Professionally offended TikToker leaves restaurant early

This is why they – by proxy – hate us.

hahaha I didn't even have to watch it to know wh. At least he's not talking about removing his cake pops in public. At a theme park. Next to children.

This guy does this repeatedly and usually to service staff with heavy accents who don't speak great English.

I'm not sure I've seen him called Sir by someone with an American accent.

He did a video in a big restaurant chain where he was offended that he wasn't able to sit at one of the big tables and the restaurant manager held her ground.

It's his dog I feel sorry for. The dog needs a kind hearted Catherine Martin type to rescue it.

Did THEY get the "bread tower" comped for making them feeling "unsafe"?

[quote]This guy does this repeatedly and usually to service staff with heavy accents who don't speak great English.

It's his life's work, harassing waitstaff.

He missed an opportunity to dilate with a baguette!

It's a perverse form of public self-validation, a gross power play with a predetermined winner. And of course they tend to use immigrants or minimum wage workers as props for this activity.

When "Jessica" Yaniv sued the beauticians who refused to give "her" a bikini wax, the beauticians were either immigrants or ethnic minority women. It is a deliberate attempt to assert power over and humiliate a group of people.

He's seriously disturbed and dangerous.

I preferred the beret look

I wish my voice was that deep.

I would think they would know that this comes with the territory. And, will only get worse under Trump.

From the comments:

[quote]please ignore the positive comments ♡

I'm stealing that one for future use

I’m going to drop “it sucks the joy out of this bread tower” into everyday conversation.

[quote]I would think they would know that this comes with the territory.

They're still financially dependent on their parents but these videos are how they supplement their income. A few months ago, as they were attempting to launch an OnlyFans sideline, they were targeted for cancelation and their TikTok/Discord subscriber numbers tanked. But they laid low and upped the ante with their restaurant videos, recapturing some of their internet infamy. Their whole grift is predicated on being loathsome and milking sympathy (and donations) from viewers who don't realize they're intentionally antagonistic.

This is a genuinely awful person. I feel not an iota of concern for them.

I knew who you were talking about before I opened this post.

Everything said on this thread is true.

“I’m sorry, I thought you were a man. I do beg your pardon.”

R16. But, I'm sure you'd feel an IOLA!

And the worker apologized IMMEDIATELY without hesitation. But noooo….

Being a professional victim is hard work.

Dude, if you want to be taken seriously do something about that baritone voice.

R14 “Not now, I’m enjoying my great tower!” “Your what?”

Bread* 🥖 but it’s great nonetheless

R4 is correct this individual always targets wait staff that are recent immigrants. They're not accustomed to dealing with the American neurotic transgender community. This is all to build content for his social media. This individual should be vilified for his targeting of people who don't know better and using this as a platform to drive their social media agenda . If I ran a restaurant and a man wearing a dress with bunny ears came in, I would advise my staff to only answer yes or no to their questions and not engage them in significant conversation due to the risk of being recorded. Additionally this individual is emotionally, spiritually and emotionally weak if they can't cope with a small misstep regarding being addressed in the wrong gender if they can't cope with that they can't cope with any of the larger actual problems of life.

r21 But that would reduce the chances of something like this happening, and then what would he post?

Oh. Her again. At least she grew out her 80s perm.

“You’re not a victim, you’re an agitator!”

“Miguel is one of our best servers and you’re just here to make trouble. You’ll have to leave, MA’AM.”

I’m willing to bet that there are many trans people who are not crazy about them.

"It makes me want to immediately, like, leave."

I'm sure the staff will be heartbroken if you follow that instinct!

In all seriousness, how the hell are the staff supposed to guess how they identify? Who decided that if a man wears a dress, for example, people should assume he identifies as female? Couldn't it just as easily go the other way: "Why are you assuming I identify as female just because I'm wearing a dress? Can't you tell I'm male? Can't men wear dresses?"

Being misgendered should be the least of it’s problems because U-G-L-Y he/she got no alibi

The same people who call actual women Karens at the drop of a hat have no hesitation in criticising underpaid staff (whose first language often isn't English) for not being up on the latest trans lingo.

Next week I’ll be touring Darfur to explain to the savages the importance of non-binary disabled representation in comics and video games. I don’t try to be an amazing person. It’s just my calling in life.

