Have You Ever Dated a Big Deal?

I dated Helen Lawson’s son for a bit. He had mommy issues.

I just looked up Liz Taylor's sons.

Both of them are straight.

So how could your male friend have dated one of them?

Oh, not that Liz Taylor...

What it Liza Tayler R3?

A big deal? A big boy? ALLLLLL MANNNN?

Never a Big Deal, but I've had relations with a few Showcases in my time. On a few memorable occasions, I even scored a Double Showcase. A fantasy come true, sure, but was I ever sore the next day!

I blew a guy who stage doored The Rockettes. Yeah?

R6 - I had a one-night stand with Showcase's cousin, Baketcase. A night to remember!

This daddy called John. His dead wife was big in pageants or something.

The grandson is gay I believe.

[quote]I just looked up Liz Taylor's sons. Both of them are straight. So how could your male friend have dated one of them?

It was just a phase.

I had sex with a stage techician at the Orleans Kas Vegas who worked/toured with Miss Debbie Reynolds. He came up after the show and came out 45 mins later. He said "The old girl still has it!" Don't know if he was referring to me or Deb. Is that a big enough deal for you?

Las Vegas

When I lived in a shitty small town I dated a guy who was very well liked an seen as “a catch” that’s the closest I’ve gotten to it. People would always flirt with him. I wasn’t that impressed

Gosch, what a queschtion!

Nope

I think Liz's son who was on a soap opera was bi.....married but fucking dudes on the side

Those eyes.....

Sorry, I meant Dub Taylor. Himself, not his son. I meant he was a dirty son of a bitch.

I don't know if this counts, but I had a thing with the son of a former prime minister of a Muslim country when we were in college.

YES!

That’s quite a hunk of man there R21. Loving those meaty thighs. How long did you date?

Not me but in the years shortly before I met my husband, he dallianced at some length with an adorably queeny lippy twink named Justin who became Alaska from Drag Race. This was back around ‘08 when Alaska hadn’t yet come into being as a character.

I dated Tim Gill.

R23 Guessing this was either in PA or her early LA days.

I blew Richard Speck!

OP - Do you mean a real big deal or just one who thought he was? If it's the latter, yes, MANY times.

No, but I did get hit on by Rupert Everett (gym) and "Rupaul" Andre Charles (on a Greenwich Village side street). I also made out with Lanford Wilson, of all people, at Marie's Crisis. Lanford was better looking than I would have expected, very nice (I was young, cute and somewhat drunk), and I was impressed by his work. And while he's considerably less famous, I did hookup with down-low Gordon Clapp from NYPD Blue back when the show was a hit. I can't remember anyone else, but frankly much of the late 80s to early 00s are a blur.

I used to fuck director Nick McCarthy back in film school days. Maybe you’ve seen The Prodigy (2019).

Many years ago I had a thing with Rex Smith and Al Pacino (not together). I'm female.

A member of the UK nobility once. He gave me scabies.

Do Canadian newscasters count?

Yes, Canadian newscasters count.

No, but I dated a guy called “his nibs” once, oh and I had a Grindr hookup with the big cheese.

R25 - yep Pittsburgh!

I was dumped by Prince Harry for Meghan Markle. He said something like 'my granny just wouldn't understand' - or something like that. I cried for minutes !

Had sex with a Tony winner

Please give us some details, R30.

I briefly dated a (mostly) film actor, at the time probably C list now a high B or maybe a Low A. It was odd in a lot of ways, oddly normal in others. Strangest for me was how you would overhear people talking about him/us on the street, at bars and restaurants, etc. Also how people would push right through me to talk to him, even though he was always delightful about introducing me when this happened we.

I dated a guy who was very good-looking and who was making good money (relative to the time). He wasn't a very nice person, though, and I should have kicked him to the curb sooner than I did. Wasted too much time on that.

R30, tell us about Al!

