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The movement to swear off men: No sex. No dating. No marriage. No children

what do you think?

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by Anonymousreply 105November 12, 2024 11:24 PM

Since it was the incels that got us into this, that sounds super. Good thinking, girls.

by Anonymousreply 1November 9, 2024 1:49 AM

Too little, too late. You should have gone Lysistrata as a threat and show of strength *before* the election.

Sheesh.

by Anonymousreply 2November 9, 2024 1:52 AM

Great! More dick for us!

by Anonymousreply 3November 9, 2024 1:52 AM

I believe it’s another manufactured issue that will absorb many gullible voters, & that politically naive women will fall for.

One doesn’t need to join a movement or groups formed as the result of said movement, in order to choose celibacy, to not date, not marry or to not bear children.

Once upon a time we referred to these women as wallflowers or old maids. No one cared then, and if you’re smart, you should brush this bullshit off & not care right now, either.

by Anonymousreply 4November 9, 2024 1:55 AM

I think this is a gay men's site and you should read the room and fuck off while you are at it, OP

by Anonymousreply 5November 9, 2024 2:11 AM

Irrelevant to my interests.

Cunts are cunts no matter if the tacos empty of full of shit.

by Anonymousreply 6November 9, 2024 2:16 AM

Oh no, I’m devastated!!!

by Anonymousreply 7November 9, 2024 2:17 AM

They’ll get bored in two days and distracted by a TikTok makeup tutorial.

Meanwhile, their burqas are being sewn.

by Anonymousreply 8November 9, 2024 2:18 AM

r5 Datalounge posts all types of things not related to being gay. Look around.

by Anonymousreply 9November 9, 2024 2:19 AM

Fuck off frau

by Anonymousreply 10November 9, 2024 2:20 AM

I hate women, and I hate the fact that most men love them, even more.

by Anonymousreply 11November 9, 2024 2:21 AM

Works for me!

by Anonymousreply 12November 9, 2024 2:21 AM

If this gains any momentum, Grindr will be a busy venue....

by Anonymousreply 13November 9, 2024 2:33 AM

As an avowed lesbian since forever, I was ahead of the curve on this “movement.”

by Anonymousreply 14November 9, 2024 2:41 AM

There will always be those women who are desperate for attention from men. Blame their fathers.

by Anonymousreply 15November 9, 2024 3:04 AM

Who needs men anyways!

by Anonymousreply 16November 9, 2024 3:34 AM

Can’t they find men who are feminists and support women? or is every man they interact with a douchebag? If they want to be celibate, fine. Nobody really cares.

by Anonymousreply 17November 9, 2024 3:42 AM

You nasty homos should take a hint and swear off men. You’re so icky sticking things up your anus. That’s where door doo goes.

You’re so nasty.

Nasty!

by Anonymousreply 18November 9, 2024 3:48 AM

By any means necessary.

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by Anonymousreply 19November 9, 2024 3:52 AM

It’s korean in origin

by Anonymousreply 20November 9, 2024 3:54 AM

r2, don't you think you should change your screen name? Doesn't really hold a lot of weight now, does it?

by Anonymousreply 21November 9, 2024 4:19 AM

Great. Now more political lesbians will be flooding our apps. Just what we need.

Girl bye. Take your "dick-fasting" ass on somewhere with that. I want no parts.

by Anonymousreply 22November 9, 2024 4:22 AM

[quote]Can’t they find men who are feminists and support women?

r17 Gay men don't fuck women, hon.

by Anonymousreply 23November 9, 2024 4:25 AM

Switch your MAGA cap for a THINKING cap, r21.

by Anonymousreply 24November 9, 2024 4:31 AM

Why cunt a woman be more like a man?

by Anonymousreply 25November 9, 2024 4:38 AM

You said it Rex

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by Anonymousreply 26November 9, 2024 4:42 AM

53 percent of women voted for Trump

by Anonymousreply 27November 9, 2024 5:39 AM

r27 Exactly. We can assume most conservative men are with other conservative women for the most part. There is no shortage of women for them to get-- so a strike won't help. Better question is why so many liberal women were dating/married to conservative men to begin with.

by Anonymousreply 28November 9, 2024 6:05 AM

"No sex. No dating. No marriage. No children."

Like that wasnt going to be the case for most of them anyway. They don't call them femcels for nothing.

by Anonymousreply 29November 9, 2024 6:23 AM

When will you guys learn?

Any woman can get a man. And if you don't believe that, look around.

