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Nico Tortorella no longer uses they/them pronouns: “I feel like a man more than I ever have”

There’s something that happened specifically in the pronoun conversation too. I use he/him pronouns at this point. You [his wife Bethany C. Meyers] use she/her pronouns. Not to say that we’re opposed to they/them pronouns. I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day. Call me whatever you want, just make sure you call me a type of thing. I don’t mind it [they/them pronouns]. I truly don’t care.

I feel like a man more than I ever have in my entire life right now you know and I f***ing stand by that. It’s such a great feeling. It’s not to say that I won’t feel more fluid in the future, right? I can still f***ing sass out from time to time, but I’m in my truth right now and it’s real.

But there’s something that happened in our infertility where we were just experiencing roadblock after roadblock after roadblock and the pronoun conversation was this unnecessary roadblock that we were continuing to just face head on and I just had to let it go. I just had to move on. There was too much coming at us at once and that was part of just the release. There’s so much release that needs to happen to create life.

We are different people since having our first daughter Kilmer Dove … but shift happens and it’s real.

Actor Nico Tortorella, who previously came out as gender fluid and used they/them pronouns, speaking on his new podcast ‘Full of Shift’ how parenthood changed how he identifies.

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by Anonymousreply 86December 14, 2024 10:58 PM

Uh huh.

by Anonymousreply 1October 21, 2024 11:51 PM

It really, truly is the height of narcissism to think ANYBODY cares about your enterally fluctuating pronouns.

by Anonymousreply 2October 21, 2024 11:56 PM

I don't know they...

by Anonymousreply 3October 22, 2024 12:00 AM

" I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day."

This will be a common refrain in the coming years.

by Anonymousreply 4October 22, 2024 12:00 AM

*eternally

by Anonymousreply 5October 22, 2024 12:01 AM

He could've had a much better career if he'd kept a lid on the crazy.

by Anonymousreply 6October 22, 2024 12:01 AM

Absolutely agree with R6

by Anonymousreply 7October 22, 2024 12:04 AM

[quote]" I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day."

The rest of the world never cared about it at all, darling.

by Anonymousreply 8October 22, 2024 12:07 AM

It's too bad r7. He's attractive and he really does have talent. I think he could've had a character-type actor career like Colin Farrell has been doing over the past decade or so. But he's totally batshit and couldn't hide it the way other actors can.

by Anonymousreply 9October 22, 2024 12:09 AM

The tats are hideous. Nice ass, though.

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by Anonymousreply 10October 22, 2024 12:21 AM

Who?

by Anonymousreply 11October 22, 2024 12:22 AM

Sir, this is a Wendy’s

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by Anonymousreply 12October 22, 2024 12:22 AM

“You should see him…. HE’S ALL MAN. They used to say when he was in the showers…”

by Anonymousreply 13October 22, 2024 12:23 AM

Just because you are an omnisexual whore doesn’t make you gender fluid. I’m glad he recognized that. Sometimes I feel like an omnisexual whore.

by Anonymousreply 14October 22, 2024 12:25 AM

Feel like a man

by Anonymousreply 15October 22, 2024 12:25 AM

Phew. Finally. It’s the news I’ve been waiting to hear.

by Anonymousreply 16October 22, 2024 12:28 AM

He's hot so he can do whatever he wants!

by Anonymousreply 17October 22, 2024 12:31 AM

They named their kid after Val Kilmer? Why?

by Anonymousreply 18October 22, 2024 12:37 AM

All this gender nonsense is just a first-world-fad and will pass, but not before doing a lot of damage.

by Anonymousreply 19October 22, 2024 12:45 AM

The kid’s name is Kilmer which was the last name of Bethany’s grandfather, R18.

by Anonymousreply 20October 22, 2024 12:47 AM

R2 It works damn well if you’re trying to quash some bad publicity over attacking a small business.

by Anonymousreply 21October 22, 2024 12:49 AM

…And look gayer than you might ever manage to! :)

by Anonymousreply 22October 22, 2024 12:52 AM

I do hope he continues to update the world whenever he gets new pronouns and new tattoos.

by Anonymousreply 23October 22, 2024 12:53 AM

It needs some proactive for dat ass.

by Anonymousreply 24October 22, 2024 12:53 AM

Thank god his looks are going so I don't have to feel dirty by finding him hot.