I used to have sex with Andrew Crispo, the gay art gallery S&Mologist, but it must have been before he was into S&M. He was very much a top, and he had the most enormous cock. He kept wanting to fuck me, and eventually I let him. It was as painful as it could be and eventually I just said no, and we went our separate ways. But I never forgot the magnificence of that marvelous penis (cut, btw).

Eventually I would get fucked by someone I could enjoy. There really can be such a thing as too much.

That’s a repeat from other threads^

R40 the prompt is Big Deal. Not tiny boredom

I can't say "dated" in any of these cases but.....

I hooked up with a married guy on Craigslist circa 2005. Tall older daddy. Loved being very verbal when we fucked and I kept thinking "wow, he sounds like a news anchor." That's because he WAS a news anchor.

I fooled around with two soap opera stars, both who were on NYC soaps. Fooled around with both after their time on their respective shows had ended. One was sort of the young rebel guy on his show but, disappointingly, ended up being a big gurlina in bed. The other was a married man, every second of that hookup was hot.

I blew Richard Speck!

So fucking what, r43?

Todd van der Heyden

No, but my friend once lived in an apartment that had a view into Sam Champion’s penthouse.

[quote]frankly much of the late 80s to early 00s are a blur

That's what made them great.

In the early 90s, I dated a younger guy who was pretty well recognized in our local area as he was a male model and did a lot of national and local print ads, so many locals recognized him. About a year into our relationship, he posed for PLAYGIRL and his spread was soon published after that. WOW - did that take off like wildfire - every gay guy in the area knew who he was from that spread (and a few women, too). I couldn't believe the number of gay guys who would hit on him whenever we were out in public (restaurants, movies, etc.) as they all recognized him. They acted like I wasn't at the table with him, or I wasn't sitting next to him in the theater. We knew it was recognition from PLAYGIRL because they all called him by his 'fictitious name' they used in the magazine.

[quote]he posed for PLAYGIRL

Pics please.

Why did he pose for Playgirl? Was he a man-whore?

No, but I HAVE dated a big dill!

I was friends briefly with Jonah Falcon who was determined to fuck me. While I'm vers, I certainly had no interest in that 13.5" anaconda and I didn't find him particularly attractive anyway. Eventually he got tired of trying and we went our separate ways. This was right before he launched his quasi-porn career. In retrospect, I'm glad I said no.

R47 learn from me: be better!

R53 They tracked him down through the agency he was signed up with for the print ads. They made an him an excellent offer to pose for two dozen shots (they had final say on the six or seven they would print) and if his dick wasn't 'camera shy' and he could get an erection, there was a bonus included. I was surprised they didn't have 'fluffers' on the set, and he had to do on his own (which he did). If I'm not mistaken, his pay was around $10K in total, which was a lot of money for a 25 year old guy in the early 90s.

No pics no thanks.

Interesting article on how much Playgirl paid back in the early 1980s, how they got models, and the promises they made and never kept.

R55. Is Jonah Falcon bi?

Bob Villa of This Old House fame. At 26 I was his side piece for 3 years. And slavishly in love.

I’ve dated a pre-famous pop star, fucked two Emmy winners, and have a closeted bi B-list actor sexting me but have yet to find a time to hook up.

I AM A BIG DEAL!

R62 His name doesn't sound like Shmelton John by any chance?

[quote]I’ve dated a pre-famous pop star, fucked two Emmy winners, and have a closeted bi B-list actor sexting me but have yet to find a time to hook up.

Haven't yet found the time? What are you doing, your nails????

Does a daytime Emmy nominee’s producer count?

I would tell you but he is a very big deal and could have me defenestrated.

Jonah Falcon had a porn career? I must have missed that.

He's claimed to be bi but I've only ever heard stories about him hitting on guys.

everything counts. I just wish there were more identifying characteristics. Give me genetic marker. Anything....

[quote]He's claimed to be bi

Things that make you go hmmm.

R60 - No idea. I wouldn't have thought so at the time, but that never came up.

For you R38

Rex was absolutely gorgeous everywhere and great in bed. Very sweet guy.

