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The most flamboyant, over the top gays I’ve met have also been the most boring

Most gay men are just regular guys, but every now and then you’ll meet a “fabulous” one. You know the type - over the top personality, ridiculously loud clothing, yammering on about how they are being their “true selves.”

I got to know a few of these guys and there was nothing beneath the surface. No hobbies or interests besides shopping and talking about being gay, no interests in travel besides going to the Louis Vuitton store and taking glamor shots for Instagram. Vapid, shallow friendships and relationships based on shopping and appearances.

The most interesting gay men are always the regular, normal-acting, normal-dressing, unassuming ones. They travel to the most interesting places, are well versed in world history, take an interest in other cultures, and seem to have the healthiest, happiest relationships. Ironically, these are usually the guys who really are being their true selves.

by Anonymousreply 11November 9, 2024 3:48 AM

The purpose of the loud clothing is to try to make themselves appear interesting, precisely because there is nothing below the surface.

by Anonymousreply 1November 9, 2024 2:25 AM

Sorry he wouldn't fuck you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 2November 9, 2024 2:25 AM

I feel so fortunate to have died before we had a chance to meet, OP. I would hate to have interfered with your bias and the wee agenda under it.

What bridge do you live under, so my grandson can send you flowers?

by Anonymousreply 3November 9, 2024 2:32 AM

OP types old.

by Anonymousreply 4November 9, 2024 3:02 AM

Gotta love the guys who think only "straight-acting" gays are "normal"

Are you JD Vance?

by Anonymousreply 5November 9, 2024 3:14 AM

I call them the Hyacinth Bucket gays. All appearance and so substance.

by Anonymousreply 6November 9, 2024 3:18 AM

You dirty fags are so nasty. Always putting things in your anus and thinking about butt sex.

Nasty!

by Anonymousreply 7November 9, 2024 3:20 AM

[quote]Gotta love the guys who think only "straight-acting" gays are "normal"

You mean masculine. Acting straight would be a guy with a fake girlfriend.

by Anonymousreply 8November 9, 2024 3:23 AM

R8 = Exhausting pedant.

by Anonymousreply 9November 9, 2024 3:24 AM

OP is confusing the flamboyant queens with the label queens. They ware two different types of shallow.

by Anonymousreply 10November 9, 2024 3:37 AM

That’s right us effortlessly, but moderately masculine men, are the most dynamic. We camouflage in a variety of environments and enjoy a wide variety of pastimes like eating chips and perfecting bonfires. Known for our chest hair and calm demeanor.

by Anonymousreply 11November 9, 2024 3:48 AM
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