[quote]I would have very little freedom to go anywhere without an automobile. Also I don't understand how people can lug their stuff everywhere. Maybe you're just used to it. Maybe you always buy something you need, like a snack or water. I save a lot of money not doing that. Having a 12-pack of water in the car. And shopping at supermarkets and buying all my groceries for the week. Which don't cast a fortune at some small local shops. Having an extra jacket or sweater in the car. Or being able to leave my jacket in the car and not have to lug it around if I'm too warm.
I live in Europe in the pedestrianized center of city of 1 million people. A car would be a burden to me, a huge pain in the ass. I have no real need for a car and like not having one. Lugging things about isn't a problem because the things I need are all ver close at hand. Within three blocks of my house are two large grocery stores, an organic grocer, a small specialty grocer of locally produced and luxury foods, three butchers, four sellers of seafood, two fruit sellers, two bakeries, a dry cleaners, two shops that sell ready made food to take home with menus that change daily, a wine shop, 13 coffee shops that also serve light food, even more restaurants, two general merchandise shops, three barbers... and two blocks further there is an enormous department store, the old-fashioned kind that has everything including a giant grocery store. In short all of these things are a five minute walk or less. People don't do all of their shopping at one place for a whole week, or store bottled water in their car. When you don't have to buy a week's worth of groceries at once, you can buy what suits you on the day. Stores don't have long lines and its a pleasant, efficient experience to pop in to the grocery by two of three items in five minutes -- no need to find a parking spot, and wander thrughout the store with a shopping cart as big as a car.
The best fruit is found from the fruit seller. The same with bread, meat, seafood... Most people do not buy huge bulk packs of maple syrup or paper towels or 50 lbs of dog food (though you can do, and have it delivered for free). They have apartment sized kitchens and usually no garage or basement or storage for bulk buying. 'Freedom' can as easily mean freedom from being tied to a menu designed a week ago, the abililty to take drinks or a meal with friends on short notice, to deciding to make a meal around someting that looks great in a shop.
Not haven't driven in my city for six years is liberating for me. All the things I could possibly need are within a 5 or 15 minute walk. Driving is highly restricted and would be a headache, not a freedom. If I travel elsewhere, I can rent a car on the occasion I want to visit several towns or cities not well connected by train or bus. Cabs are cheap. There not much reason to have a car unless one works at a great distance or travels frequently.
I understand what you describe, R158. I am originally from the US and know that in smaller cities -- for that matter even in some larger cities-- that public transportation is not especially pleasant or convenient or inexpensive. In the US, the majority of people think first of their car when setting out to do anything at all. Driving is the default. I've lived that, but now I'm delighted not to drive as it was something I never enjoyed. For me it's no hardship 'lugging' a small bag of shopping from the grocer two doors away or for spending twenty minutes and buying food from three, four, five shops. In a car that would be enormously awkward, on foot it takes no time at all and is pleasant. And if you want anything delivered, someone will bring it around to your house at the hour you like, no charge. It's a world apart from the American suburban model, but the carless model in a city center works fine.