How to accept being constantly hungry and unsatisfied for the rest of my life?
I read this post where someone said they’ve made peace with the idea that they’ll have to restrict calories forever, and, honestly, I guess that’s what I’m supposed to do too. Just accept that the rest of my life is going to be about feeling hungry and unsatisfied. Like, constantly. It’s not even 24/7 - it’s more like every second, all the time, just thinking about food.
I tell myself to stop eating because, really, what’s the point? It’s not like I’m going to feel satisfied anyway. But I could easily eat five to seven times what’s considered “okay” for me in terms of calories, and I can’t let that happen. Not anymore.
It’s not even about the macros or nutrients - they’re fine. It’s just... I never feel full. I’m always hungry, and when I overeat, I feel like crap. When I sit there, hungry as hell, I feel like crap too. It’s a lose-lose situation. This is my personal hell. I’ve got to figure out how to live with it.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | September 28, 2024 1:06 PM
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Some Essential Support Text for you:
Polyphagia (hyperphagia) is a feeling of extreme, insatiable hunger. It's a common sign of diabetes, but it can have other medical causes, such as hyperthyroidism and atypical depression. It's important to see a healthcare provider if you're experiencing polyphagia.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | September 27, 2024 11:13 PM
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Girl, get on Ozempic, it helps with this.
Otherwise, just do whatever you can to stay as healthy as possible. Walking, light weightlifting. Tell yourself — because it’s actually true — that it’s fine to be fat but it’s not fine to be lazy.
Trust me though, skinny people are no happier than you.
You will be okay, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | September 27, 2024 11:15 PM
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Get over your cheap self.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | September 27, 2024 11:16 PM
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Go on a semaglutide and shut up.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | September 27, 2024 11:18 PM
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You have to get on Ozempic or Mounjaro. I have no hunger throughout the entire day. I have to remind myself to eat sometimes because it’s been 16 hours since I even thought about food.
by Anonymous | reply 5 | September 27, 2024 11:19 PM
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I condole you, OP. Sincerely.
by Anonymous | reply 6 | September 27, 2024 11:20 PM
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Whenever I see an animal I realize that that animal is hungry, and instead of being an aberration or a pathology hunger is the default state of animal life and feeling satiated is just a transient experience that punctuates hunger.
by Anonymous | reply 7 | September 27, 2024 11:22 PM
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I’ve noticed if I just go 2-3 days with no sugar I stop craving just about everything outside of mealtimes.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | September 27, 2024 11:23 PM
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Fiber is the key to feeling full. Start taking Metamucil in the morning. Drink plenty of water. Eat half a grapefruit or an apple before breakfast and lunch. Have a green salad big enough to feed four people. If this doesn’t help, see a doctor.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | September 27, 2024 11:25 PM
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Keep apples and carrots on hand. If you're feeling snackish, ask yourself if you'd want to eat either. If not, you're not actually hungry and are just eating emotionally. Go for a walk around the block or something to distract yourself.
If you are actually hungry, eat as much as you want, you won't be able to eat that many before the fiber fills you up.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | September 27, 2024 11:30 PM
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Or just say fuck it and eat a pizza.
by Anonymous | reply 12 | September 27, 2024 11:30 PM
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r10, the OP doesn’t sound like a salad guy to me.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | September 27, 2024 11:35 PM
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Just savor the empty feeling in your stomach the same way you'd do the burn in your muscles during a workout.
by Anonymous | reply 14 | September 27, 2024 11:35 PM
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Not everything needs to be delicious, and it's a decadent mind that believes it should. Learn to eat simple things slowly and don't resent hunger. It's just a passing sensation. You're not going to fucking starve to death because your belly rumbles a couple times a day.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | September 27, 2024 11:36 PM
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The only thing that has been shown to work is the weekly injection.
by Anonymous | reply 16 | September 27, 2024 11:37 PM
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I think it's important to eat SLOWLY, and drink plenty of liquid, preferably water. My grandmother never had an ounce of fat on her and she at like a sloth, and never went back for seconds because 1 plate was plenty. "If I have to hurry I'd rather not eat." Lived to 99, RIP.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | September 27, 2024 11:38 PM
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The biggest mental thing that lead to my weight loss was the realization that I wasn't eating to stop feeling hungry, but that I was eating so I wouldn't feel hungry and really never allowed myself to feel hunger at all. Lots of things clicked into place after that.
