What disturbs you the most in gay porn?

There isn't enough undressing. The bottoms dont make enough noise or at least not authentic noise. There aren't enough regular guy bodies. They're either at the gym too much or they are fat. Among other things.

Fake moans that are added in post-production

When they’re supposed to have a look of ecstasy on their face but look like they’re being murdered.

When the guys say "oh shit", while fucking.

When the sleeping guy in a creeper video wakes up and doesn’t freak the fuck out.

When performers who are tops end up bottoming, often due to popular demand. Gay porn is rife with bottoms, why can’t we just let tops be tops? I love tops who never succumbed to the pressure like Jim Kerouac of Bel Ami.

I hate rough stuff, like fisting and huge dildoes. I don't include it in my private life, and don't want to see it in my porn. Also, spitting. Yuck!

R6 I never really understood this obsession that some gays have with putting tops and bottoms into specific categories. In my personal life I like to do both, and it seems kind of like limiting the pleasure when someone is forced to take one role.

Prolapse porn.

The complete lack of any passion or lust in most videos. It's just a job to most of those guys.

[quote] [R6] I never really understood this obsession that some gays have with putting tops and bottoms into specific categories. In my personal life I like to do both, and it seems kind of like limiting the pleasure when someone is forced to take one role.

But just because you're versatile doesn't mean everyone else is. Some guys really enormously prefer one role or the other.

R11 I understand what you mean but some guys talk as though a “top” who tries bottoming is a traitor who deserves to be hanged.

[quote]I think for me it’s when a guy is either taking a fist or an enormous cock and he just has this vacant stare like he’s either on drugs or just mentally checked out to get through it.

It's sort of worse when the person taking a fist is having an absolutely wonderful time.

R10 Well, it is a job and they’re not Golden globes actors. Reason why watching it does nothing for me.

The various porn 'looks' - there's not just one. There's the young buff guy with apparently complete body alopecia except his head, overly tanned.

Then there's the 'daddy' - perfunctory beard, tattoos, perhaps some steroids - and acting like no one has ever acted in real life.

To be honest - I'm done with gay porn altogether. I only watch (straight and gay) amateur men's pics and videos on Reddit. They're actual people in their homes - it feels easy to create a fantasy scenario together. Like they just sent you a dick pic or a vid from their bathroom or kitchen.

I can't fantasize in my head anymore with these porn stereotypes in overly bright bedrooms with just 1 bed and 2 side lamps (ALWAYS the same).

Give me natural and real. Porn is just too fake to be sexy anymore. I've grown out of it.

When home video cameras were invented they should've replaced Porno. Why watch a lurid fake when you can see the real thing? I always do a search for 'amateur homemade real'.

And I can't stop thinking of the sordid, corrupt industry behind it all.

Endless closeups of hole. I can't be the only gay who is turned on by a guy's eyes and face. I want to see the desperation in a guy's widened eyes that says "I can't believe you're fucking me so good - please never stop - oh my god you're fucking amazing."

Or maybe I'm just lucky that that's what I see EVERY time I fuck my man. Connection is what makes sex hottest.

R3, it's like pixelated Japanese porn where there must be a law that every bottom must look like they are bring fucked with the Se7en Lust Knife.

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Choking

Spitting, choking, homophobic language. None of that is my fantasy.

[quote]When performers who are tops end up bottoming, often due to popular demand. Gay porn is rife with bottoms, why can’t we just let tops be tops? I love tops who never succumbed to the pressure like Jim Kerouac of Bel Ami.

Funny - one of the hottest things to me is when a guy who always tops finally bottoms.

I loved watching Billy Herrington get fucked by Tom Katt - and take it like a champ. I also enjoyed watching Jason Adonis get fucked by Erik Rhodes. More recently watching DL fav Malik Delgaty start getting pounded has been fairly entertaining.

Having dated a porn star top who only bottomed in real life, I don't buy into the top/bottom thing in porn. The reason why so many of those actors look like they're checked out or bored is because they're not doing what they genuinely enjoy. They're just fulfilling someone else's fantasy for a paycheck.

What disturbs me in porn is when we get a close-up of some poor asshole (literally) flexing as the guy expels the cum his scene partner just shot into him. Don't get me wrong -I think cumming inside someone is totally hot, and a shot of the guy pulling his dick out covered in cum, or a few drops dripping out is hot as can be. What I don't like are the huge, prolapsed anuses squeezing out the load looking for all the world like the guy is taking a dump. I don't want to see some poor hole that looks like it's been stretched out with a baseball bat.

