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In the future, will we be nostalgic for right now?

This is what Krystine Batcho, PhD has to say:

It’s likely that in the future we’ll feel nostalgic for aspects of right now, even if it seems unthinkable. Nostalgia isn’t always logical. It’s more about how time softens the rough edges of memory. What we gripe about today, like the ubiquity of smartphones or relentless streaming content, might someday feel charmingly quaint compared to whatever dystopian terrors technology cooks up next.

We’ll romanticize the simplicity of “vintage” memes, the early days of AI before it completely took over, and even the weird, awkward vibe of Zoom calls. The cultural noise of now - TikToks, Instagram trends, and a million podcasts - might seem delightfully analog compared to future sensory overload.

Of course, nostalgia often ignores the bad, so while we might miss the feeling of “right now,” we’ll conveniently forget the existential dread, climate anxiety, and general chaos that made it all so exhausting. Give it twenty years, and you’ll see someone pining for 2024 as “the last good year.”

by Anonymousreply 30December 13, 2024 5:39 AM

These are the good old days.

by Anonymousreply 1December 12, 2024 1:47 AM

The Pull of the Past with Professor Krystine Batcho

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by Anonymousreply 2December 12, 2024 1:48 AM

Young(ish) people tend to be nostalgic for their younger days, when they like to imagine a limitless future. So in this context, yes, young(ish) people of the day will likely feel nostalgic for these times.

by Anonymousreply 3December 12, 2024 1:49 AM

I know I will definitely feel nostalgic for the days when gay people weren't hunted in the streets by magats with guns, when women were allowed in public alone or forced have children with men who chose them, and it wasn't a crime to be able to read.

by Anonymousreply 4December 12, 2024 1:49 AM

Nostalgia isn’t always logical. It’s more about how time softens the rough edges of memory.

This is an incredible quote and so painfully true. As I navigate my 30s I can truly attest.

by Anonymousreply 5December 12, 2024 1:50 AM

Sorry, I will never be nostalgic for a period of time when unabashed sociopaths like Musk, Trump, Zuckerberg, Bezos and Ramalamadingdong play such prominent roles.

by Anonymousreply 6December 12, 2024 1:51 AM

R6 Will you be alive long enough to experience the nostalgia?

by Anonymousreply 7December 12, 2024 1:53 AM

Human rights.

by Anonymousreply 8December 12, 2024 1:57 AM

R4 MARY.

by Anonymousreply 9December 12, 2024 1:59 AM

Erm, probably not.

by Anonymousreply 10December 12, 2024 2:08 AM

A surprising number of my friends/coworkers are expressing nostalgia for the pandemic. They miss the quiet and “forced reset” of lockdown. To me, this shows that rose tinted glasses really can make anything look good in hindsight.

by Anonymousreply 11December 12, 2024 2:11 AM

The 2020s have not gotten off to a good start. I think people are done with it before it even began. It has a lot of catching up to do if it wants to be a memorable decade. I'm glad I grew up through the '80s and '90s and have a reference that times can be amazing and fun. Nothing will ever feel like that again.

by Anonymousreply 12December 12, 2024 2:12 AM

R11, many never did financially as well as they did during the pandemic. They didn't have to worry about evictions or student loan payments. They saved money by not eating at restaurants. It's why so many were nostalgic for the "Trump economy."

by Anonymousreply 13December 12, 2024 2:16 AM

Maybe random memes here and there or a few media events, like seeing the Wicked movie in theaters. But i do not imagine having nostalgia for this time in the larger sense.

by Anonymousreply 14December 12, 2024 2:17 AM

Democracy. When I was a child, I remember hearing that the average age of empires was 200-250 years, I thought they were wrong. I see it now.

by Anonymousreply 15December 12, 2024 2:19 AM

Same as always - Music, movies, TV, loved ones, friendships. Specifics will vary by what the individual is enjoying at the moment. The specific movies, TV, music, people I am nostalgic for are/will be different than the ones you or anyone else will remember fondly.

by Anonymousreply 16December 12, 2024 2:21 AM

Say what you want about the times, but 1942 was a magical year.

by Anonymousreply 17December 12, 2024 2:21 AM

That's the thing about nostalgia. Most living in any given era would never think they would want to relive it. The flip side of clothing & hairstyles. Looking back at their choices, most would say, "What was I thinking?!" Even though in real time they clearly thought well of their choices.

by Anonymousreply 18December 12, 2024 2:26 AM

I will be nostalgic for these years most definitely…our kids are young and happy and we are all together and everyone is healthy. Our parents are aging but theyre still here and in good spirits. Work is going well. I can dance and run and lift weights and nothing hurts and I sleep well at night. As climate change progresses we will miss the weather, and I wonder if it will cause food shortages…the endless grocery stores and uber eats and all the delivery services with anything you could want at your fingertips might seem miraculous and unfathomable in 50 years.

by Anonymousreply 19December 12, 2024 2:27 AM

R19 Your life sounds truly lovely, and it’s heartwarming to read how much you cherish it. It’s a beautiful thing to pause and truly savor the fleeting gifts we so often overlook. I, too, find solace in capturing mental snapshots of the small details: the gentle rise and fall of my partner’s chest as he drifts into sleep, the warmth of his presence grounding me in the now; the soft weight of our miniature poodle nestled in my arms. Reminders of uncomplicated joy.

These are the moments we’ll carry with us long after time has reshaped our lives. To notice them now, to treasure them deeply - it’s like saving little pieces of happiness for the future.

by Anonymousreply 20December 12, 2024 2:35 AM

R20, that was beautiful and profound. Thank you so much for sharing. You brought a tear to my eye! So glad that you are also living in the moment and appreciating what we have right now.

by Anonymousreply 21December 12, 2024 2:41 AM

Everyone, feel even [bold]WORSE[/bold] than you do right now! Because I and Krystine Batcho (Ph.D.!) command it!

I am not trolling at all!! I am just innocently posting on Datalounge!!

by Anonymousreply 22December 12, 2024 3:39 AM

Nope.

by Anonymousreply 23December 13, 2024 12:43 AM

I'm nostalgic for the fall of the Berlin Wall to 9/11. Nothing before, nothing after.

by Anonymousreply 24December 13, 2024 12:47 AM

I miss Covid. I loved social distancing people don’t respect personal bubbles

by Anonymousreply 25December 13, 2024 2:16 AM

I miss the first few months of covid too^ Tiger King, making lots if baked goods, doing home improvement projects, having so much extra time on our hands…

by Anonymousreply 26December 13, 2024 3:33 AM

I don't think so. People have become dumber and that's never a good thing.

by Anonymousreply 27December 13, 2024 3:57 AM

Nostalgia ain’t what it used to be

by Anonymousreply 28December 13, 2024 4:21 AM

A president who doesn't have to be in front of tv cameras or otherwise make himself the center of attention every day.

by Anonymousreply 29December 13, 2024 5:22 AM

Cunts are gunna cunt

by Anonymousreply 30December 13, 2024 5:39 AM
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