I guarantee he whines about white fragility and white privilege while claiming to feel "unsafe" because someone called him "sir".

Bitch look like Lucas Hedges. 😂 Lemme stop.

What I don’t get is why trans are so unreasonably offended. Part of being an adult is being able to empathize and ultimately rationalize from another point of view. The server quickly caught and corrected herself. She can’t help it that that your reflexes are a split second. You see how fast the trans woman responded. It’s like waiting to be offended. You have to understand that you are not completely unclockable, and with nonbinary and gender non conforming people co-existing, people might still think you are a man.

This is Tiffins, a signature restaurant at Wakt Disney World. I somehow find her claim if feeling "unsafe" to be a complaint in search of an issue. She went in there WANTING someone to misgender her for views. The server apologized immediately. And Tiffins isn't a place where LGBT people are getting attacked and killed. She needs to read the news and find out what the world outside of her Tik Tok Tran bubble looks like.

I'm going to dress with intentional gender ambitiousness so that the server will be wrong no matter what they say to me.

It's dysfunction mindset going out of their way to be a victim.

R38 Oh dear, or deer.

[quote]What I don’t get is why trans are so unreasonably offended.

This TikToker is quite literally a professional victim. Getting offended is their whole schtick. They and others like them should not be taken as emblematic of the trans community as a whole; they're just the loudest ones in the room. .

This is like thinking you're a hot chick and then a young man calls you "ma'am." He was assuming that someone with a man's face, body and voice is a man. That's a fair assumption.

She wishes she were unsafe. That's not to say that there aren't many places in Florida where she would be unsafe. But they don't serve international bread towers.

With that voice he's clearly still got his male genitals. That makes him a transvestite, not a transsexual.

The only thing he's looking for is to be outraged. He sets these restaurants up to fail by making sure he calls ahead saying he goes by "she/her pronouns" then films what happens. Who goes to a restaurant on their own and films the entire experience with a mic around their neck?

Imagine how many failed attempts he's got on his phone where he wasn't misgendered? He must have been furious.

[quote]With that voice he's clearly still got his male genitals. That makes him a transvestite, not a transsexual.

He's had his balls removed but he still has his cock.

Bread tower? Don't real women fear carbs and gluten?

This behavior appears to reflect a form of subclinical sadism.

Top comment on the Instagram video (with 17,000+ likes):

[quote]You don’t look or sound like a woman. And you made that person feel like they had done something horrific to you. There is something very seriously wrong with you and it has nothing to do with your Trans situation. Every time you enter somewhere you’re looking for a “gotcha“ moment. Your greatest joy in life is being right. That’s very sad and it will be very lonely. And I think that you are a pretty abominable human being for doing that to people who genuinely mean you no harm whatsoever. You. Don’t. Pass. Don’t blame that on the service community. And by the way, the difference between manslaughter and murder one is 20 years to life with the possibility of parole or the death penalty. The difference is intent. So don’t tell me that intent doesn’t matter. If someone says “I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to.“ You should be a lot more gracious than that.

Wouldn’t removing the testicles cause the voice to change? Or would they have been too old?

They were a decent looking guy. Not so much as a woman. Not at all.

I think their issue has less to do with them being trans as it does them being a nutcase.

LOL. I've been to this restaurant. I have to wonder what people from third world countries who are genuinely down on their luck think when they see an American who can spend 20 bucks for bread service in an extremely safe amusement park (that has its own entrance cost, of course) in a blue city reject food because a person said one word they didn't like by accident.

Still looks like a man.

Im all for self expression but damn if he doesnt look like some retard in that ridiculous get up . What I wouldnt give to run across someone like this bitch . Id hurt his feelings so bad he'd never leave the house again.

Unsafe? Could these self-absorbed examples of bad mental heath act more ridiculous? And that’s what it is - a performance. Please “insult” me so I can act out like a spoiled 2 year old having a bad day.

Sir, you are a guy in a dress. Believe what you want, I don’t have to.

not nearly as weird as the Jeffery Marsh um...thingsy

r55, you think so until you've accidentally clicked on a link showing miss cake pops jerking off outside on the sidewalk. (I think that is what it was, I closed it quickly)

Say what, R56?