I don’t like amateur porn. I don’t watch porn to watch the real thing.

I enjoy the physical aesthetics of porn. I like to watch two hot bodies engaging. It’s not about “fantasy”, it’s just about it I’m going to watch people have sex I want to see everything happening.

Amateur porn is just two people having sex with a tripod setup. You can’t even see penetration in 90% of them.

R23 I love those gaping holes but I’m a pervert.

I don’t like sleaze porn. Raw Fuck Club, Treasure Island Media where there’s gang bangs and poppers and fisting and pissing and the whole room probably smells like shit.

I hate those videos on Raw Strokes that Marco Paris does with those really ugly, strange looking skinny black guys who let out these high-pitched squeals when they get fucked. These guys are bottom of the barrel, even for the porn industry.

I hate it when someone suddenly pulls out poppers before putting a hard dick in their mouth. It reminds me of the time someone wanted to suck me off, pulled out poppers, and he was so stoned he spilled it on dick. I was out of commission for two weeks!

Reddit porn is the best , r15. I love guys who are sexy in a natural way. It does make it easier to fantasize about them.

R29 - I'd even pay for it.

And what's funny is that you see porn and OF guys trying to promote themselves on Reddit - and they are typically the least sexy guys on there (for me). So staged pics and unnatural.

I'm post porn. Look - I watched a LOT of it because there weren't many options to see naked men yet gay sex 20-30-40 years ago - we had some mags and porn.

But as a medium and with people lowering their inhibitions and providing other options, I feel like traditional porn is dead (for me) and old school.

I hate it when only one guy gets his cock sucked. Mutual blowjobs, please.

I hate when one starts talking about his girlfriend. Bleargh.

I hate tattoos.

R8 every bi sexual I know feels the exact same way, maybe they have been the correct ones all along.

I can’t stand the Versatile Nazis who claim everyone must be vers because otherwise, they are “limited”.

The Only Fans whores who spend the entire time looking at the camera when fucking/being fucked. How loose are you to not even wince?

When the cameraman won't shut the fuck up. You know it's a sad scene when the cameraman says, "Hey guys, we need a little more noise." It's like watching two corpses fucking. Or when the cameraman is giving these absurd 45 minute long interviews at the beginning of the scene. These porn guys usually aren't great conversationalists, so the interview feels like pulling teeth when you just want to see some ass and dick.

There's nothing worse than a talking cameraman it's like a backseat driver. Shut up and get the angles right. These guys are usually behind the camera for a reason. Even Hollywood directors know when to shut the fuck up and film the actor.

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Where does the choking thing come from? It feels like it exploded in the last decade. Reminds me of the spitting trend (as in tops spitting on bottoms or spitting in his mouth) that spiked 15ish years ago and nearly drove me off porn completely. I get that people have fetishes and I don't kink shame but it's everywhere now. Not my thing. Total dick wilter.

R37 - I feel like the choking thing is something that was picked up from straight porn. And some of the gay porn actors are straight so maybe they had a part in it?

I guess it's another 'scene' or scenario to play out once you've done all the prerequisite positions.

I can't recall any gay man in my life saying that he likes being choked during sex - outside of the obvious with oral sex.

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R39 I’m not sure what’s more disturbing. The whole FTM pussy thing in gay porn or the fact that he/she looks to be about 14.

I get sick of the whole stepbrother/stepfather scenario. It’s used far too much and just does nothing for me.

1) Band-Aids. I don't know what it is, but whenever I see a performer wearing a band-aid in a scene, I shut it off.

2) If a performer looks like someone I know in my real life. It bothers me for some reason.

R42 I’ve noticed the bad aids too. Makes it looks very low quality production.

43 comments and NO ONE has said Ass-to-Mouth? I don't get it . Even in the fakest of the fake porn, sucking on a dick that just came out of your ass is gross. I want to vomit when I see someone sucking a dick that came out of someone else's ass. I even get fidgety when a top goes back to rimming a bottom he has been fucking for a while. In my personal life, I don't even use the same wet finger that has already touched an asshole. I guess people are just gagging to be sick.

R44 That’s hot as fuck if it’s clean. I play with a very clean bottom and I rim him after fucking him.

