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Just turned 45 and think I may be going through a mid-life crisis

I have become obsessed with working out (even buying tons of gym equipment for my house), with eating healthier, with weighing myself and with photographing myself to see if I’ve still got it.

Aging sucks for everyone but it really sucks when you’ve been considered attractive your whole life and now see the aging happening on your face and body.

Am I going through a mid-life crisis?

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by Anonymousreply 33May 13, 2025 2:53 AM

I think you are seeing aging, and trying to do something about it. If you're doing that much to take care of yourself, sounds like you're doing ok. Just make sure you make time for some healthy down time and relaxation where you can be free and not stressed out about how you look. Mental health days, if you will.

by Anonymousreply 1May 12, 2025 8:45 PM

Girl fuck off. Go get “an” OnlyFans if you’re desperate for compliments.

by Anonymousreply 2May 12, 2025 8:47 PM

Your weird hairless body skeeves me out. I bet you shave your naughty bits too. Blech .

by Anonymousreply 3May 12, 2025 8:50 PM

Whose pic have you borrowed, OP?

by Anonymousreply 4May 12, 2025 8:52 PM

Are really seeking opinions about whether you're going through a mid-life crisis? Or are you seeking opinions about your body in the pic you posted? Because I suspect it's the latter.

by Anonymousreply 5May 12, 2025 8:52 PM

R3 I don’t shave my body hair. I’m naturally not a hairy man and the hair I do have is more blonde.

by Anonymousreply 6May 12, 2025 8:53 PM

Thirsty at any age.

by Anonymousreply 7May 12, 2025 8:54 PM

Also, pull your pants all the way down.

by Anonymousreply 8May 12, 2025 8:54 PM

Country Time remembers, cunt.

OK, you are tasty, but when I was in my thirties I had chronic neck pain because I couldn’t do crunches worth shit.

I developed an EIGHT pack when I turned 50 because I was doing lateral extensions instead of crunches. I was cooking and picking up 40 pound pans of scalding food and loading them into a cart.

Unfortunately, the eight pack was surrounded by Tyson-Turkey colored old man skin. I’m trying to plump it up.. If I could sneak into a tanning spa, I’d be in old time heaven.

by Anonymousreply 9May 12, 2025 8:58 PM

Wait 'til you hit 50, OP. Then 60.

by Anonymousreply 10May 12, 2025 9:00 PM

You're a whore darlin

by Anonymousreply 11May 12, 2025 9:09 PM

You're having a crisis of the soul. You should look that up.

by Anonymousreply 12May 12, 2025 9:16 PM

[quote]think I may be going through a mid-life crisis

I would be too if I had visible vericose veins like on your calves at only 45 years old.

And no, you're clearly not shredded enough for it to be deemed "vascularity" in the bodybuilding sense.

by Anonymousreply 13May 12, 2025 9:17 PM

R13 good thing I am not a bodybuilder. I work out for health and fitness. Bodybuilding is something completely different.

I assume you do neither, otherwise you would not need that explained.

by Anonymousreply 14May 12, 2025 9:21 PM

The specimen in OP's pic looks great for a white 45 year old male. But I presume OP knew that or she wouldn't have posted the pic.

by Anonymousreply 15May 12, 2025 9:23 PM

R14 - in addition to not being a bodybuilder, you clearly are not a reader, either.

Read my comment again.

by Anonymousreply 16May 12, 2025 9:24 PM

[quote]it really sucks when you’ve been considered attractive your whole life and now see the aging happening on your face and body.

Get used to it, honey.

by Anonymousreply 17May 12, 2025 9:27 PM

vérificatia of 45yo size meat?

by Anonymousreply 18May 12, 2025 9:28 PM

Anyone with a substance use disorder can spot a fellow addict; gym bunnies are addicts. Yes, resistance workouts give an opioid effect and I love it.

It just gets to the point where I’m bored of spending an hour spacing out while lifting. Also, I got into a torn muscle issue once I started curling 50lbs.

by Anonymousreply 19May 12, 2025 9:28 PM

Reads like you're losing brain cells along with the fat.

by Anonymousreply 20May 12, 2025 9:32 PM

OP you look amazing. Dont let the DL bitches put you down. Most of them look like John Goodman circa 2025.

by Anonymousreply 21May 12, 2025 9:39 PM

2 beers

by Anonymousreply 22May 12, 2025 9:42 PM

OP, these cock pics we've been treated to over the past week, is that you as well? The body hair and the constitution fits. Tell the truth now.

There was also this amazing one with a (very handsome) face in another thread last week, but it was deleted by Muriel. "My best friends boyfriend won't stop sending me dick pics!" was its title.

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by Anonymousreply 23May 12, 2025 9:51 PM

R19- I get a high from taking walks everyday outside. I walk outside about 21 miles per week and 1 1/2 miles per week on my treadmill.

by Anonymousreply 24May 12, 2025 9:57 PM

I don’t care about you or your tiny nipples, OP.

by Anonymousreply 25May 12, 2025 10:01 PM

A few of you have made harsh comments, which I appreciate as well. I’m doing the best I can to maintain my youthful body and face.

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by Anonymousreply 26May 12, 2025 10:31 PM

alabaster skin. are you British? Irish? German?

by Anonymousreply 27May 13, 2025 12:06 AM

I’m American. Are you asking for my family lineage?

by Anonymousreply 28May 13, 2025 12:10 AM

Cargo shorts?

by Anonymousreply 29May 13, 2025 1:56 AM

A friend who has been obese for 35 years just got on Ozempic and is dropping the lbs. and talking about joining a gym. He'll be 73 in September.

I recall the David Cassidy quote on his deathbed: "So much wasted time..."

by Anonymousreply 30May 13, 2025 2:00 AM

I thought he said Point Me in the Direction of Albuquerque.

by Anonymousreply 31May 13, 2025 2:33 AM

I just turned 45 too. Big hairy deal.

by Anonymousreply 32May 13, 2025 2:51 AM

OP, you seem very thirsty.

by Anonymousreply 33May 13, 2025 2:53 AM
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