And what is the cake pops reference … or do I want to know?

he was making a video, kid friendly at a theme park with his mom with kids near him. he was talking about removing his cake pops (testicles?) and had a bunch of other children's food related descriptions for getting the chop. he used the actual food items in the video. I think it's this video

[quote] It's his life's work, harassing waitstaff.

I don’t feel sorry for him but he is so sad and lonely. He has no friends. An anti-fan posted a video of him at Disneyland just hulking around all by himself.

R59, in that video he’s clomping around like a grumpy linebacker. Someone took a photo of him sitting at a restaurant manspreading in a short skirt sans underwear. I honestly don’t think this guy is trans at all. He’s just a gross porn-addled fetishist who enjoys exposing himself and harassing minimum wage service industry workers.

I knew it would be that dumb useless bitch Lily Tino just from reading the headline. I clicked and, sure enough….

I would never condone anti-trans violence or any form of assault against trans people solely for their being transgender. Except for Lily Tino. He/she is nothing but a bitch ass cunt who embodies the worst of modern-day “influencers.” Talk about someone who should have been spanked and beaten up more often growing up.

[quote][R59], in that video he’s clomping around like a grumpy linebacker. Someone took a photo of him sitting at a restaurant manspreading in a short skirt sans underwear. I honestly don’t think this guy is trans at all. He’s just a gross porn-addled fetishist who enjoys exposing himself and harassing minimum wage service industry workers.

Where is this video?!

He’s going to get his ass kicked by a member of kitchen staff or an owner. Try this crap in the wrong place and see what happens.

R62, for you.

Such a delicate lady, galumphing around!

[quote] Professionally offended

Oh, dear.

[bold] Tranz Playbook 101 = WE are always the VICTIM and everyone else is wrong......[/bold]

"I cost them MILLIONS but Bud Light didn't call me to "check on [bold] ME [/bold]"------->>Dylan from San Diego.

OP that bitch makes a living filming and harassing staff. And who knows how much food has gone to waste after his "offended" tirades.

[bold] Here he is talking about WOMENS RESTROOMS. [/bold]. They are always "trying to survive" by sitting on a womans toilet with their balls hanging between their legs.

He should do a reality series with Dylan.

Clearly this was all scripted and set up. Regardless of the gender, "they" look ridiculous.

‘Lilly’ also filmed himself at the Star Wars shop in Disney talking about wanting to find a light saber to insert into his ass. As he was talking about this he was recording little kids inside the shop. I hope Disney takes action and bans him from the premises because he appears to be a sex offender.

What's her problem? Didn't the server call her ma'am? But then when she speaks, she sounds like a guy. She looks like a freaky female with that get-up on her head.

She doesn't feel safe? STFU, snowflake. Not everyone is in tune to your made up phobias. Jesus Christ.

Not safe? Why, were there bombs going off in the restaurant?

I would always err on the side of female if I had to confront this. There are plenty of women out there that are as homely as this person. On the other hand I’d try to avoid using pronouns. Keep it neutral. Another hill I’m not dying on.

SCREENSHOT------>> This stupid bitch just bought himself a whole shitstorm of MAGA.......Sit back and enjoy the show.

R74, ‘Lilly’ has an unmistakably male build, a deep voice, and male pattern hair loss. He walks like a Sasquatch. Yes, there are plenty of unattractive women, but I have yet to encounter an actual woman who looks, sounds, moves, and behaves like this creep, who has stated that he is not interested in ‘passing’ as female. What is he interested in, apart from grifting and getting meals comped in restaurants? Well, in a recent video he talked delightedly about pissing standing up inside a ladies’ lavatory. Still want to ‘err on the side of female’?

[bold] FREE!!![/bold]....Disney gave him a FULL refund. Because a server "misgendered" him.

I’m offended she’s offended!

0.1% of the population. Stop kowtowing to them already.

I guess the smartest thing to do is to stay quiet and don’t engage with them. But hey, he still doesn’t look like a woman. He looks more like a drunk uncle who puts on his wife’s wigs and dresses for a laugh.

This is not representative of the trans community at large. The squeaky wheel gets the grease. This guy is a provocateur and no idea what’s going on in his head that makes him this way.