by Anonymous | reply 20 | September 27, 2024 11:49 PM
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Bitch just skip to the end of this movie and get on Wegovy. Ignore these bitches and just get on semiglutide.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | September 27, 2024 11:50 PM
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You sound weak, OP. Plenty of indigenous South American languages don’t have any words or concepts for “hunger.” Asking “are you hungry” is like asking “do you need some air to breathe.”
by Anonymous | reply 22 | September 27, 2024 11:51 PM
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Don't listen to people telling you this is normal. This is a medical issue. It could be diabetes, hyperthyroidism, depression, a food addiction, a vagus nerve issue, or all kinds of things. You should not be insatiably hungry. Time to see the doctor, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | September 27, 2024 11:53 PM
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I don’t qualify for semaglutide because I’m at a healthy body weight.
by Anonymous | reply 24 | September 27, 2024 11:55 PM
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I 100% relate to OP. For the “it’s not that deep” crowd, you’re just as ignorant as straights who think being gay isn’t innate.
I’ve struggled more than I care to admit. I started on Zepbound about six weeks ago and I really haven’t been feeling hunger at all, although I do still sometimes crave food at night.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | September 27, 2024 11:55 PM
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This very issue may be the cause of my ennui and depression.
Can’t really enjoy food ever again. Life’s joy is removed by aging into a body that requires abstinence.
by Anonymous | reply 26 | September 27, 2024 11:59 PM
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OP I was like you once.
Then I was prescribed Wellbutrin for depression.
IT SHUT IT OFF. It shut the hungry voice off. And it made me more energetic than I’ve been in years. It’s basically an upper.
I just lost interest in food. Looking at food does nothing for me now. I am satisfied eating extremely small portions. I bought a regular sized roast beef sub the other day with a cookie. I could only eat half of the sandwich and half of the cookie. After I reach a certain point while eating, the hunger goes away. Even looking at what I’m eating after the hunger goes away, repulses me a little. I do not desire to eat, and I have all the energy in the world (I cannot drink coffee or soda anymore).
I lost forty pounds in a matter of months, without exercising. Because i now had so much energy, I started exercising. I am down another ten pounds and an with fifteen pounds of my goal weight.
The moral of my story is:
Do not give up until you try drugs.
by Anonymous | reply 27 | September 28, 2024 12:03 AM
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Just give in and be a Fat Whore.
Life is short.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | September 28, 2024 12:04 AM
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When you say no to that snack, you say yes to new clothes!
by Anonymous | reply 29 | September 28, 2024 12:07 AM
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[quote] I don’t qualify for semaglutide because I’m at a healthy body weight.
Wait, bitch ... what?
Bye.
by Anonymous | reply 30 | September 28, 2024 12:15 AM
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You can star in ads for the Hefty Hideaway!
by Anonymous | reply 31 | September 28, 2024 12:16 AM
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OP, Do you have a philtrum?
If not, check out Willi-Prader Syndrome. One symptom is perpetual hunger.
by Anonymous | reply 32 | September 28, 2024 12:27 AM
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OP just FYI this DOES NOT WORK FOR EVERYONE. It’s an antidepressant and also used to quit smoking. This is a side effect for SOME PEOPLE. It basically works like Ozempic but this is covered by my insurance. Ozempic you have to pay out of pocket.
Now is the perfect time to try it because it’s also used to treat Seasonal Affective Depression, when people get depressed because the days are becoming shorter. Just tell your doctor you have SAD, try it out and see if it works. If it doesn’t, try Ozempic.
Also:
The is an UPPER and I had to start taking adderall to counteract the hyperactivity. Additionally, I need to take a CBD gummy if I want to fall asleep.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | September 28, 2024 12:30 AM
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R27, R33, isn’t Adderall also an upper (that’s said to curb hunger)?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | September 28, 2024 12:37 AM
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OP Sorry we can't relate.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 35 | September 28, 2024 12:39 AM
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"Fiber is the key to feeling full. Start taking Metamucil in the morning. Drink plenty of water. Eat half a grapefruit or an apple before breakfast and lunch. Have a green salad big enough to feed four people. If this doesn’t help, see a doctor. "
I think OP is describing something beyond physical hunger. Clearly eating is his thing as a coping mechanism. All the nutrition info in the world won't matter. He'll still crave food.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | September 28, 2024 12:40 AM
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If you don't/can't take Ozempic/Mounjaro, then water, more water, and then high fiber/low calorie foods - oatmeal, beans, popcorn (without butter/salt).