The real questions is, why are you so bitter about it? Get over yourselves!

by Anonymousreply 30November 9, 2024 9:31 AM

[quote]Can’t they find men who are feminists and support women?

You'd think so but Korea is really sexist.

by Anonymousreply 31November 9, 2024 11:28 AM

Eh, most of the women who would actually swear off everything on that list aren't exactly quality physical material to begin with. Not a big loss to straight men.

by Anonymousreply 32November 9, 2024 12:01 PM

The ones doing this were either fat, ugly, or a “non-binary” type.

by Anonymousreply 33November 9, 2024 12:04 PM

r17 Well yes and no- Elon Musk and an increasing band of merry men in the political world, podcasters etc are claiming the falling birth rate in the US, UK and other western nations is a threat to civilisation and women really do need to start having more babies his argument goes.

by Anonymousreply 34November 9, 2024 12:52 PM

This is a death spiral. Men who can’t get dates, go incel, become part of the bro podcast culture and don’t come back. Straight men and women need to be talking to each other. I don’t know how this trend corrects, but it’s getting worse all of the time.

by Anonymousreply 35November 9, 2024 1:19 PM

Straight people are fucked up

by Anonymousreply 36November 9, 2024 1:28 PM

Sounds good to me. Maybe then more "straight" men will finally decide to take a walk on the wild side. You know most of them have thought about it.

by Anonymousreply 37November 9, 2024 5:00 PM

r37 Do gay men think of crossing the other side too?

by Anonymousreply 38November 9, 2024 7:21 PM

I think it's kind of BS. I'd think the vast majority of women who would latch onto this would have been sex/dating/marriage/children-adverse anyway - either by choice, or because there's something about them that they can't land a stable partner, or they just have bad luck with men.

by Anonymousreply 39November 9, 2024 7:33 PM

r39 I think women who don't want children anyways are not pressed to date in general. I think those are the ones pushing the 4b.

by Anonymousreply 40November 9, 2024 8:39 PM

[quote]Any woman can get a man. And if you don't believe that, look around.

r30 Accurate. I could literally go on Tinder right now and just leave the profile up and have 1,000 - 2,000 likes on it in less than a week. Men are easy and hilariously desperate.

by Anonymousreply 41November 9, 2024 8:50 PM

R41 Women are just as desperate, if not more. Women get horny too, but if you add to that their emotional needs, then, its pretty even steven.

by Anonymousreply 42November 9, 2024 9:35 PM

r42 Nope. Statistically women are happier when single than men. Men are happier when partnered or married. Male loneliness is at a far higher level compared to females. Men tend to get "touch starved" and suicidal, while women will curl up on the couch with a latte comfortably rubbing our feet together under a weighted blanket like a cricket giving no fucks about being in a relationship.

Your theory worked back in the day. It is a new day and a new generation. Millennial and Gen Z women give zero fucks about being partnered these days while lonely men cry and seethe about it on the internet.

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by Anonymousreply 43November 9, 2024 9:53 PM

There's a better outlet for lonely, touch-starved men.

by Anonymousreply 44November 9, 2024 10:12 PM

I don't blame them. Most unpartnrred str8 men are losers without discernable personalities.

Why bother them, if they don't have to?

by Anonymousreply 45November 9, 2024 10:32 PM

It's basically cutting off your nose to spite your face. Find a decent man who will love you and try to live a happy life. It's absurd to swear off men because you're unhappy with an election. Especially since a lot of women didn't even show up to vote this time.

by Anonymousreply 46November 9, 2024 10:39 PM

Reddit has many threads where Gen Z girls are declaring they'd rather date millennial men.

by Anonymousreply 47November 9, 2024 10:46 PM

A lot bros are happy to game their way through life. For now. Wait till they realize their screens can't love them back and they've squandered their lives. It probably will take a totalitarian regime to wrench the controllers from men's lives. What a fever dream they live in.

by Anonymousreply 48November 9, 2024 11:14 PM

R49 from the ONE study you are referencing the diference between happy single men and women is barely 12 %....lets not toot that horn that proudly lol

by Anonymousreply 49November 10, 2024 3:16 AM

r48 Is Bro culture actually increasing or just acknowledged more?

by Anonymousreply 50November 10, 2024 6:59 PM

A movement of how many. Just more troll crap.

by Anonymousreply 51November 10, 2024 9:16 PM

Bro culture is increasing because a large portion of young men follow the aggrieved mindset, misinformation, and conspiracy theories being fed to them on social media platforms and dumbed down podcast like Joe Rogan.

by Anonymousreply 52November 10, 2024 9:34 PM

r52 What issues do they purport to be aggreived about? Could the likes of Joe Rogan be just as much a sympton as the cause of a problem?

by Anonymousreply 53November 10, 2024 9:38 PM

R42 that’s rubbish. Women ONLY talk about men, complain when they can’t get one, complain when they have one, steal their women friends men, only marry for money as opposed to decency, not even interested in sex. 53% voted Trump.