What’s with Dylan’s face at R67? How many inches of makeup is that?

This grifting waitstaff-abusing narcissistic shitbag would be out of luck if he came up to New England. We don’t gender. He’d have to skulk and slither from restaurant to restaurant all by his overweening “man cosplaying transwoman” self, sitting there alone as our waitstaff simply address him over and over as “you/you/your.” And he’d have to pay for every single thing he ordered.

The Circle of Life on the Dying American Savanna:

Exhibitionist Twat of Whatever Genitals puts off Anonymous Reflexive Bullies, who lazily crap their intolerance formulae, offending more Exhibitionist Twats of Whatever Genitals, who then share outrage, and so on.

The sun beats down.

R82, in common with other ‘influencers’ Dylan relies heavily upon filters. All of his content is curated by social media managers so we rarely see what he actually looks like.

I made the mistake of looking up this person on Youtube, and the results were interesting: even the other Trans folks seem to have nothing but contempt for 'her'. And now I've messed up my Youtube algorithm, too.

His followers literally send him money by the thousands.

It's very telling he's always going to these restaurants on his own.

I'm not saying this Lilly Tino persona is funded by the right wing, but he's sure serving their purpose. Clomping around as a non-passing man dressed in women's garb, trolling and grifting and being a ludicrous and categorically horrible person. Doing it all in a way that invites contempt and mockery not only toward him (I'm using "him" because I'm convinced he's trolling), but inviting contempt and mockery toward all transgender women.

It's all an ugly form of performance art -- and it is highly useful to those who are bashing and attacking all transgender people.

It’s not funny-my sister jumped off a bread tower…

When I was researching on Youtube, I was surprised at how 'normal' so many of the Trans commenters appeared. I know this is DL, which apparently despises the Trans, but I found myself being very sympathetic to these 'passing' Trans guys and girls. It only serves to highlight what a terrible person this 'Lilly Tino' is. They make me very angry at the grift and racism their shtick is all about.

I don't think anyone on DL despises the trans, r91 - we just don't agree with them. I absolutely do not agree with trans demands and I believe - because it's a fact - that transwomen are men and transmen are women. But that doesn't mean I don't sympathise with the fact that a lot of them are incredibly messed up and "identifying" as trans or as the opposite sex is an emotional crutch for them which enables them to reinvent themselves into someone they can like, because they currently hate themselves.

Even this guy, who is the quintessential aggressive trans asshole, I read some of his story in the Daily Mail. He was fat and bullied as a kid and obviously had very low self-esteem. He grew up to be a druggie. Trying to reinvent himself as a "woman" is his way of attmpting to conjure up a sense of control, a way in which he can force people to do what he wants and to obey him, whereas in his pre-trans life he felt he was ignored and dismissed as a man. That's why he's so obsessed with catching people out for "misgendering" him.

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

Being bullied doesn't give you the right to turn into the asshole who harasses restaurants and their staff.

Buffalo Grill.

Not saying it does, r94. Just giving an opinion on why some people identify as trans. It is indeed asshole behaviour.

[quote]I found myself being very sympathetic to these 'passing' Trans guys and girls

I don't think "passing" is what makes a trans person sympathetic. This guy would probably be a dick no matter what he looked like.

You know who feels "unsafe"? The immigrant waiters who are desperate to hang onto their jobs during the Trump administration. THEY have real problems.

R89 "It's all an ugly form of performance art"

No, it's not, and you don't know what you're talking about.

What r97 said

Okay so that article demonstrates the fact that he (she..whatever) knows exactly what he is doing with all the rage baiting and faux pearl clutching about being misgendered in public because if he presented himself as the "woman" in the pic on the right of R93's post, that would most likely never happen. Instead he chooses to present himself as a dude wearing women's clothing to get the reaction he looking for.

Side note, he was kind of a cute guy. He should have stuck with that.

Lily Tino covertly films a woman and her baby, whispering things like "it's a cute one, too" and "wowza, so good". Just weird.

Did he ever consider maybe a restaurant server feels 'unsafe' approaching him, sitting in a dress and wearing bunny ears ? The server's instinct may have said "This dude in the dress and bunny ears could be psychotic - watch out !"

This is EXACTLY why they hate us.

