This Bottom Needs a Top ASAP

He answered his own question when he said "I'm not completely at ease with who I am". If you're gay and not proud to be gay, you're apt to always be on the losing end of the stick. I suspect he grew up in a very homophobic household and the idea that being gay was, is, and always will be bad, and all gay people will end up in Hell. It would be hard to shake that kind of indoctrination from people you consider love-ones if you're doing it on your own.

He needs lots and lots of positive interaction from other gays. He just needs to find out where to find that where he lives. He's not going to find that in most any gay bar or other gay entertainment establishments because most people in those places are there for one reason, to get laid. They don't want real friendship with other gays. They just want a hot man who'll get them off and then get the fuck out.

I feel for him, but seems to have faced his solitude with a mature level of understanding. I don't know if he's clinically depressed by it as I'm not qualified to make an opinion. But frankly, if he really truly wants real and devoted friends badly enough he'll go out and find them. They're out there for us gays, but they rarely come and find you.

SURE.

That poor Onlyfans whore.

Self pity while flaunting your body is not attractive.

For once, the first response, R1 is not snarky and very heartfelt.

The extended frame of his almost naked ass destroys all pretense that this is some heartfelt confessional.

I've seen less skin on OF.

It feels like a lot of thirst traps wrapped up in self pity.

If he was talking to the camera fully clothed it would have a completely different feel to it.

No one would watch his video if he were fully clothed. He’s not dumb.

I guess the take-away is that you can be hot and get laid all you want but maybe you can’t make a connection.

What a fucking MARY!

the dramatic emotional voiceover while he flaunts his ass and thighs is ridiculous

Made it through the first minute.

R9 Yeah, a child even knows that!

"I'm gonna get real deep and tell you what it's like to be a gay man living alone. But first, let me take off my clothes so I can tell you what it's like wearing only my Speedo."

Nothing worse than a hot guy bitching about being hot.

[quote]If you're gay and not proud to be gay, you're apt to always be on the losing end of the stick.

Take. The. Stick. Out. Of. Your. Ass. R1.

MARY!!

I think he needs to contract out the voiceover role to Ze Frank…

Are we sure this isn't a parody? Obviously he has one friend willing to film this blather.

Nope, not a parody. Look at his other videos. He LOOOOOOVES wearing spedos. And the attention he gets. Kind of a lonely thirsty trap guy. One of his videos is about how he hates Grinder but kept using it.

I was waiting for the moment when he would just come out and say that everything finally made sense when he got diagnosed with Level 1 Autism Spectrum Disorder... but no

[quote]This Bottom Needs a Top ASAP

Soon to be the new tagline of the Datalounge.

I have that "tagline" as a tattoo, R21.

Is this his Grindr profile, if so I'd of fallen asleep pretty early on.

A purple shirt with blue pants is unforgivable.