Yeah I know dull, but better than felling like you are starving.
by Anonymous | reply 37 | September 28, 2024 12:41 AM
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R8 hit it right on the head.
It’s sugar. Sugar!
When you consume protein, fat and sugar together, the body takes the “easy way out”, and starts burning sugar, because it requires the least amount of energy of the three macro-groups. The body burns the sugar, and leaves the protein (which is not a bad thing) and the fat (which can be a bad thing), behind. Protein will eventually move to your muscles, but the fat, if not burned off fairly quickly, will go to your waist line, ass, hips… you get the picture.
Hence, Keto. Protein, healthy fats, and NO sugar in ALL its forms. R8 is spot on.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | September 28, 2024 12:51 AM
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OP Ask your doctor about this, insatiable hunger probably is an easily treated medical condition. Being a whiny bore you will have to bear as your true "personal hell".
by Anonymous | reply 40 | September 28, 2024 12:51 AM
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OP, I am a fat whore. I am fat because I overeat. I am eating and considering what I want to eat next and if I don't have a full kitchen I get borderline panicky. I will buy food before I will pay a bill with money that should go to that bill. Food is one of the first things I think about in the morning and last at night. I am almost never eating because I am hungry.
If you are eating the way that I do BECAUSE you're hungry, you need to see a doctor - for real. There are valid medical conditions that can contribute to that.
If you are eating the way that I do and you are actually NOT hungry all the time but trick yourself into thinking that's why you're eating all the time you need to see a psychiatrist (and I told you all that ugly embarrassing stuff about myself so that hopefully you will take this as kind, caring advice rather than thinking I am making fun of you)
by Anonymous | reply 41 | September 28, 2024 1:25 AM
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Adderall, caffeine. I’ve learned not to deny myself anything because then I obsess. If I want bologna sandwich I have one. But as a rule I don’t keep anything around that’s easy to eat. No snacks, bread, peanut butter, cookies, candy…most everything has to be cooked. I don’t eat that much as a rule but I’m on anti depressants so I am perpetually chubby.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | September 28, 2024 1:30 AM
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Find a nutritionist that will prescribe you cakes.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | September 28, 2024 1:32 AM
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Drugs? There’s zero calories in them.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | September 28, 2024 1:37 AM
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OP, Talenti pistachio gelato helps.
by Anonymous | reply 45 | September 28, 2024 2:05 AM
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This is the saddest thread on DL.
Eat a fucking cookie, freaks.
by Anonymous | reply 46 | September 28, 2024 2:25 AM
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You are likely eating primarily hyper-processed foods with minimal nutrition so your brain is telling you are always hungry. Try to eat less carbs and sugar and processed foods.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | September 28, 2024 2:39 AM
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OP - look up anabolic recipes, anabolic cooking, etc. on youtube - the whole point of that stuff is to be extremely filling while low calorie.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | September 28, 2024 2:47 AM
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OP, go on a semen diet. When you see men, go for it.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | September 28, 2024 5:03 AM
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R46 - “ This is the saddest thread on DL. Eat a fucking cookie, freaks.”
Yeah, right, Ms Sylvia… 😳
First of all, Ms. Sylvia comments like she is as wide as the Grand Canyon. Obviously, Ms. Sylvia has no idea about the effects of sugar and other macro nutrients in the body.
Stay fat, you obnoxious and aloof, fat fucker.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | September 28, 2024 7:29 AM
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r41 group therapy is an excellent idea!
Please see a doctor, OP.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | September 28, 2024 8:16 AM
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OP, get your doctor to investigate having diabetes and the other conditions listed above, as well as insulin resistance.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | September 28, 2024 9:30 AM
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OP, I've found R8's strategy very effective--no sugar or junk food, and the ravenous, constant hunger will subside. Also agree with R42 that nor having convenience foods in the house reduces the likelihood of overeating and especially impulse eating.
Air-popped popcorn with a drizzle of olive oil is a filling, tasty snack; the combination of fiber and fat will quell hunger for hours.
Good luck--
by Anonymous | reply 53 | September 28, 2024 12:56 PM
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If you’re overeating but you’re maintaining a normal weight, then what’s the problem? Maybe you have a tapeworm.
by Anonymous | reply 54 | September 28, 2024 1:06 PM
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