one. Groomer of young boys in the entertainment industry is not a phrase or thought he wants to be associated with now is it. He already had to deal with JH and her blackface, yet he never really thinks about these things does he?

by Anonymousreply 260July 17, 2025 3:32 PM

The world's most transactional relationship continues? Are Skeletor and her pageant mother a tag team? The birthday present papwalk happens. The manipulative witch of a mother likes the Just Jared post about it, but only that post, no others that I can see. And now the manipulative witch of a girlfriend has finally started immediately liking all his posts again. Because now she got something out of him. He always immediately liked every single one of her posts, because he's obviously literally desperate, but there's no way she was going to be as supportive until she extracted something out of him in return. And their papwalk was the price of admission for her transactional love. The world's most toxic relationship. These two *disgust* me. Their relationship *disgusts* me. And the fact that Ben just lets her publicly walk all over him like this is maybe the reason he ALWAYS looks so fucking miserable whenever she's around. And yet he keeps her around. They *disgust* me.

by Anonymousreply 261July 17, 2025 7:35 PM

Want to ask the fans why are they here on this gay forum. Let’s just bring this out and in the open that we know you despise Skeletor just as much as the rest of us. I myself am an equal opportunity hater since I despise them both. At least we air our grievances truthfully. What is wrong with you guys? Either he is really dumb or he just compliant in her antics as she is. These are not good people. Maybe he was once but now he is full of desperation and sadness. I doubt she ever was. She just thinks everything should be handed to her because of her position and what her weird family filled her head up with without doing the work. And she is also an idiot She touches herself up with filters on social media but she doesn’t look like that in real life. And that’s okay but did she ever think that the paps don’t use filters and show you for what you really look like? And the need to always be seen is not a good look for anyone who has hit over 30. You are using us to fulfill out the hatred you have. Let’s add he has a sexuality confusion problem. If we are being truthful.

by Anonymousreply 262July 18, 2025 2:09 AM

If Ben stayed in that boy band he would have been the equivalent of Lance Bass. Only there for the background oohs and ahhs and the secret gay one.

by Anonymousreply 263July 18, 2025 11:03 AM

It's interesting he dated and fell in love with a bisexual woman. He could be bi, but definitely not straight.

by Anonymousreply 264July 18, 2025 12:51 PM

2025 karmic lesson don’t bring a woman you are having a secret relationship with and don’t want people to know about to a concert. Benny did this in 2024 and just like the Coldplay situation it did ruin his career.

by Anonymousreply 265July 19, 2025 1:35 PM

I don’t know what is funnier Aubrey’s desperate attempts to get attention or the fact the trolls and more importantly a majority of his fan base just went we don’t give a fuck about what you are doing. Less than 1% engagement on her new post, with 25,000 followers. She really thought Bens fans would just buy her paintings and make her famous. She played all these games to make sure that happened, completely rebranded herself because being his girlfriend publicly was always the goal. Social climber at it’s best

by Anonymousreply 266July 21, 2025 3:40 PM

R266 She bought the followers 😏

by Anonymousreply 267July 21, 2025 5:39 PM

We know that, that’s why I mentioned it. Just like Ben who also bought them.

by Anonymousreply 268July 21, 2025 5:44 PM

Since we know she only posts in order to show off, what was the message in her Portland post from Saturday? Was she saying that a weeks long trip to Paris and London that literally just finished is in no way superior to a trip to your rich parent's backyard? Was she saying that a trip to stay with her family as opposed to his family is what can't be beat? Or did she just want to show off how very, very much more posh her parent's garden is compared to that picture Ben shared once of his parent's quaint English garden? Because she was definitely showing off, but what? Was it *just* to show the extra coffee cup because she literally can NOT help herself, she NEEDS to rub it in?

You have the WORST possible taste in girls Benny.

by Anonymousreply 269July 21, 2025 10:33 PM

I think Benny put her on a plane and she went to see her family, or Ben was with her and her family. The real reason was to show the water bottle with her name on it and Ben has the same type of water bottle and has referenced that. A little dig at the fans once again. Like her jacket and the bow and even the cat.

Really I think it was a response to the fact no one was talking about her new post. We weren’t hating about how boring she is, there weren’t any hate comments, it was silent and it was a way for her to get some attention. A random picture because we aren’t giving her what she wants.

I wonder at what point will Ben be embarrassed by all of this. His contemporaries have to be laughing at him behind his back, this is the woman he is parading around. She acts like a teenager.

by Anonymousreply 270July 21, 2025 10:42 PM

R270 Oh I'm definitely insinuating it might be the latter option. The "chair" appears to be a two-seater/love seat option, as you can see the two cushions touching each other. And is that book angled *just* enough to be between the two sides of the seat? Not directly in front of only one side, but between two people? She has her bespoke drink, and then on the other side of the book and love seat, an extra coffee cup. Was there someone siting next to her? And is that *exactly* what she wanted to show all of Ben's fans, just to rub it in a little harder, a little deeper. Just to show off Yet. Again.

by Anonymousreply 271July 21, 2025 11:46 PM

Had that mug even been used? Looked clean to me. And her water bottle is the ‘Love Island’ one. So ‘teenager’ is spot on.

by Anonymousreply 272July 22, 2025 8:32 AM

My first thought when I saw the book perfectly placed and the water bottle was could this picture be anymore staged? Home girl is really doing the most. Ben also has mentioned love island in interviews.

She can’t even be real for a moment. Surprised the cat wasn’t also there because lord knows we haven’t heard or seen enough of it from Ben on red carpets to it literally being the focal point of her brand at this point.

by Anonymousreply 273July 22, 2025 4:25 PM

The cat is giving Jules dog sunny who she named after their secret symbol to each other. Remember when Ben was always doing stories starting with the sun or something about the sun in early 2024. Let me guess the cat was his idea, just copying jules. First soho house trip, then the cat, then the pap walk, what is next his own health guru water brand deal.

by Anonymousreply 274July 22, 2025 4:28 PM

Why does he like loser women? This one is far the worse of the bunch. Does he even like himself?

by Anonymousreply 275July 22, 2025 10:45 PM

R275 If you've been following him long enough, you'd know the answer is very obviously no, he does not like himself. But he does distract himself. Just tells himself constantly throughout the day that everything is in fact fine, that he's actually happy and hopeful. But most importantly, not to ever waste one precious moment, so his attention is *ALWAYS* on external distractions. Constantly listening to music, constantly watching TV, constantly reading fantasy books, constantly on his phone, constantly focused on distraction, distraction, distraction. Whatever flavor of the month can release the endorphins he's literally addicted to. He doesn't even have to actually like it AT ALL, he only has to be distracted by it. Because if he's not distracted by the outside, then all he has left is the inside. Stuck in his head with his crippling anxiety he thinks he can just distract from and deny away. But have you seen him lately? Does he look at all happy? Does he look AT ALL less anxious? The embarrassing distraction he calls a girlfriend moved in with him, and he has looked like absolute shit ever since. Because she is *not* in fact good for him, because he does *not* in fact like her, because he is merely distracted by her. And he's convinced himself that that's good enough. He even admitted it himself early this year in a tour interview. When he paraphrasingly said he recently realized that love shouldn't mean big, deep, grand feelings, but should instead be boring, every day feelings. That's what he's convinced himself to settle for in his mid-life crisis. That's all she is to him, because he doesn't actually like himself.

by Anonymousreply 276July 23, 2025 1:33 AM

Anyone see this comparison? Is this not an indication of this mid life crisis, idk what is. Coupled with that last picture from the Deuxmoi post, it all is so embarrassing.

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by Anonymousreply 277July 23, 2025 4:23 PM

Ah, is this the sign we were waiting for? When Skeletor's best Portland friends start following him? Because that just happened. We *knew* the only reason she posted that very carefully staged garden picture was to signal that he was there with her. The only time she posts literally anything at all is to brazenly and shamelessly show off her relationship with him, so why would this have been different. It wasn't, it was to rub it in to all his fans YET AGAIN that he went to Portland with her. Because in her jealousy, she absolutely *hates* them every bit as much as they all absolutely hate her, and this is how she has always treated them because of it. Because she wants to hurt them as she constantly rubs it in.

And clearly Ben is going along with it. He has been *almost* absolutely silent on Instagram since he left London. He has a new show running literally as we speak, but he's been doing practically fuck all to promote it. Because Skeletor and her mother are very clearly continuing to keep their new obedient puppy on an extremely short leash. They can smell the desperation on him as easily as the rest of us can see it, and they've got him by the short hairs. Because they're getting *EXACTLY* what their manipulations need out of him. Skeletor gained followers after their desperate papwalk stunt. Ben so far however, has lost *thousands*. When he should be bringing in tons of new followers with his new show premiering, his choices and behavior are instead losing him followers in droves. This show was his first and only employment in over two years, and his choices are seemingly making sure it will be his last for at least as long. She continues to be an absolute dark curse on his life, as his capacity for self-sabotage seems to know no bounds.

by Anonymousreply 278July 24, 2025 4:36 PM

She just has to let everyone know. If she hadn’t done that story we wouldn’t know they were in Portland together at all. Then she gets all her friends to follow him because she had to make it known. All the while besides the set up paparazzi walk that Ben thought would boost his career, it never does, he never acknowledges her or her family or her friends. He knows that show is failing, that is why he is silent. Why promote something no one cares about at all.

by Anonymousreply 279July 24, 2025 10:28 PM

I really hope he wakes up from this clear manipulation from her and her family, that creepy photo of Renee at the London show when someone was taking a pic of Aubrey says it all, and he just gets out of this.

by Anonymousreply 280July 25, 2025 12:24 AM

She made her grandparents follow him too. The white ones - we all know she doesn't claim her black side. Her whole family is obsessed with her undercover gay bf.