Al came to speak at my college, saw me and pursued me fairly relentlessly. He was 20 years my senior. We had fun and the sex was good. He wasn't the type to commit and I didn't want to be with someone old enough to be my father.

I've had more than a few big deals, but these are the only famous ones.

Thanks for replying, R72. Much appreciated.

It’s boring when people won’t give names or details. Otherwise what’s the point?

Nothing lasts forever.

Auntie Helen?

That’s not just sad, that’s bad.

Rex mortuorum!

R75 - You called?

R72 Was Rex as.....amply gifted as his tight jeans might suggest?

R74 calling Mary Lou Retton

No, but my brother dated Elsa Lanchester before she was with Charles Laughton.

Your much younger brother, I assume R80.

R80 Was she exclusively into gay men?

I had a hookup with a man who used to dress in drag as a comedy act. It didn't go well.

I was in a relationship with an entertainment reporter 30 years ago. He liked attention and would enter an event like he was SOMEBODY, barrelling through crowds. He was obese and dressed badly. If he wasn't getting attention he would put eye drops in his eyes or crack his neck or something. He thought every second of his time was precious and would not suffer 'fools'. He liked to hang-up the phone on people- or not answer at all. He was reprimanded over and over by his publication for his dismissive behavior, but because he was so prolific (though not very entertaining) they couldn't really get rid of him.

I once did something that he considered off-color (forget what) and he castigated me about it saying, "I am a minor celebrity in this town!".

He is retired now and pretty much housebound. He still tries to get attention on Facebook but there's not much interest (which must devastate him). I occasionally list him as a reference but he still hangs up on people.

What's his name? You might as well say, already.

Unfortunately Mole didn’t have the big deal I was looking for.

R84 He sounds charming. So you two had a "relationship", if I weren't polite I'd be inclined to ask what was in it for you?

A guy who was a kinda well-known football player at a very famous Big Ten school (he was older at that time and his football days were long past)

We didn't really date but a guy who now writes for a pretty well-known left-wing blog asked me out in college. I was still young and hadn't really fully come to terms with my sexuality yet so I turned him down.

R84 R88 You're Anonymous, whether it's true or not, give us names. This is a safe-ish space.

After observing others obsessed with starfucking and seeing how all involved were dreadful, I opted out of dating any big deals. Lots of people left tossed in the garbage, often with substance abuse and/or psychological problems.

[quote] Lots of people left tossed in the garbage, often with substance abuse and/or psychological problems.

And a few of those might have even dated a Big Deal.

[quote] I had a hookup with a man who used to dress in drag as a comedy act. It didn't go well.

So, was it true that Milton Berle had an enormous schlong under the taffeta?

I once dated a DataLounger - does that count?

I haven’t had any famous hookups in the traditional sense, but a couple with people that political insiders would lose their shit over. I won’t name names because one is a genuinely nice guy whom I wouldn’t want to hurt and the other is a litigious bastard who I don’t want to risk coming after me.

I worked in politics for a few years while taking a break from school and so got to know the names and faces of party officials that most people wouldn’t know.

After getting my fill of that world (politics operatives are on the whole as gossipy and incestuous a group as ever drew breath) I went back to school and got a job bartending in a gay bar part-time.

During that period, the state chairmen of both major political parties separately come into the bar near closing time, drunk and looking to blow off some steam, after fundraisers and I picked them up. The Republican one and I only fucked around a couple of times but the Democratic one ended up being a pretty steady FWB for a year or so. I never let on that I knew who either of them were. Both were closeted and both went on to marry and have kids.

The Republican one is still married to his much younger wife. The Democratic one married a female politician, who I assumed was a closeted lesbian. Their marriage broke up a few years ago, he moved very far away and she switched parties shortly after.

It was rumored she was fucking a major state GOP figure during her party flip and I’ve always wondered if that ideological shift and the ensuing relationship with the, by all accounts cretinous, GOP politician were the result of finding out her husband was very into blond twinks.

