Professionally offended TikToker leaves restaurant early

This is why they – by proxy – hate us.

hahaha I didn't even have to watch it to know wh. At least he's not talking about removing his cake pops in public. At a theme park. Next to children.

This guy does this repeatedly and usually to service staff with heavy accents who don't speak great English.

I'm not sure I've seen him called Sir by someone with an American accent.

He did a video in a big restaurant chain where he was offended that he wasn't able to sit at one of the big tables and the restaurant manager held her ground.

It's his dog I feel sorry for. The dog needs a kind hearted Catherine Martin type to rescue it.

Did THEY get the "bread tower" comped for making them feeling "unsafe"?

[quote]This guy does this repeatedly and usually to service staff with heavy accents who don't speak great English.

It's his life's work, harassing waitstaff.

He missed an opportunity to dilate with a baguette!

It's a perverse form of public self-validation, a gross power play with a predetermined winner. And of course they tend to use immigrants or minimum wage workers as props for this activity.

When "Jessica" Yaniv sued the beauticians who refused to give "her" a bikini wax, the beauticians were either immigrants or ethnic minority women. It is a deliberate attempt to assert power over and humiliate a group of people.

He's seriously disturbed and dangerous.

I preferred the beret look

I wish my voice was that deep.

I would think they would know that this comes with the territory. And, will only get worse under Trump.

From the comments:

[quote]please ignore the positive comments ♡

I'm stealing that one for future use

I’m going to drop “it sucks the joy out of this bread tower” into everyday conversation.

[quote]I would think they would know that this comes with the territory.

They're still financially dependent on their parents but these videos are how they supplement their income. A few months ago, as they were attempting to launch an OnlyFans sideline, they were targeted for cancelation and their TikTok/Discord subscriber numbers tanked. But they laid low and upped the ante with their restaurant videos, recapturing some of their internet infamy. Their whole grift is predicated on being loathsome and milking sympathy (and donations) from viewers who don't realize they're intentionally antagonistic.

This is a genuinely awful person. I feel not an iota of concern for them.

I knew who you were talking about before I opened this post.

Everything said on this thread is true.

“I’m sorry, I thought you were a man. I do beg your pardon.”

R16. But, I'm sure you'd feel an IOLA!

And the worker apologized IMMEDIATELY without hesitation. But noooo….

Being a professional victim is hard work.

Dude, if you want to be taken seriously do something about that baritone voice.

R14 “Not now, I’m enjoying my great tower!” “Your what?”

Bread* 🥖 but it’s great nonetheless

R4 is correct this individual always targets wait staff that are recent immigrants. They're not accustomed to dealing with the American neurotic transgender community. This is all to build content for his social media. This individual should be vilified for his targeting of people who don't know better and using this as a platform to drive their social media agenda . If I ran a restaurant and a man wearing a dress with bunny ears came in, I would advise my staff to only answer yes or no to their questions and not engage them in significant conversation due to the risk of being recorded. Additionally this individual is emotionally, spiritually and emotionally weak if they can't cope with a small misstep regarding being addressed in the wrong gender if they can't cope with that they can't cope with any of the larger actual problems of life.

r21 But that would reduce the chances of something like this happening, and then what would he post?

Oh. Her again. At least she grew out her 80s perm.

“You’re not a victim, you’re an agitator!”

“Miguel is one of our best servers and you’re just here to make trouble. You’ll have to leave, MA’AM.”

I’m willing to bet that there are many trans people who are not crazy about them.

"It makes me want to immediately, like, leave."

I'm sure the staff will be heartbroken if you follow that instinct!

In all seriousness, how the hell are the staff supposed to guess how they identify? Who decided that if a man wears a dress, for example, people should assume he identifies as female? Couldn't it just as easily go the other way: "Why are you assuming I identify as female just because I'm wearing a dress? Can't you tell I'm male? Can't men wear dresses?"

Being misgendered should be the least of it’s problems because U-G-L-Y he/she got no alibi

The same people who call actual women Karens at the drop of a hat have no hesitation in criticising underpaid staff (whose first language often isn't English) for not being up on the latest trans lingo.