Has he even considered why Hollywood will never cast him as a lead in a rom-com? A role he so desperately wants to play. It's because nobody, especially hetero women fantasize about riding his tiny cock. They all rightfully believe he is a homosexual. And it's not because he did some gay scenes in a movie. It's who he is in real life as much as he tries to deny it. He will marry this Christian whore and it will be the most hilarious shit ever. He already called and paid for a papwalk to introduce her as his gf, which the media and his fans gave zero attention to. So don't think he won't call them again for a stupid wedding feature that nobody will care about either. People already don't know who the fuck they are lol. He has no star power and she just follows him around like the dog she is because she has nothing to do. May their "love" never find me.

by Anonymousreply 281July 25, 2025 12:54 PM

Ben is a disrespectful, egotistical control freak. He finally found an ugly weak girl who will do everything he says without question so she can keep him. All the beautiful independent bad bitches from his past figured out what he was about and left his sorry ass in the dust.

by Anonymousreply 282July 25, 2025 2:39 PM

R282 *Finally*. Someone that actually understands the truth about the piece of shit that is Ben Barnes. Because when you have to *tell* people over and over in interviews that you're actually a good guy, it's time to look in the fucking mirror.

by Anonymousreply 283July 25, 2025 3:54 PM

To the skeletor fan game. We see you. We know you playing the game. Question is she such a sweetheart that you go out your way to say so, why doesn’t anyone in the band follow her? Why did Aaron have that look of disgust when she was on stage? Don’t mention Kevin he wasn’t in this band and you know he is about as desperate as a junkie.

by Anonymousreply 284July 26, 2025 2:17 AM

Anyone seen the video of her competing in Portland Teen Idol competition? It's on youtube. She did the most god awful rendition of Kelly Clarkson's song 'Beautiful Disaster'. We all know she is her idol. With vocals like that no wonder she made it on one of the worst seasons of AI to date. The bickering judges had no standards that year. The OG judges would have never put her through. Also if you listen to the lyrics, she could dedicate that song to her disaster of a bf Ben. Lmao

I also read somewhere that her mom entered them in a Family Circle Magazine nationwide mother/daughter model search and they won. All they care about is their looks, but from what I am seeing there is nothing stunning about them. Just below average lazy pieces of shit and one has a stank witch mark on her forehead. They are untalented and use men to get what they want. I really hope Ben becomes a part of that family, so he can fall deeper into ruining his life and career. His fanbase is shrinking drastically now and we know Hollywood only hires him because he is cheap. 😂

by Anonymousreply 285July 26, 2025 11:58 AM

R284 Charles did not look thrilled during that duet either. When Ben turned around with that stupid smile on his face, Charles looked up for a second with no reaction and quickly looked back down at the keyboard. I would say he has many connections within the American Idol circle and probably heard bad things about Skeletor. He knows the truth, just like we do, so he keeps his distance. That may be why he and other members of that band do not follow her on social media.

by Anonymousreply 286July 26, 2025 12:49 PM

Has she inspired and pointed him to the Lord since that is her hope and prayer? I haven't seen him rocking a Jesus piece around his neck yet.

Now watch him do it since they read these threads.

by Anonymousreply 287July 26, 2025 12:59 PM

Well it looks like Chike and Skeletor finally followed each other. She's just racking up Ben's besties by the handful. Well, except for all of his band that performed with her. And except for almost all of the S&B cast that just met her, some for the second time. And except for almost all of his fans. Huh.

by Anonymousreply 288July 26, 2025 9:07 PM

R288 I'm willing to bet she's the one sending the friend requests. She's a psycho stalker of his life. Meanwhile he doesn't follow any of her friends and family, even though he made it publicly known she's his girlfriend. Their both idiotic losers.

by Anonymousreply 289July 26, 2025 9:25 PM

I think most of them follow her back because they don't want to seem rude or they have seen her nudes. She is absolutely following his best guy buddies on purpose. Interesting, right?

by Anonymousreply 290July 26, 2025 9:49 PM

R290 Could be, or it could just be that women can see right through a manipulative fucking cunt from a mile away, and they want no part of this shit. And Benny, by his own admission, literally refuses to open his eyes to it.

by Anonymousreply 291July 26, 2025 9:57 PM

For the girlies in the back let’s take note from Ben’s new story, that pic was right after the NY show. You think oh Ciara just shared this on her stories and Ben is reposting it, no big deal.

Well I did some digging and noticed the NY band post he did on Feb 5th during the tour was the only one Aubrey did not like. She had been liking posts since September. I just assumed that was because the band doesn’t like her and Ben was telling them he loves them so much.

Then I looked at his Feb 2nd post and this girl actually commented. The one he does these things for, the JB song came from and so much more. Did this girl go to the NY show? Did the band know about Aubrey and this one and how Ben really feels? They saw Aubrey’s manipulation front and center? Maybe that’s why there was weird energy when the tour ended and how the band never supports Aubrey.

You cannot convince me Aubrey has his sole focus and attention. From the gold references, to the chalk hearts, to her initials on his face for the album cover, to even the longing songs we assumed were only about JH. So much there. Aubrey having his friends follow and Cal constantly commenting on her posts, that is what Aubrey is demanding. Otherwise why doesn’t Ben follow crazy eyes Renee? They have met and spent time on multiple occasions now, at Renees house. Just like the paparazzi walk, Aubrey wants to constantly show how connected she is to him, because in actuality she is the rebound after all. She knows that his true feelings are not really with her. True love doesn’t have to convince you or show it to you. She is always doing the most.

by Anonymousreply 292July 26, 2025 10:11 PM

[292] I agree she is doing the most. I believe the cover existed before her though and I can’t find her initials. He had to take the album to another company after the other studio fell apart. Which I kind of believe had to do with some notes the studio suggested and him not agreeing to the suggestions. Maybe those suggestions would have made a better album. Bonus points to you for calling Renee crazy eyes. F’king classic

So you are saying that the other woman was there in NYC? It has been confirmed Skeletor wasn’t there. We are going to need a name or a description. Is she different than his “norm?” Is she a thick one instead of a toothpick? If there is such a woman she is an idiot too because I would never be dragged along by some d lister. Is this is want the desperate straights be doing these days? So freaking exhausting.

I don’t like how Coral and her “me muffins” misconstrued that poster. Aubrey gives me stalker who infiltrated him. His likes are her likes. She had him as a mark for sometime making her dream come true. But did she expect the Darkling, Billy Russo, or even the singer on the EP and got the real him a boring ass yawn? Maybe she learned stalking from that shit movie she was in with Nia Long.

Interesting she follows Roger and now Chike since they are both black. Wonder if she held her nose on that one.

by Anonymousreply 293July 26, 2025 11:09 PM

R292 Ciara asked ppl to drop her a date and she’d post a pic. The date format is UK/European so DD/MM/YY. It was 12 Feb… the Glasgow show.

by Anonymousreply 294July 26, 2025 11:29 PM

February 12th, two days before his girlfriend made a shamelessly drunken peacocking performance on her London balcony to thoroughly embarrass him and his family.

Actually perhaps we should thank Ciara for this reminder. Because look at how happy he looked in that picture. All smiles that *definitely* reached his eyes. But then, that's exactly what we'd expect, because this is from when he was touring. The last known time that he was actually genuinely, visibly happy. This isn't a performative actor's mask for a crowd, that's real. It's been FIVE months since the tour ended and we have never seen anything even remotely close to it's equal since. In fact, we have seen absolutely nothing but it's polar opposite. We've seen him look miserable, and depressed, and EXTREMELY anxious ALL the fucking time. ***LITERALLY*** speaking, the exact opposite of a man genuinely in love (who rushed to have his girlfriend move in with him). The EXACT opposite of how he used to look and behave in all the years past when he *was* in fact happily in love with the women he was dating. Posting all the time, *ALL* smiles and laughter. You even always knew when the relationships ended because of the negative change to his demeanor. The negative demeanor that *perfectly* matches his current one since the tour ended. Once his girlfriend moved in. Once he lost all the joy and love and happiness that he knew on tour. Once all he had left, was her.

by Anonymousreply 295July 27, 2025 5:19 PM

This homosexual…again?

by Anonymousreply 296July 27, 2025 6:06 PM

R296 exactly. Bi at best. He would be more free and less miserable if he comes out of that iron gated closet.

by Anonymousreply 297July 27, 2025 6:53 PM

This girl is f’ king weird with her carrying around that suit jacket everywhere. Screams of bad Tubi movie villain. May I never encounter someone like that in life.

by Anonymousreply 298July 28, 2025 5:06 AM

So his fans don't like her and his haters don't like her either. Well damn, everybody is finally in agreement with something.

by Anonymousreply 299July 28, 2025 7:12 PM

R299 I wonder if you know how right you are? I mentioned in R278 that he had gone radio silent since leaving London even though he *should* have been promoting his show that's currently running. Then I started seeing posts from some of his most ardent FanFraus begging him to post something and the like, because they most obviously notice his absence first. Some of these are girls that literally just went to see him in Paris. Girls that were willing to spend large sums of money on him.

