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Bette & Barbara old acquaintances in 1988's "Beaches!"

Re-watched "Beaches" for the first time since I saw it upon its 1988 release. The comedy-drama with music hasn't aged well. The soundtrack is more heartfelt than the actual story, about two young girls who become instant friends for life. The story reconnects them in their early 20s, played by 40-somethings Bette Midler & Barbara Hershey. One's flashy, one's classy--guess which is which! The friendship & story feels very artificial, though the last act is genuinely touching. My look at "Beaches" here:

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by Anonymousreply 65June 11, 2025 2:31 AM

I have sufficient.

by Anonymousreply 1June 8, 2025 12:31 AM

Oh, honey -- I never watched it the first time.

by Anonymousreply 2June 8, 2025 12:34 AM

I remember in her review Pauline Kael said that Mayim Bialik seemed like she had been specially created to play an 11-year-old Bette Midler.

by Anonymousreply 3June 8, 2025 12:44 AM

Mayim remembers...

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by Anonymousreply 4June 8, 2025 12:47 AM

Have never seen, it's on Tubi but I don't have interest. I hated that song too

by Anonymousreply 5June 8, 2025 12:58 AM

I watched "Beaches" mainly because it was on Tubi and out of curiosity. One of the much needed plusses of "Beaches" is several well-done musical numbers by Bette, including this one...

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by Anonymousreply 6June 8, 2025 12:59 AM

Not a bad movie, but the Oh! Industry sequence is so completely out of place given the timeframe.

Bette was expecting to get an oscar nomination for the movie, and agreed to take part in Allan Carr's infamous oscar opening. When the nominations were announced and she was snubbed, she pulled out. Lily Tomlin wound up doing her part.

Mayim Bialik was also supposed to take part in it.

by Anonymousreply 7June 8, 2025 1:09 AM

No, the soundtrack was great.

by Anonymousreply 8June 8, 2025 1:11 AM

[quote]Bette was expecting to get an oscar nomination for the movie

SHE WAS ? SERIOUSLY ? WHY ?

by Anonymousreply 9June 8, 2025 1:13 AM

I loved the Oh Industry, but it does come out of nowhere.

Still, nothing can compare to Otto Titsling and his travails with patent thieves and big titted divas taking swan dives into the orchestra pit.

by Anonymousreply 10June 8, 2025 1:28 AM

Lainie Kazan as Bette's mother was an eye roll, they looked more like sisters, given they were five years apart.

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by Anonymousreply 11June 8, 2025 1:43 AM

I watched it a thousand times as a child. I probably watched it again a few years ago and part of me no longer understood their connection.

They met once as kids on the beach, then became pen pals and didn’t reconnect until a brief post-college stint as roommates. Then after that, had a bad weekend visit as married women and didn’t reconnect until Hillary was pregnant. That was for a few months and then CC left to become a big star and didn’t come back until Hillary got sick.

The movie acts like they’re soulmates but they disappeared for years and barely knew each other’s lives outside of letters that they weren’t even reading cause they were mad at each other most of the time.

If you approach the movie as a moral of don’t take your friends for granted and don’t let distance, ego, and pride chip away at relationships until it’s too late, then the movie makes sense.

But I don’t think that was the point of the movie.

by Anonymousreply 12June 8, 2025 1:46 AM

Bette wanted Shelley Winters to play her Mother.

by Anonymousreply 13June 8, 2025 2:24 AM

Barbara Hershey can’t even yodel!

by Anonymousreply 14June 8, 2025 2:35 AM

Beaches has more wigs than Wigstock!

by Anonymousreply 15June 8, 2025 2:57 AM

1988 was pretty stacked. Jodie Foster, Glenn Close, Meryl Streep, and Melanie Griffith were locks. Maybe she could have thought she would have Sigourney Weaver's spot but she was a double nominee that year so it seems unlikely.

I think she is very good in the movie. Also how was Wind Beneath My Wings not a song nominee?

by Anonymousreply 16June 8, 2025 3:05 AM

This thread is full of hand walking queers

by Anonymousreply 17June 8, 2025 3:14 AM

Those NY tenements got cold at night. They did plenty of scissoring to keep warm.

by Anonymousreply 18June 8, 2025 3:17 AM

R16 I think cause it’s not an original song, it’s a cover.

by Anonymousreply 19June 8, 2025 3:17 AM

So because of this thread I decided to watch it right now.

Hillary just upped and fucked CC’s crush and she didn’t feel THAT bad about it.

by Anonymousreply 20June 8, 2025 3:18 AM

Hillary's daughter was such a little cunt.

Too bad Mrs. Patsy Ramsey,formerly of Boulder CO didn't get a crack at her.

by Anonymousreply 21June 8, 2025 3:24 AM

The “Oh, Industry” sequence is laughably bad.

by Anonymousreply 22June 8, 2025 3:25 AM

[quote] Hillary's daughter was such a little cunt.