The few lasting contacts I have still in that world were floored when I told them the stories of these two and the they all, especially the guys surprisingly, wanted all the sordid details.

R94 that's hot as fuck.

I had a fling with a state senator when I was in college. Very low level politics of course, but he was a gorgeous, married daddy, a mix of black Irish and Italian. I'd describe our last fuck - which was in a limo and involved the driver - but no one would believe me.

The people in politics are almost never who they project themselves to be up on the screen that everyone sees......

[quote] The people in politics are almost never who they project themselves to be up on the screen that everyone sees......

R95, agreed. I think a lot of it is because most political professionals are star-fuckers who are attracted to power. The constant cocktail fundraisers don’t help.

It's not just politics, r96. It's all persona for "big deals". This is why I say I enjoy public figures instead of saying I like/love them.

I kinda got swept up in his tornado. We met through the personal ads, and then we just stayed together. Our sex life was basically me just servicing him: he wasn't into reciprocation. He's very intelligent and knows just about everything. He's 13 years older than I, so I think he may have been a father figure to a degree- though he's very emotionally immature. He had money, a house, prestige, pets, an impressive family background... I was living in an efficiency apt. and working a McJob.

He's selfish and wouldn't buy you a can of pop if you were thirsty. So it was never a sugar daddy situation.

I eventually just left. But being with him definitely expanded my vision of the world. I don't even know if I'd still be alive.

I fucked Falco.

My former boss fucked Donal Logue.

Former Illinois Governor James Thompson checked me out, but took a pass in front of The Palmer House.

R78

I thought I was very clear.

Whay are people afraid to name names on an anonymous board .

Ronnie Lott

No big deals but a handful of really big dicks

Big dicks? I was a regular Big Lots “shopper.”

OP, please define "DATING".

Sex. Duh.

If you were really Phillywhore, you’d have answered your own question.

Such a poser.

Ronnie Lott was big everywhere except where it counted.

I "DATED" lots of men. I was being polite OP

Are 12-year-old foster care boy high on poppers while getting fucked by a "Philly Flyers Captain" in 1976 in a car on East River Drive, is he allowed to date? I thought the poppers killed me.

Dear Penthouse…

It was the 70's so no rules back then, I was a "ward of the state". I'm guessing my body was the "Charity case" As to the captain, we know it was Bobby Clarke, nothing ever appeared in the press back then. Large Motel rooms in Cherry Hill NJ, plus the old Bellevue-Strafford at Broad& Walnuts streets.

I have told this b4 on DL& met other guys who knew too.

A minute ago it was a car.

Yada, Yada—Fantasia.

Dear Penthouse, Op is a cruel taskmaster& sooooo Mean.

I "dated" Barry Diller when I was at Wharton in 1985 in Philly ( I was married then). Large personality.

To R113, it was all over Philly& SJ area, already told u that years ago. I wanted you to define "dating" OP.

There’s one weird trick to being a DL psycho: Call yourself Phillywhore.

No one, no matter how low, would have sex with Barry

Barry has a "huge thick personality" back in the late 80's. And was very good at it. Just enjoy the ride.

It's Golum (Geffen) who was a "total nasty douche"

Barry Diller was known to have a huge cock, so I suppose a real size queen would go for a ride

OP. I did a search about me, Phillywhore, and DL (you) did a post about me on 7/25/2024. I never saw the post.

I am not Miss Brian Sims& I never fucked& got fucked by him. EWWWWWWWWWWWWW!!

I was born in East Falls in 1961 (63 years old). I was on an Advisory committee with the DNC this year with about the LGBT community. I did mention it was like the board meeting in the movie "Bros".

East Falls is located in the Northwest part of Philly, take Kelly Drive up to Midvale Ave( make a right at the ghetto AM/PM

at Ridge& Midvale.....Ta Da-East Falls.

What do u need to know about me, my favorite EF person.

What are you babbling about?