The basic formula is so tiresome. Always kissing-oral-rimming-anal. Lather-rinse-repeat. I also dislike the rigid top/bottom roles. Show me some flip flopping and make the oral part more interesting, different positions, flipping roles, etc. What happened to 69ing? I know I'm a bit of a minority but the focus on anal to the detriment of any other type of sex is TRITE AND BORING.

R45, there is literally shit you see and shit you don't see, microscopic. It doesn't matter how clean the bottom is, he is still human. I know stuff can be there even for just rimming, which I love doing. But for me, once that seal has been broke, once you've crossed the barrier and gone inside, the playtime for my mouth on your ass is over.

R47 That’s you. And to be clear, 99% of the time I’m not doing that either. But I will if the guy is super clean and I really like him.

What about that FTM porn by Kept Secret where they go from ass to pussy? That’s gotta cause a nasty yeast infection.

I saw a Treasure Island video once that was one big bareback orgy. Most of the guys looked completely skeezy, especially when I noticed that two of the guys were wearing ankle monitors.

I’d like to see more hot looking chicks with dicks.

This thread is making me HORNY as HELL!

I know we are supposed to hate the video at R39. But that particular video - images of which have been posted here about a billion times - is kind of hot. I want to get that fucker pregnant.

Incest whether real or fantasy. Just fucking gross.

R53 I’m curious to know if FTM pussy smells more like a man’s balls because of the hormones or if it smells like a regular cunt. Although, not curious enough to try it myself.

R53 - and that's a real possibility - pregnancy. Just because it looks like a man don't forget that trans men CAN get pregnant.

fake penetration, fake orgasm, fake cum

[quote] perfunctory beard

Oh dear.

We put a comma between "Oh" and "dear", dear at r58.

More a genre I guess. But "poppers trainer" videos are weirding me out since every streaming site I go on the last years seems to have about another hundred every few days.. There's apparently an audience of millions who want to be told to huff faggot by a skinny teenager in sweatpants.

I like softcore more often than not but it still has to have a dick.

I won't consider it "disturbing", but I find totally pathetic and laughable on those "G4P" sites like Sean Cody and Corbin Fisher when they interview the guys in their first videos and they brag about how much they love pussy or that is "their first time having sex with another man". PLEASE.

I've never really done this kind of thing before, have you?

He said, yes I have. But only a time or two

R58 - no I MEANT perfunctory - careless -and only developed for the shoot - and they shave it off later.

Yes a beard is also mandatory - but I didn't say that.

Stop being a bitch and trying to correct everyone's grammar so you can feel more intelligent and better about yourself.

God you're tiresome.

When one or more performer looks like they are tweaking.

Sweaty with greasy hair and dilated pupils.

I am like, honey, you’re a mess; that ain’t sexy to me. When you’re tricking for drugs, it’s not the hottest thing to me.

Footage shot in some suburbs of California in the kitchen. Always in 1980s time capsule, ceramic tile countertops almond colored appliances very earth tone .

“Oh don't forget the trash compactor”

I’m sorry I called it that.

67 replies deep and not one mention of condoms?

Mood killed, dick wilted, and I change the channel fast.

When the top is fucking like there is a metronome off stage that he's trying to keep time to

R69, agree, also when he's fucking like a jackhammer - it is not sexy at all.

70 replies deep and not one mention of TATTOOS?

So much focus on fucking at the expense of not focusing on blow jobs.

[quote] especially when I noticed that two of the guys were wearing ankle monitors.

Fucking hilarious!

For R71's benefit:

disgusting tattoos all over the "actors'" bodies.

One or two small tats aren't bad, but this tendency for the large parts of the body or even the whole body to be covered in ink, is awful.

Disturbing is this:

I think it’s Xvideos that does this - you search for something, land on a page, and there’s this little disclaimer like this page may contain heterosexual content.

Which is odd, because who cares? It’s just thumbnails, nothing’s happening yet. But then you click on a video and bam, it’s F-to-M tranny porn with zero warning. I'm looking for gay porn, no pussys allowed.

Under age looking twinks, especially in those Daddy scenarios. I can't turn away from those fast enough

R44 you must be a bobcat in the sack

The absence of women.