I felt so bad for her when she finds her mother collapsed and screams "I don't know what to do!" I really start bawling when Wind Beneath My Wings starts.

by Anonymousreply 23June 8, 2025 3:39 AM

It's schlock but I love it, especially CC's throwaway "Sexual attraction has nothing to do with character, unless you're Eleanor Roosevelt" line.

by Anonymousreply 24June 8, 2025 3:44 AM

As trite as the story is, there's something about the movie I find appealing, including the trite story.

There's something about that kind of friendship that I connect with, mostly because I don't think I've ever had that kind of friend.

by Anonymousreply 25June 8, 2025 3:46 AM

It's never too late. I didn't meet my forever friend until I was 40.

by Anonymousreply 26June 8, 2025 3:47 AM

I was surprised that "Wind Beneath My Wings" was not a new song for "Beaches." It had been written a half dozen years earlier and recorded by everyone from Sheena Easton to Gladys Knight. Here's Roger Whittaker, the first one to record it, he of the greatest hits TV commercials of my youth--not sold in record stores anywhere!

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by Anonymousreply 27June 8, 2025 10:54 AM

That year was pretty batshit for nominations.

Dangerous Liaisons and Beaches were completely shut out at the Golden Globes. Barbara Hershey was nominated for best supporting actor, for The Last Temptation of Christ. Geena Davis wasn't even nominated.

Elder gays: was Bette's nomination for For The Boys expected? She was nominated ahead of Annette Bening for Bugsy, Kathy Bates for Fried Green Tomatoes, Babs for The Prince Of Tides, Jessica Lange for Cape Fear, Michelle Pfeiffer for Frankie and Johnny, Julia Roberts for Sleeping With The Enemy, Liza Minnelli for Stepping Out, Linda Hamilton for T2, Irene Jacob for The Double Life of Veronique and Sally Fields for Not Without My Daughter.

by Anonymousreply 28June 8, 2025 11:49 AM

As "For the Boys" got very mixed reviews and bombed at the box office, but cost a lot to make, Bette's nom felt like a pat on the back for trying.

by Anonymousreply 29June 8, 2025 11:54 AM

Stealing from David Deby's review: C.C. and Hillary spend more time talking about their friendship than actually being friends.

by Anonymousreply 30June 8, 2025 12:08 PM

This was one of the movies that we had on VHS and I watched over and over as a kid, for some reason

by Anonymousreply 31June 8, 2025 12:13 PM

Imagine Seinfeld's Kramer as CC's personal assistant!

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by Anonymousreply 32June 8, 2025 12:14 PM

I agree with r25 there is something very heartfelt about having a special friendship, and that is the universal appeal.

by Anonymousreply 33June 8, 2025 12:14 PM

Most of Bette's movies feel like they could have been made in the 30s or 40s for some reason - she also remade Stella Dallas, which translated pretty poorly to the 1980s. Beaches feels transported out of that time too - it's all very old-fashioned melodrama.

by Anonymousreply 34June 8, 2025 12:19 PM

Was "Beaches" a play on "Bitches"

by Anonymousreply 35June 8, 2025 12:40 PM

R35. Only for Rodiney

by Anonymousreply 36June 8, 2025 12:45 PM

I thought this movie was most known for Hershey getting collagen lip implants. Bette must have loved that.

by Anonymousreply 37June 8, 2025 12:58 PM

Of all Bette's movies I'd say Beaches is the one she is best known for. More so than Hocus Pocus and First Wives Club.

It's regularly repeated on TV here in Britain and Wind Beneath My Wings has become known as her song.

by Anonymousreply 38June 8, 2025 1:07 PM

Related: I know someone who lives in Bette’s building in NYC.

They report that she’s a total asshole. Prone to yelling at people and generally looking for fights.

by Anonymousreply 39June 8, 2025 1:17 PM

[quote]Of all Bette's movies I'd say Beaches is the one she is best known for. More so than Hocus Pocus and First Wives Club.

Don't you think The Rose is more her signature movie?

by Anonymousreply 40June 8, 2025 7:24 PM

Not at all R40. The Rose is largely forgotten.

Beaches is a film people are aware of even if they haven't seen it.

by Anonymousreply 41June 8, 2025 7:41 PM

She's awesome in comedies like Ruthless People and Down and Out in Beverly Hills.

by Anonymousreply 42June 8, 2025 8:07 PM

Reply 42, Indeed!

by Anonymousreply 43June 8, 2025 11:43 PM

I enjoyed the movie when I first watched it on HBO. But, as with all Garry Marshall movies, it began to look cheap and sitcom-ish with repeat viewings. It doesn’t help that Marshall casts so many of his relatives (who lack any sort of talent or charisma) and his sitcom actors in small roles (Carmine and Lori Beth, from Laverne & Shirley and Happy Days, are in Beaches). Pretty Woman, both Princess Diaries movies, Overboard, Exit to Eden, Runaway Bride, etc, all look like TV-movies.

by Anonymousreply 44June 9, 2025 12:17 AM

Here's a short interview with "Beaches" author Iris Rainer Dart talking about her start as a writer and working with Cher and Bette Midler.

