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Adults over 40 who are obsessed with going to Disney World/Disneyland……. Why?

I’ve known a few gay men in my life (not related and didn’t know each other) who were over 40 and were still obsessed with going to Disney Land quite frequently. They had no interest in foreign travel but just had to go to Disney.

What is the appeal of this place for someone over 40 with no kids?

by Anonymousreply 34May 10, 2025 3:08 AM

Your friends will be thrilled. An all new Disney park-Abu Dhabi opening early 2030’s. Tariffs may have other plans.

by Anonymousreply 1May 9, 2025 2:36 AM

Disney adults are freaks.

by Anonymousreply 2May 9, 2025 2:38 AM

Im with R2 . I never met one that wasnt .

by Anonymousreply 3May 9, 2025 2:41 AM

I’m judging: these are stunted people.

by Anonymousreply 4May 9, 2025 2:44 AM

I had an annual pass for several years a few years ago and would make four trips a year to Disney World (I'm in my 60s). I grew tired of it and dropped the annual pass because Disney World became too expensive in everything. I'm doing other kinds of travel now.

Spending money to go to France or Asia and using part of the trip to go to a foreign Disney park would be unthinkable to me. There's so much real stuff to see in the foreign countries.

by Anonymousreply 5May 9, 2025 2:45 AM

It's really simple. They had shitty childhoods and are making up for lost time.

by Anonymousreply 6May 9, 2025 2:48 AM

Cars Land at Disney's California Adventure...one of the best places to be

...when the sun starts to set and those neon lights in Radiator Springs kick on 🤩 Ask a cast member when the neon lighting “ceremony” is and don’t miss it!! 🏎🏎🏎✨✨

by Anonymousreply 7May 9, 2025 2:50 AM

For some adults who love Disney, it's like a religion

NPR publishes a defense of Disney adults

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by Anonymousreply 8May 9, 2025 2:50 AM

Adults obsessed with Disney

What is their damage?

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by Anonymousreply 9May 9, 2025 2:51 AM

LGBTQ community is pissed Disney would choose UAE. They hate gays-

by Anonymousreply 10May 9, 2025 2:53 AM

A guy I dated for a couple years 25 years ago is such a Disney fag. He and his husband just got back from two weeks in Tokyo and Hong Kong. They stayed at Disney hotels on the properties and, from what I can tell on Facebook, never ventured off property except transportation to and from the airports. They posted daily pics of the rides they went on (same as Disneyland) and the food and drinks (pizza, chicken strips, Mickey waffles, etc.). The Disney aspect was a big “ick” for me back then. I cannot fathom why two 60-somethings from LA squander a lot of money to do shit like this. A few years ago, their Paris trip was also Disney with, apparently, a bus tour around the Eiffel Tower and the Louvre. I’d bet my house they didn’t step foot in a museum in Paris.

by Anonymousreply 11May 9, 2025 2:58 AM

When I was kid in the 1970s, Disney World Magic Kingdom would hire really good looking cast members for the public facing jobs. As a gay youngster, that made an impression on me. When they opened a second park, Epcot, the quality went down somewhat because they had to hire more local people and had to dip into the less aesthetically pleasing pool. Still, for most of my adult life, they had pretty good looking male cast members. After Covid and with the expansion of the Universal parks, the cast members aren't so good looking anymore. That's another major reason I have stopped going.

by Anonymousreply 12May 9, 2025 2:59 AM

I used to be cynical as fuck and judge these cunts. But as I’m getting older who am I to judge. I drink a beer about 3 days average, ruining my liver, and I suffer from functional depression and have done vices in the past to medicate that depression. Let people be happy.

by Anonymousreply 13May 9, 2025 3:01 AM

Jenny Nicholson is just a few years away from this.

by Anonymousreply 14May 9, 2025 3:03 AM

Yes, with all the sad, aging circuit “boys,” meth heads, bathhouse-breeder sluts and other walking hate crimes, let’s pile on the gays who likely have the most innocent hobby that hurts no one and doesn’t require a shot of penicillin to function afterward.

Your judgmental misery - a classic DL pastime - would be funny if it wasn’t so hypocritical and pathetic. Most of you can’t even afford a weekend a at a low-end guesthouse in Fort Lauderdale much less ridiculously overpriced Disney. This tired old critique is low-hanging fruit for broke, lonely losers.