My two biggest peeves in porn are when the camera is focused in too closely on a dick going in and out of a hole. I find myself screaming "Pull the camera back!". I want to see full bodies and faces, facial expressions and eye contact. Anatomy is hot, but only in the context of full sexual desire. My other top issue, although it's something that has faded from most porn today, I find the tacky music used as underscoring to be a complete turn off.

I'll also add that I like much more exposition. I like the build-up to the sex. Just rolling the camera with guys all undressed and already getting dirty is boring. I want to see build-up and seduction, setting the scene and the circumstances that are leading to the sex. Joe Gage does this very well. It's my favorite porn

R62 -Most of them have probably been getting boned regularly by other guys since they were tw3lv3. (Can we say that here?)

[quote]What disturbs you the most in gay porn?

The words, "You like that big cock, don't you? Yeah. Take that big cock."

An ass with no resistance.

Not so much "disturbing" and annoying: guys pulling out before they cum and finishing by hand. I know they want to get the cumshots on camera, but it totally destroys the mood. I love it when one guy cums in the other, ass or mouth, and then we see trickles of cum as he pulls out. Cumshots are fine for solo jackoff vids, but I'd much rather see a closeup on a man's face as he cums inside his partner...

Totally agree, R84.

It’s all disturbing just show shower shots

The ending.

R68, agreed. I still can’t fathom how in 2025, between prep and doxy, we still have condom porn. What also puzzles me is those OF guys who fuck raw in one video, and with condoms the next one. Sometimes with the same collaborators.

What's even weirder is that in 2025, between prep and doxy, so many gay performers are still HIV+.

R84 R85 That’s because it’s an editing trick.

Models don’t cum when they want to, they cum when the director is ready for the cumshot and end the scene. So they’ll film the penetration and then take a break and the top will masturbation until he’s ready to come and then they’ll film that and edit it together.

R89 From my understanding, a lot of them began as performers. Rocco Steele, Boomer Banks, and Brian Bonds are examples who started doing porn after they were diagnosed.

If a performer tested newly positive with HIV in the industry, there would have been a shutdown announced. I think it’s happened twice in 15 years.

The "presenting creampie" closeups featuring dark amber anal drool.

While not disturbing, the whole farting out/pushing out a creampie trend is silly. It's usually fake cum anyway.

Gaping holes that look like grapefruit.

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Squeaky voices

Earrings

CAFTANS

Elaine Stritch, playing in the background

Race play is a big big no from me.

Some of the Military Classified videos have the guy watching straight porn and sometimes you can hear the whores moaning on the TV because the sounds not muted. Women do NOT belong in gay porn in any way, shape, form or sound.

Amateur videos where people's pets are running around in the background or in front of the camera. I even saw a video where a guy was getting fucked anonymously and his dog started humping a pillow. I could only think of the trauma of the poor animal. People put your pets in another room with some food and tv and some toys if you are going to have trade over.

What trauma? Dogs just in the background, his owners having sex, big deal.

Trauma is a joke r103. It's traumatic for me watching it, ha! I mean what will get the owner to finally put away the dog? When it starts licking the tricks nuts, tonguing his hole?

[quote]I even saw a video where a guy was getting fucked anonymously and his dog started humping a pillow. I could only think of the trauma of the poor animal

Won't somebody PLEEEEEEASE think about the pets?

1. Fisting to the point where the anus prolapses. And then the camera zooms in for a close-up. 2. Those 20-something tiny twinks who are non-apologetic about appearing underage in incest videos, and the companies that exploit that look. 3. Going to major gay porn sites like XHamster or ThisVid and getting blasted with straight pop-up ads for stuff like granny sex, etc.

I haven’t watched much recent porn, but back when I used to rent the older titles from the video store, I always found it disappointing to see a hot guy on the cover, only for him to perform in an overly feminized way on screen.

I'm way more turned on by nudity and the buildup of undressing than by hardcore fucking. Watching a guy slowly strip and start jerking off gets me going way more than full-on sex scenes. I used to love those 'Straight College Men' videos—especially when the guy would do a quick interview, then pull his clothes off and start stroking. The ones where two or three buddies sat around jerking off together really did it for me.

A bottom who doesn't have a boner.

I don’t like this modern trend of the top dominating a younger bottom and then the bottom not even cumming. It’s like they’re trying to make a statement that the bottom exists only for the top’s pleasure.

Cellphones!