Next week I’ll be touring Darfur to explain to the savages the importance of non-binary disabled representation in comics and video games. I don’t try to be an amazing person. It’s just my calling in life.

I guarantee he whines about white fragility and white privilege while claiming to feel "unsafe" because someone called him "sir".

Bitch look like Lucas Hedges. 😂 Lemme stop.

What I don’t get is why trans are so unreasonably offended. Part of being an adult is being able to empathize and ultimately rationalize from another point of view. The server quickly caught and corrected herself. She can’t help it that that your reflexes are a split second. You see how fast the trans woman responded. It’s like waiting to be offended. You have to understand that you are not completely unclockable, and with nonbinary and gender non conforming people co-existing, people might still think you are a man.

This is Tiffins, a signature restaurant at Wakt Disney World. I somehow find her claim if feeling "unsafe" to be a complaint in search of an issue. She went in there WANTING someone to misgender her for views. The server apologized immediately. And Tiffins isn't a place where LGBT people are getting attacked and killed. She needs to read the news and find out what the world outside of her Tik Tok Tran bubble looks like.

I'm going to dress with intentional gender ambitiousness so that the server will be wrong no matter what they say to me.

It's dysfunction mindset going out of their way to be a victim.

R38 Oh dear, or deer.

[quote]What I don’t get is why trans are so unreasonably offended.

This TikToker is quite literally a professional victim. Getting offended is their whole schtick. They and others like them should not be taken as emblematic of the trans community as a whole; they're just the loudest ones in the room. .

This is like thinking you're a hot chick and then a young man calls you "ma'am." He was assuming that someone with a man's face, body and voice is a man. That's a fair assumption.

She wishes she were unsafe. That's not to say that there aren't many places in Florida where she would be unsafe. But they don't serve international bread towers.

With that voice he's clearly still got his male genitals. That makes him a transvestite, not a transsexual.

The only thing he's looking for is to be outraged. He sets these restaurants up to fail by making sure he calls ahead saying he goes by "she/her pronouns" then films what happens. Who goes to a restaurant on their own and films the entire experience with a mic around their neck?

Imagine how many failed attempts he's got on his phone where he wasn't misgendered? He must have been furious.

[quote]With that voice he's clearly still got his male genitals. That makes him a transvestite, not a transsexual.

He's had his balls removed but he still has his cock.

Bread tower? Don't real women fear carbs and gluten?

This behavior appears to reflect a form of subclinical sadism.

Top comment on the Instagram video (with 17,000+ likes):

[quote]You don’t look or sound like a woman. And you made that person feel like they had done something horrific to you. There is something very seriously wrong with you and it has nothing to do with your Trans situation. Every time you enter somewhere you’re looking for a “gotcha“ moment. Your greatest joy in life is being right. That’s very sad and it will be very lonely. And I think that you are a pretty abominable human being for doing that to people who genuinely mean you no harm whatsoever. You. Don’t. Pass. Don’t blame that on the service community. And by the way, the difference between manslaughter and murder one is 20 years to life with the possibility of parole or the death penalty. The difference is intent. So don’t tell me that intent doesn’t matter. If someone says “I’m so sorry I didn’t mean to.“ You should be a lot more gracious than that.

Wouldn’t removing the testicles cause the voice to change? Or would they have been too old?

They were a decent looking guy. Not so much as a woman. Not at all.

I think their issue has less to do with them being trans as it does them being a nutcase.

LOL. I've been to this restaurant. I have to wonder what people from third world countries who are genuinely down on their luck think when they see an American who can spend 20 bucks for bread service in an extremely safe amusement park (that has its own entrance cost, of course) in a blue city reject food because a person said one word they didn't like by accident.

Still looks like a man.

Im all for self expression but damn if he doesnt look like some retard in that ridiculous get up . What I wouldnt give to run across someone like this bitch . Id hurt his feelings so bad he'd never leave the house again.

Unsafe? Could these self-absorbed examples of bad mental heath act more ridiculous? And that’s what it is - a performance. Please “insult” me so I can act out like a spoiled 2 year old having a bad day.