But now, there is commentary being shared from some of those very same most ardently supportive FanFraus that is unabashedly blaming Skeletor for keeping Ben under lock and key lately. And they haaaaaaaaattteee her for it. It's gotten to the point where hate for his fucking cunt of a girlfriend has even seeped into his most loyal, biggest, loudest supporters. Even *THEY* are starting to see what she's doing to him and how bad it's gotten and they are *hating* her for it. So yes, apparently *everybody* is coming around to agreement. *Everybody* hates her.

by Anonymousreply 300July 29, 2025 4:28 AM

What’s this? His fans and his haters are uniting over one cause, the hatred of Skeletor. I think I might cry. How much she dragged his career down is just laughable because she is so unfocused. He is not going to get those fans back ever again. Good for them.

by Anonymousreply 301July 29, 2025 12:12 PM

When you’re leaving your house to do an interview on KTLA wearing a black polo shirt, and your dumb gf runs up and hugs you - leaving cat fluff all over you. Possibly her wispy sheddings too.

Doesn’t anyone in LA have defluffers any more? Really not a good TV look, Barnes.

(He deleted the clip just after it posted - not due to the cat fluff but because it took 35 fucking mins to upload 😂 - BBF has it tho)

by Anonymousreply 302July 30, 2025 9:13 PM

R302 Haha another local tv interview. That's all his agent can get him since he's a nobody. He is such a d list snooze. That shirt looks like he grabbed it out of the dirty laundry. He confirmed a deluxe album is on the way that will have the same shit songs on it. He might have his no talent gf do background vocals on songs written about other women. Fangirlies please don't waste your hard earned money on this fool. He is not worth it. If you support him, you are essentially condoning mediocrity and paying for Skeletor's dinner and whatever else he buys her since she loves to be a spoiled brat who lives off her dad's money and now Ben.

by Anonymousreply 303July 30, 2025 10:22 PM

Best line on Instagram this week is the Messiahs of Mediocrity. Fits like a glove here.

by Anonymousreply 304July 30, 2025 11:09 PM

Deluxe album? Seriously, how much longer is he trying to milk this? The cash cow is dried up.

by Anonymousreply 305July 31, 2025 1:54 AM

R305 Cash cow? His CD wound up in the sale section at the distributor. He only has somewhere around 80,000 Spotify listeners. He said he would feel lucky if he managed to break even from his tour. He said he hated the merch his girlfriend's friend designed for him. Maybe we have a different definition of cash cow?

Or maybe, this is him saying he has absolutely no prospects, or jobs, or literally anything going on in his life other than multiple upcoming fan conventions. Keep desperately sucking at that dried up teet Benny.

by Anonymousreply 306July 31, 2025 2:43 AM

So as he goes through his mid life crisis, has he lost his ability to get through interviews as naturally and effectively as he used to? Because I noticed his mask slip several times during this five minute clip. When he's actually answering the questions it's his normal rehearsed performance we've seen hundreds of times before. That's fine. But pay attention to the transitions. When you see him over-concentrate as the interviewer begins speaking as if he realized he wasn't committing to the performance enough. Or watch the ending as the interviewer is closing it out, and Ben is awkwardly "smiling" and fidgeting and looking around as if he has no idea what to do? As if he's never been interviewed or been on camera before when he's been doing this for twenty years?

There is just plainly something profoundly wrong with him, and it's only getting worse.

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by Anonymousreply 307July 31, 2025 3:21 AM

I think it's only a matter of time before his agency decides to drop him from the roster just like WME did. He's not bringing in enough money to deserve representation there. Another agency downgrade is in his near future.

by Anonymousreply 308July 31, 2025 11:28 AM

[R308] Some agencies do a one year contract but it has been over a year with Gersh so I am thinking it is a 3 year contract. Stop playing house with that witch girl of 50,000 professions. You cannot be the lead anymore perhaps smaller parts. And no I don’t want to see a deluxe version of that album or any album until he is properly trained.

Pretty much all he has are these cons, a growing list of haters plus the 20 Becky’s and Karens he calls his fans. (And don’t get me started on those two face twits) I agree he is weird nowadays and not at all appealing. Does SAG help you get therapy?

by Anonymousreply 309August 1, 2025 3:17 AM

Anybody can rent a billboard for anything nowadays. Ben is not special and not famous. The Institute was a low budget project which is why he got cast. Does he just drive around town looking for ads of himself? Ben probably told the driver to circle back around so the person sitting by him could video. So pathetic.

by Anonymousreply 310August 1, 2025 8:48 PM

Yes, SAG does offer eligible members a health plan that includes mental health services. He should look into that asap because he has some major issues going on - especially when it comes to romantic relationships. The guy has picked the worst of the worst to publicly announce he has a gf. He must be fucked up in the brain and desperate for attention to do some shit like that, especially when nobody knows who he is. He should address the root cause of his anxiety with a therapist too. Oh, and let's not forget the fact that he is afraid to speak his truth and come out as a gay man. He has issues on top of issues. Somebody mentioned he doesn't come across as a genuine person. I agree, completely scripted and wears a mask and people are tired of it, which is why he's rapidly losing fans.

by Anonymousreply 311August 1, 2025 9:20 PM

What in the Rock Hudson, Monty. Cliff, Raymond Burr we have going on here? Yet another one who we keep trying to open the closet but they keep pulling it shut. It is okay to be gay lovely. Might even boost the career. But yet he is not Lee Pace also who I would ride into the sunset.

by Anonymousreply 312August 1, 2025 9:55 PM

Well jules who started his downfall, she was the one who he was blocking his POC fans for, only to end up with a new gf who is a POC. Ironic that is.

Well jules sold her home for 7.9 million and is leaving the place that Ryan Seacrest bought for her 11 years ago when they broke up, then Brooks moved in when they got married only for Benny boy to have an affair with her and have secret Sunday mornings with her while Brooks was in Idaho in quarantine. Him taking selfies in the bed she shared with her ex husband, no wonder he took Aubrey to that same Soho farmhouse suite. Aubrey’s announcement and him trying to stay relevant is all because the one who he ruined his career for is moving on entirely. Won’t be surprised if Aubrey is pregnant by the end of the year since jules wants a baby so bad and has been broadcasting that. Benny really can’t take rejection.

by Anonymousreply 313August 1, 2025 11:05 PM

Why did he delete the billboard post? Where did that pic from Aubrey’s friends concert come from?

by Anonymousreply 314August 2, 2025 12:04 AM

Since he untagged it except the picture of Aubrey in his car, just to troll the trolls. This one, we need more details from the trolls?

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by Anonymousreply 315August 2, 2025 12:09 AM

And I am not being offensive but she has no feminine features. Perhaps a little more body fat? I don’t know about the trolls, but maybe all heroes don’t wear capes??? A troll can be resourceful when they want to be. 😂 Those concert vibes is giving me dad dropped the tweens off. All I have to say is this guy f^cking serious right now. How low can you go? We are about to find out how low.

by Anonymousreply 316August 2, 2025 1:53 AM

She looks like a femboy. Maybe that's why he's dating her.

by Anonymousreply 317August 2, 2025 2:23 AM

They will realize they don't value the same things and break up. Everyone already sees they are incompatible. Hopefully she makes her way back to the hot chelle rae guy (the REAL musician) who has started liking her posts and then deleting. Might be trying to get her attention again and rekindle the flame? Honestly, they seem like a better match than the mess she's got going on with emotionally unstable midlife crisis Ben.

by Anonymousreply 318August 2, 2025 2:48 AM

Anybody know why her and the hot chelle rae guy broke up? Was it cheating? Too young? Different lifestyles?

Who has the tea?

by Anonymousreply 319August 2, 2025 3:03 AM

R314 He only removed it from his main page, it's still on his reels page. He did the same thing with the Institute post from a couple days ago. It's still on his reels page. Is it coincidence that these are the two most recent posts, and that both of them are doing absolutely abysmal with engagement? Awwwww is everyone abandoning you Benny? Can you still hear the faint echoes of the applause you used to get in the cavernous emptiness?

As for the concert, Skeletor's very first LA friend's husband did a random emo-teeny-bopper solo concert last night, and Twitter outted Ben as being at the concert. Then Skeletor's best friend posted this picture of her and Skeletor at said concert. Then today, Ben followed the best friend and her fiance (who was possibly also at the concert).

Though I remember the days when Ben himself used to post that he was happily attending concerts because he loves music so much. But not this time. Because he was there with Skeletor. Janelle just attended a My Chemical Romance concert last weekend and was posting up a storm with *everyone* who went with her. Did Ben forbid her from doing the same thing from this concert because he didn't want anyone to know he was there with Skeletor? Is that why she was forced to post from the lady's room? Because despite the papwalk announcement, he *still* won't claim her publicly. She took the video he posted today, but he won't let you know that. He posted the promotional pictures that were taken of him at Wimbledon, *except* for the one that was taken of them. The day before their papwalk. He. Still. Will. Not. Claim. Her. Publicly. *STILL*.

by Anonymousreply 320August 2, 2025 3:26 AM

It's amazing how insecure Ben and Aubrey are. They read these threads and do exactly what is said. Someone recently mentioned she follows many of his friends and coworkers and he doesn't follow any of hers on socials, so what does he do? Follows Janelle and her fiancé. They have not followed him back. Hope they realize he treats their friend like garbage. He is feeding Aubrey complete bullshit about keeping their relationship off socials yet he staged a goddamn papwalk! Psycho behavior. To his dwindling fanbase he's making it seem like they were "outed" by the paps, but we know he orchestrated it. Does he not understand other people have media connections and can get the truth? London and LA are not that big Benny Boy. They both look dumb as fuck playing childish games. He is only with her for the alleged emotional support she gives him and in return she gets to travel, live in LA, and make his friends hers. Stage-5 clinger behavior.