Person who fucked Ronnie Lott: are you a man or woman?

Thanks.

Not me, I’m a lesbian, but my best friend, a gay man, was working as an escort for a while trying to make ends meet. He called me at 2am to tell me he blew Sandy Gallin and before they got down to it he met Dolly Parton at Sandy’s home. He said Dolly was super sweet to him before taking off.

HA! I was hit on by Flyers star Eric Lindros when I was in Hawaii with my family. I was 15 years old and when Eric put his arm around me for a picture, I came in my pants.

He talked to me about meeting him later, but I couldn't work it out the details......I would have done Bobby Clark, too, but Eric was my man!

I briefly dated a girl who went on to have a massive career in hardcore porn a few months later

[quote] I fucked Falco.

Edie or the musician?

r110 - I assume Bobby gave good head.

OMG, R126.

R121 he couldn’t keep it up— can’t you read?

R119 I was the OP of that thread! LOL

I just figured there was an interesting story there, for sure.

Thank You, I am flattered but East Falls was a "very interesting area of Philly" growing up in the 70s,80's and 90s.

You had every income level in that area, very wealthy, 2 projects, lower middle class white trash, at middle class in-between all of that. I was part of the "lower middle class white trash" Also "old Manayunk" before Mayor Nutter& the builders changed Manayunk to what it is now (city yuppies with money with old leftover white trash, plus college students).

Never was so much written about Philadelphia, of interest to so few.

The least relevant large city on the Eastern seaboard.

"The More You Know"

Wait, I think I may have confused you Phillywhore. I am R129 but the person questioning you farther upthread is someone else.

R132 I was a Jeopardy champion—I don’t need your help to make $ on factoids.

r122 - I can top that: Sandy Gallin blew ME at his home back in the #90s, right after getting off the phone with Calvin Klein - or was it Barry Diller?

r118 - Barry Diller wanted to hook up with back in the #90s, but I turned him down - one of the most satisfying instances of The Power of No - these guys were always used to getting what they wanted - true, I heard he had a big one, but he's so gross, I couldn't go thru with it - fled the scene

r122 - I can top that: Sandy Gallin BLEW ME at his home back in the #90s, right after he got off the phone with Calvin Klein, or was it Barry Diller?

r118 - Barry Diller tried to hook up with me back in the #90s, but I turned him down - one of the most satisfying instances of The Power of No, since these guys are used to always getting what they want. While I heard BD has a big one, he's so gross, I couldn't go through with it = fled the scene.

Gaddafi blew me in a palatial tent. I didn't dare enter his sex bunker of horrors.

Was Barry Diller related to me?

R139 Too bad, I've heard tales of some Libyan dick. Legendary.

We need to hear from the poster who was told by a homeless guy, "I fucked Tony Curtis up the ass."

Had sex with him:

I got hit on by somewhat drinky James Patrick Stewart (guy from the Desperado episode of Seinfeld and All My Children, GH Fame) at Lola's on Fairfax in the very late 90s. The martinis were huge, we were all drinky.

That's all I got. (female)

His name is david novak from Salt Lake City. He got away with theft and murder. There was a Dateline episode about him: Suspicion

R145, yikes. What was he like?

No Irish Curse!

You dated him, r147?

oh for those long summer days at Hyannisport.

A male friend of mine had a one night stand with Alexander Skarsgard in NY in the late 90s.

[quote] I did hookup with down-low Gordon Clapp

Omg for a second I was confused and thought you were talking about Gordon Jump, who famously played the child molester on Different Strokes and almost molested Arnold and his friend.

R151 yummy!

I never considered it a big deal but, back in my Studio 54 years, I did, in fact, date a man who became Liz Taylor’s son-in-law. I even considered him a boyfriend of sorts. It was an odd chapter in my life and after he ghosted me, I learned of his marriage on Entertainment Tonight. You can choose to believe me or not but that’s my final word on the subject

R153. That's interesting! Thanks for sharing.

I’ve dated a big piece of shit before