[quote] I always found it disappointing to see a hot guy on the cover, only for him to perform in an overly feminized way on screen.

Or in some cases, to find out the hot guy on the cover was not even in the video at all. It was just a con from the sleazy producers to get people to buy the video.

[quote]It’s like they’re trying to make a statement that the bottom exists only for the top’s pleasure.

I guess I've been doing it all wrong.

"I still can’t fathom how in 2025, between prep and doxy, we still have condom porn. What also puzzles me is those OF guys who fuck raw in one video, and with condoms the next one. Sometimes with the same collaborators."

That's easy. PreP keeps them safe from HIV, but they still run up agains the traditional STIs. When you see a condom today it means the guy tested positive for an STI as they were ready to start filming.

R114 I was wondering about that. I was recently watching a video from one of the mainstream gay porn sites, and out of nowhere, there was a scene with a condom, even though 99.999% of scenes are bareback.

ALL of the skanky porno actors swathed in TATTOOS.

There are just so many tattoos. I find them repulsive.

tacky décor

R116 R117 What do you expect? Most of the guys that you see in porn are trailer park trash. Do you really think that they all have MBA’s and law degrees and gave up lucrative careers to be porn stars and escorts?

I was poor but had a big dick. I didn’t star in “Feed and Seed Part 3: A Flyoverstan Harvest”

Moans that don't match the movement of their mouth.

R114 If they're on PrEP and taking doxy-PEP (doxycycline post-exposure), then yeah, they're covering both HIV and most common bacterial STIs. It’s not foolproof, but it’s a smart combo if you’re sexually active and don’t want to play roulette. Honestly, you’d be dumb not to use both if they’re available to you.

[quote]I still can’t fathom how in 2025, between prep and doxy, we still have condom porn.

Meh. Some people don't want to go on an expensive prescription to make a quick buck doing pron.

I mean, do you really think these guys have top notch medical coverage to pay for the prescriptions if they even get an STI?

I don't want to see or hear anything coming OUT of the anus (other than the top's peen).

Where is this current condom porn you speak of? I’ve not seen it, thank god.

Easy. Guys who won't kiss or who kiss without tongue.

I once bought a porn DVD about 20 years ago, and in one scene, the camera zoomed into the bottom’s butt cheeks and he had a cluster of blisters. Gross.

Yeah, the endless closeups of dick in hole that go on forever with no reaction footage.

I once was watching porn, and getting paid good money to do so, and I saw a primary syphilis lesion. Others saw it as well. No dark field done it was after all a movie but we were all quite sure.

Scat, piss or spitting.

Twinks that look like children.

I'll never understand those who like the prolapsed anus. It looks beyond unhealthy - although I've never looked up what causes it or how serious it can be. It looks like a serious injury to ME!

What causes it? R131

I just did a search and it appears to have 9-10 different potential reasons none of which had anything do with grown men sticking their arms arms up another man’s ass during a fun PnP party. .

So fisting must not be a potential cause for gay men even though I was sure Good House Keeping would have included that popular practice on their list..

I've always thought of a prolapse as a serious injury, like a broken arm or a knife sticking out of someone. It baffles me that someone would see that kind of damage and get turned on.

R133 - I don't think the common causes of unintentional anal prolapse covers those who will do it to get that result. They exist.

God knows there aren't THAT many people with those problems PROUDLY posting on the internet.

Anything violent or demeaning is a definite no.

Wrecked assholes from too much rough treatment are off-putting to me. Fisting is a no. Strangely—and I can't believe I'm admitting this, especially as someone who does not remotely find farts funny/arousing/attractive—I do like it when a guy is getting plowed and the top's dick slips out and you hear air escape from the bottom's ass. Maybe it's just because it's an indicator that the plowing is good.

R136 a squelching hole is a happy hole

Connective tissue diseases are one thing that can cause a prolapsed anus.

Wigs

Friend who works in the White House wants a copy of this thread . I really don’t think anyone anywhere should see this. I will try and hold the WH off

Now back to porn , porn addiction , and assholes that are now inside out

R139 every glorhyhole artist over a certain age these days seems to be wearing a unit.

I think this thread pretty much covers everything that's distrubing. I've come to appreciate ACTUAL amateur porn over studio a while ago. I'll go through pages until I find something that at least FEELS authentic. The clip below is the hottest thing from a studio I've seen in a long time. It's older BUT sexy AF.