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"Wicked" disabled actress Marissa Bode asks viewers to "please be kind"

Marissa Bode is trying to change attitudes toward her Wicked character's disability for good.

The actress, who uses a wheelchair in real life and on screen, has addressed ableism she has observed in discussions surrounding the new musical film, in which she plays Nessarose, the sister of Cynthia Erivo's protagonist Elphaba.

"There's something that's made me a bit uncomfortable, and as somebody who's disabled with a platform, I just wanted to talk about it really quick," she began in a five-minute TikTok she posted on Friday.

Bode noted that it's completely appropriate and understandable to dislike Nessa as a character and make jokes about her, as she's a complex figure with shortcomings who makes poor decisions over the course of the musical. "That's the beauty of art and Wicked — these characters and the movie wouldn't be what it was if there weren't different opinions on the characters and who's truly wicked or not," she said. "And not liking Nessa herself is okay, because she is fictional. That's totally fine."

However, the actress added that she has no patience for jokes and criticisms of her character that center around her disability. "Aggressive comments and jokes about Nessa's disability itself is deeply uncomfortable, because disability is not fictional," she said. "At the end of the day, me, Marissa, is the person that is still disabled and in a wheelchair. And so it is simply a low-hanging fruit that too many of you are comfortable taking."

Bode explained that she's heard countless variations on the most basic ableist jokes. "Before even being cast in Wicked, I had received comments — just as me, as Marissa, not Nessa — around the words of 'stand up for yourself,' 'I guess you can't stand him,' et cetera," she said. "These comments aren't original, and when these jokes are being made by non-disabled strangers with a punchline of not being able to walk, it very much feels like laughing at rather than laughing with."

She went on to express why she felt afraid to speak up about her discomfort in the first place. "The most frustrating part about all of this is how scared I am to even post/talk about this, which is also the bigger reason as to why I'm making this video in the first place," Bode said. "This goes so far beyond me, Marissa, just needing to avoid comments on the internet.

These comments do not exist in a vacuum. Aggressive comments of wanting to cause harm and push Nessa out of her wheelchair or that she deserves her disability are two really gross and harmful comments that real disabled people, including myself, have heard before."

The performer said she's witnessed other disability advocates experience serious discomfort as a result of similar comments. "I am scared, also, because I have seen firsthand what has happened to my disabled peers who are outspoken online when it comes to calling out ableism and why jokes of standing and being a vegetable — which is a derogatory term, by the way, for disabled people, and a comment that I saw about Nessa — these disabled creators' comments are flooded with ableist comments," she said.

"When speaking on ableism, they're told to just take a joke, and that they're asking too much, and to stop complaining, to the point where some of my disabled peers, these disabled creators, have needed to take a break online for their own mental well-being. To state the obvious, that's not good."

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by Anonymousreply 47December 3, 2024 12:41 AM

Bode called on Wicked audiences to be more sensitive as they discuss her character and other disabled people. "Rather than dismissing one another and claiming an experience can't be true because you personally don't feel that way about a joke that wouldn't have affected your demographic anyways, listen to the people or to the person that it is affecting and how it makes them feel," she said.

"Thankfully, I'm at a place in my life today where I can recognize these jokes about disability are made out of ignorance. I couldn't say the same about Marissa 10 years ago, and it would have affected younger me a lot more, and I'm worried that a younger version of myself is somewhere on the internet and is harmed by these comments."

She concluded, "Please be kind. And lastly, I want to say one of the major themes within Wicked is having the ability to listen and understand one another, and I truly hope that is something a lot of you can practice more and take with you. Thank you."

by Anonymousreply 1December 1, 2024 7:11 AM

She sounds lovely.

And that was such a beautiful sentiment that she expressed so eloquently.

by Anonymousreply 2December 1, 2024 7:12 AM

Nothing against her, but who the fuck wants to see people in wheelchairs in movies? Does EVERYONE have to be included in EVERYTHING at ALL TIMES?

by Anonymousreply 3December 1, 2024 7:30 AM

r3 or maybe the character was written to be in a wheelchair. 🤔

by Anonymousreply 4December 1, 2024 8:39 AM

She's right: non-disabled people making shit out of disabled people is about as low-rung as "comedy" gets. She said something important: however the "joker" intended it, the punchline is that she's in a wheelchair (she was in a car crash at age 11). Sounds familiar? Like how ever gay insult or slur is "just a joke", but being gay is clearly the punchline, so what's funny about that? They're saying we're a joke because we exist and are inferior in their eyes.

by Anonymousreply 5December 1, 2024 8:44 AM

Wheelchair!

by Anonymousreply 6December 1, 2024 8:54 AM

Too bad she isn’t as passionate about good grammar.

by Anonymousreply 7December 1, 2024 8:56 AM

Could you BE a bigger asshole, R3?