Straight Men - consider yourselves lucky.

by Anonymousreply 54November 10, 2024 10:24 PM

As someone who’s done straight dating apps - the women are are not all right.

I quite literally became more open to exploring my bisexuality partly as a result of them.

Femcels are definitely a thing, they mirror the original concept of incels. They blame and project all of their problems and personal failings onto the opposite sex, and they are completely lacking the slightest shred of self-awareness.

‘4B’ copied into a western context is amping up the levels of cope to such a high degree that it’s absurd. Quite a lot of women on straight dating apps would not and should not be taken seriously by any straight men with a shred of self respect. Spend a week on those apps and you’ll see that quite a number of them are walking misery incarnate.

Of course, dating by algorithm is entirely a shitshow no matter what.

by Anonymousreply 55November 10, 2024 10:31 PM

R52 "Bro" culture is increasing because liberal spaces have become increasingly hostile to men/masculinity. And for the most part, it's pretty benign.

by Anonymousreply 56November 10, 2024 11:03 PM

Another creepy scheme promoted by Big Vagina

by Anonymousreply 57November 10, 2024 11:06 PM

I have to laugh at the idea that listening to Rogan is the equivalent of crushing beers with your head at a frat party while throwing off remarks like hooters and calling not "masculine" men "pussies". I mean if Rogan is the epitome of "toxic masculinity" then, trust me, we're safe lol.

by Anonymousreply 58November 10, 2024 11:07 PM

“ men/masculinity” are incredibly hostile towards anything they perceive as effeminate or as feminine including us gays and gay sex, so let them deal with the consequences.

by Anonymousreply 59November 10, 2024 11:35 PM

R59 regardless of how true that is or not , it's not precisely them in this particular moment, that are having to deal with consequences of anything.

by Anonymousreply 60November 10, 2024 11:40 PM

First World Whiny White Women Problem.

by Anonymousreply 61November 11, 2024 2:17 AM

After Daddy Elon perfects female robots with some holes to fuck, the only woman I'll ever need is my mommy!

Good luck to those girls who don't want to share my and my Mommy's lives. Their loss!

by Anonymousreply 62November 11, 2024 2:22 AM

If I was a woman I’m not sure I’d be wanting to get involved with straight men. They’re pretty open about the contempt they feel for women.

by Anonymousreply 63November 11, 2024 2:35 AM

Straight men wouldn’t put up with the 💩 they give women/expect from women. That’s why men don’t respect women.

by Anonymousreply 64November 11, 2024 3:03 AM

As I've said here in the past, whenever I want to talk to an expert on straight women, the first person I'll ask is a gay man.

by Anonymousreply 65November 11, 2024 3:15 AM

R43 While I won’t object to what you’re saying about men, suicide rates are rising amongst women.

Todays women are taking on more dominant roles so they’re going to have more dominant problems.

by Anonymousreply 66November 11, 2024 3:36 AM

Well, all the more available for us gays with no women for them to have sex with!

by Anonymousreply 67November 11, 2024 3:44 AM

r63 Don't leave bi men out of that. As demonstrated by r55, their contempt for women tends to be even more pronounced because they know the vast majority of straight women don't want bi men. I wouldn't be surprised if it's mostly bi men because the toxic red pill manosphere bullshit. They are super bitter.

It's quite entertaining to watch from the outside as more and more women start exploring their "bicurious" sides as a byproduct of being tired of men's shit. I don't bother with them, though. I'd rather not be someone's experiment.

by Anonymousreply 68November 11, 2024 8:58 AM

^ *behind the toxic red pill

by Anonymousreply 69November 11, 2024 8:59 AM

r66 While that may be true, women still, by comparison, aren't as lonely as men. Men tend to get lonely more and that loneliness feeds their high self-deletion rates.

by Anonymousreply 70November 11, 2024 9:02 AM

I just appreciate that when the ladies get lonely and frustrated, unlike their str8 counterparts, they don't go on killing sprees.

by Anonymousreply 71November 11, 2024 1:29 PM

[quote]I just appreciate that when the ladies get lonely and frustrated, unlike their str8 counterparts, they don't go on killing sprees.