Frankly, he was always on the border between hot and too exhausting to bother, but clearly aging is not being kind to him.

by Anonymousreply 25October 22, 2024 12:56 AM

Hi Helen Keller!

by Anonymousreply 26October 22, 2024 12:57 AM

I'm speaking to the nonbinary one(s) inside of Nico.

by Anonymousreply 27October 22, 2024 1:01 AM

I have no idea who the F this guy is, nor give a rat’s ass about his whining

by Anonymousreply 28October 22, 2024 1:49 AM

After carrying a child in your body for nine months, and then going through childbirth and recovery, it's a little harder to pretend that sex isn't a profound influence on one's life. And it's also a little harder to indulge your husband's sophomoric whims.

by Anonymousreply 29October 22, 2024 2:00 AM

Work is drying up and he’s reinventing himself.

by Anonymousreply 30October 22, 2024 2:08 AM

Basically admitting that "nonbinary" and "queer" is a phase you grow out of when it's time to be an adult. All the more reason to stop transing children.

by Anonymousreply 31October 22, 2024 2:10 AM

Wow, I never saw this coming!

by Anonymousreply 32October 22, 2024 2:12 AM

Whoopee. There's nothing I find more tedious than the "you MUST respect my pronouns!" crowd.

by Anonymousreply 33October 22, 2024 2:12 AM

Does that mean his deadname was found alive?

by Anonymousreply 34October 22, 2024 2:15 AM

It's a little hard putting all that toothpaste back in the tube, buddy.

by Anonymousreply 35October 22, 2024 2:35 AM

Listening to the podcast, Bethany and Nico seem like modern hippies. It seems like the non-binary and queer thing was one of the ways that they wanted to assert their individuality and freedom. Their bisexuality seems more ideologically driven than something instinctual.

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by Anonymousreply 36October 22, 2024 2:45 AM

Has Nico ever shown dong?

by Anonymousreply 37October 22, 2024 2:48 AM

Exhausting.

by Anonymousreply 38October 22, 2024 2:56 AM

I know I'm an eldergay but FOR FUCKS SAKE who the hell is this guy?? I'm not THAT out of the loop, and I never heard of him. Who CARES? Why would OP even post this?

by Anonymousreply 39October 22, 2024 3:03 AM

Okay, if you say so: “You are a type of thing.”

And more than that, I don’t care to get into.

by Anonymousreply 40October 22, 2024 3:04 AM

The only exposure I've had to our dear little Nico is on that psychic twink's tv show. He got in touch with his gramps (and his feminine side). I have to admit I found him adorable in that he was extremely emotional, perhaps a bit unstable, tears running down his face. . .in other words, perfect for me. You want to mother him and fuck the hell out of him at the same time.

by Anonymousreply 41October 22, 2024 3:05 AM

What are the odds that this man has never touched another man sexually in his life, despite his claims to having "boyfriends" etc. Somehow he can be photographed with his vagina-having partners but not his penis-having partners (because they don't exist).

by Anonymousreply 42October 22, 2024 4:11 AM

Tear out that BITCH of a they/them pronoun and put a gender where it ought to be!

by Anonymousreply 43October 22, 2024 4:19 AM

R39 He was on the Darren Starr show “Younger” with Sutton Foster

by Anonymousreply 44October 22, 2024 4:20 AM

He was also in one of the Walking Dead spinoff series, which was utter shit.

by Anonymousreply 45October 22, 2024 4:24 AM

Do these people even grasp that all the rest of us gender non-confused normies couldn’t give two shits about their narcissistic navel-gazing self-adulation? We see them as something ridiculous we never want to be like. I am speaking of these phoney tourists to the trans identity. People with real, honest gender dysmorphia are being done no favors whatsoever by these vapid fools camping out in their identity and shouting “LOOK AT ME!!”

