The gay community sucks!

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Such a special snowflake.

If the "gay community" sucks, it's because it has assholes like this guy.

I’d like to know what’s better? The heterosexual community?

totally agree with him (cute guy too🔥)

Sounds like he's going after 'scene queens'. We all know what I'm talking about.

Then he goes off about a couple he met on GRINDR and that he went to their house and they were wanting sex.

He needs to join some clubs or organizations or something. There's some truth to what he's talking about in terms that there are a lot of guys who are addicted to the apps and sex. So get off the apps!

And he needs to talk with some straight guys to get their experience with dating, apps and friendships. Holy shit is that a clown show!

I feel bad for these straight-acting-looking gays or bi's. Twenty years ago they'd have married women and cheated on the side for their penile needs. But now they're making a go of it, and hitting the brick wall that longtime gays know only too well. They're used to bros and brahs, and homos just don't do that.

All I can say is you just have to search and search and wade through the trash til you find something good. Or do like me and just become your own best friend.

He's cute, but...

He doesn't want to be judged, yet, he's judgey. ( mocked a sex partner for having gay voice)

Doesn't approve of slutty gays, he's obviously slutty.

He uses "like" & "basically" way too often, he sounds like someone appearing on "Judge Judy".

[quote] Twenty years ago they'd have married women and cheated on the side for their penile needs. But now they're making a go of it, and hitting the brick wall that longtime gays know only too well. They're used to bros and brahs, and homos just don't do that.

This is exactly my predicament. You described everything perfectly. I really want to find my best friend that I can share everything with and do everything with, but we also have a sexual relationship. Most gays don't seem to understand this kind of dynamic. Basically, I want a fellow, "bro." A guy who's like-minded. I like to "chill," but most gays find that boring . I'm constantly meeting guys whose energy level is at a 10, where's mine is more like a 6 or 7. For some weird naive reason, I thought I would have an easier time than I'm having. Ironically, I attract more women that I'm interested in rather than the type of guy I really want. Just like the guy in the video said hookups don't feel satisfying. I want more. I haven't given up, but for right now, I'm just focused on trying to live a full life and hope that I come across what I'm looking for soon.

Maybe you should try being straight, R8.

We gays are too awful for you.

Anybody who starts a video with, “hey you guys…”

Nah.

R10 is just jealous of masculine gays.

I've met a lot of guys like this. They're homo, but they're not behaviorally GAY gay, and they think that makes them a fucking unicorn with absolutely no place to fit in. Yet they're everywhere.

Part of it is that if it really is challenging to find compatible friends and relationship partners in this world. But part of it also is, if you can configure reality in such a way that your disappointment is all other people's fault, that gets you off the hook for trying to improve your disappointing friendships and relationships situation. You can just blame "them" for it. These particular kinds of gay men seem really, really good at doing that.

Whiner.

“Hey you guys” is masc?

….

He speaks like a Valley Girl.

I'm assuming he's a bottom.

He is pretty hot but seems as vacuous as the “community” he criticizes. Is he looking for friends and relationships or just a “gay sex frat” to, like, hang with.

It only took 30 seconds to figure out he’s the problem.

I think that what he says is like, kind of like, right? Like, totally? I mean, the connections he makes via hook up apps that were designed to facilitate one night stands are like, so superficial and like, that's not cool? I mean like, who would have thought that this was possible? Like, I know, right?

And the guys he hooks up with who are like, friends of other guys he hooks up with, don't take him seriously even though they're hot and he is hot and like, this is proof that they gay community like, sucks ass? And some random guy with whom he was fuckbuddies showed his like, texts to his friends and stuff, and that was like, embarrassing, you know? Because like, he sounds like such a deep, spiritual and emotionally mature person and like, others don't connect with him because he is an Only Fans whore and has sex with multiple people and like, that's not cool? Like, totally!

And he claims to be an introvert and like, he goes to parties and fucks around and doesn't like it but then, he like needs to build his social circle and he like, regrets that the people he meets on Grindr (you know, a hook up app) only want like, sex and are not like, normal? It's just so frustrating and he feels like, disrespected? Like, whatever! It's always so sexual when you're sending nudes to people and they like, don't want to become best friends?

Maybe he should like, stop talking like a vapid fourteen-year-old girl and expand his social circle beyond the Party-and-Play crowd? You know it's like, just a suggestion? Because like, in that way, he would like, meet other types of people?

He's not wrong though he is painfully stupid, and with a vocabulary that works weeks on end without exceeding the frame of 750 or 1000 words.

He complains of the gay community being sex-centric, but his plans to enlarge his circle of friends all center around "meeting cute guys" on sex apps and then, ever so reluctantly, having great sex with them.

If the community he seeks is up his ass, he will find plenty.

If he wants friends, stop searching for them on Grindr.

He makes my penis hard. He just needs to shut up look pretty. I'll take care of the rest.

Being a femme lesbian, I somewhat relate to what this guy is going through. You are invisible and feel as though you don’t fit in comfortably anywhere. I’ve had some great relationships in my life, but I’ve always tended to have more in common with straight women than lesbians.

