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LaJolla - is there a gay scene?

I’m going to LaJolla in June for my brother’s wedding. He and his fiancé live there - she is from Bakersfield and she was NOT having her wedding there.

I’m older-53- so not really interested in clubs but are there any nice, gay friendly bars to just have a drink? I’ll need a break from family.

I’m trying to convince my brother to incorporate Dr. Seuss into the wedding somehow (maybe something as simple as a tabletop figure) as my brother grew up in Springfield, MA and now lives in LaJolla, exactly the same as Seuss did.

by Anonymousreply 24May 4, 2025 6:16 PM

Not in La Jolla but in the city which isn’t too far away.

by Anonymousreply 1May 3, 2025 12:28 PM

Is there a Betty Broderick tour? Might meet a fella there

by Anonymousreply 2May 3, 2025 12:52 PM

Just go into San Diego. I'm there often for work. I really like the bathhouse there.

by Anonymousreply 3May 3, 2025 12:57 PM

R2 Betty Broderick was the OG Fuck around and find out.

by Anonymousreply 4May 3, 2025 2:17 PM

It is two words, not one: La Jolla.

by Anonymousreply 5May 3, 2025 2:19 PM

La jolluh? What country is that in?

by Anonymousreply 6May 3, 2025 2:20 PM

Op drive up to the bars around Camp Pendleton. Hot marine ass in those parts.

by Anonymousreply 7May 3, 2025 2:23 PM

La Jolla is not a city -- it's just a neighborhood in San Diego.

by Anonymousreply 8May 3, 2025 2:24 PM

R8 True but a very large one. And is used as its own mailing address in some areas.

by Anonymousreply 9May 3, 2025 2:26 PM

Lots of rich people live there; or at least they did, when I was growing up ('79 - '91).

It was akin to Bel Air in Los Angeles. Or one of the super rich neighborhoods.

by Anonymousreply 10May 3, 2025 2:27 PM

This is like asking if there is a gay scene in Beverly Hills.

I have FF’d the OP for being a moron.

by Anonymousreply 11May 3, 2025 2:28 PM

r8 Who said it was a city?

by Anonymousreply 12May 3, 2025 2:29 PM

r11 Are you going to be ok?

by Anonymousreply 13May 3, 2025 2:29 PM

I would say La Jolla is more similar to Beverly Hills Post Office than Bel Air, just with a very small downtown type area.

by Anonymousreply 14May 3, 2025 2:32 PM

I didn't say Bev Hills because (when I was in San Diego County) there wasn't that big of a shopping scene there (that I can recall) and it was more very expensive homes than anything (with some very high end hotels).

Fun fact, though: I worked at a bakery in the late 80s there and one workday, Burt Reynolds and Loni Anderson pulled up in a limo. He got out with one of those HUGE cell phones and was talking on it. Thought he was going to come over to the window and order something, but he finished his conversation, got back in the car and drove on.

by Anonymousreply 15May 3, 2025 2:46 PM

It's a nice place to stay but deadly dull in terms of gay action.

La Jolla is filled with fiftysomething Republican men and their third wives.

You might find a hot Grindr/Sniffies hookup from one of those Republican men, or get invited down to one of the surfer houses near Windansea or Bird Rock and get some surfer loads sprayed in you or on you. But that's all luck of the draw.

There's a concentrated gay scene in Hillcrest but it's also homeless/strung out druggie central.

La Jolla isn't actively antigay or anything (a few MAGA/Trumper types here and there) but it's just overwhelmingly hetero.

by Anonymousreply 16May 3, 2025 2:56 PM

[quote]I have FF’d the OP for being a moron.

You're not doing too well yourself. Creep.

by Anonymousreply 17May 3, 2025 2:56 PM

Only if you're a gay seal

by Anonymousreply 18May 3, 2025 10:59 PM

18 replies and Phillywhore hasn't weighed in yet?

by Anonymousreply 19May 4, 2025 2:49 AM

Phillywhore is the gay scene in LaJolla.

by Anonymousreply 20May 4, 2025 11:43 AM

My computer's language translator says that La Jolla means "The Fuck" in Spanish.

Oh really!

by Anonymousreply 21May 4, 2025 11:51 AM

AI/Google: The name "La Jolla" is often derived from the Spanish phrase "La Joya," which translates to "The Jewel" in English. However, the origin of "La Jolla" is also linked to the Kumeyaay language, where it meant "place of the cave."

by Anonymousreply 22May 4, 2025 4:39 PM

No. There are a number of friendly gay bars in the Hillcrest neighborhood of San Diego. Go there for a drink. It's a bit of a drive from La Jolla but worth it.

by Anonymousreply 23May 4, 2025 5:48 PM

This message is for fuckhead and the cunt. You've got a helluva lot of nerve leaving the kids with me without telling me you would, asshole. Is the cunt there? In the hallway with her legs spread wide for anyone who passes by? You both make me sick. **click**

by Anonymousreply 24May 4, 2025 6:16 PM
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