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I’m in my early 40s and I’m suddenly finding myself attracted to guys in their late 50s.

Is this normal?

by Anonymousreply 18October 10, 2024 3:22 PM

Well, hello! How you doin'?

by Anonymousreply 1October 9, 2024 9:43 PM

Congratulations, you’re a gerontophiliac. Enjoy the lemon party.

by Anonymousreply 2October 9, 2024 9:46 PM

This has to be a troll post because it doesn’t make sense otherwise. A lot of people in their late 50s look forty something. Op are you saying you have only dated young twinkish guys.

by Anonymousreply 3October 9, 2024 9:48 PM

I'm in my early 70s. Suddenly, I find guys in their early 50s looking attractive. Is this normal?

by Anonymousreply 4October 9, 2024 9:52 PM

I am mid 40s and have ALWAYS found guys in their 50s hot.

My dream guy is a rugged 57 year old with alpha tendencies.

by Anonymousreply 5October 9, 2024 9:53 PM

I’m in my early 50s and I am suddenly finding adult teens attractive.

by Anonymousreply 6October 9, 2024 9:55 PM

I’m in my early 90s and find myself attracted to men over one hundred years of age

by Anonymousreply 7October 9, 2024 10:13 PM

[quote] Is this normal?

It depends. Are you broke? Broke 40 year olds usually find wealthy 50-somethings very attractive.

by Anonymousreply 8October 9, 2024 10:23 PM

Yes, OP, because you're only in your early 40s in your mind. While pushing 60, it's perfectly normal to be attracted to men your own age.

by Anonymousreply 9October 9, 2024 10:36 PM

There is no “normal.”

by Anonymousreply 10October 9, 2024 10:58 PM

It's the same as being attracted to a man in his 30s when you're in your 20s. Do you.

by Anonymousreply 11October 9, 2024 11:01 PM

Did this correspond with upper 20s to mid 30s guys no longer being attracted to you?

by Anonymousreply 12October 9, 2024 11:02 PM

R12 No, just that I’m traveling and I’m seeing all these hot white haired daddies on my gay apps. My partner is my age but he’s at home.

by Anonymousreply 13October 9, 2024 11:03 PM

R3. You pointing out "troll posts" is the most hypocritical things I've seen today. Congrats. Here's your white ribbon, TeaFake.

by Anonymousreply 14October 9, 2024 11:25 PM

Being attracted to guys is not normal, OP. But you don't worry if it is, right? Enjoy what you like.

by Anonymousreply 15October 9, 2024 11:56 PM

R14 It’s cause yall have built up in this narrative that was false from jump. Oh well. Damn right, I’m the one and only Teacake.

by Anonymousreply 16October 10, 2024 12:03 AM

R16. Duh...

by Anonymousreply 17October 10, 2024 12:48 AM

[quote] My partner is my age but he’s at home.

Have you asked your partner this question?

by Anonymousreply 18October 10, 2024 3:22 PM
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