by Anonymousreply 46October 22, 2024 4:30 AM

I love this headline from 2020: Walking Dead star Nico Tortorella insists ‘there’s nothing more masculine than bottoming’

Tortorella, who has previously confirmed they are sexually vers, went further to dismiss the notion that bottoming “is not masculine”, saying anyone who has ever bottomed knows “you need to man the f*** up to get the job done”.

by Anonymousreply 47October 22, 2024 4:31 AM

Attention must be paid!

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by Anonymousreply 48October 22, 2024 4:33 AM

“I’m married, yes, but I love dating one person at a time. I have a partner in LA that I’ve had for a long time, but I’m not his only partner; he’s not my only partner.

“I think both of those words, queer and polyamorous, are heavily weighted, and they mean different things to different people.”

Figure it out Nico.

by Anonymousreply 49October 22, 2024 4:37 AM

R49 humiliating

by Anonymousreply 50October 22, 2024 4:56 AM

R27 comments like this are what keeps me coming back. 🤣

by Anonymousreply 51October 22, 2024 4:58 AM

He looks a bit like Adam Kinzinger at R48.

by Anonymousreply 52October 22, 2024 5:05 AM

People like this should apologize for the trouble they've caused others. It's like inviting people to an Amway party and proselytizing about Amway. And then, a couple years later, the person's no longer into Amway.

by Anonymousreply 53October 22, 2024 5:29 AM

In other words “That was all about attention.”

by Anonymousreply 54October 22, 2024 5:36 AM

I wouldn't be surprised if both he and his wife get involved on some kind of sex-freak cult/sect.

by Anonymousreply 55October 22, 2024 5:36 AM

In this instance and several others the T in LGBT stands for Tool.

by Anonymousreply 56October 22, 2024 5:37 AM

I've said it once, I'll say it again...

"They" is not meant for one person. "They" is plural.

by Anonymousreply 57October 22, 2024 5:48 AM

[quote]I’m married, yes, but I love dating one person at a time. I have a partner in LA that I’ve had for a long time, but I’m not his only partner; he’s not my only partner.

...huh? What the fuck kind of convoluted nonsense did I just read?

Was he drunk and/or coked out at the time he said this? Trolling for attention? Or is he really just this much of an incoherent moron?

Scary to think that he and his equally fucked-up wife are the parents of two kids.

by Anonymousreply 58October 22, 2024 5:49 AM

[quote]I have a partner in LA that I’ve had for a long time, but I’m not his only partner; he’s not my only partner.

Taylor Lautner

by Anonymousreply 59October 22, 2024 5:51 AM

Um just no.

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by Anonymousreply 60October 22, 2024 5:59 AM

^^He looks like the 5th Golden Girl

by Anonymousreply 61October 22, 2024 6:00 AM

First Demi and now him. Glad people are getting over this fad.

by Anonymousreply 62October 22, 2024 6:50 AM

I can grasp how people might feel trapped in the wrong gender, and therefore feel a compelling need to ask the world to interact with them as their real gender. But “nonbinary” has always struck me as self-indulgent bullshit that does nothing but undermine the fragile position of actual trans people.

by Anonymousreply 63October 22, 2024 2:13 PM

It’s still pretentious and thirsty regardless of what pronouns it/that uses…

by Anonymousreply 64October 22, 2024 3:44 PM

He sounds rather dumb.

by Anonymousreply 65October 22, 2024 5:08 PM

He’s dumber than a box of rocks.

by Anonymousreply 66October 22, 2024 9:04 PM

Lol, R66.

by Anonymousreply 67October 23, 2024 12:58 AM

[quote]What are the odds that this man has never touched another man sexually in his life, despite his claims to having "boyfriends[/quote]

He was involved with Kyke Krieger. They talked about their relationship and breakup on Nico's podcast years ago