Museums in Paris? Oh, my sides. Most of you go into debt for a a Target run. Thanks for the laugh 🤣.

by Anonymousreply 15May 9, 2025 3:11 AM

I live in NYC, travel abroad quite often, and don’t care all that much about the Disney movies or own even one piece of memorabilia. However, I do love Walt Disney World and, quite honestly, would probably go once a year if it were more convenient. I can’t fully explain it. It just comforts me, even with its many negatives (stupidly expensive, crowded, Florida).

by Anonymousreply 16May 9, 2025 3:19 AM

[quote] A guy I dated for a couple years 25 years ago is such a Disney fag. He and his husband just got back from two weeks in Tokyo and Hong Kong.

And you went to Panda Express by yourself.

Guess who has the better life.

by Anonymousreply 17May 9, 2025 3:24 AM

Grown adults doing shit that is designed for children is always creepy and stunted.

by Anonymousreply 18May 9, 2025 3:28 AM

Coding. Gotta be A-Gays who do martinis on Friday nights, gym everyday, brunch on Sundays, big trips every few months, bling, EVs, and supporting all performative liberal causes including related boycotts. Always with clockwork precision. Gay sheep. I’ve never understood the gay collective obsession with the Disney parks, or Disney’s silly products and characters. Learn to be more original, fellow gays!

by Anonymousreply 19May 9, 2025 3:29 AM

Good God, r15: what a hysterical overreaction.

Obviously this is a very, VERY sore subject for you.

by Anonymousreply 20May 9, 2025 3:30 AM

It's the only place in the US you can go and not see homeless people.

by Anonymousreply 21May 9, 2025 3:43 AM

I think it’s weird too, but I know adults go almost solely to ride the coasters and scary rides. Adrenaline junkies.

by Anonymousreply 22May 9, 2025 3:48 AM

My friend is a law firm partner who works long hours. She likes to go to Disneyland because she can turn her brain off for a day.

by Anonymousreply 23May 9, 2025 3:49 AM

The other thing weird is it’s always Disneyland, not any other park in SoCal. They get yearly passes.

by Anonymousreply 24May 9, 2025 3:50 AM

It has something to do psychologically with the emphasis on order and cleanliness at Disney World/Disneyland.

by Anonymousreply 25May 9, 2025 3:52 AM

I thought DL had already reached a consensus on Disney Adults.

They're survivors of childhood sexual abuse, every last one of them.

by Anonymousreply 26May 9, 2025 11:56 PM

Some of the design elements of theme parks like Disneyland/DisneyWorld/Epcot are absolutely brilliant. How they've decided to package different world places or real/fantasy times in relatively small spaces can be a master class. Allowing traffic to flow from area to area while managing the entire park via tunnels below is also remarkable. And some of the rides are tongue-in-cheek funny.

For Disney specifically, it's interesting to see how parks in different lands adjust the basic style and theme to match the local culture. Disneyland Tokyo is very different from Disneyland Paris.

My boyfriend and I go if we're in a location near a park. But we skip the hotels and food/restaurants. That's where the fantasy ends for us.

by Anonymousreply 27May 10, 2025 12:55 AM

Disney hasn't been just for kids in decades. There are adult oriented stuff. And roller coasters will always attract adults.

by Anonymousreply 28May 10, 2025 1:21 AM

We will see a huge spike in this as millennials, the Peter Pan generation, age.

by Anonymousreply 29May 10, 2025 1:25 AM

^^^^Yet another ancient fuck who doesn't realize that the oldest millennials are 44, still taking about the generation as if they're teens

by Anonymousreply 30May 10, 2025 2:07 AM

I don't get it either. Perhaps they want to regress to childhood? I'm in my sixties and I've only been to Disney World three times. When I was 18, then 30, and then 44. I might make one more visit , but it won't be a big loss if I don't. The first time it was great, the second time it was good, the third time it was fine. I see each of my subsequent visits as having diminishing returns.

by Anonymousreply 31May 10, 2025 2:21 AM

The word is Nostalgia. I had a boss who took his young family to Disneyland the first year-1955.

by Anonymousreply 32May 10, 2025 2:33 AM

To me there’s a difference between LA based folks who go to Disneyland often as a pricey day-trip and most everyone else who has to fly to Orlando or CA and drop10k for a week in the parks & hotels. Once or twice in your life is plenty - then use that money to see other things.

by Anonymousreply 33May 10, 2025 2:51 AM

It's weird human behavior, I don't get it.

by Anonymousreply 34May 10, 2025 3:08 AM
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