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My sister just called me a pervert and a pdf file because I’m seeing someone six years younger than me

And I’m not feeling great about it.

Hearing those words from family stings. I’m 29 and recently started seeing this great guy that I get along well with and really like.

by Anonymousreply 68October 21, 2024 10:09 PM

Well, your sister knows you better than we do, so if she says you're a pedophile, I guess you're a pedophile.

by Anonymousreply 1October 20, 2024 12:43 AM

No. The rule is add 7 years to half your age.

That is 14 1/2 + 7 = 21 1/2.

So as long as he is 21 1/2 years old, OP is fine.

by Anonymousreply 2October 20, 2024 12:48 AM

a pdf file? Disgusting!

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by Anonymousreply 3October 20, 2024 12:49 AM

This sounds like a post from someone we all know well at DL and are often critical of. But I'm just going to respond because I've been in this (age difference) position before. There was no judgment on our age difference though, as there seems to be with OP.

That said, I don't think that age difference is a big deal, unless it was a teens/20s scenario. My largest age gap in a long term relationship was 7 years and we were actually together for 7 years. Of course, we were in our 3rd and 4th decades of our lives. I think in your 20s it's pretty negligible.

by Anonymousreply 4October 20, 2024 12:55 AM

Maybe I'm a drama queen, but I would burn every bridge between you and her.

Calling someone a pedophile is not a joke, especially for a gay man, and especially in this context.

There is (in my experience), a lot of life lessons between 23 and 29. I get that some people (maybe even myself) would raise an eyebrow, but if she really said that - FUCK HER. How many straight men fuck younger women on a daily basis and they get high fives from their buddies? I myself might even be one of them.

23 is old enough to know what you are doing. Fuck her.

by Anonymousreply 5October 20, 2024 1:01 AM

A PDF FILE, OP? Are you trying to be cute? Or do you also say UNALIVE, instead of kill?

by Anonymousreply 6October 20, 2024 1:01 AM

[Quote] Calling someone a pedophile is not a joke

One half of the country is calling us that, because they hate us and want us to be monsters so they can hate us with more justification.

And no I don’t just mean gays. I mean democrats, progressives, Jews, anyone not MAGA.

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by Anonymousreply 7October 20, 2024 1:04 AM

Your sister clearly has no idea what a pedophile is. It is someone who is sexually attracted to a PRE-PUBESCENT child. A 23 year old man is clearly not a child. I think you probably need to slap your sister repeatedly about the head and shoulders.

by Anonymousreply 8October 20, 2024 1:06 AM

“Darlene called me a PRE-vert…”

by Anonymousreply 9October 20, 2024 1:11 AM

All I wanna say is that they don't really care about us

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by Anonymousreply 10October 20, 2024 1:13 AM

I'm just happy that you're talking to Genie again, OP.

by Anonymousreply 11October 20, 2024 2:19 AM

Frankly I’d have been more upset if she’d have accused you of being an Excel file, OP. So sorry.

by Anonymousreply 12October 20, 2024 2:37 AM

Your sister sounds like a real JPEG, OP.

by Anonymousreply 13October 20, 2024 2:39 AM

Word!

by Anonymousreply 14October 20, 2024 2:41 AM

Don’t be a PDF when you can be a ZIP

by Anonymousreply 15October 20, 2024 2:43 AM

you could also be a RTF. that's way out there, though.

by Anonymousreply 16October 20, 2024 2:45 AM

DOC onboard.

by Anonymousreply 17October 20, 2024 2:46 AM

Your sister needs to get laid.

by Anonymousreply 18October 20, 2024 3:07 AM

Op why are you lying. So your sister called you a pedo for dating someone 23. Bye Felicia. Is she fucked up in the head or something's? Or either she was joking with your drunk ass and you couldn’t detect it.

by Anonymousreply 19October 20, 2024 3:08 AM

R10 I love you for some reason for that gif. Lawd it’s perfect. 😆.

by Anonymousreply 20October 20, 2024 3:09 AM

Just in time...those responses were just in time...

by Anonymousreply 21October 20, 2024 3:11 AM

R21 I hope you aren’t suggesting I made this thread. Because there is a tard floating around thinking I’ve made every other thread. It’s funny I haven’t made one thread today, but I’ve done lots of posting.

by Anonymousreply 22October 20, 2024 3:24 AM

[quote]Op why are you lying. So your sister called you a pedo for dating someone 23. Bye Felicia. Is she fucked up in the head or something's? Or either she was joking with your drunk ass and you couldn’t detect it.

