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Should I Continue Watching Downton Abbey?

I just started watching Downton Abbey. I'm on the third episode and it is just so kitschy. I love Gosford Park as well as all of Merchant Ivory, but Downton Abbey just seems unrealistic.

Fellows fawns over the upstairs while making the downstairs seem like they love being servants. The Crawley family are too comfortable with the downstairs and treat them too casually. In the first episode, Mr. Crawley shakes hands with his new valet. Second, Lady Crawley makes a comment to her ladies maid, Mrs. O'Brien about being friends. Neither of these things would have ever happened.

Edith Wharton it is not.

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by Anonymousreply 60May 13, 2025 10:36 PM

Maggie Smith is clearly phoning it in too.

by Anonymousreply 1May 11, 2025 5:24 PM

OP, I don't give a fuck what you watch. Also, you're a fucking idiot.

by Anonymousreply 2May 11, 2025 5:36 PM

R2 how so?

by Anonymousreply 3May 11, 2025 5:37 PM

It's entertaining, and I don't apologize for liking it, but it does get progressively far-fetched with each season. If you have a tolerance for that and just want to be entertained by a period piece, it's fine. I still haven't watched the films they released after the sixth series, but will get around to them one day. I have heard they try to cram too much into them, though.

by Anonymousreply 4May 11, 2025 6:01 PM

R4 did you like The Crown?

by Anonymousreply 5May 11, 2025 6:19 PM

If you're looking for something that is historically accurate, DA is not your series. Uncle Julian is a storyteller, not a historian. If you can't accept dialogue such as Lady Grantham telling Miss O'Brien that she wants to be "friends" (which I did not take as her meaning that they'd be pals or close but that they'd have a friendly relationship), you're going to blow a gasket when they reveal that Barrow is gay, that they didn't simply sack chauffeur Branson the moment he revealed his politics, let alone became enamored of Lady Sybil, or even that Lord Grantham would hire a disabled valet regardless of their prior relationship (which was the reason he shook Bates' hand).

by Anonymousreply 6May 11, 2025 6:22 PM

You mean they treat their domestics like family?? Mercy!

God forbid the “upstairs” people have kindness and good manners to see that those that serve part of the family who help run the massive estate.

I imagine back in the day good jobs were hard to come by. Many of them worked to keep their own families afloat. That might have been their sole source of income. Yes, they were grateful to have those jobs. Back then some of those positions were respected and honored. Some you had to receive training and had to go thru apprenticeships for.

Besides, it’s just a tv show. Don’t watch anymore , no biggie.

by Anonymousreply 7May 11, 2025 6:27 PM

I gave up during the first season. Too kitschy, too soap opera-y. Gosford Park was much better.

by Anonymousreply 8May 11, 2025 6:31 PM

I absolutely love the series, and have watched it on repeat. I subscribe to the DA Youtube channel, so I can watch snippets when I'm in the mood.

by Anonymousreply 9May 11, 2025 6:37 PM

What about The Gilded Age?

by Anonymousreply 10May 11, 2025 6:43 PM

You'll miss Tom Branson's deliciously beefy ass.

by Anonymousreply 11May 11, 2025 6:46 PM

Its wonderful...im envious youre only starting it. I watched it during covid so was years behind..but i became enthralled. Im watching a pre cursor called Cranford and loving it..very similar with Judi Dench, Imelda Staunton, Julia Mckenzie and even has the butler and lady mary from Downton.

by Anonymousreply 12May 11, 2025 6:51 PM

Regarding the two movies, the first was the better with stunning visuals, a tighter story line, outstanding cast additions (Imelda Staunton, Tuppence Middleton), and overall, more in keeping with the themes and subplots of the series. Again, you have to suspend disbelief; would the king and queen travel with a whatsamajig of the back stairs, a housekeeper, 4 footmen, two valets, two ladies maids, and a cook... but no security?

The second seemed like the writers were sitting around wondering what to do with it and decided that they thought "filming at Highclere was a blast so let's write about that!" and then had to figure out how to pull the beloved Mr. Carson out of retirement (once again) yet dispense with him and half the main cast for 2/3rds of the film. It felt like they were trying to set up a prequel series that would have followed the life and (many) loves of the Dowager Countess in her youth (which I would be all for).

That said, I'm anticipating the next and theoretically final movie. I'd like to see the story progress into the 30s and eventually WWII, but that's not in the cards. There's gold there to mine (George would be at the age to have to go fight in the army, for instance). And so few of the country houses like Downton survived, I'd like to see how they accomplish it (and have thought that it would end up much like Highclere being turned into tourist attractions, and wedding and filming venues).

by Anonymousreply 13May 11, 2025 6:55 PM

When this came out, people kept saying it was high brow, intelligent, historically accurate, etc.

by Anonymousreply 14May 11, 2025 6:59 PM

OP, the first season is as good as it gets. It gets progressively more ludicrous and anachronistic.