Jack is the last voice of reason. He will never like Aubrey nor will Mama and Papa Barnes. Nudes, college dropout, no career, no talent, lives off men, zero ambition. No way his family will accept a girl like her into their circle. She acts all sweet and babbles that jesus is her homeboy but we've seen her wildside and how she can be a troll. Ben doesn't listen to anyones good advice and does whatever he wants, which is why him and his career are fucked up now. Joy did not choose Ben as he claimed it did reciting that poem last year. They will break up sooner or later.

by Anonymousreply 321August 2, 2025 5:29 AM

R321 Please let it be sooner.

by Anonymousreply 322August 2, 2025 8:40 AM

Barnes is terrible in Stephen King's "The Institute". I had no idea he was such a bad, wooden actor. He's dragging down all the scenes he's in. He's looks washed out and old too. Not attractive at all and a terrible actor - I'm surprised.

by Anonymousreply 323August 2, 2025 8:47 AM

I can't stop laughing at how completely opposite Skeletor and Ben's friends groups are. It's giving punk rock kids vs. theatre geeks.

Then add the huge age gap between the strange couple. They look gross together.

by Anonymousreply 324August 2, 2025 11:46 AM

Her bestie from the pajamas post is pregnant again. Skeletor and Ben are probably jealous that their friends and family are getting engaged, married, and having babies. Meanwhile, Ben is still hiding and won't personally claim or touch her in public and Aubrey just wants to be a barefoot and pregnant housewife. Both of them are stunted.

by Anonymousreply 325August 2, 2025 1:56 PM

They are so stunted. The fact they are still hiding they are together after they did that entire paparazzi walk for her birthday is extremely weird. Ben will follow her friends, but not her family, will do the paparazzi walk announcing her to the world as his girlfriend to boost his career, but he can’t be seen with her at a concert? Is his ok? This behavior is very strange.

by Anonymousreply 326August 2, 2025 2:13 PM

R317 Completely understand what you're saying, she looks like a desperately skeletal line backer, which is a description I never imagined I would ever have to say in my life, so thanks Benny for the opportunity!

But more importantly, look at how OLD she looks in the concert picture in R315! And she looked just as old on her birthday in those embarrassingly ugly papwalk pictures. But now compare that to all the myriad pictures from Valentine's Day in London. She looked MUCH younger then. And that was less than six months ago! She's only recently 32, she should NOT be aging this unbelievably rapidly at this point in her life! What has happened to her in the last six months that she looks like this now!

Unless of course, she's had work done. Because that ALWAYS makes you look much older than you are. And she does have multiple Portland plastic surgery centers and lip filler salons that follow her. Is she still competing with The Ho and her Soho Bathtub perhaps?

by Anonymousreply 327August 2, 2025 3:00 PM

Olivia Dean will be at the Fonda Theatre on Aug 5-6th. She fits Ben's dating type and he has admitted he loves her and her music. Anyway, the lavender couple might make an appearance since they are jobless and in their summer concert-era.

by Anonymousreply 328August 2, 2025 4:07 PM

No one gives a shit he is in Tampa. The post they did hours ago doesn’t even have 200 likes. We can all agree they both look like shit. Ben from 2020 when the hate started to now, he really is declining. He is stupid enough to be with her for a year now. They still have to hide because he is so famous. His desperation is really sad.

by Anonymousreply 329August 2, 2025 6:19 PM

He loves her against all reason... and that's one of his problems.

by Anonymousreply 330August 2, 2025 6:51 PM

Ben needs to come out as gay so we can all say "We know". Just like people did when the Stranger Things kid came out. That young guy is living his best life. Ben, you don't have to torture yourself.

We're all waiting.

by Anonymousreply 331August 2, 2025 7:31 PM

He loved JH against all reason because she was married when they started fucking and then went back to her husband and then after her divorce continued to date many men never choosing Benny boy. With Aubrey I think he is almost in his mid forties and she is just there while he tries to prove in his mid life crisis that his life isn’t a pathetic mess. Since she has made her entire life about him he doesn’t have to change or grow or be better. He has confused the obedience she learned through her church as true romantic love. His parents are therapists? The issues this man has.

by Anonymousreply 332August 2, 2025 10:08 PM

R332 Have you ever listened to his interviews? How many times has he said over and over and over that he believes he's already good enough. So when you say "he doesn’t have to change or grow or be better," he sees that as his greatest asset with someone as pathetically obsequious as her. But in reality it's his greatest weakness, and she just enables him according to his demands. It's exactly why he's where he is in his failing career. It's exactly why she is the WORST possible choice he could make for a "girlfriend." And he's only going to spiral further and further down. And I'm going to enjoy watching.

by Anonymousreply 333August 3, 2025 12:02 AM

Ewww she has short video clips too. Maybe she can get a job in the adult industry since she clearly doesn't like wearing clothes. Now we know why he's keeping this cunt around.

by Anonymousreply 334August 3, 2025 3:23 PM

If he marries her and has a child, I can only imagine how horrible the bullying will be for their kid when schoolmates discover those pics and vids of her on the internet. Ben is bare too, but those were for work projects so it's different. Imo his future family with her is looking mighty bleek. I guess homeschool is a possibilty because she'll be his obedient housewife.

by Anonymousreply 335August 3, 2025 3:39 PM

Can you imagine what his contemporaries who are actually successful and established in that business must be saying behind his back when she posts things like that? The cat was infantile enough, but these are her friends? Grifting on nostalgia and it’s not even good. We have the bow video from her bestie, the friendship bracelets for his show (probably her idea), now bad emo hot topic grifters. With Bennys show failing, we know that screen rant article was paid for because no one is watching that show. It’s all so embarrassing, they are acting like it isn’t. D list, no class, no intellect, no relevance, just sad.

by Anonymousreply 336August 3, 2025 3:47 PM

LOOOOOOOOL!!!!! Benny just said that Skeletor's cat hates him and that he really really loves and prefers dogs at his Tampa panel! Oh fuck this is hilarious! Bitch cuck Benny actually said that even though the cat doesn't like him, he still loves it. How fucking desperate do you have to be in your midlife crisis to be completely oblivious to the unending plethora of hints that a relationship isn't supposed to happen? The self-proclaimed actual love of Skeletor's life apparently openly hates her boyfriend, probably scratches the hell out of him, but Benny's desperately forcing the love regardless of the pain and damage it does to him. That's a new level of fucking pathetic Benny. I didn't realize you could get any lower but you keep surprising me! Will you *ever* listen to the hints and finally hit that big reset button to turn your life around? No? Good. Then I get to continue laughing at your pathetic ass until then!

by Anonymousreply 337August 3, 2025 7:26 PM

Ben needs to stop lying! He knows he hates the cat just as much as the cat hates him. Probably upset it has to smell Benny's stink all day long.

by Anonymousreply 338August 3, 2025 8:22 PM

I hope an interviewer or someone at a fancon throws him off guard and asks him difficult questions about his bad life choices over the years. No topic off limits. I want to see him squirm and see how he handles pressure. These fluff questions have got to go.

by Anonymousreply 339August 3, 2025 9:24 PM

Cat probably reads the DL and Coral 😂. It just beyond hilarious the cat hates him and his dumb ass still can’t take a hint. Just like someone said he really is a dummy. And I would love to see the videos with his I’m with Jesus when it is convenient for me GF.

by Anonymousreply 340August 3, 2025 11:23 PM

R340 Indeed, I too am intrigued R334. Please do share for the class of the overwhelming majority of Ben's fanbase that has increasingly grown to hate her and how poorly she reflects on him.

by Anonymousreply 341August 3, 2025 11:35 PM

This guy does not care about equality. He is more interested in a paycheck and pleasing his depleting fanbase. He already admitted at The Institute premiere that he would do the role if offered the chance using the excuse of how many others are involved in the project. What does that have to do with anything? The more I think about it, he likely votes Republican since he sure loves to fuck them.

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by Anonymousreply 342August 4, 2025 3:46 PM

[R342] It is worse and yes he comes off as a paycheck and attention wh0re by saying this. But he is so non committal to anything. He plays in the middle too much and he should have taken a stance whether for or against it like some of the cast members have already done. See he doesn’t really want to get cancelled by coming in strong for this project but still is seeking out the mid life fame that had alluded him and will continue to do so. And you can see this also with his life choices and him hiding that vile soft porn failed singer, failed influencer, failed actress, and soon to be failed painter GF. He is so blind and living in his own bubble he doesn’t realize these “girls”(I refuse to call them women) are hurting his career and are hurting his fans. Whether it was Hough with her black face and him just ignoring what everyone else was saying to this new beast mocking his fans. The big problem is he doesn’t have a stance on anything. Now the question is will he attend the MAGA movie premiere with the beast? He needs to be cancelled already. .

by Anonymousreply 343August 4, 2025 4:31 PM

JFC again? Again? For real again ? This man has delusions of grandeur about this album. God save us all. God save our ears.

by Anonymousreply 344August 4, 2025 7:17 PM

Of course it is the song he wrote about a breakup with another woman where his current gf was the romantic interest in the music video. That picture he used is awful. Same old, same old.

by Anonymousreply 345August 5, 2025 12:01 AM

Hey Skeletor. Lay off the plastic surgeries and consider hair plugs because yikes.

by Anonymousreply 346August 5, 2025 3:18 AM

I was discussing all the most recent developments with a female friend who always provides great insights, and she brought up some extra things I hadn't fully considered. About how much pay-for-play toxicity is woven into this "relationship." Ben's closest/oldest friends have been following Skeletor throughout from pretty much the beginning. But Skeletor's closest/oldest friends? Nope, it took the hilariously glowing *lies* of the birthday papwalk for just a few of them to finally follow Ben. They've been dating for a year, and it took this long for her people to acknowledge him when it's the polar opposite for his people? Why is that exactly? Because it certainly looks like Skeletor and her friends are just dangling rewards only for when the desperate puppy obediently acquiesces to her unending demands for publicity and attention (and God only knows what else).

