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What Is Your Favorite Type Of Guy

Every queen says their particular about about their ideal guy but I’m particularly particular. I am not attracted to fat , chubby, dumpy, Bear 🐻 types nor do I generally find muscular guys appealing. I like slim good looking guys with natural bodies- no tattoos, no piercings, no rings and no shaved 🪒 pubic hair. I don’t like chiseled stomachs I do like flat stomachs. I like someone who’s not at all effeminate but not too masculine either.

by Anonymousreply 30December 25, 2024 9:13 AM

I'll alert the media.

by Anonymousreply 1December 24, 2024 12:21 PM

More or less similar, OP. Lean, wiry, dark hair, striking good looks and maybe a bit quirky or unconventional, facial hair, neither bald nor balding. I don't have a strong opinion on tattoos or piercings in general. I don't mind muscles, but they are not required beyond a general fitness, and not desired in the bulked up type. In physical deportment, someone comfortable in his own skin who navigates with some confidence. And eyes count for a lot. (Setting aside personality.)

by Anonymousreply 2December 24, 2024 12:33 PM

Fixed it for you, OP.

[quote] I am a fat , chubby, dumpy, Bear 🐻

by Anonymousreply 3December 24, 2024 12:49 PM

I have discovered in my more mature years, I really find the ability to make or fix something extremely romantic/erotic. Seriously. Did you build your mom a bookshelf? Do minor car repairs? Install a ceiling fan? I'm all yours! And no, it's not (just) because I want stuff done around the house. There's just something loveable about a man who has skills and does things from the heart.

Looks and physicality don't matter as much to me as they used to, but a nice hairy chest does me good.

Lately, I'm also finding guys who wear glasses insanely hot. Might be a developing fetish.

by Anonymousreply 4December 24, 2024 1:22 PM

OP, but you forgot to mention you would spread your legs for anything including a thermometer.

by Anonymousreply 5December 24, 2024 1:31 PM

pathetically picky yet no prize himself

by Anonymousreply 6December 24, 2024 1:37 PM

R5- No.

I am not into getting fucked. I have not sucked a cock since the summer of 2021. I have never licked another guy's ass nor swallowed another guys semen. I do like to fuck occasionally. My favorite sexually activity is getting sucked.

by Anonymousreply 7December 24, 2024 1:45 PM

quelle surprise!

by Anonymousreply 8December 24, 2024 1:47 PM

I find slightly receding hairlines and the bald + bearded combo to be extremely sexy. Body hair and chunky muscle do it for me, too; not *fat* just a guy who works out, has a healthy appetite, and isn't neurotic about food.

I appreciate slim, pretty men aesthetically, I just don't find them hot until they get older and their features start to broaden.

by Anonymousreply 9December 24, 2024 2:31 PM

I love very hairy, swarthy guys.

I have had sex with numerous men in my life but only once with someone approaching my sexual ideal (and wow it was amazing.)

Interestingly, none of my bfs were ever close to my sexual ideal but they were pretty wonderful

by Anonymousreply 10December 24, 2024 4:09 PM

I like nerds. Give me a man with glasses and you can have all of the rest .

by Anonymousreply 11December 24, 2024 9:53 PM

[Quote] Every queen says their particular about about their ideal guy

But not about grammar.

by Anonymousreply 12December 24, 2024 9:57 PM

OP do you kiss or is that too faggy for you?

by Anonymousreply 13December 24, 2024 11:11 PM

If a guy can get it up and keep it up, he's my type.

by Anonymousreply 14December 24, 2024 11:49 PM

R7 you sound dull. And unexciting. And boring.

Do you masturbate? Is that approved?

by Anonymousreply 15December 24, 2024 11:52 PM

OP will not engage until every attribute on her checklist is ticked off. These are ALL non-negotiable!

by Anonymousreply 16December 25, 2024 12:01 AM

OP R7 “I have not sucked a cock since the summer of 2021.”

Hun, that was just Covid…

by Anonymousreply 17December 25, 2024 12:44 AM

OP, you nailed it for many. Merry Christmas!

by Anonymousreply 18December 25, 2024 12:54 AM

R10- Hairy is nice as long as they're slim

R11- I like a cute nerdy type too.

by Anonymousreply 19December 25, 2024 1:30 AM

OP is the slim jerry garcia troll.

by Anonymousreply 20December 25, 2024 5:16 AM

Non MAGA.

by Anonymousreply 21December 25, 2024 5:50 AM

I should add my favourite type is someone who builds things and has a sense of humour. Pref. not someone with babytastes.

by Anonymousreply 22December 25, 2024 6:10 AM

I don't have a favorite type. There are too many and my preferences are constantly shifting. This probably makes me sound undiscerning, but that's not right. There are however, a few "types" that I can't get it up for.

by Anonymousreply 23December 25, 2024 7:15 AM

Perfect guy recipe:

Michael Phelps (body)

Liam Hemsworth (face)

Pete Buttigieg (intellect)

by Anonymousreply 24December 25, 2024 7:32 AM

Intelligently funny.

by Anonymousreply 25December 25, 2024 7:41 AM

I like guys who are in good shape but not cartoonishly ripped, think someone with a physical job. Ideally he has a full bush, uncut dick and big balls. I'm easy to please.

by Anonymousreply 26December 25, 2024 7:47 AM

I got pretty similar tastes to OP, except I actually prefer them a bit on the effeminate side. Skinny is good, I can also do skinnyfat. I dont like men with too many muscles, and like OP I'm not a big fan of tattooes or body piercings, can deal with a few subtle tatts but not a whole bunch all over. A bit androgynous is good! (Or maybe more than a bit actually). Any colour from road reflector white to coffee. Tall a plus but not vital.

Personality wise, needs to be extremely affectionate, delicate and gentle, loves cuddles. Kind, but also rational and takes no shit. At least moderately smart, has a job of some sort, I really dont give a shit about his social status or wealth or any of that providing he can get by without help. Definitely a non smoker/ drinker / drug user, and health-conscious without being crazy fanatical. A shared intresst in something like hiking, swimming, cycling or somethng active like that is a plus. Centrist or apolitical either is good, not a far of either the far right or far left

An interest in old classic cars, especially old American iron would be a bonus, but improbable in the kind of guy I like. But you never know, perhaps there is a queeny fem twink out there driving a hopped up old TransAm, Camaro, pickup truck or some big old land yacht

A blend of Ronan Farrow, Anderson Cooper, Timothee Chamalet (did I spell that good?), Shawn Mendes (but less butch), Troye Sivan and Zack MacLeod Pinsent (as per this thread )

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by Anonymousreply 27December 25, 2024 8:10 AM

Wealthy.

We'll work on the rest.

by Anonymousreply 28December 25, 2024 8:17 AM

for a boyfriend I like a morning guy. upbeat and energetic, and cheerful, optimistic. The kind who will sing in the shower. Perfer them as smart or smarter than i am. For a fuck buddy (I am a retired slut) I liked all kinds of guys. Variety and adventure was part of the point of being a slut. And if I was in the bottom mood I liked xl weird cocks even bonus if they bent down.

by Anonymousreply 29December 25, 2024 9:01 AM

Masculine, hairy Mediterranean, LatinX or Arab guys over 40.

by Anonymousreply 30December 25, 2024 9:13 AM
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