The original Upstairs Downstairs did the same period much better. Unfortunately the flat video quality suffers but if you can look past that, the writing and acting is on a higher level. It’s set in London and the politics of the era also plays a part.

by Anonymousreply 15May 11, 2025 7:00 PM

Definitely kitschy and often unintentionally hilarious but fun anyway.

by Anonymousreply 16May 11, 2025 7:03 PM

No. I can't believe I forced myself to finish that bore of a series.

by Anonymousreply 17May 11, 2025 7:27 PM

The first three seasons had a reasonable amount of good material in a fun, escapist way.

I still believe that Fellowes never anticipated it would run for as long as it did, and season 4 and 5 are a whole lot of treading water as a result. Those seasons suffered due to the departures of a few characters in season 3, plus some nowhere stories through seasons 4 and 5.

Then suddenly, halfway through season 6, all sorts of fun shit starts happening and the last several episodes are a blast.

by Anonymousreply 18May 11, 2025 7:39 PM

Yes. But take a shot every time they mention how things are changing.

by Anonymousreply 19May 11, 2025 7:49 PM

There wasn't nearly enough homosex.

by Anonymousreply 20May 11, 2025 7:51 PM

The show is not perfect but OP's reasons for disliking it are pretty stupid.

I stopped watching after the rape.

by Anonymousreply 21May 11, 2025 7:54 PM

First three seasons are terrific. It's fun fantasy and the acting is very good.

by Anonymousreply 22May 11, 2025 8:19 PM

I got into Downton much later than the rest of the world did. It was my lockdown show. Just accept it for what it is, OP: a severely idealised portrayal of the aristocracy and their relationship with their servants. Julian Fellowes had an upper-class upbringing, and that heavily colours his worldview.

by Anonymousreply 23May 12, 2025 12:13 AM

I like how Daisy the downstairs maid never seems to grow older or gain any wisdom in the decades when the show is set.

by Anonymousreply 24May 12, 2025 12:14 AM

And she inherits the tenancy of a farm, has a widow’s (tiny) pension, and remains a kitchen maid for a decade.

by Anonymousreply 25May 12, 2025 2:01 AM

It's not high art, that's for sure.

by Anonymousreply 26May 12, 2025 2:06 AM

OP, don't get attached to Sybil.

by Anonymousreply 27May 12, 2025 2:19 AM

Dame Smith was [bold][italic]not[/bold][/italic] phoning it in, OP.

by Anonymousreply 28May 12, 2025 2:19 AM

Ou sont les neiges d’antan?

by Anonymousreply 29May 12, 2025 2:25 AM

OP, "Gosford Park" was Fellowes' masterpiece.

"Downton Abbey" is a fun romp. The love/hate relationship between the Dowager and Mrs. Crawley makes the series worthwhile. But as an accurate portrayal of an aristocratic family and its retainers, it's shite.

"Upstairs, Downstairs" is more accurate.

by Anonymousreply 30May 12, 2025 2:34 AM

r28 Don't know what went wrong with the code there but I stand by my statement.

by Anonymousreply 31May 12, 2025 2:41 AM

When I need white noise playing so I can work or nap, I put it on Amazon Prime. I like that Prime moves onto the next episode so as not to interrupt whatever I am doing. The whole series is borderline camp, which is part of its attraction. Of course it went on far too long, hence the writing (and acting) suffered, but that's the game in showbiz. The movies are a bit like the Sex and the City movies – frosting and sprinkles for die hard fans who wanted more, more, more!

by Anonymousreply 32May 12, 2025 2:48 AM

SNORE

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by Anonymousreply 33May 12, 2025 3:30 AM

[quote] r7 You mean they treat their domestics like family?? Mercy! God forbid the “upstairs” people have kindness and good manners to see that those that serve part of the family who help run the massive estate.

It [italic]is [/italic]unlikely they'd do that, tho... as the English are a foul, unfriendly people, worshipping a corrupt family or veritable mobsters who gorge greedily at the public teat, despite their own vast, inherited wealth.

So yes, it is confusing.

by Anonymousreply 34May 12, 2025 3:37 AM

The early seasons were very good but I lost interest after that.

by Anonymousreply 35May 12, 2025 3:56 AM

The costuming is the main reason I watched but it was entertaining at the time.

by Anonymousreply 36May 12, 2025 3:57 AM

R4- Doenton Abbey always sucked.

