WHET S&M????

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I've always felt there was an inherent paradox in sadists engaging in consensual S&M with a willing masochist and with various safeguards like safe words.

A true sadist wants a partner who is genuinely scared, unwilling, and not deriving any pleasure from the experience.

Ask Dan Savage’s husband.

The kids nowadays are too pussied to want to be treated harshly.

It's all dress up now, look I am wearing a leather harness with pink strips and a puppy mask. Oh, I am so edgy. What's dungeon play?

Dan's husband is just a big poser. Terry Miller needed attention after Dan became famous. Thinks he's Tom of Finland.

Dan has been famous for a while. I think it has more to with Terry being an aging guy who doesn't have a career. Being sexy gives him a purpose. That's my guess, r6.

I like kink as much as the next person, but I find hardcore S&M rather disturbing

they all went to become puppies

What a freak show!

R1, the guys "inflicting" punishment on both sites are gross fattos. They have long hair too which makes them look like sissies on top of needing Ozempic.

[quote] WHET S&M????

[quote] You know, whips, pain, branding, piercings, all that "Ouch! That hurts a girl!" realness.

More effective psych meds and longer prison sentences.

S&M is alive and well at 1600 Pennsylvania Avenue, Washington D.C. as of January 20, 2025.

I like the idea behind pup play but I wish the masks weren't so embarrassing and stupid. They need to invent a dignified animal mask for uninhibited sex.

The Scene is still out there. You just have to look for it.

I know a bit about the men's side, because a NYC dominatrix I hung out with was important enough to be a judge at contests and she took me with her. But I've been out of the Scene for 20+ years, so I don't keep up with it.

The straight/lesbian stuff is easily found online if you know what to look for. I attached a link to the Orlando Munch. You show up at some food place (used to be food courts at malls, but not anymore) and look for the black-and-blue balloons. That is where you go to meet people you might want to play with later.

They always have a play party after the Munch, but they don't publish the location, and they don't let just anyone come. The Munch is also where the spectators get culled, and they don't get invited to the party.

The party is usually held at a dungeon where you either pay to become a yearly member or you can pay as you go. Some of the ones I've been to are very nice.

Years ago, I was at a gay/lesbian dungeon in SF, which is the first time I saw a guy in a sling get fisted. I observed dispassionately. But a good time was had by all.

[quote]A true sadist wants a partner who is genuinely scared, unwilling, and not deriving any pleasure from the experience.

That's a rapist, not a sadist.

The OTT trolling here is laughable.

S&M = Stand and Model

Guys into pup play are just furries with different issues.

S&M imagery is the perfect choice when I'm trying to not feel horny.

Way to miss my point entirely, r16.

More discipline...

marry me R21...