Men kill both the people they know and strangers. Women, on the other hand, are very focused on getting revenge against a specific person, typically a rival or a man who has scorned them.

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by Anonymousreply 72November 11, 2024 1:40 PM

r71 That reminds me of this Donald Glover stand-up bit.

It's funny because it's true.

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by Anonymousreply 73November 11, 2024 1:43 PM

And then, of course, there's all that police bodycam footage...

[quote]When Crazy Boyfriends Realize They've Been Arrested

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by Anonymousreply 74November 11, 2024 1:48 PM

R68 / R69, you are projecting a dime store analysis of something very much separate from what I was describing about dealing with online dating. Spare me the whole spiel.

by Anonymousreply 75November 12, 2024 12:28 AM

So they give no birth to children while Republican women multiply, outnumbering us in huge amounts generations from now.

Great plan!!

by Anonymousreply 76November 12, 2024 12:32 AM

I barely sleep with any guys. What’s available is usually gross or “don’t rob me”.

by Anonymousreply 77November 12, 2024 12:40 AM

Incels don't have sex. That's why their incels. Women voted for this. Women support Trump. These desperate for attention cunts should go back to rioting for their precious Palestine.

by Anonymousreply 78November 12, 2024 12:44 AM

[quote]I just appreciate that when the ladies get lonely and frustrated, unlike their str8 counterparts, they don't go on killing sprees.

Meanwhile, in reality.

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by Anonymousreply 79November 12, 2024 12:45 AM

Women are the majority of the country and the majority of the electorate and voted for Trump, putting gay rights on the chopping block. Fuck each and every last one of them.

by Anonymousreply 80November 12, 2024 12:46 AM

Black women are the only group who votes like they’re not retarded

by Anonymousreply 81November 12, 2024 12:48 AM

r81 Only because a lot of us have an almost clinical level of obsession with racial identity politics. The policies of the Democrat party aren't really focused on with Black voters. It really boils down to race. Everything is about race. Even when it doesn't make sense or is misplaced; it's about race. Once we snap out of that, you won't be able to rely on the Black female vote so easily, either.

by Anonymousreply 82November 12, 2024 1:24 AM

Vibrators don’t expect breakfast the morning after.

by Anonymousreply 83November 12, 2024 1:40 AM

r75 Not to imply that all women are innocent angels, but your little diatribe had undertones of bitterness that weren't exactly difficult to miss. That's what I was pointing out.

by Anonymousreply 84November 12, 2024 4:28 AM

r76 A lot of children of right wingers are left wing. Not that simple.

by Anonymousreply 85November 12, 2024 4:36 AM

r82 NO, it is because republicans hate both women and black people. And most black women are poor or working class and they hate the poor too. Black women are voting for their best interest and survival.

by Anonymousreply 86November 12, 2024 4:37 AM

[quote]it is because republicans hate both women and black people.

r86 Yes. That perception is exactly what I was outlining in r86.

[quote]most black women are poor or working class

The vast majority of Black women who vote Democrat are also middle to upper class, highly educated, and gainfully employed. Perhaps I'm using anecdotal evidence based upon what I grew up and continue to be surrounded by in my social and familial circles, but all of the Black women I know who vote Democrat have, at minimum, Master's degrees and professional careers. Therefore, there reasoning is usually rooted in the first point; racial identity politics. That has been my personal experience.

by Anonymousreply 87November 12, 2024 4:43 AM

^ *Outlining in r82

by Anonymousreply 88November 12, 2024 4:43 AM

^ *their

Ugh.

by Anonymousreply 89November 12, 2024 4:44 AM

Perfect example, a lot more Black women turned out for Harris because she's an AKA. I know for a fact that my family members who are also AKAs definitely voted for her because of that. My mother is also Zeta, and even though that's a completely different sorority, she still supported Harris mainly because of the Black sorority connection. I never pledged in college, but I swear there's some sort of oath the "Greeks" all took to support each other no matter what.

by Anonymousreply 90November 12, 2024 4:48 AM

They’re going to punish men because Trump won by not having sex. So future cat ladies. If this becomes a thing expect a visa program to bring in impoverished third world women looking for men to support them. So a win win?

by Anonymousreply 91November 12, 2024 4:50 AM

It’s pretty dumb. Millions of men voted for Harris. Just don’t date Trump supporters which they wouldn’t do anyway.

by Anonymousreply 92November 12, 2024 4:53 AM

Just don’t date MAGA types.

by Anonymousreply 93November 12, 2024 4:54 AM

[quote] It’s pretty dumb. Millions of men voted for Harris. Just don’t date Trump supporters which they wouldn’t do anyway.