Text me when he's beaten to a pulp. Because you know it's going to happen. Thank you in advance.

Ohhh, was this the person who did this during the pandemic? Would go to cafes and pretend to get upset when a perfectly nice server would guess the incorrect pronouns?

I've read the posts about this guy targeting waitstaff whose English is not their mother tongue and who are not overly familiar with the latest turns in American popular culture, and I agree this guy is looking for trouble.

The waiter immediately called the customer "Ma'am," when corrected. There is no beef.

We've gone down a rabbit hole with preferred pronouns. We will soon refer to each other as "it."

I cannot even count the number of bread towers I have sucked the life out of.

R91...Really don't see how you fit racism fits into this mess. Doing so is kind of a grift of its own.

[quote] This is EXACTLY why they hate us.

I don’t think that argument works in this case, because not only gays and lesbians calling bullshit on this behaviour but even other Trans people are ripping Lily a new one in the comments. The world is united on this.

Trolly Dolly Samuel is having none of Lily Tino’s misbehaviour on his flight out of Florida.

^ Tino was apparently dressed as a 5 year old flying out of Orlando on a plane full of children.

And, of course, threatened to report the flight attendants for misgendering by initially using the pronoun “they” rather than guessing “she”.

Apparently when this specimen was at Disney, it went to the women’s room and was filming the entire time, wanting to catch people’s dismay that an odd man was in the women’s room.

Women were indeed shocked, but it was because they were being filmed in the bathroom. Which is I assume against park policy and possibly illegal.

R103, "Lily" is a heterosexual man, yet for some reason we gays have been bound to him in public opinion thanks to the LGBTQIA++ crap and the ridiculous notion that trans and gay are pretty much the same thing.

His first video of being “attacked” for being trans was staged. He was eating a Cesar salad with fries at the Cheesecake Factory and some woman with an outside drink started attacking him and it sounded like she was reading from a script he gave her.

[quote]Did he ever consider maybe a restaurant server feels 'unsafe' approaching him, sitting in a dress and wearing bunny ears ? The server's instinct may have said "This dude in the dress and bunny ears could be psychotic - watch out !"

There was one video where he went to a huge restaurant (Hard Rock Cafe maybe) and caused a scene when he said he wanted to be seated in a particular area. The restaurant was empty but the woman working there held her grown and explained that they wouldn't seat him at one of the big tables because they would fill up quickly.

She was incredibly professional but she clearly knew he caused trouble and didn't want him in the restaurant.

She seems like a very unhappy person out to prove that the world is against her.

I contrast her reactions with those of Harper Steele in the "Will and Harper" documentary. There are several scenes in the film where restaurant servers, bartenders, etc., refer to her as "sir." But rather than pretend to be offended and act like there's some kind of willful misgendering attack going on against her, Harper simply and politely corrects the person who calls her sir. "It's ma'am," she says. And that's it. And she acknowledges that as she embarks on this journey, this kind of thing is going to continue to happen. She doesn't get combative, she doesn't blame anyone who incorrectly calls her "sir," she doesn't exhibit faux outrage. She accepts it as the reality she's facing.

This young TikTok attention seeker could stand to learn a lot from Harper Steele. She'd probably be a much more happy person if she did.

But Harper Steele is clearly a man. As is "Lily" aka Buffalo Bill.

R116, the far bigger difference is that “Lilly Tino” [bold]wants[/bold] the misgendering to happen. Needs it to happen. It’s the intention and purpose of the video. It’s his/their/her grift and gimmick. This person is a parasite — entrapping random servers and then going into ludicrous high dudgeon offense and woundedness and verbally abusing them.

Harper Steele is simply living day to day as a trans woman. She’s not trying to foment episodes of misgendering drama for clicks.

R119 And that's precisely why Lilly seems like such an unhappy person.

I kind of love that guy, R110.

She was straight as a man? Geez.

Go back to England r117

I'm already in Britain R123 but thanks for the love.

How did that post get 32 WWs in such a short amount of time?

Must have been doing some truth tellin'.

You were pegged with absolutely no effort on my part.

R124 Your posts keep getting FF'ed. Folks here recognize bigoted trolls when they see them.

You've shown your bigoted ass too many times r124. It's hard not to recognize you.