Then there's the similar public behavior towards Ben of Skeletor herself and her mother, pre and post papwalk. Because the acknowledgement was complete-disregard-night and running-to-praise-day. (And remind me why exactly it took Skeletor *weeks* until The. Day. After. he took her to the LA premiere to remove the trolling-Ben comments from her posts?) Their change *REALLY* does make me wonder if there were threats of leaving if Ben didn't arrange that embarrassing papwalk he obviously *didn't* want to do.

Though are the threats continuing even now? Because Ben just resorted to following her friends who took days to follow him back, but not only that. He actually desperately went back in time to like posts from the past few months in an obvious attempt to suck up to her people like the scared little boy he is. Have her friends returned the desperate gesture and liked his posts? Of course not (though to be fair, practically no one has).

But see, this is a perfect illustration of the issue. Ben people-pleaser Barnes is literally acting publicly desperate when it comes to this "relationship" lately. And a desperate man in a midlife crisis is a VERY easy mark. He is very easy to take advantage of, and cuck and manipulate if there's constant fear hanging over the "relationship." Is that why he always looks so anxious and depressed when she's around, and much lighter and happier when they're separated? Why is it necessary for him to have to performatively try this hard, and act this desperate, and do such grandiose out of character actions to keep this "relationship" going? And what demands will she be making of him next that he will feel forced to agree to no matter what it costs him? And this my friends, is why his fan base is increasingly coming around to thinking of her as a fucking cunt. Because that's exactly what she is.

by Anonymousreply 347August 5, 2025 4:46 AM

Reminds me of meghan markle a bit, just how manipulative it obviously is. She is wanting attention and we see how anxious he is and how we here literally talked about how hiding his gf was toxic after it was specifically asked, Aubrey we see you, and what would it take for us to like her and then we get a whole paparazzi set up. The thing is you actually have to be likable for people to like you.

Aubrey just seems vapid, you can see the mean girl, clearly her and her family are master manipulators and they have manipulated Benny boy so their little girl can be a star. He did platform her in every aspect.

What happens when Ben has nothing to promote in a month? When his face isn’t on a billboard? When the music is tired and old and his young fan base moves on because he offers nothing but past nostalgia. He is constantly saying how he doesn’t act on intuition and instinct, meaning he has little boundaries and self worth, we hope he can get out. This relationship doesn’t seem genuine or healthy in the slightest. When has Ben in the last five years made a choice that seemed not desperate and pathetic. Even his music is about an affair with a omg I didn’t know type of racist.

by Anonymousreply 348August 5, 2025 10:19 AM

Since it took him a year to start following one of her bff's (and fiancé by default) it's honestly not the person I thought he would go for first. My thought was the pajama post girl only because they have the most in common. You know, both being perverts and robbing the craddle. But I guess who he chose fits his carefully crafted public image. Skeletor and her LA friends are deep into punk rock and Ben has never been a part of that scene as far as I can recall. So we shall see how this oil and water couple try to merge friends. Right now it's not looking like Benny boy has any interest in her emo friends or her hateful cat.

by Anonymousreply 349August 5, 2025 11:37 AM

The carefully crafted public image that is crumbling as I type this.... partly due to the crumb queen herself.

by Anonymousreply 350August 5, 2025 12:16 PM

R349 yes - oil and water is a very good description of this mismatched pair.

I think the reason he’s been looking older & more tired recently and drinking too much Red Bull (one would presume, as his other setting right now is ‘Hyper’), is that he’s trying to keep up with this young spoilt child which he’s made the mistake of inviting into his house. Along with her cat, of course. No one’s allowed to forget about the Love of Her Life!

Ben - be aware, that cat will always hate you. It’s going to sit on top of the doors in your house and jump down onto your head as you walk through, digging those claws RIGHT into your scalp. Where they can’t be seen 😈

No wonder Cal had to just about pry BB off himself at ASOCAS. Living was easy when bro was his roomie.

‘Act in haste, repent at leisure’. Lol.

by Anonymousreply 351August 5, 2025 12:34 PM

R351 Here's a fun thought. As someone even older than Benny, I'm well aware of how and when testosterone starts to drop off as you reach middle age, and what that does to you. What if the big brains on Benny decided to try out some supplemental testosterone to desperately try to keep up with his much, MUCH younger girlfriend, and now he's suffering the consequences of the increased estrogen levels in his body. Like water retention, as he's been *extremely* puffy lately. And belly fat, because did you see that rather dramatic muffin top he was sporting at ASOCAS? (Not to mention the back fat flap that literally made him look like he was wearing a too-tight bra.) And we definitely can't forget about manboobs, because Benny's have been even larger than some women I know lately. And not to mention the depression and moodiness that eats away at you. My my my, actually that sounds exactly like what we've been seeing in Benny lately. As the kids say, love that for him.

by Anonymousreply 352August 5, 2025 1:29 PM

R352 You forgot the hair loss.

She needs an overhaul.

by Anonymousreply 353August 5, 2025 1:51 PM

The man boobs are so apparent, they are all I see in these new pics. Could he be any more pathetic

by Anonymousreply 354August 6, 2025 2:40 AM

Fans you put him on a pedestal long enough. I’m glad skeletor showed you who he really is A shallow individual who is so messed up in the head but yet refuses help while using you to try to fulfill his and skeletor lifestyles. I am terribly sorry you got scammed and yolked up in the illusion but glad the cracks are finally chipping away. Don’t hate her thank her for showing you.

by Anonymousreply 355August 7, 2025 2:35 AM

It must be sooo disappointing when you think you’ve found a rich and famous sugar daddy - only to find out that he most definitely isn’t.

by Anonymousreply 356August 7, 2025 8:37 AM

Here's an idea. Stop streaming his music and videos, especially the Nevermind video since the soft porn crumb queen is in it. All she wants is attention and for him to take care of her.

by Anonymousreply 357August 7, 2025 9:49 AM

Hello it’s me Nadya again

I love Aubrey Cleland

by Anonymousreply 358August 7, 2025 7:37 PM

elliebarnes2024 on Instagram is behind some of the Aubrey hate

by Anonymousreply 359August 7, 2025 7:40 PM

That Ellie , told me a girl named Shannon is also a Aubrey hater

by Anonymousreply 360August 7, 2025 8:13 PM

A friend told me to come to this thread so here I am. Fans the people have warned you over and over again that they see your cut throat approach with each other and now these three threads prove ithat you will eat your own and two despite the bullies in your group that make you try to like skeletor you all don’t like her still. We see you. We always have seen you. We always known and you guys get pissy when they call you out in these threads. You are playing on both sides of the fence to still have close proximity to this D list loser. So what do you all do come running here from your individual chats elsewhere to tell on your own. So much for Benships. News flash he is a closeted gay. When I was once upon a time on these threads. Thanks for telling on yourselves. Now let me go off to my regular scheduled gay programming.

by Anonymousreply 361August 7, 2025 10:08 PM

Ellie told me Eva and the Shannon are very behind the hate ben and unmentionable get which is what they call Aubrey

Nadya

by Anonymousreply 362August 7, 2025 10:20 PM

They all met ben and have the fan accounts he has no idea they have the secrets

Nadya

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by Anonymousreply 363August 7, 2025 10:22 PM

Nadya please skip off elsewhere . We got this.

by Anonymousreply 364August 7, 2025 10:33 PM

No you love me

by Anonymousreply 365August 7, 2025 10:41 PM

She say Shannon and others are behind some fake accounts I think ben should know I have messaged him

by Anonymousreply 366August 7, 2025 10:47 PM

They all angry now

by Anonymousreply 367August 7, 2025 11:05 PM

It wasnt just ellie they got someone else in there chat who is active who tell me more things then ellie

by Anonymousreply 368August 7, 2025 11:08 PM

ben knows now

by Anonymousreply 369August 7, 2025 11:14 PM

Fans if you cannot be adults then you need to leave here ASAP. You are acting like children telling on each other and doxing each other. Now you have one saying I’m telling Ben. How old are you?! This is a serious question. You are really f’king up these threads for the rest of them. Has anyone who is a regular doxxed anyone by saying names? I bet some of them even know the names but never said anything. So you spent 1.99 to post here being terribly vile but you come off elsewhere this is a Benship when you excluded others and scold others who say the slightest thing that is out of line in your books. So what if someone made a joke about a bra. Stop being Karens because with your average age of 35 you should be ashamed of yourselves. I’m telling Ben… wtf. Then Ben should know that you all are backstabbing witches. Tell it ALL not just one side of the story. Now you have people wondering if you guys tipped the scales to get people removed from social media. You guys have gotten out of hand so come on. Take the L. And I ask you why you are doing this for someone who is career is going nowhere. That series is pure sh!t. Nadya I will deal with you some other time.

by Anonymousreply 370August 7, 2025 11:41 PM

These fans are sick in the head telling lies on each other and pitting one against each other. Kiss our collective asses along with your man-child idol. You have pissed us off today.

by Anonymousreply 371August 8, 2025 12:24 AM

If you think this is going to give you points with the loser couple then you are sadly mistaken. They don’t give a crap about you they only care about your money and how well you can inflate their stupid egos. Waste of our time. Should also be a waste of your time too. Get help. Hopefully mental health facility can get you a group rate.

by Anonymousreply 372August 8, 2025 1:03 AM

R361 R370 You of course make very valid and truthful statements, but if you'll excuse me, I won't be looking a gift horse in the mouth. Because I don't know how closely (if at all) any of the eyes on this thread pay attention to Ben's fandom, but you should. About how pro-Benship they are publicly where Ben can see them, but then how vicious they get towards him, towards her, and yes definitely towards each other in their more private spaces where Ben isn't looking.

