Nico Tortorella no longer uses they/them pronouns: “I feel like a man more than I ever have”
There’s something that happened specifically in the pronoun conversation too. I use he/him pronouns at this point. You [his wife Bethany C. Meyers] use she/her pronouns. Not to say that we’re opposed to they/them pronouns. I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day. Call me whatever you want, just make sure you call me a type of thing. I don’t mind it [they/them pronouns]. I truly don’t care.
I feel like a man more than I ever have in my entire life right now you know and I f***ing stand by that. It’s such a great feeling. It’s not to say that I won’t feel more fluid in the future, right? I can still f***ing sass out from time to time, but I’m in my truth right now and it’s real.
But there’s something that happened in our infertility where we were just experiencing roadblock after roadblock after roadblock and the pronoun conversation was this unnecessary roadblock that we were continuing to just face head on and I just had to let it go. I just had to move on. There was too much coming at us at once and that was part of just the release. There’s so much release that needs to happen to create life.
We are different people since having our first daughter Kilmer Dove … but shift happens and it’s real.
Actor Nico Tortorella, who previously came out as gender fluid and used they/them pronouns, speaking on his new podcast ‘Full of Shift’ how parenthood changed how he identifies.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 86 | December 14, 2024 10:58 PM
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It really, truly is the height of narcissism to think ANYBODY cares about your enterally fluctuating pronouns.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | October 21, 2024 11:56 PM
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" I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day."
This will be a common refrain in the coming years.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | October 22, 2024 12:00 AM
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He could've had a much better career if he'd kept a lid on the crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 22, 2024 12:01 AM
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[quote]" I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day."
The rest of the world never cared about it at all, darling.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 22, 2024 12:07 AM
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It's too bad r7. He's attractive and he really does have talent. I think he could've had a character-type actor career like Colin Farrell has been doing over the past decade or so. But he's totally batshit and couldn't hide it the way other actors can.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | October 22, 2024 12:09 AM
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The tats are hideous. Nice ass, though.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 10 | October 22, 2024 12:21 AM
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“You should see him…. HE’S ALL MAN. They used to say when he was in the showers…”
by Anonymous | reply 13 | October 22, 2024 12:23 AM
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Just because you are an omnisexual whore doesn’t make you gender fluid. I’m glad he recognized that. Sometimes I feel like an omnisexual whore.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 22, 2024 12:25 AM
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Phew. Finally. It’s the news I’ve been waiting to hear.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | October 22, 2024 12:28 AM
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He's hot so he can do whatever he wants!
by Anonymous | reply 17 | October 22, 2024 12:31 AM
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They named their kid after Val Kilmer? Why?
by Anonymous | reply 18 | October 22, 2024 12:37 AM
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All this gender nonsense is just a first-world-fad and will pass, but not before doing a lot of damage.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | October 22, 2024 12:45 AM
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The kid’s name is Kilmer which was the last name of Bethany’s grandfather, R18.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | October 22, 2024 12:47 AM
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R2 It works damn well if you’re trying to quash some bad publicity over attacking a small business.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | October 22, 2024 12:49 AM
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…And look gayer than you might ever manage to! :)
by Anonymous | reply 22 | October 22, 2024 12:52 AM
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I do hope he continues to update the world whenever he gets new pronouns and new tattoos.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | October 22, 2024 12:53 AM
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It needs some proactive for dat ass.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | October 22, 2024 12:53 AM
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Thank god his looks are going so I don't have to feel dirty by finding him hot.
Frankly, he was always on the border between hot and too exhausting to bother, but clearly aging is not being kind to him.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | October 22, 2024 12:56 AM
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I'm speaking to the nonbinary one(s) inside of Nico.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | October 22, 2024 1:01 AM
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I have no idea who the F this guy is, nor give a rat’s ass about his whining
by Anonymous | reply 28 | October 22, 2024 1:49 AM
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After carrying a child in your body for nine months, and then going through childbirth and recovery, it's a little harder to pretend that sex isn't a profound influence on one's life. And it's also a little harder to indulge your husband's sophomoric whims.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | October 22, 2024 2:00 AM
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Work is drying up and he’s reinventing himself.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | October 22, 2024 2:08 AM
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Basically admitting that "nonbinary" and "queer" is a phase you grow out of when it's time to be an adult. All the more reason to stop transing children.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | October 22, 2024 2:10 AM
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Wow, I never saw this coming!