[quote]This young TikTok attention seeker

Young?!

[quote][R124] Your posts keep getting FF'ed. Folks here recognize bigoted trolls when they see them.

[quote]You've shown your bigoted ass too many times [R124]. It's hard not to recognize you.

I love Americans really, despite most Europeans despising you, but can you please spell English words properly if you're going to use them?

It's RECOGNISE with an S not a Z and ARSE like horse not ASS like donkey.

And remember, donkey with a cock is a jackass and a donkey with a vagina is a jenny.

Lily Tino aka Buffalo Bill is not a jenny and will never be a jenny, despite dressing up like a paedophile.

Please, MSNBC - don't even think of adding Trolly Dolly Samuel to 'The Weekend' with Jonathan Capehart and Eugene Daniels ! It's too much for even Billy Porter to stomach.

I love Trolley Dolly Sami!

Using a Disney World corn dog to demonstrate her anticipated vaginoplasty.

Groundbreaking. Stunning. Brave.

I just did my own research and found the before photos. I hope she is really fulfilled with her decision giving how handsome they were as male.

I'm not a DL trans hater but I DETEST this person. If I didn't know better, I would say they were an ultra conservative pretending and trying to be as awful and obnoxious as possible to turn the public against trans rights.

If I ever saw them, I'd really have to resist spitting in their idiotic face. Ugh. Completely VILE.

R129 doesn't realize her fat pimpled ass is stinking up an American site.

R129 Oh, honey. Why do you make it so easy?

I don't know what she's hoping to accomplish here. If she's trying to bring attention to discrimination against trans people, she's not going about it in the right way. There isn't a single person she's encountered who's been rude or dismissive of her. In fact, they've been the opposite.

The only thing she's accomplishing is showing how self-centered and narcissistic a person can be, regardless of their gender identity.

Seems R129 doesn't RECOGNIZE she's making an ASS of herself (or as they say across the pond, ARSE).

I would like to tell this morherfucker what unsafe genuinely feels like.

Two weeks ago I was in an outlying part of Queens and decided I wanted a cup of coffee. No nice cafes nearby, but I spotted a McDonald’s. Walked in, ordered from the kiosk, took a seat and waited.

A straight (married?) couple came in, sat at my table. (Not weird, it was kind of a large, possibly communal, table.)

I nodded, said hello. The man lost his shit. He stood up, stood over me. He was half my age, twice my size. He was yelling down into my face, “I’m a guy, I’m a guy, why you acting so strange? What the fuck is wrong with you?”

I was paralyzed. Truly fearful. Thought he was going to punch me out. I couldn’t even respond. His wife said nothing. Other patrons stared but said nothing, did nothing.

The couple’s order came to the table. To go. They walked out. But he kept pointing back at me. Freaked me out.

THAT is feeling unsafe.

R139 That sounds scary that doesn’t even happen in Flyoverstan.

Perhaps Lilly is a Transmaxxer?

^^Forgot the link. Sorry!

Now I want a corndog. Do they deliver?

Bitch doesn't know what it's like going through life looking like your dad in drag!!

Has Miss Charlotte Clymer commented?

Did someone say "bread tower"???

I've seen her trolling around the streets of San Francisco with her selfie stick in hand, yammering into her phone, completely oblivious to everyone and everything around her. I'm waiting for her to walk into traffic and get hit by a car, then say the driver intentionally hit her because she's a trans woman.

Lily Tino reminds me of this banger; I will always defend TikTok due to its very existence

Now there are parody TikToks, because of course there are.

R149 I did kind of laugh at that one. This guy has Lily's number as a professional agitator.

The trans activist organisations must be so torn over Lily.

One one hand they want to say "HE DOESN'T REPRESENT US" but on the other hand they know that if they say that they have to admit he is a man, and once they do that they will have to accept that Dylan Mulvaney is a man and that Lia Thomas is a man, and Will Ferrell's friend is a man.

R151 It has nothing to do with Lily "being a man" and the trans community having to acknowledge that, and you know it.

Lily makes coin off of going into public places and stirring up shit, hoping to find even the smallest sliver of something that will allow her to exhibit her performative outrage and get clicks and comments. That has nothing to do with her gender; it has to do with her narcissism, her lack of empathy, and her need to exist on social media. Period.

