At my new job I started early this year, part of my responsibilities include hiring Mental Health Workers and Social Workers at the hospital I work for. We had about a dozen positions to fill, all recent grads applied (fine, as the starting pay is fair but not great) and so far five hires from the summer are still with us (all the other Zoomer hires quit within a week or so, saying 'This isn't what I signed up for...').
When hired, I explained how 'vacation requests' and 'PTO' requests worked - especially Thanksgiving - New Years, and again in the summer. They all nodded their heads and signed the necessary paperwork saying they understood. I reminded them AGAIN in early November, and sent a work email reminding them to check the 'new hire' package (and paperwork they signed) when they were hired regarding time off during the holidays. There weren't any problems for Thanksgiving.
This week, all of them are now requesting the next two weeks off, despite the fact that :
1. They don't have enough PTO / Vacation time coming to them.
2. Vacation requests - especially the next two weeks - were requested six months ago, and based on seniority.
3. They signed off with HR's new hire package saying they are expected to work through these holidays (not on Christmas Day or New Year's Day) and no allowances will be given. It's THEIR job to be here for their patients.
So now I have five female new-hire Zoomers telling me they'll call out sick for the next few weeks (they don't have enough sick time) and they'll be back the first week of January. Molly has to visit her fiance's family six hundred miles away, so there's no way she'll be around for two weeks. Breeana is going to DIsney with her family for two weeks (her mommy and daddy just booked the vacation a few weeks ago as a surprise), and the other three have 'things to do and friends and family visiting' so no way are they coming to work. Why do the male Zoomers understand this and follow the rules, but not the females ?
I talked to HR and they told me to send everyone another email letting everyone know if they take any unapproved / unqualified time off between December 22 - January 4, they will be terminated. I also told them this in person, too, yesterday (called each one in my office). They each cried and told me I'm 'bullying them' into working. I'm being 'unreasonable'. I told them no 'bullying' is taking place; these are the policies of the hospital, and I've been asked to enforce them - which starts with this warning of termination.
This morning, I already received a phone call from Breeana's mommy, letting me know (under no uncertain terms) she has to have the two weeks off because of the family Disney trip. I told her Breeana's an ADULT and therefore, I couldn't discuss her employment with her mommy. I then hung up.
Looks like I'll probably be hiring five new employees after the new year because 'adulting' is too hard for them.