Sir, you are a guy in a dress. Believe what you want, I don’t have to.

not nearly as weird as the Jeffery Marsh um...thingsy

r55, you think so until you've accidentally clicked on a link showing miss cake pops jerking off outside on the sidewalk. (I think that is what it was, I closed it quickly)

Say what, R56?

And what is the cake pops reference … or do I want to know?

he was making a video, kid friendly at a theme park with his mom with kids near him. he was talking about removing his cake pops (testicles?) and had a bunch of other children's food related descriptions for getting the chop. he used the actual food items in the video. I think it's this video

[quote] It's his life's work, harassing waitstaff.

I don’t feel sorry for him but he is so sad and lonely. He has no friends. An anti-fan posted a video of him at Disneyland just hulking around all by himself.

R59, in that video he’s clomping around like a grumpy linebacker. Someone took a photo of him sitting at a restaurant manspreading in a short skirt sans underwear. I honestly don’t think this guy is trans at all. He’s just a gross porn-addled fetishist who enjoys exposing himself and harassing minimum wage service industry workers.

I knew it would be that dumb useless bitch Lily Tino just from reading the headline. I clicked and, sure enough….

I would never condone anti-trans violence or any form of assault against trans people solely for their being transgender. Except for Lily Tino. He/she is nothing but a bitch ass cunt who embodies the worst of modern-day “influencers.” Talk about someone who should have been spanked and beaten up more often growing up.

[quote][R59], in that video he’s clomping around like a grumpy linebacker. Someone took a photo of him sitting at a restaurant manspreading in a short skirt sans underwear. I honestly don’t think this guy is trans at all. He’s just a gross porn-addled fetishist who enjoys exposing himself and harassing minimum wage service industry workers.

Where is this video?!

He’s going to get his ass kicked by a member of kitchen staff or an owner. Try this crap in the wrong place and see what happens.

R62, for you.

Such a delicate lady, galumphing around!

[quote] Professionally offended

Oh, dear.

[bold] Tranz Playbook 101 = WE are always the VICTIM and everyone else is wrong......[/bold]

"I cost them MILLIONS but Bud Light didn't call me to "check on [bold] ME [/bold]"------->>Dylan from San Diego.

OP that bitch makes a living filming and harassing staff. And who knows how much food has gone to waste after his "offended" tirades.

[bold] Here he is talking about WOMENS RESTROOMS. [/bold]. They are always "trying to survive" by sitting on a womans toilet with their balls hanging between their legs.

He should do a reality series with Dylan.

Clearly this was all scripted and set up. Regardless of the gender, "they" look ridiculous.

‘Lilly’ also filmed himself at the Star Wars shop in Disney talking about wanting to find a light saber to insert into his ass. As he was talking about this he was recording little kids inside the shop. I hope Disney takes action and bans him from the premises because he appears to be a sex offender.

What's her problem? Didn't the server call her ma'am? But then when she speaks, she sounds like a guy. She looks like a freaky female with that get-up on her head.

She doesn't feel safe? STFU, snowflake. Not everyone is in tune to your made up phobias. Jesus Christ.

Not safe? Why, were there bombs going off in the restaurant?

I would always err on the side of female if I had to confront this. There are plenty of women out there that are as homely as this person. On the other hand I’d try to avoid using pronouns. Keep it neutral. Another hill I’m not dying on.

SCREENSHOT------>> This stupid bitch just bought himself a whole shitstorm of MAGA.......Sit back and enjoy the show.

R74, ‘Lilly’ has an unmistakably male build, a deep voice, and male pattern hair loss. He walks like a Sasquatch. Yes, there are plenty of unattractive women, but I have yet to encounter an actual woman who looks, sounds, moves, and behaves like this creep, who has stated that he is not interested in ‘passing’ as female. What is he interested in, apart from grifting and getting meals comped in restaurants? Well, in a recent video he talked delightedly about pissing standing up inside a ladies’ lavatory. Still want to ‘err on the side of female’?

[bold] FREE!!![/bold]....Disney gave him a FULL refund. Because a server "misgendered" him.

I’m offended she’s offended!

0.1% of the population. Stop kowtowing to them already.