The trans community can easily distance themselves from Lily by saying they don't support deliberate agitation, which hurts the community and erodes their credibility. It's not difficult.

Poster child for the LGB secession movement.

I saw one of her posts where she marches into a San Francisco cafe, selfie stick in hand, and announces that she's Lilly Contino, a "social media influencer" with "thousands of followers." She asks if she can record herself eating food from the establishment and comment on it for her TikTok page, promising that it will give the cafe lots of future business.

The guy behind the counter politely and professionally declines, so she leaves. Then when she's walking out, she says "Wow. They really don't want trans women in their restaurant. I'm really shocked by that."

No, bitch. It's not because you're trans. San Francisco is one of the most progressive cities in the U.S., and I'm sure the cafe has gladly welcomed more than its share of trans customers. They turned you down because you trounced in with your iPhone on a stick, announced how important you think you are, and tried to bribe the place into letting you eat there for free in exchange for raising their profile. They saw right through you and said, "Nah, we're good."

I loathe her antics.

"I'm Revolting!"

uh oh.....State of Florida investigating. Turns out men "rating womens restrooms" isn't going over with Disney guests or Desantis. I thought "influencers" were allowed to do whatever they wanted?

Oh GOD don't make me choose sides between evil,disgusting DeSantis and that vile creature.

Oh dear. Why would you FAFO in Florida?

Blaire White is on it....

[quote] Oh GOD don't make me choose sides between evil,disgusting DeSantis and that vile creature.

If I had to choose it wouldn't be the politicallly powerful obvious homophobe.

So you're choosing the man who harasses waiters, waitresses, and films HIMself in women's restrooms? Got it. Was that so hard?

I don’t understand the massive offense. They have to understand they are still very masculine looking and people get misgendered all the time. I’ve know biological women who were called sir and they move on. People don’t want to hurt you because they address you as the wrong gender.

I’m actually surprised and offended that he’s doing something like eating a bread tower and can’t a fatty. I could never

Yes. I am r161. Which do you believe is more dangerous?

R164 You know, you can look at TWO assholes and still see TWO assholes, right? I can't choose which is more dangerous---TRUMP or PUTIN...Probably because they are BOTH dangerous. YOU are the only one making a choice and demanding others do the same. Can you imagine being a gay waiter and being harassed by this man? It's happened DOZENS of times.

[bold] Screenshot [/bold]. There is also a video of him walking around Disney trying to get people to react to HIM. He wants the confrontation. He was looking for a confrontation. That's how he gets paid with clicks. People go to Disney to vacation. He goes there to "work" and get people to confront him. He also calls himself an "activist" for the "you know who" Community.

This person is a man, r154, the correct pronouns to use when referring to him are he/him/his. His mental health and personality issues are precisely why he has chosen a trans identity.

R152, claiming to be trans is very often due to narcissism, a lack of empathy, and the need to exist on social media.

Adam's apple = man. Period end of subject. He needs to be chased out of town by an angry mob. How embarrassing for his family.

Such an insufferably self-entitled Karen.

R165 I saw two assholes. I told you which I thought was a bigger problem. One is dangerous, the other is an annoyance. What are you not getting?

You can't change my opinion.

There was an autogynephile who hijacked the Provincetown Parade speeches this year by climbing up the steps in a scarlet net minidress under which was a bulging leather bikini (obvs) barely hidden / not hidden by an open anorak. No hairdo-make up or visible femininity: whispered some trumped up reason to the MC why he had to be there and stood for the next 2 hours in full view on the side.

Holy shit, that narcissist filmed inside a bathroom? That shit can get you in serious trouble in any state. Doing it in Florida is just an extra layer of stupid.

[bold] What NOT to say after the Florida Attorney General opens an investigation involving YOU[/bold]-------->> "And to those pulling the “it’s not allowed in Florida” card, that law only applies to buildings owned or leased by the state of Florida (so not Disney). [bold] And even if it wasn’t allowed, who cares! Let us tinkle in peace [/bold]"

I daresay the actual women who used the bathroom also wanted to "tinkle in peace."

He sucked the joy out of their bread towers.