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by Anonymousreply 68October 23, 2024 2:32 AM
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by Anonymousreply 69October 23, 2024 2:49 AM

[quote]“I feel like a man more than I ever have”

It won't last, missy.

by Anonymousreply 70October 23, 2024 8:13 AM

[quote]“I feel like a man more than I ever have”

Soon he'll be feeling like having a man more than he ever has.

by Anonymousreply 71October 23, 2024 8:27 AM

"Listening to the podcast, Bethany and Nico seem like modern hippies. It seems like the non-binary and queer thing was one of the ways that they wanted to assert their individuality and freedom. Their bisexuality seems more ideologically driven than something instinctual."

Yeah, but hippies wouldn't care enough about what other people think to announce pronouns. Pronouns as evidence of one's individuality is HR talk---it's for legal documents, and that's it. The fact that so many went crazy for it and now slowly shrinking away is a testament to how pathetic and spineless people were between 2017-2023.

by Anonymousreply 72December 9, 2024 7:05 PM

Phony, pretentious bints.

by Anonymousreply 73December 9, 2024 7:11 PM

The tats pics reveal he is doughy. Almost fat. His wife is nuts and he is nuts so the combination multiplies the navel gazing. Their poor kid. They must be exhausting to be around.

by Anonymousreply 74December 9, 2024 7:15 PM

I found it so offensive years back he was on the cover of The Advocate with the headlines “this is what a queer family looks like”. A man and a woman in a relationship.

I’m glad that they’ve kind of fizzled out to heteronormative because I found the idea that straight relationships being seen as queer were so dangerous to the community.

by Anonymousreply 75December 9, 2024 10:16 PM

They are both dumb attention seeking cunts.

by Anonymousreply 76December 9, 2024 10:18 PM

The reality is that Nico is a nobody of extremely limited talented. If you look at his film and TV credits, he basically did nothing of note for 10 years while he was preoccupied with "finding himself" and hocking his "we're a QuEeR genderFLUID family" bullshit. He is just another narcissist fucktard with shit for brains who hopped on a trend train as an excuse to let his gross wife peg him.

by Anonymousreply 77December 11, 2024 2:32 AM

What a bore.

by Anonymousreply 78December 11, 2024 2:35 AM

Sometimes I think the non-binary crowd genuinely have gender dysphoria (like the redhead from "Yellowjackets"), but so often it's just the cheap narcissists like this guy who are desperate for any kind of attention.

by Anonymousreply 79December 11, 2024 3:24 AM

He sounds like a complete fucking idiot.

by Anonymousreply 80December 11, 2024 4:57 AM

What would a pub crawl with Nico and Kevin Sessums be like, I wonder.

by Anonymousreply 81December 11, 2024 9:32 AM

Do these guys with their nasty tatts ever give a thought to what they're gonna look like when they're 80?

by Anonymousreply 82December 14, 2024 8:20 PM

Nico on Tyler Henry's psychic show. At 7:31 Nico announces he's gonna take his shirt off to show him a tatt and Tyler practically faints and say like "Okay that works." He also says Nico is a psychic/medium himself.

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by Anonymousreply 83December 14, 2024 8:33 PM

Nico was the darling of New Trier HS in north shore Wilmette. Silver spoon. Plucked out to model while still in school. Only developed his exterior persona. Insufferable at parties. Slept with everyone and was not good at it. This is the trajectory of his life. Peaked early. Can still get PR hits but the looks are failing fast. He'll be on the autograph circuit soon and people will look at him and say, "Who?" and continue walking.

by Anonymousreply 84December 14, 2024 8:34 PM

Honey, we’re ALL going to look like shit at 80, tattoos or not.

by Anonymousreply 85December 14, 2024 10:46 PM

Not really knowing who either of them are, whenever I see the names Nico Tortorella and Luca Guadagnino, I think it's the same person. I have just now discovered they are totally different people.

by Anonymousreply 86December 14, 2024 10:58 PM
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