Because the only thing all of his fans care about is themselves. They don't genuinely care about him, only what he can do for them. They create tailor made "art" that sucks up to what they think his VERY *easily* manipulated ego will like best for his Instagram tags solely for the purpose of getting him to like their post. And then they lord that like! over everybody else and mock the others for not getting his attention. They fill their public comments up with praise and love, because that earns them a like, or even better, a REPLY! Which they screenshot and show off to everyone else because it's currency for their own egos. That is, until they rush back to their private chats where the praise and love is gone, and the claws come out with what they really think. Because if Ben thinks anyone's actually enjoying his performance in The Institute. . . . And my oh my do they backstab each other in private. Publicly facing, it's all Benship and love to each other. But in private, the masks come off, and you see that most of them fucking hate each other.

But no where does their vicious hatred rear its ugly head higher, than for Skeletor. It started as little embers, that grew into brush fires, that connected into wildfires, but now it's taken on a life of its own growing into a conflagration of vitriol. They *hate* how fast the rose colored glasses are fading as they realize that this extremely privileged, worthless, talentless, Mean Girl, college dropout that's literally lived the FULL entirety of her life off of men is the type of girl he would go for. Just look at his Instagram and YouTube. His follower and like counts have fallen off a cliff. Crashing and burning before our very eyes. But maybe like calls to like and they're jealous because Skeletor obviously hates his fans just as much, and constantly shows off and lords her elevated position over them every single possible chance she gets with constant cat references and suit jackets and location shots and particular paintings (for SALE!) and Porsches and fuck you kisses. And why did Ben choose her instead of them? Well she is much skinnier than any of them are, and since all Ben's MASSIVE ego cares about is looks and how young she is. . . well, they never stood a chance now did they.

But possibly what they hate even more, is what she's clearly done to him. Because he used to post things regularly all the time. Used to, until he hooked up with her. Now a days, the only time he posts about what he's doing or where he's going is when he's not with *her*. On tour and away from her? Posted constantly and fans loved it. The Tampa convention this past weekend? Posting and thanking everyone! Because she wasn't with him. Did he do the same for the Paris convention? Of course not, she was with him. Over the past six months once she moved in, how much has he posted? And was any of it NOT ads for his music or his new show? I'll wait. No, she hates his fans because he loves them out loud, unlike her, so how much do you think the little MeanGirl tolerates when he posts for *their* benefit? And hence, he obeys her demands and goes radio silent whenever she's around, and breaks free when she's not. Because she is an absolute fucking cunt that's destroyed this man in everyone's eyes.

by Anonymousreply 373August 8, 2025 2:16 AM

Mind if I join in? Since this fandom claims they are all for this man child’s success why was this stunt done today by anyone who says they care about him? You pushed fans away who were trying to connect with a common interest and have turned others off. How juvenile of you? He will lose more fans just like he did in 2021/2022. I hope it was worth it. I hope you had something that you accomplished in the twisted minds you have. Don’t come back airing your dirty laundry here.

by Anonymousreply 374August 8, 2025 2:24 AM

The possibilities of who is responsible for this. Could be one of the fans who is part of the skeletor fan club(we know who you are). Could also be someone who is skeletor adjacent too because everyone knows they like to stir up crap. Or there is a one messed up individual who just wants to see it all burn. Since you guys started this we would like to let you know we will finish this. Should have never came here.

by Anonymousreply 375August 8, 2025 10:25 AM

So I’m confused. What happened? Who did what? I don’t follow his fan base so have no idea the details here. The fans are blowing shit up right before new music time? Why?

by Anonymousreply 376August 8, 2025 3:41 PM

Why did he pick the saddest picture for the cover and the saddest version of this song as the release for the new deluxe release? The tote is so ugly, an Aubrey creation I’m sure. Why not where the light gets in because I’m in my happy era with my clingy gf?

by Anonymousreply 377August 8, 2025 5:42 PM

How interesting his muse her initials are now in the dark on his deluxe album cover and he starts it with nevermind and ends with 11:11. The music is all about JH right? He was personal on socials because this one was still around, now he is with Aubrey so it’s all business and exploitation for the fans. He hasn’t shared a personal moment since the tour, it has all been self promotion and Aubrey did that. With her little stunts on tour and then that paparazzi walk.

by Anonymousreply 378August 8, 2025 5:50 PM

[376] Quick Ben’s crazies made a stop here yesterday doxxing each other saying pointing out the alleged Skeletor haters and those who are allegedly starting crap in the fandom. One little baby said they are going to tell Ben(Jhow TF?)They didn’t realize they paid to get their owning by the regulars here. Now they all mad at each other because of a manipulator. Problem is the ones they accused are just lower people in the fandom and the c^nts couldnt pick on someone their own size. You know middle school/high school messy shit. Hope this helps.

by Anonymousreply 379August 8, 2025 5:53 PM

Live shows planned for 2026, could he advertise anymore how much of a failing acting career he has. It’s his acting career that got him his fan base, which is why they listen to the music. It’s not the music alone, he gets that right?

by Anonymousreply 380August 8, 2025 7:18 PM

Could it get any worse for him? I am so happy for him right now. It’s just comical watching fail after fail after fail for him. I wonder how much booze he will consume this time around.

by Anonymousreply 381August 8, 2025 8:24 PM

R380 Really not sure he does. You’re right, the music is only tolerated because of his acting. Some fans went along to see *him* at those shows and as part of that, had a jolly little singalong at the same time. He had 3 Broken Hearts courtesy of Hough and the songs were supposed to be cathartic. But it’s gone beyond a joke now… he actually thinks he’s in his Hozier era.

He needs to look around at his ex costars - some of them are flying high. HE’S talking about more live shows. He is not a rockstar. He can *play* at being one in between acting jobs.

by Anonymousreply 382August 8, 2025 9:37 PM

It was cute for a couple of years after a global pandemic when the entertainment industry was down and he was in between acting jobs.

He used the affair with Jules and the headlines he got from that as a catalyst for the music, like Taylor Swift does making her songs about her public relationships. We gave him props for following his dream at his big age and bought his little merch.

Now, just like his new gf and their entire relationship, this is embarrassing. He isn’t a real musician, he is an actor singing songs. He has convinced himself making music is now his thing and in that has become a person we all don’t really like anymore. Maybe this is his true self emerging from behind the narc mask, or he is letting the rockstar thing go to his head.

He barely broke even the first round, why is he selling shit no one asked for? No one wanted a deluxe anything, no one wants an ugly tote bag, no one is even watching the new show he is the star of. It feels like a cash grab, the death rattle of a promising career. His old cast mates are in giant movies and have their own series, he is doing cover songs at 44.

by Anonymousreply 383August 8, 2025 10:56 PM

[R383] Death rattle of a career is so chef’s kiss. I agree someone paid for that Screenrant article about the series because the numbers elsewhere say differently. He is getting the brunt of the criticism too unless the reviewer is a secret fangirl lusting after him. Mary Louise Parker did real interviews on real talk shows but not him. No one asked for this deluxe album edition which is way overpriced. All because his 10 remaining fan girls kept asking for it. No one else did. And speaking of them they are causing his numbers to dwindle especially that little child stunt they pulled here yesterday. I heard some are walking or running away citing excessive bullying that they finally got sick of it. These bullying fans want them to say what they want when they want and who they want. They should have left people alone but have to be Karens(and they look like one) And some have reach beyond giving many the ick with their sloppy looking Karen syndrome they have. I do wonder why they are so obsessed with him like that. Then last but certainly not least we have Skeletor a former empty headed fan girl. A vile manipulator who all she could do in London was stare down that fan that gave him flowers. A girl who will never be successful in anything . Miss dodgy soft porn fake Jesus freak. How I am wishing for a reality check to come for him and knock him on his ass. They keep coming but he is ignoring everything. He was promising and had promise after Westworld and the Punisher but he messed that up. He need to fail hard to understand the struggle. Everything is going down the drain and I just going to sit on my bench and watch it burn to hell. So good.

by Anonymousreply 384August 9, 2025 1:27 AM

Wow the fans are running away. That new post has barely any likes. If him and Aubrey do anything for his birthday on the 20th I think that might be the nail in the coffin. Another paparazzi walk perhaps? An engagement? The only thing that would save his career would be a break up.

by Anonymousreply 385August 9, 2025 3:24 PM

Ha ha ha Many months later I watched that duet between those two. So so bad. I can’t stop laughing. I am kind of embarrassed for him. No just kidding. Ha ha ha especially her looking like a piece of Sheetrock thinking she really was doing something and her crowd thinking she is so talented.

