Why is every other guy on the gay apps suddenly polyamorous?
Does this actually mean something different from what gay guys have done the last 40 years?
As far as I know there are two types of gay couples:
1. Open relationship = we play together or separate 2. “monogamous” = we play behind each other’s back
Is polyamorous different?
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 22, 2024 10:14 AM
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The guys on the apps are whores, darlin’.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | October 22, 2024 4:02 AM
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What r1 said. It's just a socially acceptable way to say you're a whore, that's about it.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | October 22, 2024 4:04 AM
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I don’t know that a person is polyamorous in and of themselves, exactly. Isn’t it more that one is IN a polyamorous relationship?
I mean, if you were stranded on a desert island, you couldn’t be polyamorous on your own.
(Of course, I wouldn’t know, myself… as I’m not a goddamn whore.)
by Anonymous | reply 5 | October 22, 2024 4:13 AM
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Because saying you're poly sounds nicer than admitting you're a whore.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 22, 2024 4:13 AM
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OP, even nobody in a polyamorous relationship would want you. Poor dear!
by Anonymous | reply 7 | October 22, 2024 4:27 AM
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It means he likes three-ways and orgies.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 22, 2024 4:31 AM
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I think “poly” people are in crappy relationships ; and they won’t break up because they can’t afford to live alone.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | October 22, 2024 4:54 AM
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Polyamorous = bored to bits ("but not boring!"); looking to rent out the spare bedroom, divide household chores, and have more bait for more sex partners
by Anonymous | reply 10 | October 22, 2024 5:53 AM
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Open relationships are like underwear.
Over time, they lose elasticity by pushing boundaries, then you spend too much time trying to cover your ass rather than slip into a new pair!.
It means I don’t love you enough to commit, I don’t have the backbone or savings account to move out, and that I’ll always be chasing a bubble butt over deciding to grow old with someone. Most of the time these people wind up alone. If you just want a roommate, get a roommate.
It might also means one person’s validation isn’t enough for you, and you need to spend some time loving yourself before you break someone else’s heart. What is enticing drama and romantic prowess in your 20’s is just sad denial in your 50’s.
For everyone else, good luck with accepting or continuing to accept a relationship where you always come second!
by Anonymous | reply 11 | October 22, 2024 7:00 AM
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Given the high cost of housing in many places, a poly relationship may be a good financial solution on the surface. Of course when person invariably extracts themselves, it will be like a collapsing house of cards.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | October 22, 2024 7:53 AM
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It means they want a boyfriend but still be the raging slut they truly always were.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | October 22, 2024 9:03 AM
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Well aren’t you the cynical little charmer OP? Judging others by your own low standards?
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 22, 2024 10:14 AM
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