Can’t Selena Gomez Have Fun With Her Girls (which includes Edgar Ramirez)?

Sometimes, you just need to let loose at a Sabrina Carpenter concert with your girlfriends! Even if that girlfriend is just your 47-year-old male co-star. Selena Gomez did just that at the New York concert date for Sabrina Carpenter’s Short n’ Sweet tour, which SelGo attended with Édgar Ramírez and model Connar Franklin and not her boyfriend, Benny Blanco. In Blanco’s apparent absence, a video of her dancing up on a different man went viral — her Emilia Pérez co-star Ramírez. In a since-deleted (but certainly still findable) clip, the two are seen canoodling in a way that, sorry, is definitely not giving off the vibe that Gomez is cheating on her boyfriend. Yes, they’re close, but they are clearly just girls having fun! People in the comments did not agree — because they are people who comment on TikToks, we assume — and seemed to imply she was cheating on Blanco. “Omg how dare I dance with my bestie,” Gomez posted on TikTok Stories in response. Literally, let them queen out.