R19/Teacake=CUNT

by Anonymousreply 23October 20, 2024 3:37 AM

OP, is your sister a radical "woke" feminist?

They view anyone under 25 as a "kid" and consider an age gap of more than 5 years to be problematic.

The far-left is prudish like that.

by Anonymousreply 24October 20, 2024 3:40 AM

absurd gen z horseshit. enjoy the young ass.

by Anonymousreply 25October 20, 2024 3:43 AM

OP I don’t know where you are from. If you posting in Appalachia or Iceland. But it just defies logic that someone would consider a 29 yr old dating a 23 yr old, problematic. I don’t know if she was joking with you or what but obviously you probably would have stated that and thus wouldn’t be posting in the first place. I think this deserves a troll harder next time. You shoulda made your “boyfriend” 19 if you wanted a conversation about this.

by Anonymousreply 26October 20, 2024 3:48 AM

Tell your sister to GIF outta here!

by Anonymousreply 27October 20, 2024 3:48 AM

R26/Teacake=CUNT

by Anonymousreply 28October 20, 2024 3:52 AM

R7 nailed it.

OP - I feel for you. For whatever reason, she has major feelings of negative self worth . So she projects them onto you . Classic projection.

I’m in the same boat — being gay and Jewish . Treasure your relationship. Nothing. Matters except how you and your partner feel about each other , and nothing unusual about the age gap.

Try to ignore her. Don’t waste your time and energy ruminating . We get you and we love you

by Anonymousreply 29October 20, 2024 3:56 AM

If you believe your sister you’re an MR not a PDF

by Anonymousreply 30October 20, 2024 3:56 AM

I would wait until Thanksgiving or Christmas dinner and then tell her off in front of as many people as possible. Really hold court and tell her what a fucking asshole she is.

Start with something like "do you guys know what this nasty, low down, truck stop hooker said to me?"

by Anonymousreply 31October 20, 2024 4:21 AM

Matt is so desperate for attention on the weekends. It’s kind of sad. Have a tall cool glass of Drano, Matt.

by Anonymousreply 32October 20, 2024 4:29 AM

OP hope your sister's partner isn't 6 years older than her?

by Anonymousreply 33October 20, 2024 4:37 AM

Your sister sounds like one of those insufferable virtue signaling FauxMoi subreddit posters. They genuinely believe anyone who dates someone over 18 but under 25 is a pedophile. Especially if the younger person is female and the older person is male and at least a decade older.

They all claim to be progessive liberal feminists and practically worship Amber Heard but have a deep seated psychotic hatred for Taylor Swift and regularly shit talk her showing their hypocrisy.

It's all an act and the majority of them are actually a bunch of a psychotic homophobic and transphobic femcels who post on Lolcow.

There is one lesbian poster on Lolcow who is extremely deranged and posts about her extreme hatred for men and surrogates.

She posts in the Celebricow threads on a regular basis and seems to be one rage away from committing a mass shooting.

I'm seriously considering reporting "Valerie Solanas" as I have dubbed her to the FBI or online threat assessment center. She's THAT fucking batshit insane.

by Anonymousreply 34October 20, 2024 5:36 AM

R34. Just try it...

by Anonymousreply 35October 20, 2024 3:32 PM

sister is probably some sad fat unfuckable pig that eats in it's bed

by Anonymousreply 36October 20, 2024 3:36 PM

R36 Most of the femcels on lolcow and LSA are.

by Anonymousreply 37October 20, 2024 10:35 PM

Teafake talking to itself yet again.

by Anonymousreply 38October 20, 2024 11:00 PM

That's not very nice of Genie, OP.

by Anonymousreply 39October 20, 2024 11:02 PM

R38 Ugh and I though Ědwïn was disgusting. Teacake is a hoodrat.

by Anonymousreply 40October 20, 2024 11:02 PM

Your sister sounds like a real cunt. That is all..

by Anonymousreply 41October 20, 2024 11:07 PM

If it wasn't meant purely in jest I'd ice her indefinitely..

by Anonymousreply 42October 20, 2024 11:08 PM

R38 You obsessing on my motherfucking dick yet again. Get a life. I didn’t create this thread, I made a couple comments, and I certainly don’t talk to myself on a mafuckin thread like a lunatic.