Straight men already lie to women to get sex, telling women that they love them or are interested in what they are saying. It would be easy for them to add that they had voted for Harris.

by Anonymousreply 94November 12, 2024 4:56 AM

This song embodies the future success of this movement

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by Anonymousreply 95November 12, 2024 5:45 AM

[quote] Perfect example, a lot more Black women turned out for Harris because she's an AKA.

A what?

by Anonymousreply 96November 12, 2024 6:03 AM

AKA giving us Trump 😢

by Anonymousreply 97November 12, 2024 6:13 AM

This is in reaction to Republicans making laws that control women’s bodies, and the threat of a federal abortion ban means that the consequence of sex for a woman could be an unwanted pregnancy and baby, regardless of state law. Birth control access is not guaranteed, and abstinence is the only form of birth control that works 100% of the time.

These women don’t want to have sex with men and be doomed to the physical consequences of pregnancy if conception results. If men can’t understand why women would make this decision they are (a) gay men who have never linked pleasurable sex with the possibility of procreation, (b) men who feel women’s bodies should be used by men as men please, or (c) both options, based on the men here who suggest women have an obligation to give their bodies to hetero men and keep those men happy.

Straight men also benefit from not having unwanted babies with people they only wanted to fuck. We’re all better off if people avoid having children they can’t care for and don’t want.

by Anonymousreply 98November 12, 2024 6:22 AM

r87 You are an idiot. Most black people regardless of income and education vote democrat. Republicans out right say they don't support anti discrimination legislation, they don't want to teach black history, they don't support daycare/maternal issues. You trying to flip this around that black women are brainwashed by the democratic party due to "racial loyalty" is BS. The republicans offer nothing except tax breaks for the rich. Why would anyone with a vagina vote for republicans. Sorry black women don't have Stockholm syndrome politically.

by Anonymousreply 99November 12, 2024 1:15 PM

r94 They will expose themselves eventually, especially via social media.

by Anonymousreply 100November 12, 2024 1:22 PM

"Perfect example, a lot more Black women turned out for Harris because she's an AKA."

"A what?"

A member of Alpha Kappa Alpha sorority/Black Greek Letter Organization (BGLO). AKA is one of nine BGLOS (five fraternities, four sororities). The New Yorker published a long (and very good, IMO) article about Kamala and the AKAs shortly before the election - touching on AKA's (and BGLOs more broadly) influence in the Black community and also examining some of the historical and more current criticisms, including colorism and hazing.

by Anonymousreply 101November 12, 2024 4:53 PM

[quote]Republicans out right say they don't support anti discrimination legislation, they don't want to teach black history, they don't support daycare/maternal issues.

All of this is false and hyperbole. It really does boil down to individual perspectives on the Republican platform on these issues. And obviously it's not a racist platform ideologically otherwise more Black people wouldn't be switching to Republican. To state such is actually racist because you're claiming that Black Republicans are "too stupid" to identify racism. There is something else going on there. Maybe try to figure out what it is instead of writing them off as having "Stockholm Syndrome?" Frankly, the same could easily be said of Black people who still support Democrats because our communities have objectively suffered under Democratic policies as much as Republican.

So neither party is inherently "good" or "bad" for the Black community. It's time to put that tired-ass narrative to bed. Because the whole country is shifting more right politically. Clearly the Democrat's messaging on this issue "ain't it." The amount of Black voters pulling away from them slowly but surely every year for the past 10 years is nothing to ignore and be dismissive about.

by Anonymousreply 102November 12, 2024 10:06 PM

r99 And chill with the "idiot" accusations. Have a real conversation about this matter like a fucking adult.

Sick of this.

by Anonymousreply 103November 12, 2024 10:07 PM

Here. "Unpack" this shit.

Or just write such Black people off as "dumb" and "uneducated." Because that's obviously been working SO well to stop the bleeding of Black votes.

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by Anonymousreply 104November 12, 2024 10:15 PM

R100 Please god no, your body my choices mean I demand they put clothes on and a bag over their head, preferably plastic.

by Anonymousreply 105November 12, 2024 11:24 PM
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