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by Anonymousreply 45June 9, 2025 12:17 AM

R12/ They met as kids on the beach

Isn’t that the beginning of Imitation Of Life (1959)

by Anonymousreply 46June 9, 2025 12:22 AM

WTF is Katie wearing? Big time suck.

by Anonymousreply 47June 9, 2025 12:24 AM

I’ve never seen it either. I think I lost interest in any thing Barbara did after the lip plumping.

by Anonymousreply 48June 9, 2025 1:14 AM

Speaking of Mayim Bialik - who remembers "Molloy"? Pre-"Blossom." And notice who's fourth-billed.

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by Anonymousreply 49June 9, 2025 1:44 AM

I remember that show. God awful. Jennifer's nose that is.

by Anonymousreply 50June 9, 2025 3:40 AM

I thought "Stella" was even worse then "Jinxed." I'm amazed that it broke even at the b.o.

If Bo Derek hadn't made "Ghosts Can't Do It!" that year, Bette would have been a shoo-in for a Razzie.

by Anonymousreply 51June 9, 2025 4:50 AM

For some reason, the thought of being "Under the Boardwalk" absolutely disgusts me. I envision seaweed, trash, cigarette butts and other grossness.

by Anonymousreply 52June 9, 2025 4:56 AM

[quote]I envision seaweed, trash, cigarette butts and other grossness

Some people are into that, r52.

by Anonymousreply 53June 9, 2025 5:07 AM

r53 Is the long road to a Barbara Hershey joke?

by Anonymousreply 54June 9, 2025 5:32 AM

She does a good cover of Under The Boardwalk. I Know You By Heart is also good.

by Anonymousreply 55June 9, 2025 2:07 PM

The over the top friend & the repressed friend of "Beaches" was borrowed from "Old Acquaintance." Another film where the decades long friendship isn't very believable, but entertaining. And yes, the two girls bonding at the beach/boardwalk is a nod to 1959's "Imitation of Life." And the larger than life character walking off with the mesmerized child at the finale is a wink to "Auntie Mame." Here's my look at Bette DAVIS and Miriam going at it in the name of friendship!

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by Anonymousreply 56June 9, 2025 6:46 PM

It’s also hard to follow the timeline because Bette looked 40+ throughout the whole movie.

by Anonymousreply 57June 9, 2025 7:48 PM

I always thought a remake of Outrageous Fortune would work well with a gay couple at the centre.

Say Jonathan Bailey as the uptight classical actor wannabe (Shelley) and Zane Phillips as the frequently shirtless dumb movie star wannabe (Bette) who find out they've been fucking the same daddy Murray Bartlett. Featuring Derek Jacobi as the over the top acting coach, Jonathan Groff as an charming FBI agent who takes a shine to Jonathan B and Coleman Domingo in the role Angela Bassett usually plays. Miss Coco Peru can play the airport check in lady.

by Anonymousreply 58June 9, 2025 8:04 PM

Here's one of those "sneak preview" specials from back in the day, about "Beaches." Interesting a number of snippets that didn't make the final cut of the movie. And that Barbara articulated her concern that Hillary was not as interesting a character as CC. Also, Bette's amusing in her take on things, no false modesty here!

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by Anonymousreply 59June 10, 2025 11:54 AM

Went to see it with my mother and a bunch of her friends, ironically enough, on vacation in Wildwood, NJ. It rained all day, so we wound up going to the movies.

Little gay me loved it so much. I sobbed about it the whole way hme, and God love her, my mother took me to see it at least two more times at the $1 theater in my hometown.

She gave me a copy of the (book) sequel for my birthday later. Even as a kid, I knew it was terrible. It sort of ruins the ending of "Beaches" because (I think) the kid grows up to be an entitled drug addict. At least that's what I remember. Apparently, Dart really wanted Midler to produce the sequel, but it never happened because people wanted to believe everything was hunky dory after.

It is entirely possible they made a TV movie out of it instead....I think with Barbara Eden with all of the names changed so there was little/no association with "Beaches."

Again, I could have all of this mixed up in my old man brain.

by Anonymousreply 60June 10, 2025 2:10 PM

I was just thinking, "I can't believe no one has tried to make a musical of 'Beaches.'"

Did a Google search, and , bam, there it was.

Looks terrible.

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by Anonymousreply 61June 10, 2025 2:13 PM

Barbara Hershey’s lip implants was the first time I’d heard of that procedure. They aren’t as enormous as I remembered but they’re strangely ill-defined.

by Anonymousreply 62June 10, 2025 2:44 PM

...and of course, Lifetime had to remake "Beaches" a few years back, with Idina Whatsherfuck and Nia Long...

by Anonymousreply 63June 10, 2025 4:23 PM

R7 but Eddie Mekka!

by Anonymousreply 64June 11, 2025 2:29 AM

r22 but Eddie Mekka!

by Anonymousreply 65June 11, 2025 2:31 AM
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