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 22, 2024 2:12 AM
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Whoopee. There's nothing I find more tedious than the "you MUST respect my pronouns!" crowd.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | October 22, 2024 2:12 AM
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Does that mean his deadname was found alive?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | October 22, 2024 2:15 AM
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It's a little hard putting all that toothpaste back in the tube, buddy.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | October 22, 2024 2:35 AM
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Listening to the podcast, Bethany and Nico seem like modern hippies. It seems like the non-binary and queer thing was one of the ways that they wanted to assert their individuality and freedom. Their bisexuality seems more ideologically driven than something instinctual.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 36 | October 22, 2024 2:45 AM
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Has Nico ever shown dong?
by Anonymous | reply 37 | October 22, 2024 2:48 AM
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I know I'm an eldergay but FOR FUCKS SAKE who the hell is this guy?? I'm not THAT out of the loop, and I never heard of him. Who CARES? Why would OP even post this?
by Anonymous | reply 39 | October 22, 2024 3:03 AM
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Okay, if you say so: “You are a type of thing.”
And more than that, I don’t care to get into.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | October 22, 2024 3:04 AM
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The only exposure I've had to our dear little Nico is on that psychic twink's tv show. He got in touch with his gramps (and his feminine side). I have to admit I found him adorable in that he was extremely emotional, perhaps a bit unstable, tears running down his face. . .in other words, perfect for me. You want to mother him and fuck the hell out of him at the same time.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | October 22, 2024 3:05 AM
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What are the odds that this man has never touched another man sexually in his life, despite his claims to having "boyfriends" etc. Somehow he can be photographed with his vagina-having partners but not his penis-having partners (because they don't exist).
by Anonymous | reply 42 | October 22, 2024 4:11 AM
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Tear out that BITCH of a they/them pronoun and put a gender where it ought to be!
by Anonymous | reply 43 | October 22, 2024 4:19 AM
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R39 He was on the Darren Starr show “Younger” with Sutton Foster
by Anonymous | reply 44 | October 22, 2024 4:20 AM
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He was also in one of the Walking Dead spinoff series, which was utter shit.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | October 22, 2024 4:24 AM
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Do these people even grasp that all the rest of us gender non-confused normies couldn’t give two shits about their narcissistic navel-gazing self-adulation? We see them as something ridiculous we never want to be like. I am speaking of these phoney tourists to the trans identity. People with real, honest gender dysmorphia are being done no favors whatsoever by these vapid fools camping out in their identity and shouting “LOOK AT ME!!”
by Anonymous | reply 46 | October 22, 2024 4:30 AM
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I love this headline from 2020: Walking Dead star Nico Tortorella insists ‘there’s nothing more masculine than bottoming’
Tortorella, who has previously confirmed they are sexually vers, went further to dismiss the notion that bottoming “is not masculine”, saying anyone who has ever bottomed knows “you need to man the f*** up to get the job done”.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | October 22, 2024 4:31 AM
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“I’m married, yes, but I love dating one person at a time. I have a partner in LA that I’ve had for a long time, but I’m not his only partner; he’s not my only partner.
“I think both of those words, queer and polyamorous, are heavily weighted, and they mean different things to different people.”
Figure it out Nico.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | October 22, 2024 4:37 AM
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R27 comments like this are what keeps me coming back. 🤣
by Anonymous | reply 51 | October 22, 2024 4:58 AM
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He looks a bit like Adam Kinzinger at R48.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | October 22, 2024 5:05 AM
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People like this should apologize for the trouble they've caused others. It's like inviting people to an Amway party and proselytizing about Amway. And then, a couple years later, the person's no longer into Amway.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | October 22, 2024 5:29 AM
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In other words “That was all about attention.”
by Anonymous | reply 54 | October 22, 2024 5:36 AM
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I wouldn't be surprised if both he and his wife get involved on some kind of sex-freak cult/sect.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | October 22, 2024 5:36 AM
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In this instance and several others the T in LGBT stands for Tool.
by Anonymous | reply 56 | October 22, 2024 5:37 AM
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I've said it once, I'll say it again...
"They" is not meant for one person. "They" is plural.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | October 22, 2024 5:48 AM
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[quote]I’m married, yes, but I love dating one person at a time. I have a partner in LA that I’ve had for a long time, but I’m not his only partner; he’s not my only partner.
...huh? What the fuck kind of convoluted nonsense did I just read?
Was he drunk and/or coked out at the time he said this? Trolling for attention? Or is he really just this much of an incoherent moron?
Scary to think that he and his equally fucked-up wife are the parents of two kids.
by Anonymous | reply 58 | October 22, 2024 5:49 AM
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[quote]I have a partner in LA that I’ve had for a long time, but I’m not his only partner; he’s not my only partner.
