Some real tea in the bad newspaper today:
"But now, thanks to Bedell Smith's quietly explosive new disclosures on her Royals Extra Substack blog, it is part of the public record. This isn't embellished tittle tattle. Bedell Smith is a rigorous royal biographer with decades of access to top sources, a biographer who exercises considerable restraint about what she publishes.
Lady Elizabeth died in November 2020, aged 79. But in her final years, she documented the private conversations she'd had with the Queen. Her notes now reveal a deeply personal portrait of a monarch shaken and quietly wounded.
Her telling observations shed an extraordinary new light on the late Queen's views on Harry and Meghan. 'She said she was not at all content,' wrote Anson at one point.
'Harry was rude to her for ten minutes,' at another.
'Meghan wouldn't tell her about the wedding dress,' Lady Elizabeth revealed.
'The jury is out on whether she likes Meghan,' she declared.
These were the words of a grandmother hurt, confused and heartbroken rather than those of a sovereign. As a monarch she knew exactly what to do, as a grandmother she found it all very painful.
Having reported on the royals for well over three decades, I can say with confidence that Lady Elizabeth notes mirrored what many in the palace were saying at the time.
While the couple's departure was wrapped in carefully managed press statements, behind the scenes the late Queen felt isolated, excluded.
She didn't understand Meghan's obsession with fame, or Harry's rash choices – especially when they lacked the ballast of service and duty. And she worried that Harry, once so cheerful and grounded, had 'lost his way'.
'She has blown his relationship with his grandmother,' Lady Elizabeth wrote about Meghan. A line that still cuts like a shard of glass. Spot on.
The late Queen found the chaos around the wedding baffling. Tantrums about tiaras, the insistence of having a veil when she had already been divorced.
She had hoped that Harry and Meghan's wedding in May 2018 would be a moment of family unity. Instead, there were rumblings of discord from the start. Protocol was sidestepped, staff were distressed, and the Queen's efforts at connecting with the bride-to-be, particularly around the choice of wedding dress, were apparently rebuffed.
'She was trying to find out about the wedding dress,' Lady Elizabeth noted, 'and Meghan wouldn't tell her.'
Lady Elizabeth was blunt in her assessment of Meghan. 'We hope but don't quite think she is in love. We think she engineered it all.'
And of Harry: 'The problem, bless his heart, is that Harry is neither bright nor strong, and she is both.'
n early 2019, not long after the wedding, a senior courtier shared something that has stayed with me ever since. 'The Boss is not happy,' he said. 'She doesn't get all the celebrity stuff. She thinks Harry is throwing it all away, for what?'