Personal Background and Statement:
I am a single mother to a biological son, currently four years old. While I care for him, our relationship is distant. He prefers to live with his father and his family, and we have never been particularly close. I have no plans to have more biological children, as pregnancy does not agree with me physically. My cesarean section recovery was difficult, and I do not wish to undergo another pregnancy or surgery.
I am an only child and have very little family. My parents are elderly and we rarely communicate. I want to adopt a child with whom I can form a close bond. Someone who will be by my side as I grow older, and when I eventually need facelifts or medical care, she can be the person to sign my next-of-kin paperwork. If I die, I want her to ensure I am cremated according to my wishes.
Although I am not an orphan myself, my childhood was difficult. My parents were poor, and we lived in inadequate accommodation. There were times when I had to sleep on the floor. Looking back, I often wished that someone wealthy had adopted me and given me a better life.
With this in mind, I am determined to provide a child with a home full of opportunity, stability, and love — a truly blessed life that I did not have.
Adoption Preferences:
I am seeking to adopt a female infant, preferably around six months old. It is important that the child shows no signs of emotional disturbance, behavioral problems, or sociopathic tendencies, as I have heard of such issues arising from certain orphanages and wish to avoid them. I want a child who appears emotionally well-adjusted and developmentally typical so that she may adapt smoothly to a nurturing home environment.
While I do not place primary importance on physical appearance, I will naturally be drawn to whichever child I find the cutest. If the child I choose has a close companion in the orphanage, I would consider adopting both to avoid separating them.
That said, I must be honest and express a preference for a blonde child. Growing up, I was frequently bullied by black-haired, pale children, which has left me with a lasting aversion to that look. Therefore, I would prefer to avoid adopting a child with those features.
I have no interest in raising a boy. Boys and their toys do not appeal to me. A girl fits better with my lifestyle and interests, including dressing her in various fashions and building a close, feminine maternal bond.
Home Environment:
I live in a beautiful house equipped with numerous swimming pools: an indoor private pool, an outdoor pool, a rooftop pool, and even an underground pool. I am an avid swimmer and enjoy having access to these facilities for exercise and relaxation. I avoid public pools because I find the idea of others urinating in them unhygienic and unpleasant. I am confident that my home offers a safe, comfortable, and luxurious environment for any child I adopt.
Inspirations:
Recently, I watched the movie Blades of Glory and was touched by the story of the blonde orphan who was taken from an orphanage by a wealthy man. He grew up to become a sweet, talented, and cute skating star. While I have no intention of forcing any child I adopt into sports or a particular career, I want to provide them with opportunities to discover and develop their talents, whatever they may be. I believe I can create that kind of nurturing environment where they can thrive.
Additional Notes:
Please be aware that upon arrival, you may see me with black hair and very pale skin. This is for a role in a movie I am currently filming. My natural hair is honey brown, and my skin tone is sallow but healthy. Please do not be confused by my temporary appearance.
Closing Statement:
I am confident that I can provide a stable, loving home where a child can thrive and be cherished. I understand the responsibility adoption entails and am prepared to give any child I choose a life filled with love, opportunity, and security — a life truly blessed.