Taylor Lautner
by Anonymous | reply 59 | October 22, 2024 5:51 AM
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^^He looks like the 5th Golden Girl
by Anonymous | reply 61 | October 22, 2024 6:00 AM
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First Demi and now him. Glad people are getting over this fad.
by Anonymous | reply 62 | October 22, 2024 6:50 AM
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I can grasp how people might feel trapped in the wrong gender, and therefore feel a compelling need to ask the world to interact with them as their real gender. But “nonbinary” has always struck me as self-indulgent bullshit that does nothing but undermine the fragile position of actual trans people.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | October 22, 2024 2:13 PM
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It’s still pretentious and thirsty regardless of what pronouns it/that uses…
by Anonymous | reply 64 | October 22, 2024 3:44 PM
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He’s dumber than a box of rocks.
by Anonymous | reply 66 | October 22, 2024 9:04 PM
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[quote]What are the odds that this man has never touched another man sexually in his life, despite his claims to having "boyfriends[/quote]
He was involved with Kyke Krieger. They talked about their relationship and breakup on Nico's podcast years ago
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 68 | October 23, 2024 2:32 AM
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[quote]“I feel like a man more than I ever have”
It won't last, missy.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | October 23, 2024 8:13 AM
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[quote]“I feel like a man more than I ever have”
Soon he'll be feeling like having a man more than he ever has.
by Anonymous | reply 71 | October 23, 2024 8:27 AM
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"Listening to the podcast, Bethany and Nico seem like modern hippies. It seems like the non-binary and queer thing was one of the ways that they wanted to assert their individuality and freedom. Their bisexuality seems more ideologically driven than something instinctual."
Yeah, but hippies wouldn't care enough about what other people think to announce pronouns. Pronouns as evidence of one's individuality is HR talk---it's for legal documents, and that's it. The fact that so many went crazy for it and now slowly shrinking away is a testament to how pathetic and spineless people were between 2017-2023.
by Anonymous | reply 72 | December 9, 2024 7:05 PM
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Phony, pretentious bints.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | December 9, 2024 7:11 PM
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The tats pics reveal he is doughy. Almost fat. His wife is nuts and he is nuts so the combination multiplies the navel gazing. Their poor kid. They must be exhausting to be around.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | December 9, 2024 7:15 PM
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I found it so offensive years back he was on the cover of The Advocate with the headlines “this is what a queer family looks like”. A man and a woman in a relationship.
I’m glad that they’ve kind of fizzled out to heteronormative because I found the idea that straight relationships being seen as queer were so dangerous to the community.
by Anonymous | reply 75 | December 9, 2024 10:16 PM
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They are both dumb attention seeking cunts.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | December 9, 2024 10:18 PM
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The reality is that Nico is a nobody of extremely limited talented. If you look at his film and TV credits, he basically did nothing of note for 10 years while he was preoccupied with "finding himself" and hocking his "we're a QuEeR genderFLUID family" bullshit. He is just another narcissist fucktard with shit for brains who hopped on a trend train as an excuse to let his gross wife peg him.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | December 11, 2024 2:32 AM
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Sometimes I think the non-binary crowd genuinely have gender dysphoria (like the redhead from "Yellowjackets"), but so often it's just the cheap narcissists like this guy who are desperate for any kind of attention.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | December 11, 2024 3:24 AM
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He sounds like a complete fucking idiot.
by Anonymous | reply 80 | December 11, 2024 4:57 AM
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What would a pub crawl with Nico and Kevin Sessums be like, I wonder.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | December 11, 2024 9:32 AM
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Do these guys with their nasty tatts ever give a thought to what they're gonna look like when they're 80?
by Anonymous | reply 82 | December 14, 2024 8:20 PM
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Nico on Tyler Henry's psychic show. At 7:31 Nico announces he's gonna take his shirt off to show him a tatt and Tyler practically faints and say like "Okay that works." He also says Nico is a psychic/medium himself.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 83 | December 14, 2024 8:33 PM
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Nico was the darling of New Trier HS in north shore Wilmette. Silver spoon. Plucked out to model while still in school. Only developed his exterior persona. Insufferable at parties. Slept with everyone and was not good at it. This is the trajectory of his life. Peaked early. Can still get PR hits but the looks are failing fast. He'll be on the autograph circuit soon and people will look at him and say, "Who?" and continue walking.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | December 14, 2024 8:34 PM
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Honey, we’re ALL going to look like shit at 80, tattoos or not.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | December 14, 2024 10:46 PM
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Not really knowing who either of them are, whenever I see the names Nico Tortorella and Luca Guadagnino, I think it's the same person. I have just now discovered they are totally different people.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | December 14, 2024 10:58 PM
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