Upstairs Downstairs 1971-1975- Writing, Acting and Directing were all superior .

by Anonymousreply 37May 12, 2025 4:00 AM

I liked a fair amount of the show but Anna and Bates and their perpetual woes made me want to fling them into the sun, followed by insipid twat Daisy.

A few cute footmen here and there. And Mr. Pamuk, of course.

by Anonymousreply 38May 12, 2025 4:13 AM

Glad to see several mention Upstairs Downstairs, which I watched on DVD and really enjoyed, despite the 70s theatrical vibe. Or maybe because of it--PBS Masterpiece Theater nostalgia.

by Anonymousreply 39May 12, 2025 4:50 AM

I like The Guilded Age and am happy HBO is continuing with it. Good acting, gorgeous sets and hasn't bored me. It was rough for the working class and that is not ignored.

by Anonymousreply 40May 12, 2025 4:57 AM

Without wanting to spoil you, OP, just wait until you get to the hospital storyline in S6! It's nothing short of riveting!

by Anonymousreply 41May 12, 2025 11:15 PM

R40 is it better than Downton Abbey?

by Anonymousreply 42May 12, 2025 11:32 PM

That's a big NO, r42. American aristocrats are not as engaging as the ones in DA. You also don't get to look at that beautiful mansion in the UK. I watched four episodes of The Guilded Age and thought it was a piss-poor imitation. I'd rather rewatch DA.

by Anonymousreply 43May 12, 2025 11:49 PM

With The Gilded Age, I feel the downstairs characters (except for Peggy) really aren't that interesting. With Downton, I was invested in both upstairs and downstairs.

by Anonymousreply 44May 13, 2025 12:27 AM

There are only a few gripping characters… and some of them (O’Brian) fled.

Edith finally became interesting, but it took YEARS.

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by Anonymousreply 45May 13, 2025 1:09 AM

This accidentally sums it up.

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by Anonymousreply 46May 13, 2025 1:22 AM

OP, this is the anti Downton. Bonkers. I loved it. Prime, I think.

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by Anonymousreply 47May 13, 2025 1:36 AM

More Pursuit....

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by Anonymousreply 48May 13, 2025 1:38 AM

the last....

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by Anonymousreply 49May 13, 2025 1:38 AM

While I agree that the first three seasons were, in many ways, the best, I enjoyed DA until the end. I grew more and more fond of Carson and Mrs. Hughes and there are some lovely moments in the later seasons. Mild spoiler alert——- the two of them walking hand in hand as they take a dip into the sea was a moment of grace and love.

by Anonymousreply 50May 13, 2025 1:48 AM

The guy who played Barrow was pretty.

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by Anonymousreply 51May 13, 2025 1:56 AM

I always wanted Barrow to get a good dicking from Jimmy.

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by Anonymousreply 52May 13, 2025 4:00 AM

In fact, why doesn't someone remake Upstairs Downstairs, using essentially the same scripts but much better production values? It's not like there aren't a hundred brilliant British actors hanging about who could replace the excellent originals.

by Anonymousreply 53May 13, 2025 4:48 AM

OP, add to the list of those who do not give a flying fuck what you watch.

by Anonymousreply 54May 13, 2025 4:53 AM

Re The Pursuit of Love--I turned it off after a few episodes, too. First reading a book and then watching an adaptation is tricky, I guess. I highly recommended the book.

by Anonymousreply 55May 13, 2025 5:06 AM

R5 I have yet to watch The Crown but many people have suggested it to me, so I plan to start it eventually. Is it good? I have watched a lot of documentaries on the British royal family so I am not sure how I will feel about a dramatized version. I like The Queen with Helen Mirren, but didn't love it, for example.

by Anonymousreply 56May 13, 2025 6:43 PM

The funny thing about The Crown is that everyone liked the first couple seasons—it had the single best scene of the whole series with young Elizabeth, now Queen, being greeted by her family and Queen Mary (played by Eileen Atkins). But once the series started getting into recent times, viewers were able to compare it with their memory of events and realized how fanciful the writing was.

by Anonymousreply 57May 13, 2025 8:29 PM

[quote]R56 I have yet to watch The Crown but many people have suggested it to me, so I plan to start it eventually. Is it good?

Downton Abbey is better, as the useless, pampered British Royal Family is annoying to watch.

by Anonymousreply 58May 13, 2025 9:57 PM

Grabby thought it was "Downtown Arby's"

by Anonymousreply 59May 13, 2025 9:59 PM

You might prefer Uptown Downstairs Abbey

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by Anonymousreply 60May 13, 2025 10:36 PM
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