by Anonymousreply 386August 9, 2025 4:45 PM

That performance was one of the worst on the entire tour. They don’t make sweet music together. Ben never highlighted his love and her performance with him after that. She brought her agent, her friends, the entire church group to that performance and it was awful.

by Anonymousreply 387August 9, 2025 5:38 PM

Won’t be surprised if his deluxe album doesn’t really come out until October. Isn’t the anniversary of 11:11 mid October? The last song on the deluxe is 11:11. Since he has nothing going on he leaked it on that morning show to feed his ego, then they did this announcement cash grab because his birthday is soon (probably another video or song then), the actual thing won’t come out for months as he did say that on the news interview.

by Anonymousreply 388August 9, 2025 7:30 PM

Ok so I have a theory, is Benny doing drugs? Like hard core. If you are doing snow and surrounded by others also doing it, Aubrey it keeps you skinny, then you do become utterly delusional. If he already has delusions of grandeur that would only be elevated. The reason he was drinking so much on tour because he couldn’t necessarily bring or get drugs on a world tour funded by a label and the band would know he has this problem, so he would end up drinking instead. Since tour ended he has gone head first, which is why he looks like shit, probably drinking and drugs hence the puffy weight gain. Aubrey is an enabler which is why she moved eight months into them dating, he has been talking about the cat since March. Snow makes you touchy feely, hence Kevin’s birthday video of the only PDA we have from them. Wouldn’t be surprised if the cat is a joke in their circles and they find it funny when he brings it up, that’s why she created a private account for the cat, it is referencing what they actually all do together. These people don’t have proper jobs, they are not busy. I do think the Aubrey thing might be darker than we thought.

by Anonymousreply 389August 9, 2025 7:48 PM

Snow birds with no money. Watch out Hollywood Hills neighbors you about to get robbed by General Aleksander Kirigan aka the Darkling aka bloated ass 44 year old. Yes there is substance involved because you can’t be sober to deal with Skeletor day in and day out. And she is way skinner than she was like 5-10 years ago. You also know you can’t tell a Snow Bird anything like making a deluxe version of an album that was originally never asked for. To the fan witches who asked for this to be forced on everyone else, may a dark cloud follow you wherever you go.

by Anonymousreply 390August 9, 2025 8:57 PM

He misses me

by Anonymousreply 391August 9, 2025 9:52 PM

Ha when the nut job thinks Ben thinks of her positively when she has been harassing Jack, Aubrey, Cal, Kevin for a year now. Can’t wait for AI to take her face and voice and have their day. Not making friends.

by Anonymousreply 392August 9, 2025 10:38 PM

You don’t know the relationship

by Anonymousreply 393August 9, 2025 11:20 PM

Wow this Ben group of fans is purely mentally unstable. Whatever floats your boat Karens.

by Anonymousreply 394August 9, 2025 11:46 PM

We don’t know the relationship, we know you have severe mental problems, but you aren’t alone in this delusion. A few Benny fans think they have a romantic relationship with him and they are a part of his life. Which he feeds into posting and liking their free promotional material he then uses to make himself money. Nothing like manipulating your fans to do labor for you.

by Anonymousreply 395August 10, 2025 1:15 AM

R385 Wow yes that is a lacklustre response! Finally, finally will this prove to him that the music thing is just a vanity project? Nothing more, nothing less. Very telling… not one of his merry band of (genuine) musos followed her, because they know how talentless she is. Comes across as the kind of chick who ignores people she thinks aren’t of use to her. The slow follows from Rob, Cal and Kev - says the same. S&B cast…. ignored her. Lol.

Get back to acting, you bozo. Dump the younger gf… you can’t keep up with her and her little pals. That, along with the LA sun, is sucking the life out of you. We can all see it happening over the past months when you rushed into this ill-advised relationship. You’ll end up looking like a dried-up prune. And then the need for the full Hollyweird smorgasbord of treatments will kick in. AI plastic botox non-expressive face here you come.

R387 Totally underwhelming at best. She’s a failed wannabe singer. ‘Local talent’…. what IS her actual talent? Karaoke? No I think we can guess - blow jobs and reverse cowgirl, right? Oh my, what would the pious Renee think if she knew the truth? Honey, your girl is regularly on her knees but not for praying.

R388 Yeah it’s out on 24 October (Kartel website blurb under his album.)

R389 He probably is, yes. But we have large contributions from feckless gf and burning sun. Bad combo.

by Anonymousreply 396August 10, 2025 10:01 AM

R396 "Skeletor being regularly on her knees, but not for praying" comes in as the best and most accurate description of Benny's flagrantly worthless girlfriend I've ever heard on this Sunday Morning. I may even go to church I'm so thankful.

by Anonymousreply 397August 10, 2025 4:56 PM

Fascinating this deluxe release is October 24th. We know his pattern is to release something like a teaser or video on the Wednesday before the Friday. The 22nd means something, for the ones who have picked up on this by now will know who I’m talking about. He also did this last year releasing his tour announcement and dates on this special day of someones, the American tour ended where she lives. Aubrey was around then we just didn’t know it was serious. 11:11 was released a week before this date way back. October is not random. Since he is loving out loud with Aubrey you think he wouldn’t be still keeping these patterns. I’m right with Aubrey not being his sole focus. No delusional crazies like ellie and nadya it’s not you and never was. This one actually knew or knows him.

by Anonymousreply 398August 10, 2025 5:40 PM

Also if you’ll notice she did a Photo Booth series at a certain premiere party that Ben copied the exact poses with Aubrey in the nevermind video. NY also being the location of that video and song means something. Aubrey thought she was special, when really she was a prop to signal to someone else entirely, a placeholder. Him opening with that song for this deluxe release is on purpose. He has been signaling for a year, at least that’s when I first noticed, through his socials.

by Anonymousreply 399August 10, 2025 6:07 PM

Knew

by Anonymousreply 400August 10, 2025 6:33 PM

Nadya you are jealous your little rabbit delusion was never real. He wasn’t signaling to you through rabbits. Go ahead harass jack some more when he has a baby.

by Anonymousreply 401August 10, 2025 6:48 PM

Who is Nadya?

by Anonymousreply 402August 10, 2025 7:05 PM

I have never heard of anyone named Nadya

by Anonymousreply 403August 10, 2025 9:03 PM

it’s me, your lover. I miss you.

🐰

by Anonymousreply 404August 10, 2025 9:47 PM

I have moved on though. Please don’t contact me again.

🐰

by Anonymousreply 405August 11, 2025 11:28 AM

R405 jack is not talking to you through socials you fucking nut job. No one is contacting you. The fact that Ben has become a hallmark channel D list star with his fans being mostly mentally ill while also targeting his gf and his family is the saddest thing I have ever seen.

by Anonymousreply 406August 11, 2025 4:41 PM

I am not Nadya and I’m not Ben or anyone around him

by Anonymousreply 407August 11, 2025 4:47 PM

I do not want Nadya or want anything to do with her 🐰

by Anonymousreply 408August 11, 2025 4:48 PM

Ben has never acknowledged the existence of Nadya. The only thing he may have seen is the scary comments she makes on his Instagram posts. Ben has never sent emojis as a sign he is in love with a fan. This is mental illness type thinking.

I’m not Ben, I’m not Aubrey. Nobody on this thread or any of them is Aubrey or Ben or even associated with them. Ben is with Aubrey. Not a psycho fan. While some people think they sit here reading these, they are existing together somewhere else and ignoring it all because why would they listen to a bunch of anonymous people dictating what they believe their relationship is? The only way he would notice some of these fans is with a restraining order.

Nadya, nobody here is Ben. Ben has zero history with you. He has no idea you exist. He’s with Aubrey.

by Anonymousreply 409August 11, 2025 5:03 PM

The above comment is directed to Nadya and other fans who need it. Nobody else here needs to reply to it.

by Anonymousreply 410August 11, 2025 5:05 PM

And the anonymous comments with the 🐰 are just me. I’m not Ben. I’m just a silly old troll.

by Anonymousreply 411August 11, 2025 5:07 PM

Dumb Ben and his insignificant crumb queen gf are not ignoring these threads because there is some truth being told here. They love reading what the haters are saying, especially the Christian ho. She tries to clapback, but the college dropout looks even more stupid than she already is - we all saw the hairbow she wore at the Valentine gig that showed just how small-minded she really is. He thinks he scored a virtuous woman? Nope, just a girl pretending to be one. Everybody HATES her. Propose to her and it's goodbye to the rest of his fans. I really hope that happens so I can continue to enjoy his downfall. Better secure your phone Ben, she might leak your alleged dick pics if you don't cooperate with her demands. 😂

by Anonymousreply 412August 11, 2025 7:36 PM

We've already determined he's a Ken doll down there. Skeletor can keep those pics to herself. Everyone has seen enough of her as it is.

by Anonymousreply 413August 11, 2025 7:52 PM

Why are you engaging these fans and mentioning them by name? Just don’t mention it and you will see how fast it goes away. But you fans lack critical thinking sometimes like your idol. Sigh. But some of you all bring your cisgender woes to a forum that was mostly created for gays. Don’t worry it is being discussed elsewhere on here too. So this is nothing new. Some of you cisgenders ruin places you go to and we have to stop giving out day passes to you . This obsession with POS man and some of you pro Skeletor fans is just asinine. Come on here crashing the party that we were having fun for years without you. Then you brought the trash here that you have in your fan group because you can’t speak to each other like adults and pressuring people to act a certain way. Then you police us like you do to each other in your fan group. We won’t go for it. We were here first. One poster suggested a group rate at an asylum for some of you and they are not wrong. BTW My gaydar has been ringing about him for years. I am mostly never wrong. To the fans who recently got here pick up your jump rope and go home. The rest of you I have no problem with. I can always scroll pass if you get weird and we sometimes get weird here.

by Anonymousreply 414August 11, 2025 9:45 PM

[R413] Nice. 👍🏼

by Anonymousreply 415August 11, 2025 9:46 PM

I’m gay as fuck so I know you don’t mean me

by Anonymousreply 416August 11, 2025 9:50 PM

[R416] Never you. I’m talking about Ben’s Karens. They know who they are. The ones who get upset because someone is talking about him and his witch. They have their own Ben echo chambers so they shouldn’t be here when they know what we say and do here.

by Anonymousreply 417August 11, 2025 10:27 PM

Proceed with whatever you were all doing here but I have apparently deeply fed into Nadya’s delusions by making her think I was Ben sending her cryptic messages on here.