I am my own best friend.

This guy wants a relationship not just a one stand.

[quote]I feel bad for these straight-acting-looking gays or bi's. Twenty years ago they'd have married women and cheated on the side for their penile needs.

Oh for fuck's sake. "Straight-acting" gay men were just as out and horny for dick 20 years ago as we are now. We're just as homosexual as the flamboyant yasss kweeen princesses and we've been out and proud forever too.

[quote] They're used to bros and brahs, and homos just don't do that.

You need to get out of your ghetto once in a while.

r12 it's actually because we can't stand drama queens who embody every negative stereotype of gay man. Prissy, bitchy, and pissy. Everything is amped up to 10 and they're always "on." It's tedious and tiresome.

She has "merch."

A big part of his problem is that he lives in Arizona. Not exactly a lot of options there.

Looser,

He’s a crashing bore.

Couldn't have said it better myself r22.

9-outta-10 gay men are sociopathic whores unable to form deep relationships. They trick with strangers then run back to their straight and lesbian faghags for friendship.

Do what the rest us did back in the day. Find a one -night stand that comes back for more and then get to know him. 29 years and counting for us.

The real problem is that everyone wants to suck his dick.

Seriously.

"The gay community sucks very well indeed."

fixed for OP

If he was less hot, he wouldn't have this problem.

Everyone wants to have sex with him.

This kweeen doesn't allow comments on his self-centered, I-am-a-victim videos. I wonder why. (Not really)

Bitch, puh-leeeze.

You know a guy is an asshole when he says “straight acting” instead of “masculine”.

"It almost feels like a LOT of it was a waste of time."

May I belatedly welcome you to life on planet Earth?

R30 and you'd pop your teeth out and your hip replacement up to get a wiff of his butt crack.

No wonder he’s single.

[quote] I'm assuming he's a bottom.

He's most definitely a bottom. In the video, he talks about sending some guy "thirsty horny texts," which is only something a bottom would do. Tops don't need to send thirsty texts.

Good one, R31. 👍

Versatile doesn't exist on DL.

1 in 20 gay men are tops. That's the problem. Why don't they have classes to teach gays to top?

And I've always thought half of bottoms are trans. I'm glad so many are coming out of the closet and getting hotmones now.

Most of us are decent at sucking, but yeah I’ve learned that sometimes you just need to stay a half step back for self preservation. If a community doesn’t seem to have the energy you want or shares your values, why waste the energy?

Why do people with so much to say to us feel they need to say it from the front seat of a car?

Has he nowhere else to, like, go?

Visually this young man is very pleasing. However his voice inflections remind me of the neurotic upper class white , blonde 20 year old Sorority girl. I applaud his honesty, but I feel that he lacks self-awareness in terms of all of his interactions with men that seem to come from the apps. It's the same road all of us have gone down "expecting more but settling for less". He needs to step away from the apps, stop hooking up with people from the gym, and find some activity where he can socialize where there's no subscript of sexual behavior as being the end goal.

This ASMR guy dumped his fat boyfriend because he wanted to do an only fans and the fat bf wasn't cool with that. I made that up to the extent he never said that, but the timing of what I said is true, so I'm thinking that played a role.

And now he's doing the grindr slut thing while pretendng he's not doing the grindr slut thing. And he's as judgy as all the other queens he complains about. He just has a dumb somewhat masc sounding delivery that might fool some people at first into thinking he's a nice guy.

BTW, I couldn't make it through the whole vid. He talks so damn slow and sounds stupid.

He is significantly more twinky in his older videos. He has butched up a bit. Not that there is anything wrong with either.

This guy is wearing the stereotypical uniform of a gay guy who wants to appear butch.

The baseball cap, the beard, the tight t-shirt.

He clearly wants everyone to think he's straight, when really he's a big old queen.

Who does he think he's fooling??

r51 believe it or not but many gay men dress in conventional styles that men wear in the year 2024. Just because you're gay doesn't mean you're a flaming lisping queen who dresses like Frankie Grande. They dress just like any other guy you'd see walking around.

Some of you are so out of touch with reality it's insane.

Well, that’s relief I’m going to take my heels off.

Stop wallowing in self-pity. Put the phone away from Grindr and get out and do what you like to do. Find a sport or activity and you'll meet someone.

R54, that is a lesson I keep forgetting so many times in my life. When I just get out and do things not desperate to find someone, I do find social companions and often some friends. They may not be BFF but who ever is?

If I walked into a house and the hosts were just in their underwear with purple LED lights, I'd run for my life.

What *exactly* does the "gay community" consist of?

loons (seems like for the most part unfortunately)😆

Guurl Please! She's not fooling anyone. This is not a video looking for sympathy, this is a marketing video. She's looking for some straight dick

He can’t be that stupid/damaged, R59

agreed R10

More like looking for views, R69. The only videos he does that get decent views are the ones about tattoos, coming out and how much gay people suck.