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Do you come from a white trash town?

I realized that I do. I grew up in a small town in Maryland and I never really thought of it as a white trash place since both of my parents were educated and so were a lot of my friends' parents. However, Facebook always reveals the truth.

My female high school classmates keep showing off their new tattoos on Facebook. Hell, one of them even got a matching tattoo with her son. The trashiest white girls always end up with the trashiest black guys from high school. Funny, they never seem to be interested in the black guys who went to college. They just want the black guys who were in and out of jail.

A HUGE number of classmates married other classmates and never left. Furthermore, I noticed that all the white guys who moved away got married to women who all look the same: blond and a little chunky, but they all have the same face. It's quite eerie actually.

by Anonymousreply 30November 30, 2024 8:00 PM

No. I come from a formerly nice town that had riots in the 1960s. Then there was white flight, and now, anytime I read about my erstwhile town online, it's preceded by "Don't move to _______."

It broke my father's heart.

by Anonymousreply 1November 29, 2024 7:35 PM

No. I grew up in a nice respectable upper middle class town.

by Anonymousreply 2November 29, 2024 7:38 PM

No. I grew up in an nice neighborhood in Chicago. I wouldn't say there weren't problems there, though.

by Anonymousreply 3November 29, 2024 7:53 PM

Sounds like a David Lynch movie. Or John Waters.

by Anonymousreply 4November 29, 2024 7:53 PM

I'm from Texas so I'm from a trash state.

by Anonymousreply 5November 29, 2024 7:55 PM

I'm from a white trash and black trash town, how does that work?

by Anonymousreply 6November 29, 2024 8:07 PM

Yes I’m from what used to be a white working class first ring suburb of Detroit.

by Anonymousreply 7November 29, 2024 8:10 PM

What aren't you telling us, R1? Your comment raises more questions than answers.

by Anonymousreply 8November 29, 2024 8:17 PM

I grew up in a town that had moderate amounts of white flight in the 90s and 2000s. My parents didn’t have the wherewithal or ambition to leave so we just watched the town change. Not drastic except for a small uptick in crime and gang activity, also the schools went a bit downhill also.

by Anonymousreply 9November 29, 2024 8:19 PM

I grew up in what was once a small town outside of Houston but is now probably close to 200,000 residents - the word “affluent” is often used to describe it. My high school girl’s golf team were Texas state champs five years in a row back in the 80s (no shortage of country clubs) and most of the Houston sports stars loved there (Moses Malone lived down the street from us and Frank Beard from ZZ Top lived next door to my high school boyfriend).

I think “white trash” is a tacky phrase but every city has trashy people, no matter how well-off.

by Anonymousreply 10November 29, 2024 8:47 PM

R10 This sounds like Naperville, Illinois.

by Anonymousreply 11November 29, 2024 8:51 PM

tacky phrase

That would be DL, that's why we come here.

by Anonymousreply 12November 29, 2024 8:52 PM

Kind of? It’s not where I was born but the town I grew up in was very trashy. There’s a lot of trash with cash there now. People who make a lot in the trades but still behave like white trash.

by Anonymousreply 13November 29, 2024 8:57 PM

No. I didn’t

by Anonymousreply 14November 29, 2024 8:58 PM

Rednecks with money describes much of my hometown.

by Anonymousreply 15November 29, 2024 9:04 PM

Yep. Uneducated and proud it of trash crowd.

by Anonymousreply 16November 29, 2024 9:29 PM

Trash with cash. Oh dear. I can see the siding and overscheduled kids with strange names from here.

by Anonymousreply 17November 29, 2024 9:30 PM

Yes. The only bookstore in my hometown was an Adult book store with the ultra-creative name of XXX Bookstore. It was located across the highway from a trailer park and a block away from a bowling alley and a Baptist church. Ther was also a pawn shop around the corner.

by Anonymousreply 18November 29, 2024 9:32 PM

East Hampton trash

by Anonymousreply 19November 29, 2024 9:35 PM

R18 Fun for the whole family. Even dad!

by Anonymousreply 20November 29, 2024 9:38 PM

Yes, highest per capita bars, churches, child sexual assault, % of children in foster care. Also 97% white and stronghold of the klan in Massachusetts when I was growing up.

by Anonymousreply 21November 29, 2024 9:47 PM

I live in West Virginia now. Going from Chicago to Here is kind of like a John Waters movie. LMAO, there are some real characters here. It's beautiful here, and kind of trashy, but I like the people. Everybody knows everybody and they are usually related in some way. My husband's Nephews half brother was living under a made up name. One day I was outside smoking and he came flying up the road and the cops were right on him. He led them up the hollow and ditched the truck, which belonged to his step-dad. They didn't catch him for almost two months. His made up name was Paul Ball. His real name is unreal. Lol, he's crazy and funny, and good at telling stories.

by Anonymousreply 22November 29, 2024 9:56 PM

I grew up in a nice middle to upper class town. Many decades later, it's still a nice town.

by Anonymousreply 23November 29, 2024 10:06 PM

My family did drive through East St. Louis on occasion.

by Anonymousreply 24November 29, 2024 10:08 PM

R24 did you like it?

by Anonymousreply 25November 29, 2024 10:48 PM

R10 had me searching the UIL archives trying to figure out her high school. Then I thought why am I doing this?

by Anonymousreply 26November 30, 2024 6:29 PM

I grew up in a small third-tier manufacturing rust belt town, full of Italian immigrants, that used to be a thriving place before I was born. It had a busy downtown with three different mid-range department stores, tailors, beauty parlors, florists, a G.C. Murphy, and a movie theater, as well as the county courthouse and library. A lot of that was still hanging on when I was a child in the 70s, but in the mid-70s the mills shut down and the town's slow slide into white trash hellhole status accelerated. Politically it's done a complete 180 from staunch union Democrats to 70% Trump in the last election. I'm surprised my father (active in Democratic town politics for most of his life) isn't haunting the streets as an angry ghost.

by Anonymousreply 27November 30, 2024 6:49 PM

Glastonbury, CT. Not really trashy.

by Anonymousreply 28November 30, 2024 7:13 PM

Yes although it's becoming more of a middle class bedroom community. I felt like I was better than most of the kids I went to school with.

by Anonymousreply 29November 30, 2024 7:45 PM

Me too.

by Anonymousreply 30November 30, 2024 8:00 PM
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