Way to completely miss the point!

by Anonymousreply 8December 1, 2024 8:59 AM

r8 Right. How trashy do you have to be to bash a wheelchair bound person appearing on screen. I can't even think of the last person in a wheelchair I've seen on screen outside of some character on The sopranos leaving the hospital. Maybe that Rear Window remake with Christopher Reeves?

by Anonymousreply 9December 1, 2024 9:03 AM

Yeah, I’ve never been bothered by seeing a character in a wheelchair - and it certainly doesn’t happen often enough to become tedious. Disabled actors need jobs, too. R8 R9

by Anonymousreply 10December 1, 2024 9:10 AM

Good for her for showing that people in wheelchairs can also be irritating narcissists.

by Anonymousreply 11December 1, 2024 9:25 AM

So no standing ovations at the premier?

by Anonymousreply 12December 1, 2024 10:27 AM

You know what I can't stand?.

Sorry, let me rephrase.

You know what? I can't stand.

by Anonymousreply 13December 1, 2024 11:25 AM

Never skip leg day.

by Anonymousreply 14December 1, 2024 11:25 AM

She seems fragile.

by Anonymousreply 15December 1, 2024 11:51 AM

So, aside from the witch, Dorothy's house also ruined a perfectly good wheelchair?

by Anonymousreply 16December 1, 2024 12:45 PM
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by Anonymousreply 17December 1, 2024 2:50 PM

[quote] Aggressive comments and jokes about Nessa's disability itself is deeply uncomfortable, because disability is not fictional," she said. "At the end of the day, me, Marissa, is the person that is still disabled and in a wheelchair.

You can dislike her character because she isn’t an asshole in real life so it fine, but you can’t make fun of her disability because she’s really disabled.

Using this logic, we can’t make fun of Faye Dunaway in Mommy Dearest because Faye is a nutcase in real life but we can make fun of Rosie ODonnell in Rising the Bus With My Sister because Rosie isn’t retarded in real life?

by Anonymousreply 18December 1, 2024 3:01 PM

She's disabled with a platform!

What an insufferable scold.

If your fucking role concerns you that it will make people hate cripples, DON'T LECTURE, JUST DON'T TAKE THE JOB, cunt.

by Anonymousreply 19December 1, 2024 3:05 PM

"They wheeled 'em in - they can wheel 'em out!"

by Anonymousreply 20December 1, 2024 3:06 PM

R11 Exactly, don't hate me for my wheelchair, hate me for being an annoying scold. I read the book Wicked many years ago and I don't think there was a wheelchair character, and I'm fairly fucking certain that Elphaba wasn't black. Christopher Reeve once said that he wanted to change wheelchair users in movies, as they are often the villain and never sympathetic. It seems like a wheelchair user was written as a villain, and this bitch should not take the role, or they will never stop vilifying handicapable people. How about you don't fucking worry about what people think of a fictional character, Marissa? But this is the generation that tells people their fucking pronouns, assuming we're going to be talking about them and need to know how to address them.

by Anonymousreply 21December 1, 2024 5:08 PM

I don't want to push Nessarose out of her wheelchair, Ms. Bode.

But I do enjoy quietly imagining you going down the Matterhorn in one.

by Anonymousreply 22December 1, 2024 5:10 PM

She seems unable to separate people’s reactions to the character from criticism about herself personally. Seems like that should be something a professional actor can handle.

by Anonymousreply 23December 1, 2024 8:48 PM

You don’t hear Chrissy Metz saying “don’t make comments about my character’s massive obesity.”

by Anonymousreply 24December 2, 2024 12:01 AM

The Blanch Hudson of 2024.

by Anonymousreply 25December 2, 2024 2:05 AM

There weren't any cripples in MY Oz.

by Anonymousreply 26December 2, 2024 2:35 AM

She doesn't have much get up and go.

by Anonymousreply 27December 2, 2024 3:01 AM

I'm holding handicap space for this conversation.

by Anonymousreply 28December 2, 2024 3:16 AM

[quote]I read the book Wicked many years ago and I don't think there was a wheelchair character…

R21 In the book, Elphaba’s younger sister is born without arms due to medicine her mother took to prevent having another green-skinned child. In the Broadway show, she’s wheelchair bound instead of armless.

by Anonymousreply 29December 2, 2024 3:35 AM

Ah thanks R29. I should read it again. Was the armless kid a fucking buzz kill like this one?

by Anonymousreply 30December 2, 2024 3:46 AM

I don’t know if she’s a buzz kill, R30, but she’s a major asshole with a disability, much like Governor Abbott of Texas.

by Anonymousreply 31December 2, 2024 4:19 AM

Some people are assholes, even if they're in a wheelchair. I remember many years ago my sis and her best friend were at some concert, and some chick in a wheelchair kept getting in front of everyone, acting entitled and just generally being a bitch, and my sister wanted to say something to her, and her best friend said, "No, you can't do that, she's in a wheelchair! just let her go in front of us" and my sis said, "no, she doesn't get to be an asshole just because of that, and if we don't say something, we're giving her special treatment, don't they want to be treated the same as anyone else? Because I would say something to anyone else." It's a real thing, people tread so lightly when they should just speak to them like they would anyone.

by Anonymousreply 32December 2, 2024 5:31 AM

Right, that’s nice and she is right, but do people ever think that explaining basic human decency to us like were children is a good move?

