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No Kidding: Holly Johnson says there was ‘homophobia involved’ with BBC banning ‘Relax’

Johnson defended his hit song saying, "there’s no reference to gay sex," though he admitted "there is a reference to ejaculation"

Holly Johnson, lead singer of the 80s pop band Frankie Goes To Hollywood, has reflected on the BBC‘s decision to ban their number one hit song ‘Relax’, saying “there was homophobia involved”.

In a recent interview with The i, Johnson recalled the furore around the band’s 1984 single. Following its release, the song, which is among the best-selling singles of all time in the UK, was banned by the BBC due its sexual lyrics.

On the song’s hook, Johnson can be heard singing: “Relax, don’t do it/When you want to sock it to it/Relax, don’t do it/ When you want to come.” The singer has admitted on many occasions since however that the real lyric is: “When you want to suck it, chew it”.

Johnson, who is openly gay, said that he believes the sexual themes of the song’s music video and an association with his own queer sexuality were why the broadcaster banned the song.

“I felt it was based on viewing the video, not listening to the record. So I felt there was homophobia involved, and they let their imaginations that run wild with themselves thinking, because I’m gay, it’s all about gay sex, and we can’t have that,” Johnson said.

“There’s no reference to gay sex, really, in the record. Perhaps there is a reference to ejaculation, if you think that way. But I thought it was a bit of a storm in a teacup, to be honest with you.”

Johnson also spoke about the hostility he and the band faced even from other prominent queer artists of the time, such as Boy George and Bronski Beat frontman Jimmy Somerville.

“We had Boy George writing letters of complaint to Sound magazine about us, saying Frankie Goes to Hollywood give gay people a bad name. Jimmy Somerville from Bronski Beat had his nose out a joint about us as well,” he recalled.

“Liverpool was a bit like that, with all the other bands bitching about each other, and I didn’t expect the wider music world to be like that. But it was.”

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by Anonymousreply 16May 30, 2025 12:58 AM

That's too bad that Boy George and Jimmy S. turned on FGTH... dumb, in fact. I guess Boy George forgot a lot of the lyrics to the songs in Kissing to be Clever, because they sure were loaded, too.

by Anonymousreply 1May 29, 2025 8:55 PM

The British tabloids loved to stir that shit up, too. Still do, obviously. The fuckers of Fleet Street.

by Anonymousreply 2May 29, 2025 9:01 PM

They said, “Relax: don’t do it.”

by Anonymousreply 3May 29, 2025 9:22 PM

[quote] On the song’s hook, Johnson can be heard singing: “Relax, don’t do it/When you want to sock it to it/Relax, don’t do it/ When you want to come.” The singer has admitted on many occasions since however that the real lyric is: “When you want to suck it, chew it”.

Does that even make sense? If that was the original lyric, it was a terrible one because it's stupid.

by Anonymousreply 4May 29, 2025 9:48 PM

I thought it was "When you want to suck it do it"

by Anonymousreply 5May 29, 2025 9:54 PM

I loved the OG video.

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by Anonymousreply 6May 29, 2025 10:02 PM

That song still slaps.

by Anonymousreply 7May 29, 2025 10:06 PM

How is that song gay?

by Anonymousreply 8May 29, 2025 10:09 PM

I thought he died during Covid.

by Anonymousreply 9May 29, 2025 10:30 PM

The original/demo version of Relax was more of a punky, new wave rock song.

Then Trevor Horn got his hands on it and moulded with those icy synths into a classic.

by Anonymousreply 10May 29, 2025 10:33 PM

God, it’s been a long time since I last heard someone described as “openly gay”.

Do better Attitude.

by Anonymousreply 11May 29, 2025 10:43 PM

R4 I’d suggest that “chew it” refers to foreskin. Some guys are into that - maybe Holly is too.

by Anonymousreply 12May 29, 2025 10:45 PM

I love this song so much.

But in the early eighties, there weren’t a lot of pop songs with lyrics explicitly including the word “cum” - in the hook no less. I have no doubt the gay connection was a factor in the ban, but I’m not sure it wouldn’t have been banned by a straight band/singer.

Not sure the ban made any difference anyway.

Remember when Brian DePalma created an entire alternate music video for it in Body Double, imagining it as the soundtrack for an outrageously high concept hetero porn feature? Holly Johnson get rescued and carted away by two homos early on.

I saw Body Double in the theater in high school and was wholly delighted when Relax made a most unexpected appearance.

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by Anonymousreply 13May 29, 2025 10:50 PM

I heard Relax playing in a major supermarket in a Texas suburb one day. It was a bit surreal.

by Anonymousreply 14May 29, 2025 10:54 PM

I heard November Rain by Guns N Roses on the "easy listening" station that was playing in my dentist's waiting room. I didn't know whether to laugh or cry.

by Anonymousreply 15May 29, 2025 11:20 PM

The song's lyrics may not have been explicitly gay but the original, banned video certainly was.

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by Anonymousreply 16May 30, 2025 12:58 AM
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