Any gays who genuinely DON’T enjoy/are indifferent to receiving oral sex?

I'm indifferent. Once in a while it feels ok but most of the time it's not as much fun as kissing, frot, or being plowed (yes, I'm a total bottom). I'm fine with not getting by junked touched during sex as long as he's a good top.

I love them. My partner is excellent at it.

I like sucking dick more than fucking. I’m versatile but most tops have no rhythm.

I can be great. Some of the best orgasms I've had are from getting sucked off, from guys who just worship cock.

erm, IT can be great

Not a huge thing for me, just a sort of foreplay en route to proper sex and fucking. If I knew that it was just going to be blow jobs, one way or mutual, I would have to be very hard up to think of so much as crossing the street for the exchange.

WTF? Giving and receiving blow jobs is my favorite thing. If you're indifferent to receiving a blowie, it means you haven't had a skilled one yet. I dated a guy who said he enjoyed getting sucked, but that he could never cum from that. I showed him otherwise and he was like, "Oh my god! I didn't know it could be like that!"

[quote] just a sort of foreplay en route to proper sex and fucking

For me, it WAS the sex. All throughout high school and college, sex was all about the oral. I really didn't enjoy, and therefore rarely engaged in, anal.

Eventually, however, I've learned to enjoy all the other stuff - but oral is still central to the experience.

You’ll be indifferent until you find someone who is really good at it. Most people aren’t.

Only FOUR blowjobs so far? Are you 17?

Guys who can’t get off from blowjobs have self esteem issues.

I had at least 4 this week. Love getting them, giving them, rather suck dick than get fucked or fuck. I cum a lot and my husband loves that. We blow each other all the time and we’ve been together 10 years. Get with the program, kid!

Oral sex is the best part, IMO. I love seeing a new dick and the way in which it can be orally pleasured depending on its individual shape and qualities.

R10, I’m 43. I’m just extremely picky about who I hook up with.

I only hooked up with one guy at age 21. He didn’t go down on me. I hooked up with him again when I was 34. He didn’t go down on me.

Then when I was 35, I hooked up with a 24 year-old I was not very attracted to. He went down on me. I was very disappointed.

Later, when I was 36, I hooked up with a guy in his later 20s. I was a little attracted to him at first but lost interest after we got undressed. He tried to go down on me. I wasn’t getting hard at all.

When I was 37, I hooked up with a cute twink. He went down on me. That was actually a little more enjoyable. Nothing mindblowing, but pleasant.

Recently, I’ve been hooking up with my roommate’s straight brother. I’ve known/been acquainted with him for five years, I always had kind of a crush on him, but he always had this pesky girlfriend/wife. I’m 43 now and he’s 31.

I’m always aroused when we start the making out, but once we get naked, I gradually lose my arousal. He went down on me, but it wasn’t particularly exciting. I couldn’t even get hard watching porn while he was going down on me.

He was able to get himself off by jacking off as I kept fingering his prostate. It sure took him forever to come and my wrist was getting sore,

I really struggled to get myself off while he was kissing me.

I felt so depressed afterward because I’m finally with a guy I always thought was hot/cute, but the intimacy feels like such a chore.

You have more issues than whether or not you enjoy oral sex.

We’re deep into Sure, Jan territory here.

r14 TL;DR

"I tried to have sex with someone I wasn't attracted to and it wasn't fun."

R14 Wow, how shocking.

relatable, r14...

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Depends who is doing it.

OP Oh FFS youre the I AM FUCKING MY EX-ROOMMATES YOUNGER STRAIGHT BODYBUIDER BROTHER fantasist! 0/10! EST troll.

It has never thrilled me, turned me on, or made me hit the ceiling- always better at giving- although I am a top. And if the night is all about him getting a blowjob that's fine. But when I watch porn I am always so bored with the length of time they spending showing it. They treat it as foreplay.

Oral is, for me, where it's at. Giving and receiving. It's wet, warm, erotic as hell. I love it. I also think it feels more bonding sometimes than actual fucking, but I'm a romantic, so I dunno. But yeah, if you don't get hard from oral, or you are losing your erection once you are naked (exposed), you might need to make an appt with Doktor Freud. Your post at R14 makes it seem like you might have some issues around sex , intimacy, nudity and vulnerability, beyond just being "picky."

[quote]Only FOUR blowjobs so far? Are you 17?

Christ, I had already lost count by the time I was 17!

As someone with a larger than average dick, let me just say that it can be painful when the person going down on you doesn't have experience or simply has a small mouth. "Watch the teeth" is a real thing.

Same! Don't like to give or receive oral. I do enjoy kissing and fucking though.

I have a small pp so dunno who would want that, plus I don't like being touched cause I was abused, it's fucked up not being normal. However I love to give them.

I personally do not like it at all. I love sucking and even eating ass. I’m super oral.

Have you ever thought that you were the problem or the limited set of partners who didn't do it well?

Straight men complain that women don't know how to do it either. 4 times in your life sounds like you haven't had much of a sex life at all.

