Why do bisexual men treat gay men so badly?

What a stupid ramble. Seek help.

OP, I’m seeing a pattern here…

I don't think your problems are with bi men. Your problems are with deeply closeted men.

OP has a point. A lot of Bi men are semi-closeted. They like playing straight in social events, business events that involve bringing a spouse or date or straight weddings where their dates always seems to be a woman. But at the same time claim they are not in the closet and everyone knows.

Because they are WHORES darlin'.

They're stupid.

R3 ALSO, he probably reminds them of their girlfriends.

Sex with them is fabulous. They are considerate. And when it's over they go back to their wives. But look forward to seeing you again. Win win.

OP why do light-skinned black people often look down on dark-skinned black people?

[quote]because I’m not a flaming queen

Yeah, sure.

I wonder what Matt Damon has to say about this?

Bisexual males = narcissists

Do cows complain that people only want them for milk, meat, and hide and not to be friends?

You served a purpose OP, one you enjoyed, now you complain it was not love.

Works the same way too OP. Treat the people including bisexuals on your fuck-apps like cattle for sex. Meet potential partners outside oof the apps.

Op, I too have been down this road. In my case, I was 18, just landed in college and ended up in a hot and cold (from his side) situation-ship with SA bisexual who was also deeply religious. So, he’d ghost me after we’d hook up, which only ever went as far as oral and jerking off. Then the shame would set in and he’d ghost me for weeks.

I was stuck in the closet and in Kentucky, so my options were limited, by my own constraints. Safe to say, I fell hard for that guy because he was a constant all through college, even if he barely gave me attention.

The worst part was the sweet nothings he would say early on about how I’m the type of guy he’d actually love to date but he has his girlfriend so can’t.

He and his girlfriend dated for 7 years. Because of religion, they never even had sex. Then went on a 3 year engagement, that of course went no where.

I think he’s actually gay, but religion and family are too important for him to even consider living his truth. Anyway; he played mind games. Would slur shame me, and I was pathetic enough to still want more.

Op, we have to accept that we have some fucked up issues of our own by accepting these bad relationships (be it friends, friend with benefits, or boyfriends).

If that guy asked me move back down to Kentucky to be his boyfriend, I’m ashamed to say I’d probably do it.

I don’t treat them badly. I just get tired of the histrionics and typical drama. Obviously, doesn’t apply to everybody.

Obviously not tired enough of the histrionics and drama to want to keep getting fucked by them or being able to blow them.

It’s you OP not them.

^ I am tired of them mostly, I hardly pursue much these days. You make it sound like I care way more than I do.

What is it about the human experience that many of us dependably find a way to dehumanize others?

R15 here. I have another bi- friend with benefits up in my city. I call him the hottest man in Chicago because to me, he is perfect. We get along with small talk, he likes to suck dick and lets me suck his gorgeous cock. He has a deep, voice, made for radio, but a face made for daytime soaps. My goodness, he checks all the boxes. I’d happily let him fuck me, but that’s too far for him. He just wants oral form guys.

First time we hooked up, we blew each other, then he insisted on taking me out to a restaurant for a proper date afterwards. Great conversation, I was smitten.

He texted me that he didn’t want to move forward with a relationship but thought it would be nice to try out the date, after the blowjob. He asked for us to remain “friends”.

We still meet up every 3-4 months. I drop what I’m doing when he’s down for fun, sexy bi-bastard, lol. His cum is too good to pass up, I can’t stare into his beautiful eyes all day.

They’re “passing” people. You see the same thing with mixed race people.

So now I’m Lena Horne.

R18 it’s your thread that you started. That says I care.