I’m not Ben, I was using the 🐰 emoji to fuck with you.

I’m sure if they read into these threads, I’m sure both Ben and Aubrey judge the fuck out of these kinds of fans.

by Anonymousreply 418August 11, 2025 11:57 PM

Ben should take note of tyla and how her release just completely failed after being one of the biggest artists last year. Her fault was she alienated her audience. That is exactly what he has been doing from JH when he was blocking fans to Aubrey with playing games hiding her until he has a show to sell and to get back at JH while also having these woman play games with the fans specifically. He wonders why he has the lowest likes for his new deluxe release when this is something we have warned him about for years, but we are just trolls right. The consequences have arrived. Aubrey would have been best to just go private, her trying to get clout and fame now anything she does will be seen as just that. She made her bed, the fans hate her, Ben has lost any true status that he once had.

by Anonymousreply 419August 12, 2025 6:50 PM

[R419] No one should take him seriously anymore. Thought he would get that sh!t out of his system in his 20s yet here we are. Became a complete train wreck of a person who is rapidly losing his looks like some life force is draining him. If some of these critics are to believe he is getting most of the criticism for this abysmal show that gives 101 film school vibes. And yes Tyla messed up too and now she is back tracking trying to apologize to the African American community. But the difference is he will never even do that because we seen this story before all too many times. Let’s remind the rest how this went especially the blocking of fans of color. Too many have enabled him and having a stunted minded girl who is aging faster than dog years is not helping. As the kids say aging like spoiled chocolate milk. As for the fans a few will stay because these girls love a red flag and probably have secret BDSM fetishes. The sane ones are quietly leaving because they just can’t anymore sounds like Hough era on rinse and repeat. Just like that painting that came out the day after Election Day where the black women were sitting on a rooftop watching it all burn come have a seat next to me and watch it burn to a crisp. Someone is getting a regular job real soon.

by Anonymousreply 420August 12, 2025 9:49 PM

If anyone here (perfectly reasonably) believes that these threads aren't read and considered by outside eyes, the evidence apparently begs to differ with you. Because certain patterns out there in *ALL* of Bennyland have definitely changed. Including one Ben pattern that actually clearly got much worse. And when did these particular patterns begin to change? Just after last week's possible-fan dust up went down. Could it be coincidence and it's only a case of everyone out there, INCLUDING those *closest* to Benny, hating and being so tired of Benny's music and acting that they're now literally punishing him for continuing to pursue his life-long dreams? *Including* those closest to him? Sure it could be coincidence, or maybe a combination of both occurrences. Guess we can't know, but we can know Benny's stars definitely haven't aligned, and he is definitely currently being left behind. I only wonder just how many certain life long dreams Benny will obstinately and desperately continue to pursue to his own extreme detriment, and how much it will *still* cost him. Tick Tock Benny.

by Anonymousreply 421August 13, 2025 1:59 AM

[R421] You have a great point. However, what the fans don’t realize is that dust up that happened here and spilled everywhere else is someone played them and they fell for it. This is why I scream the benefits of critical thinking which he and his fans lack. I knew exactly when that thread broke out that was exactly what someone was doing. But, it did expose one thing that the fans are on here even though they say they would never and they are on here a lot. Same goes for Coral’s site. And that’s why people went after them last week because they are pure hypocrites. So I say TF?

by Anonymousreply 422August 13, 2025 3:06 AM

Would be fun to find out who was behind this. I think it time that guy learns hard living.

by Anonymousreply 423August 13, 2025 3:08 AM

[quote]But, it did expose one thing that the fans are on here even though they say they would never and they are on here a lot. Same goes for Coral's site.

R422 How right you are, but more importantly, *why*. Because we and Coral are just so interesting? Or entertaining? If it was just casual, or especially hate-reading, then why are the feelings expressed in our respective forums spreading throughout his fandom? Why are the points being made here taking hold? Why is the hatred for Skeletor growing and spreading? Why are they increasingly growing hopelessly and irreparably frustrated and exasperated with his behavior and especially what she's done to him? Why is everything about him, and I can't believe I have to type this, giving an increasing number of them The Ick? Because their *public* protestations are truthful? No, it's because they agree. They want to lurk and read here and at Coral's because they innately feel the truth in what's said where we aren't afraid to complain. They know we're right, and they're starting to show it themselves. Benny desperately tries to curate and craft a positive narrative and tells them ever changing provable lies. We tell them the truth and back it up with evidence. They know we're right, they can feel it, and it's spreading.

by Anonymousreply 424August 13, 2025 3:59 PM

If you were just watching Bens instagram you would never know he was with Aubrey last summer shooting the nevermind music video, you would never know Aubrey was at that Paul McCarthy concert in December last year, you would have never known Aubrey went to Wimbledon because he never talks about her or highlights her. He talks about the cat more than her. The cat only came up after we saw her ugly painting in his house connecting they lived together. Of course his fan base is coming here for the truth, we are right and are speaking the truth. We saw who Aubrey was long before her painter grift started, so I’m glad they have finally caught up. They can’t trust Ben to be honest with them. He has alienated them completely. Why would you want to buy things from someone you can’t trust?

by Anonymousreply 425August 13, 2025 7:37 PM

How many times has he lied about what would be happening on tour or the meanings of the songs or even saying it was a live performance when clearly it was prerecorded. So many lies. He lies by omission when he doesn’t acknowledge his gf went to all these things with him, in fact if it wasn’t Aubrey getting into pictures at premiere parties or posting pictures herself on her Instagram we would never know she was with him because he lies about it. Makes it seem like he is alone, just here for the fans. Until the nevermind video they had been dating for months and she went to Canada to see him on set and did anyone know she was his gf no. So he could play his games. If he didn’t have a show premiering we know that paparazzi walk would have never happened because he doesn’t really care about Aubrey. His actions show that.

by Anonymousreply 426August 13, 2025 8:20 PM

I had no idea my trolling on here had spread as far as it has. I have even appeared on corals blog. I’m flattered, really. Nice blog by the way.

As for the girl who shall no longer be named who is still convinced I’m Ben, Rob, Aubrey, Jack, Calahan, Kevin or a fan, I am not and I am none of these. I hope however my posts here have convinced you that not everything you see is real. You truly thought I was Ben, which proves how easy you can fall for a fake account which is perhaps what fed the delusions thinking Ben knows who you are or that he had any feelings toward you. I may be just a troll, but I do hope you get the help you need and you can heal and move past this fake reality you have created for yourself.

As for the rest of you, I enjoy lurking around so I will be here in the shadows. I shall continue to occasionally put my two sense in. The dedication to these threads is honestly almost admirable.

I’m still a troll though.

Only slightly sincerely, Your favourite trolling gay lass.

by Anonymousreply 427August 14, 2025 4:21 PM

Honey, have the delusions of grandeur returned again? Can you hear them talking to you as we speak? Or are you just bored again and desperate for attention?

Actually now that I think about it, considering all your previous attention seeking posts here, are you Skeletor little lass?

by Anonymousreply 428August 14, 2025 6:32 PM

[R428] Good points. Someone is definetly addicted to attention with the poster you mentioned.. Wonder what the voices are telling the lass now? I been around but does anyone else get this much hate as Ben? Why is everyone surrounding him from his fans to his GF to even him just are plain crazy? 🤪 I wish he would just take a Potter role even if it is mopping floors so he can get cancel and put everyone out of their misery.

by Anonymousreply 429August 14, 2025 6:45 PM

I thoroughly enjoy it, yes

by Anonymousreply 430August 14, 2025 8:51 PM

Benny has been quiet. Do you think they are on vaca for his birthday? A break up? Or a proposal? Pregnant by Christmas?

by Anonymousreply 431August 14, 2025 9:10 PM

I’m not a Taylor Swift fanatic but a friend of mine pointed out some interesting things that made me think that’s a fascinating coincidence. Just one of those universal signs or that red thread if you will. One of Taylors new album covers is shot in the same place the 11:11 music video was filmed specifically the room with the mirrors ( 11:11 is the last song on the deluxe release), the playlist she released has 22 songs on it (my comment above points out that number), Taylor’s new color palette she uses orange and he used orange on his last story and that color also reminds me of October when his deluxe album releases. Benny boy the universe speaks in coincidence and symbols they say.

by Anonymousreply 432August 15, 2025 2:29 AM

🐰.

by Anonymousreply 433August 15, 2025 12:23 PM
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