I guess the smartest thing to do is to stay quiet and don’t engage with them. But hey, he still doesn’t look like a woman. He looks more like a drunk uncle who puts on his wife’s wigs and dresses for a laugh.

This is not representative of the trans community at large. The squeaky wheel gets the grease. This guy is a provocateur and no idea what’s going on in his head that makes him this way.

What’s with Dylan’s face at R67? How many inches of makeup is that?

This grifting waitstaff-abusing narcissistic shitbag would be out of luck if he came up to New England. We don’t gender. He’d have to skulk and slither from restaurant to restaurant all by his overweening “man cosplaying transwoman” self, sitting there alone as our waitstaff simply address him over and over as “you/you/your.” And he’d have to pay for every single thing he ordered.

The Circle of Life on the Dying American Savanna:

Exhibitionist Twat of Whatever Genitals puts off Anonymous Reflexive Bullies, who lazily crap their intolerance formulae, offending more Exhibitionist Twats of Whatever Genitals, who then share outrage, and so on.

The sun beats down.

R82, in common with other ‘influencers’ Dylan relies heavily upon filters. All of his content is curated by social media managers so we rarely see what he actually looks like.

I made the mistake of looking up this person on Youtube, and the results were interesting: even the other Trans folks seem to have nothing but contempt for 'her'. And now I've messed up my Youtube algorithm, too.

His followers literally send him money by the thousands.

It's very telling he's always going to these restaurants on his own.

I'm not saying this Lilly Tino persona is funded by the right wing, but he's sure serving their purpose. Clomping around as a non-passing man dressed in women's garb, trolling and grifting and being a ludicrous and categorically horrible person. Doing it all in a way that invites contempt and mockery not only toward him (I'm using "him" because I'm convinced he's trolling), but inviting contempt and mockery toward all transgender women.

It's all an ugly form of performance art -- and it is highly useful to those who are bashing and attacking all transgender people.

It’s not funny-my sister jumped off a bread tower…

When I was researching on Youtube, I was surprised at how 'normal' so many of the Trans commenters appeared. I know this is DL, which apparently despises the Trans, but I found myself being very sympathetic to these 'passing' Trans guys and girls. It only serves to highlight what a terrible person this 'Lilly Tino' is. They make me very angry at the grift and racism their shtick is all about.

I don't think anyone on DL despises the trans, r91 - we just don't agree with them. I absolutely do not agree with trans demands and I believe - because it's a fact - that transwomen are men and transmen are women. But that doesn't mean I don't sympathise with the fact that a lot of them are incredibly messed up and "identifying" as trans or as the opposite sex is an emotional crutch for them which enables them to reinvent themselves into someone they can like, because they currently hate themselves.

Even this guy, who is the quintessential aggressive trans asshole, I read some of his story in the Daily Mail. He was fat and bullied as a kid and obviously had very low self-esteem. He grew up to be a druggie. Trying to reinvent himself as a "woman" is his way of attmpting to conjure up a sense of control, a way in which he can force people to do what he wants and to obey him, whereas in his pre-trans life he felt he was ignored and dismissed as a man. That's why he's so obsessed with catching people out for "misgendering" him.

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

Being bullied doesn't give you the right to turn into the asshole who harasses restaurants and their staff.

Buffalo Grill.

Not saying it does, r94. Just giving an opinion on why some people identify as trans. It is indeed asshole behaviour.

[quote]I found myself being very sympathetic to these 'passing' Trans guys and girls

I don't think "passing" is what makes a trans person sympathetic. This guy would probably be a dick no matter what he looked like.

You know who feels "unsafe"? The immigrant waiters who are desperate to hang onto their jobs during the Trump administration. THEY have real problems.

R89 "It's all an ugly form of performance art"

No, it's not, and you don't know what you're talking about.

What r97 said

Okay so that article demonstrates the fact that he (she..whatever) knows exactly what he is doing with all the rage baiting and faux pearl clutching about being misgendered in public because if he presented himself as the "woman" in the pic on the right of R93's post, that would most likely never happen. Instead he chooses to present himself as a dude wearing women's clothing to get the reaction he looking for.

Side note, he was kind of a cute guy. He should have stuck with that.