GOP-MAGA-LoonyToons = "We need a useful idiot so we can call the LGBT perverts and vilify them.. But wherever where we find one so willing?"

Lilly = "I'm an odd looking man who dresses up in girls clothes and I enjoy WOMENS restrooms at Disney!! I'm also an "influencer.".

GOP-MAGA-LoonyToons = "Yes. This useful idiot will do nicely."

Uh-oh! Now that a lawsuit and prosecution are possible, our fair Lilly has ditched the makeup and announced a posting hiatus.

Actual consequences for actions sure can suck the joy out of a gal's euphoria boner.

Do they spend all their free time at Disney?

Was that 80s wet looking perm just a wig?

R176 = Whose going to tell him that a "hiatus" doesn't stop the Florida Attorney Generals office? It's Florida. It's an easy conviction. Law Enforcement are going to be knocking on his door any day now. Wait and see.

SCREENSHOT. Child walking past him in a womens restroom. HE posted this. How long would a jury deliberate? 5 minutes? He also bragged about peeing STANDING UP in the womens restroom at Disney. I really think he is in big trouble.

[bold] Disney isn't as expensive when you are DEMANDING REFUNDS (and getting it). [/bold] I said weeks ago this refund was going to bite Disney in the ass. And here we are. Lilly has also livestreamed his fancy meals and then tells people to chip in on the check..

If ever there was a wrong time and a wrong state to be oblivious in,this bitch sure picked it . Desantis is going to LOVE crucifying him publicly .

The skirt at t165 is atrocious. Pull that thing out of your ass.

What’s going to happen to his corn dog and cake pops???

r183, I heard that it would appear his cake pops are history based on people having seen his porn.

She does porn????

I have not watched it but yes, he has done porn. only fans maybe?

I hit reply too quickly, I meant to add, my understanding of the screenshot I saw is it involved a dildo and a public sidewalk.

WTF-----Is he on OF or PH or is he being punked? Are WE being punked? Those cannot be real videos, right?.. I can't tell if they are real or not but that dick is gross. MY EYES!!! MY EYES!!! ...I am so fucking confused.

I swear to god, if you make me look for them just to prove I'm right, we're both going to regret it. I know where to find them. yuck. do we. really hate ourselves that much?

R189 = The dick is multi-colored right? I thought it was a tattoo. But it isn't. What the hell is that? I have sucked a lot of dicks but I have never seen one like that before. No joke. I've seen big dicks. Small dicks. Curved dicks. But MULTI COLORED dick?

Is it a VEIN?...I'm not kidding. I don't know what that is..

I will never understand the need to film every fucking minute of your life even just going to a restaurant.

He very much looks and dresses like a man what else was the waiter supposed to say? He’s not even trying to pass.

Weaponized gender ambiguity to draw attention to yourself and manufacture outrage is just pathological narcissistic behavior. Behaving with dignity and decorum in public is what changes minds about gender minorities, not targeting and setting up unsuspecting people in public spaces.

R194, surely you do not think this person is interested in helping to build a more tolerant world and to "change minds about gender minorities".

No. He is a parasite using social media and the transgender demographic to create controversy, foment drama, and get clicks. And to try to get free meals, apparently.

R195 I certainly don't think R194 is implying that Lily is trying to build a more tolerant world.

In his latest Tik Tok, the "I am hurt and I am taking a break" one, he is appealing for sympathy and claiming he was only trying to do just that. (educate people, help increase awareness, all that). To his credit he does very openly admit to carrying a lot of anger and being that way in the world.

The professionally aggrieved internet class be it MAGA or this type of behavior are eerily motivated by the same psychological deficits.

I'd put the outrage created by trapping service people into 'misgendering you" (even though gender is allegedly a construct not a shared reality) in the same category with those protesting "The war on Christmas" and anti vaxxers.

Enemies on the surface, cunts United at the core.

This reminds me of a young woman who has one of those reborn dolls that she calls Arnie and posts how she cosplays him (for 5 years now) as autistic, and says all sorts of untrue things about how austic babies/children act. it enrages people, particularly autistic people, and she thrives from the negative attention. She claims that she is working for autistic awareness, but she's been banned from several Reddit threads and an FB group. It's fascinating. Apparently it's gotten so bad, that her parents pulled the plug on her SM.