Or is she talking to actual children?

by Anonymousreply 33December 2, 2024 1:31 PM

I won the Tony on wheels.

by Anonymousreply 34December 2, 2024 3:35 PM

[quote] Some people are assholes, even if they're in a wheelchair.

I worked in case management for disabled clients at a home healthcare agency for several years and have done volunteer work with several disability related non-profits. Some of the people I know/knew and worked with were assholes who either had entitled attitudes or had ugly beliefs such as racism, homophobia, sexism, etc. Those same people usually had the attitude that their disabilities excused them from being called out on their shit. The agency I worked for did terminate contracts with clients, if the clients used any hate speech/terms towards care attendants, home nurses, therapists, and other agency employees.

One client who was under my case management called her care attendant a "mutt". The care attendant was a young biracial woman. At the time when this incident happened, I was on leave because of a death in the family. The care attendant reported it to the agency administrators/owners. They made the decision to terminate. One of them called me on my cell and told me about the incident. I was fine with their decision because there had been a few other similar incidents prior to that one.When I went back to work and checked my voicemails, the terminated client's husband left me a message saying "Please, tell the owners that she didn't mean what she said. She gets frustrated because of her multiple sclerosis". I shared the message with the agency owners and they rolled their eyes. I've seen similar incidents go on in non-profits I've volunteered with.

by Anonymousreply 35December 2, 2024 5:37 PM

I remember that, R29! I understand why they changed it for the show, though. Finding an armless Broadway actress wasn't going to be easy.

by Anonymousreply 36December 2, 2024 5:41 PM

So many assholes on this thread.

From the comments, you'd think this woman is Hitler incarnate!

All she's asking for is a little bit of common courtesy, human decency and RESPECT for disabled people.

And she was being very nice and humble about it!!

I don't understand where all of this vitriol towards her is coming from.

She didn't do anything wrong.

by Anonymousreply 37December 2, 2024 5:43 PM

R37 So true. It’s as if they want a house to fall on her!

by Anonymousreply 38December 2, 2024 5:58 PM

She's gonna kill it in the Starlight Express revival.

by Anonymousreply 39December 2, 2024 6:10 PM

R37 People don't like being told what they're allowed to say about a person who is very much a public figure. If she can't take it, perhaps she should get a job in a call center where people can't see her. Remember when Christopher Reeve became paralyzed, he was best friends with Robin Williams and Robin told him all the jokes going around, one that he thought was really funny was, "Whats the difference between OJ and Chris Reeve? OJ's gonna walk." Sometimes you need to have a fucking sense of humor and not take yourself so seriously. What she should be saying is, "keep up the jokes, fuckers, just as long as you keep going to see the movie!"

by Anonymousreply 40December 2, 2024 6:31 PM

Nessarose is a not a great person. In Act 1 she never tries to help her sister, and in Act 2 she becomes a dictator over the munchkins. The audience isn't really meant to like her.

by Anonymousreply 41December 2, 2024 6:35 PM

Is there anyone associated with this movie who is not completely insufferable?

by Anonymousreply 42December 2, 2024 6:51 PM

[quote]In the book, Elphaba’s younger sister is born without arms due to medicine her mother took to prevent having another green-skinned child. In the Broadway show, she’s wheelchair bound instead of armless.

So, how frightening was an armless witch to the Munchkins? How she'd hold her broom? No underwear and a suction pussy?

by Anonymousreply 43December 2, 2024 8:20 PM

R36 Why? Don't act as lose weight for roles all the time? If she really wanted it...

by Anonymousreply 44December 2, 2024 8:25 PM

No, R16. The silver shoes/ruby slippers become enchanted to help her walk.

But how are they going to pull that off in part 2 when the actress can’t walk?

In the book, Nessa wasn’t in a wheelchair. But, she was born with no arms and she needed people to stand nearby her in case she lost her balance.

by Anonymousreply 45December 2, 2024 9:46 PM

Does her pussy stink? Is it abled?

by Anonymousreply 46December 2, 2024 9:52 PM

I can see why Nessa’s disability was changed from being armless to being legless for stage and film, because the visuals of an armless Nessa would have been distracting and comical; sitting in a wheelchair is more dignified in tone than wobbling around like a bowling pin.

by Anonymousreply 47December 3, 2024 12:41 AM
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