I just want to take a moment to thank all the exhibitionists

OP=chubby chaser

Agreed OP - thankfully a lot of guys out there straight and gay need internet support for their self esteem.

I could never do it - if only for pragmatic purposes. Some of those camera shots are NOT easy to do - and taking/re-taking and starting over. I've got no time for that.

I upvote those with proper lighting, angles and composition - only because it took time to do that. Those out of focus, dark / minimal lighting pics are just frustrating.

You're putting your junk out there for display - don't be surprised if you don't get much reaction if people have to Helen Keller their way through your dick pic to tell what the hell is going on.

But I hate the long teases - 10 seconds of slowly touching your underwear or slowly pulling it down for 2 seconds of frames of actual nudity. You're not that special honey - I don't have time for that. You do realize there are 500 others on this thread who just show it and pose. You're wasting my damn time.

Just as a side note, I have witnessed something with younger straight guys these days. I live in Italy, so I am not sure if this is something that happens in the States as well. Italian men are peacocks in general. I am a man of a certain age (50 to be exact) and when I see a young fit guy in the gym, and he catches me noticing, he will inevitably lift up his shirt to check his abs in the mirror, or pretend to wipe sweat off of his face with his shirt. At first I thought it was just my good fortune. But it's happened so many times now, I now know they want to show off and they appreciate being seen. I have seen it happen in the middle of the street even, some young stud finding a random excuse to expose his abs, or lift up the leg of his shorts to scratch his thigh. It really seems to be a younger/older dynamic. I don't see them doing this with guys their own age. Sometimes I am too embarrassed to give them the satisfaction of the lingering stare of an old gay man. Has anyone else noticed this?

Why is that old effeminate guy staring at me?

I honestly think it shows how few compliments men get in real life that they do this.

In my mind, it broken down to this:

5% exhibitionists 5% pervs/swingers 10% men looking to cheat 30% people trying to promote their OF 50% men looking for a compliment and to feel good about themselves

As far as the women - God it's unending - so much vadge and tits and ass everywhere. For those, I'd say it's 10% wanting compliments, 5% freaks, 85% prostitutes or promoting their Only fans.

r3 "I don't see them doing this with guys their own age."

They do, 100%. You just aren't seeing it.

Men get compliments. They just don't get them about their looks.

R7 - they do? Go online - men (straight) complain about it all the time.

They don't.

better than being a fucking incel

r8 "go online" - we are online here. Where, specifically, are you seeing men complain about that?

R10 - here's one from Dr. Berman. Do any Google search and look at the reddits where men discuss this.

Why are you so vested in disputing that men don't get compliments? Straight men, more specifically.

r11 Bless your heart

r11 I wasn't remotely disputing it, doofus - even though you didn't share a single link that supported your claim - a subjective blog post? You stated " Go online - men (straight) complain about it all the time."

But really - I don't care - just silly that you got your panties twisted about such an odd topic, then couldn't defend what you claimed. Carry on!

They are whores, darlin’.

Trust me R6, I look. It’s different. When it’s done with their peers, it’s not for them to be admired. It’s more for dominance to the point they’ll stand and pose, checking themselves out, strut about. But with an older guy, it’s more to be an object of desire - it’s a little sluttier, and they do it as if almost on “accident.” It’s furtive.. It’s a different vibe altogether.

So many of them list just 'girls' as their sexual interest. But how many women are surfing Xhamster for guys presenting hole?

“I want you to want me. I need you to need me…”

R3 50 is not old

50 is pretty old for a 20 year old beauty. Granted, some of the gay guys might want a daddy to fuck but a daddy would be 40ish.