One of my observations in life has been that people are often willing to tolerate bullshit if it’s not directly affecting them and pushing back is more trouble than it’s worth (like getting cancelled). But once people’s rights or livelihoods are threatened, the tolerance ends.
Trans activists are partly to blame for Kamala’s loss. If the Trump administration or Trump-friendly courts put gay marriage on the chopping block, you’re going to see a lot more gays suddenly being much more vocal about the desire to dissolve the LGBTQ+ union (which was never really voluntary to begin with). “Stronger together” will finally be seen as the farce that it is.