Like with anything - you have to know what you're doing. Just like people who've been fucked a couple of times and don't get the hype - you're not doing it RIGHT!

Kissing and sucking is the best. No fucking,, giving or receiving, don't like it.

I'm indifferent to receiving but I LOVE to rim and suck.

I agree with those who say you need to find someone who does blowjobs well. And it's not just the sucking. There's a whole ritual involved, from licking your balls and shaft to looking you in the eyes to see if you're enjoying it and getting permission to continue. Slowing down, speeding up, using your hand, deep throating, so much technique involved.

Oh, and if you're uncut and your foreskin slides back easily, you'll be in heaven. I still remember receiving my first blowjob. I was in heaven.

I’m not much of a fan. I’ve gotten off once that way. I never thought about it before, but it is a self-esteem issue for me.

If you don’t cum from a blow job, then you aren’t getting a good blow job.

I enjoy it, but it’s difficult to get me off that way. I do love to kiss and suck, though. Not really into fucking at all, though I do fantasize about bottoming.

Spare me those people, men and women, who literally, yes literally, try to SUCK cock. OUCH!

Yes we call it "sucking" cock but that isn't how it is done.

[quote] it is a self-esteem issue for me.

R34, what do you mean by this? Is it a size issue?

[quote]But when I watch porn I am always so bored with the length of time they spending showing it. They treat it as foreplay.

I'm the opposite. I prefer the oral sex scenes to the rough fucking scenes (where it often looks uncomfortable anyway).

R33, I’m uncut, my foreskin slides back easily, but my glans is sensitive to the point where it’s not pleasurable and kind of uncomfortable.

All men are wired differently, especially sexually. Especially when it comes to the head (or glans) of a man's penis. We all have different sensitivities.

Like nipples. I have very sensitive, hot-wired nipples. Play with them the right way, I'll buy you a fucking car. But then you have guys who have no sensitivity at all when touched there.

I've been getting sucked off since I was 11 years old, (story for a different thread). It was always assumed I would cum in a guy's mouth, because they always wanted me to.

But I got more sensitive as I got older. I still loved getting blown, but it had to be done just the right way. I needed to take an aggressive stance and control how I move around in there. A lot of guys found it very hot.

On the other hand, I was never into getting fucked. I get a little turned on when someone starts fingering my butt, but once past a certain point, forget it.

So OP, if you feel discouraged, don't worry about it. You are not alone!

I am intact, and my foreskin slides easily back and forth. I love getting sucked--and I especially love having the underside of my foreskin tongued and nibbled. Drives me wild. My glans is sensitive too, but don't slide my skin back and leave it there as if I've been cut. The foreskin is meant to be played with and enjoyed for both of us sliding it back and forth over the head. Damn it feels good. So happy I have my oh so suckable foreskin.

^^I shoot a big load--and far too. Where do you want it?

R14, your life sounds like a mess. A blowjob should be the least of your concerns.

I actually am blowjob indifferent. I do however LOVE rimming and .frottage.

OK, so reading the comments, I want to slightly change the subject because you seem like the right group of guys to ask this question.

Do you hate it when. you take home this really hot gorgeous guy with a beautiful, veiny, juicy dick, (the kind you can almost feel vibrating in your mouth), you ask him if you can suck it and he says, "Nah, I was never really into it", but he really wants to suck yours, or just do anything else?

Love sucking dick, but have never been able to get off getting sucked. Much prefer a hand job.

Yeah-would rather suck a dick…

R46 that's why those types of things need to be cleared up before hooking up.

If a guy loves giving blowjobs? I am not his match.

If he loves receiving blowjobs? I am.

I'm not a big fan of receiving blowjobs. I've never been able to cum from getting blown. I'm not a huge fan of giving blow jobs either but they are ok as foreplay.

R46 to clarify, I can be into all different things. but when I saw this guy's dick everything else ran distantly behind.

R46, just let him blow you. And when he's really into it, just wriggle around and do a sixty-nine. I bet he won't mind since it's your dick he craves.

[quote]Do you hate it when. you take home this really hot gorgeous guy...you ask him if you can suck it and he says, "Nah, I was never really into it", but he really wants to suck yours, or just do anything else?

You take a man home assuming:

1.) he only likes dick sucking?

2.) that he wants his dick sucked?

Maybe ask some fucking questions or have a bit of discussion before? You didn't think he was just a drink who had such a hard time saying goodbye to the night that he said yes to seeing your collection of etchings?

(The ones that say with confidence and without hesitation exactly what they want are almost always good at delivering. The ones who give a vague list and who are trying to feel you out for the right answer are usually duds.)

Take care, OP

You should never have to make yourself cum during sex; you should be doing that to each other. If you just get other guys off while you jerk off then maybe you should just stay home and jerk off.

Getting sucked is my favorite sexual activity. I have not performed fellatio since the summer of 2021.

While this is not about a blow job but about swallowing, I find it strangely erotic...

I LOVE getting a great BJ! I’ve met a few guys who hate getting one and I don’t understand them

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