Nico Tortorella no longer uses they/them pronouns: “I feel like a man more than I ever have”
There’s something that happened specifically in the pronoun conversation too. I use he/him pronouns at this point. You [his wife Bethany C. Meyers] use she/her pronouns. Not to say that we’re opposed to they/them pronouns. I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day. Call me whatever you want, just make sure you call me a type of thing. I don’t mind it [they/them pronouns]. I truly don’t care.
I feel like a man more than I ever have in my entire life right now you know and I f***ing stand by that. It’s such a great feeling. It’s not to say that I won’t feel more fluid in the future, right? I can still f***ing sass out from time to time, but I’m in my truth right now and it’s real.
But there’s something that happened in our infertility where we were just experiencing roadblock after roadblock after roadblock and the pronoun conversation was this unnecessary roadblock that we were continuing to just face head on and I just had to let it go. I just had to move on. There was too much coming at us at once and that was part of just the release. There’s so much release that needs to happen to create life.
We are different people since having our first daughter Kilmer Dove … but shift happens and it’s real.
Actor Nico Tortorella, who previously came out as gender fluid and used they/them pronouns, speaking on his new podcast ‘Full of Shift’ how parenthood changed how he identifies.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 44 | October 22, 2024 3:20 AM
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It really, truly is the height of narcissism to think ANYBODY cares about your enterally fluctuating pronouns.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | October 21, 2024 10:56 PM
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" I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day."
This will be a common refrain in the coming years.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | October 21, 2024 11:00 PM
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He could've had a much better career if he'd kept a lid on the crazy.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | October 21, 2024 11:01 PM
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[quote]" I just really don’t care about it in the same ways that I did back in the day."
The rest of the world never cared about it at all, darling.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | October 21, 2024 11:07 PM
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It's too bad r7. He's attractive and he really does have talent. I think he could've had a character-type actor career like Colin Farrell has been doing over the past decade or so. But he's totally batshit and couldn't hide it the way other actors can.
by Anonymous | reply 9 | October 21, 2024 11:09 PM
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The tats are hideous. Nice ass, though.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 10 | October 21, 2024 11:21 PM
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“You should see him…. HE’S ALL MAN. They used to say when he was in the showers…”
by Anonymous | reply 13 | October 21, 2024 11:23 PM
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Just because you are an omnisexual whore doesn’t make you gender fluid. I’m glad he recognized that. Sometimes I feel like an omnisexual whore.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | October 21, 2024 11:25 PM
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Phew. Finally. It’s the news I’ve been waiting to hear.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | October 21, 2024 11:28 PM
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He's hot so he can do whatever he wants!
by Anonymous | reply 17 | October 21, 2024 11:31 PM
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They named their kid after Val Kilmer? Why?
by Anonymous | reply 18 | October 21, 2024 11:37 PM
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All this gender nonsense is just a first-world-fad and will pass, but not before doing a lot of damage.
by Anonymous | reply 19 | October 21, 2024 11:45 PM
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The kid’s name is Kilmer which was the last name of Bethany’s grandfather, R18.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | October 21, 2024 11:47 PM
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R2 It works damn well if you’re trying to quash some bad publicity over attacking a small business.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | October 21, 2024 11:49 PM
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…And look gayer than you might ever manage to! :)
by Anonymous | reply 22 | October 21, 2024 11:52 PM
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I do hope he continues to update the world whenever he gets new pronouns and new tattoos.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | October 21, 2024 11:53 PM
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It needs some proactive for dat ass.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | October 21, 2024 11:53 PM
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Thank god his looks are going so I don't have to feel dirty by finding him hot.
Frankly, he was always on the border between hot and too exhausting to bother, but clearly aging is not being kind to him.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | October 21, 2024 11:56 PM
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I'm speaking to the nonbinary one(s) inside of Nico.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | October 22, 2024 12:01 AM
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I have no idea who the F this guy is, nor give a rat’s ass about his whining
by Anonymous | reply 28 | October 22, 2024 12:49 AM
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After carrying a child in your body for nine months, and then going through childbirth and recovery, it's a little harder to pretend that sex isn't a profound influence on one's life. And it's also a little harder to indulge your husband's sophomoric whims.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | October 22, 2024 1:00 AM
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Work is drying up and he’s reinventing himself.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | October 22, 2024 1:08 AM
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Basically admitting that "nonbinary" and "queer" is a phase you grow out of when it's time to be an adult. All the more reason to stop transing children.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | October 22, 2024 1:10 AM
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Wow, I never saw this coming!
by Anonymous | reply 32 | October 22, 2024 1:12 AM
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Whoopee. There's nothing I find more tedious than the "you MUST respect my pronouns!" crowd.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | October 22, 2024 1:12 AM
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Does that mean his deadname was found alive?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | October 22, 2024 1:15 AM
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It's a little hard putting all that toothpaste back in the tube, buddy.
by Anonymous | reply 35 | October 22, 2024 1:35 AM
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Listening to the podcast, Bethany and Nico seem like modern hippies. It seems like the non-binary and queer thing was one of the ways that they wanted to assert their individuality and freedom. Their bisexuality seems more ideologically driven than something instinctual.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 36 | October 22, 2024 1:45 AM
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Has Nico ever shown dong?
by Anonymous | reply 37 | October 22, 2024 1:48 AM
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I know I'm an eldergay but FOR FUCKS SAKE who the hell is this guy?? I'm not THAT out of the loop, and I never heard of him. Who CARES? Why would OP even post this?
by Anonymous | reply 39 | October 22, 2024 2:03 AM
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Okay, if you say so: “You are a type of thing.”
And more than that, I don’t care to get into.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | October 22, 2024 2:04 AM
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The only exposure I've had to our dear little Nico is on that psychic twink's tv show. He got in touch with his gramps (and his feminine side). I have to admit I found him adorable in that he was extremely emotional, perhaps a bit unstable, tears running down his face. . .in other words, perfect for me. You want to mother him and fuck the hell out of him at the same time.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | October 22, 2024 2:05 AM
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What are the odds that this man has never touched another man sexually in his life, despite his claims to having "boyfriends" etc. Somehow he can be photographed with his vagina-having partners but not his penis-having partners (because they don't exist).
by Anonymous | reply 42 | October 22, 2024 3:11 AM
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Tear out that BITCH of a they/them pronoun and put a gender where it ought to be!
by Anonymous | reply 43 | October 22, 2024 3:19 AM
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R39 He was on the Darren Starr show “Younger” with Sutton Foster
by Anonymous | reply 44 | October 22, 2024 3:20 AM
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