by Anonymousreply 43October 20, 2024 11:21 PM

Actually, Prince-Akeem, I didn't mention you. You made the connection with Teafake.

by Anonymousreply 44October 20, 2024 11:25 PM

I am TeaCake loser. Listen you can’t play thick by ya mafuckin self. Trash ass human beings.

by Anonymousreply 45October 20, 2024 11:26 PM

Can* play

by Anonymousreply 46October 20, 2024 11:27 PM

OK Teafake

by Anonymousreply 47October 20, 2024 11:28 PM

R43. I don't obsess about tiny packages...

by Anonymousreply 48October 20, 2024 11:34 PM

OP was this before or after your visit to Chipotle?

by Anonymousreply 49October 20, 2024 11:42 PM

I beez blatino, mafuckers!!!!!! Suck myz chimichanga!!!! 🌯 🫏 🌮

by Anonymousreply 50October 20, 2024 11:45 PM

What a nut case thread

by Anonymousreply 51October 20, 2024 11:46 PM

"Some say the world will end in fire, some say in ice"

My money's on it ending with this thread.

by Anonymousreply 52October 20, 2024 11:56 PM

R43=CUNT

R45=CUNT

R46=CUNT

by Anonymousreply 53October 21, 2024 12:34 AM

R53 As a former 5 yr old I can relate.

by Anonymousreply 54October 21, 2024 12:36 AM

[quote] No. The rule is add 7 years to half your age. That is 14 1/2 + 7 = 21 1/2. So as long as he is 21 1/2 years old, OP is fine.

And the award for dumbest comment goes to ^

by Anonymousreply 55October 21, 2024 12:50 AM

Another Teacake talking to himself thread.

Best to block it.

by Anonymousreply 56October 21, 2024 12:51 AM

R56 Another loser obsessed with me going around psychotically thinking I’m making every mafuckin thread.

Muriel you see this shit?

by Anonymousreply 57October 21, 2024 12:52 AM

If you were 40 or over and dating a 23 year old, I would say that is pushing it, but if you are both in your twenties and have a 6 age difference, why is that a concern for anybody? Your sister sounds like a whack job.

by Anonymousreply 58October 21, 2024 1:54 AM

R22. I was. I totally was.

by Anonymousreply 59October 21, 2024 2:45 AM

I don’t know if OP is stealing posts from the AGB Subreddit or if a Redditor(s) is mining DL for content, but whatever, OP.

by Anonymousreply 60October 21, 2024 3:11 AM

If there's theft happening I think that we can easily assume that it's being done by OP / Teafake or one of its many aliases.

by Anonymousreply 61October 21, 2024 4:02 AM

this was a fun thread while we were throwing out document types.

now, not so much.

by Anonymousreply 62October 21, 2024 5:51 AM

Then fuck off, r62

by Anonymousreply 63October 21, 2024 5:59 AM

To get back on track, a joke:

A man came home one day to find his wife packing. He said, "just what do you think you're doing?" She answered, "Isn't it obvious? I'm leaving you. The neighbors all say you're a pedophile".

He looked at her and said, "Mighty big word for a 12 year old!"

by Anonymousreply 64October 21, 2024 8:03 AM

I just hate it when I get called "PDF FILE"

by Anonymousreply 65October 21, 2024 11:42 AM

A PDF FILE! Oh the HUMANITY!

by Anonymousreply 66October 21, 2024 12:09 PM

The term "PDF file" along with the terms "cheese pizza" (CP), "SA'd" and "unalive" are alternative phrases invented in recent years because YouTube has had a strict censorship algorithm for several years now where videos that mention or show certain things (there is a long dictionary of what you can and cannot say or do) will result in the video being flagged, reported and taken down or demonetized which also results in the user who created or posted the video receiving a strike on their YouTube account.

by Anonymousreply 67October 21, 2024 10:00 PM

is this shocking to u..as in, she is usually a great judge of things and so her opinion on this matter means she might have a point? Or is she always a nasty idiot? Shes being totally silly and WRONG...and maybe shes on her period or something...or shes going through something...but she is WRONG... Ask yourself, if she wasnt your sister, would she be someone whose opinion people generally took notice of? Please ask her, with full knowledge that ur doing zero wrong, whats her real problem? x

by Anonymousreply 68October 21, 2024 10:09 PM
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