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Apparently my boss doesn’t know I’m gay

I’m not out at work and never talk about my partner or personal life but I just assumed that since I’m over 40 and seemingly single everyone knew. But we were talking about the absurdity of democratic politics, including trans issues. And she said “you and I believe in man/woman, but we can still be friends with those people even if we don’t agree with them.” This was in reference to a conversation about how in other parts of the country people won’t even talk to anyone who is different. And then she told me about a gay guy at work that does drag. Does this mean I pass for straight? I’m one of the good ones?

All joking aside, it feels that when it comes to being gay it’s all nothing these days. You either support all LGBTQ issues or you’re out of the club. I really just can’t relate to going all in on trans issues or wearing women’s clothes.

by Anonymousreply 40June 24, 2025 5:46 AM

Get a boyfriend and bore him with this shit.

by Anonymousreply 1June 23, 2025 8:34 PM

When Helen Keller can see from outer space you're a big ole homo, there's little need to make trans the butt of your stupidity, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2June 23, 2025 8:51 PM

She wants you inside of her cooch, OP. She's horny for you.

by Anonymousreply 3June 23, 2025 8:59 PM

There you go again, OP. Mistaking us for someone who gives a damn.

by Anonymousreply 4June 23, 2025 9:02 PM

[quote]I’m not out at work and never talk about my partner or personal life but I just assumed that since I’m over 40 and seemingly single everyone knew.

If you are partnered in life, why are you coming across as 'seemingly single' at work ? Are you ashamed of him as a partner ?

Something is very wrong.

by Anonymousreply 5June 23, 2025 9:04 PM

I thought wearing women’s clothes was mandatory. Thanks foe enlightening me.

by Anonymousreply 6June 23, 2025 9:05 PM

OP, don't act naive.

your female coworkers would never talk this way in professional setting about colored people, nor negroes, nor negras, nor blacks....

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by Anonymousreply 7June 23, 2025 9:05 PM

How sad that you can’t admit to work colleagues that you’re gay but not a cross dresser. You feel that is the default in their opinion and won’t do anything to change their mind. You’re not only a closet fag OP, you’re a a pussy.

by Anonymousreply 8June 23, 2025 9:06 PM

Since it’s all or nothing to join our gay club OP, feel free to see yourself out.

This. Never. Happened.

by Anonymousreply 9June 23, 2025 9:20 PM

Must be helen keller

by Anonymousreply 10June 23, 2025 9:24 PM

Oh, god, she's heard about the caftan collection, hasn't she? I know they're not dresses, technically, but they're pretty close, and she's kind of on the trail.

And for the love of God, get rid of those earrings. Nobody believes they're your mother's and you keep them for sentimental reasons!

Honestly, should we just move?

by Anonymousreply 11June 23, 2025 9:36 PM

OP, I'm at a loss to understand your post.

by Anonymousreply 12June 23, 2025 9:40 PM

[quote]Get a boyfriend and bore him with this shit.

I sent him here.

by Anonymousreply 13June 23, 2025 9:55 PM

He’s one of the “normal” gays.

by Anonymousreply 14June 23, 2025 9:56 PM

How very dare she, OP

by Anonymousreply 15June 23, 2025 10:00 PM

I think you’re reading a lot into a very ambiguous conversation. Next time she is taking a drink of coffee tell her that you are afraid your girlfriend might be pregnant and see what happens. That might give you a clearer idea.

by Anonymousreply 16June 23, 2025 10:03 PM

yes r16, and when she responds "What? Who? ... How?" you'll know where you stand OP.

by Anonymousreply 17June 23, 2025 10:08 PM

Your boss clearly has substandard observation skills to not see that you are a high pitched mincing queen OP.

by Anonymousreply 18June 23, 2025 10:08 PM

One day at work I went to get supplies in storage room. My boss said "Where's Mike?" Co-worker replied "He's in the closet." When I hollered "No, I'm not," heard laughter. Later my boss said he never thought I was gay. Our good relationship stayed the same.

by Anonymousreply 19June 23, 2025 10:11 PM

WHET gay voice?

by Anonymousreply 20June 23, 2025 10:12 PM

Leave a copy of International Male on your desk and some poppers. See what happens.

by Anonymousreply 21June 23, 2025 10:22 PM

OP, your boss has wanted to fire you for decades, but you and the drag queen are the only reason she meets her DEI targets.

by Anonymousreply 22June 23, 2025 10:43 PM

OP- I NEVER would have set myself up the way you just did..

by Anonymousreply 23June 23, 2025 10:46 PM

You should talk about all of the parks you like to jog, I mean cruise, at.

by Anonymousreply 24June 23, 2025 10:48 PM

[quote]OP, I'm at a loss to understand your post.

I suspect that OP is one of those gays who wears it as a badge of honor that he believes that he's unclockable.

by Anonymousreply 25June 23, 2025 10:52 PM

They know

by Anonymousreply 26June 23, 2025 10:53 PM

R15, who dear? Him dear? Gay dear? NO dear!

by Anonymousreply 27June 23, 2025 11:03 PM

Eat my conch, OP! I want you to eat it!!!!

by Anonymousreply 28June 24, 2025 12:14 AM

Eat her conch, MANLY OP! Eat it up! You masc STUD!

by Anonymousreply 29June 24, 2025 12:20 AM

Sounds like a very inappropriate type of conversation to have in the office with your boss.

by Anonymousreply 30June 24, 2025 12:21 AM

Whoops, I meant COOCH, but conch works just as appropriately!! 😂😂

by Anonymousreply 31June 24, 2025 12:22 AM

Closeted, craven OP might not be trans, but he sure is a Pussy.

by Anonymousreply 32June 24, 2025 12:41 AM

OP is SO MASC AND HUNG!

He is probably one of the Shithouse Troll's tormentors!

When you gonna lick that lady's conch!

by Anonymousreply 33June 24, 2025 1:06 AM

OP, just let it go. It’s not 1950. I think I’m also at your company since it do drag and your boss sounds familiar.

I’m out at the company and it’s no big deal. I’m not aware of anyone else who is out but your boss told me there is a mincing closet case at the company who is completely obvious and no one has a problem with him. Well, they have.a problem with his personality, but not his sexuality. Just loosen up.

by Anonymousreply 34June 24, 2025 3:04 AM

[quote]And she said “you and I believe in man/woman, but we can still be friends with those people even if we don’t agree with them.”

I'll take "Things That Didn't Happen" for $400...

by Anonymousreply 35June 24, 2025 3:11 AM

Get ready for terrorism, OP

by Anonymousreply 36June 24, 2025 3:16 AM

Bonus points for slipping in some of your bigotry and intolerance of others into your EST, OP.

by Anonymousreply 37June 24, 2025 3:28 AM

People are still closeted at work?

How quaint.

by Anonymousreply 38June 24, 2025 3:49 AM

They all know.

by Anonymousreply 39June 24, 2025 4:00 AM

My boss didn’t know I was gay for the first year or so. Not until I fucked him.

by Anonymousreply 40June 24, 2025 5:46 AM
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