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50 year old Tobey Maguire with 20 year old girlfriend

Leo’s protégé

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by Anonymousreply 166July 12, 2024 3:39 AM

If it's not illegal, who cares?

by Anonymousreply 1July 7, 2024 12:42 AM

How the hell do these young women hook up like this? She's no 'model' - attractive enough I guess, but c'mon.

by Anonymousreply 2July 7, 2024 12:44 AM

It’s starting to be obvious that all the models are escorts or yacht girls.

by Anonymousreply 3July 7, 2024 12:47 AM

All the …so called models…

by Anonymousreply 4July 7, 2024 12:47 AM

"Lily Chee is a New York based Actress, Model and Social Media Personality. Lily has worked on numerous productions as an actress and model. Lily was discovered at age 10, after her soccer game by her now manager, and since then she has rose in the industry and been nominated for an award for Best Breakout YouTuber."

by Anonymousreply 5July 7, 2024 12:48 AM

…she has rose… Did she write this?

by Anonymousreply 6July 7, 2024 12:51 AM

Toby should date in his own demographic - 40 to 55.

by Anonymousreply 7July 7, 2024 12:52 AM

She must have been so disappointed when Leo asked her if she wanted to meet Spider-Man and Tugboat came out rather than Tom Holland.

by Anonymousreply 8July 7, 2024 12:53 AM

Isn't he considered one of Hollywood's most despicable people?

by Anonymousreply 9July 7, 2024 12:55 AM

She isn’t even old enough to legally drink in NY. A lovely couple.

by Anonymousreply 10July 7, 2024 12:57 AM

He looks Miami Vice

by Anonymousreply 11July 7, 2024 12:57 AM

it just looks so pathetic. Do these guys not get that this has become so sadly pathetic. This whole daughter-girlfriend look. It just doesn't work anymore at all. It does the opposite of what they think it does. You just look old and sad when you do this.

by Anonymousreply 12July 7, 2024 12:58 AM

R10 I believe she *is* old enough to date, though.

by Anonymousreply 13July 7, 2024 12:59 AM

OP = hysterical Zoomer who thinks childhood doesn’t end until you’re 35. Tobey is obviously a pedophile.

by Anonymousreply 14July 7, 2024 1:01 AM

R12 better not be a gay man spewing that garbage.

by Anonymousreply 15July 7, 2024 1:01 AM

why r15? Are you some old queen trolling for 20-somethings?

by Anonymousreply 16July 7, 2024 1:03 AM

R12 Maybe he's not dating her for how it looks. Maybe he likes getting that young bod in the sheets.

by Anonymousreply 17July 7, 2024 1:07 AM

He's such a moody and unpleasant asshole, she'll have a difficult time with him.

by Anonymousreply 18July 7, 2024 2:03 AM

[quote] Are you some old queen trolling for 20-somethings?

Gay culture is obsessed with twinks, people who look like children. Over half of this site drools over them and the average age of DL is over 50.

by Anonymousreply 19July 7, 2024 2:11 AM

R2 the picture is blurry but that girl is stunning.

by Anonymousreply 20July 7, 2024 2:24 AM

R20 - not really - she's just 20 and thin.

by Anonymousreply 21July 7, 2024 2:40 AM

That kid is Lily Chee - she got in trouble for bullying other teenage girls by catfishing them, getting and then distributing their nudes to her male friends.

by Anonymousreply 22July 7, 2024 2:43 AM

R5 “she has rose”

Oh, dear sweet Jesus

by Anonymousreply 23July 7, 2024 2:47 AM

R9 not at all

by Anonymousreply 24July 7, 2024 2:49 AM

R12, I agree that it is pathetic. Surely there is a gorgeous wannabe in her late 20s or 30s who is equally as eager to fuck for connections. Someone a 50 year old can actually have an intelligent conversation with, as well as a drink with legally.

by Anonymousreply 25July 7, 2024 2:50 AM

She is a pretty bitch plain and simply. Probably has a tight wet pussy too.

by Anonymousreply 26July 7, 2024 2:54 AM

If you bitches were hot and could fuck guys and girls in their 20s you would too.

by Anonymousreply 27July 7, 2024 2:54 AM

Proof positive his dick is tiny.

by Anonymousreply 28July 7, 2024 3:21 AM

He's supposedly a degenerate gambler.

by Anonymousreply 29July 7, 2024 3:48 AM

I'm 44 and I hook up fairly often with dudes in the early twenties or sometimes 20 and a couple years ago 19 year old. I don't feel damned bit sad about it when I was 16 17 I was picking up with 40 and 50 year olds. I wouldn't I'm 20 still usually my cut off. As long as everybody's of the age of consent I don't really give a f*** what anybody else thinks about it.

by Anonymousreply 30July 7, 2024 3:56 AM

Is he still a complete piece of shit?

I just watched Molly's Game the other day and went down the internet rabbit hole learning about what a malevolent psycho he had been

by Anonymousreply 31July 7, 2024 4:00 AM

Sure, Jan.

by Anonymousreply 32July 7, 2024 4:03 AM

Isn't he a closet case?

Do he and Leo still hook up?

by Anonymousreply 33July 7, 2024 4:06 AM

He's always looked low T

by Anonymousreply 34July 7, 2024 4:14 AM

Lilly has a looong history - Reddit has all the T.

She a straight up bitch and liar.

Oh Toby!

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by Anonymousreply 35July 7, 2024 5:03 AM

Miss Chee sounds awful, bullying another girl and circulating underage nudes of her : (

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by Anonymousreply 36July 7, 2024 5:24 AM

Isn’t he still married?

by Anonymousreply 37July 7, 2024 5:31 AM

I hope these two nasty people choke on their own misery.

by Anonymousreply 38July 7, 2024 5:38 AM

He's not right in the head, lots of mental issues.

by Anonymousreply 39July 7, 2024 5:47 AM

At OP, he looks really embarrassed, like he got busted for doing something.

Chris Rock, when he got divorced, started dating one or two (or more) really young (20s-looking) women. There was a photo of him on one of his dates and he looked so embarrassed and awkward.

by Anonymousreply 40July 7, 2024 5:50 AM

I wouldn't be shocked if Tobey Maguire wandered onto the set of Babylon one day, and then Damien Chazelle told him it was a documentary and just started filming. I think that movie captured his actual personality better than any of the roles that made him famous.

by Anonymousreply 41July 7, 2024 5:56 AM

If they’re happy with each other, what’s it to you?

by Anonymousreply 42July 7, 2024 6:16 AM

Why are men like this??

by Anonymousreply 43July 7, 2024 6:38 AM

Nothing says "courage of convictions" like a full paragraph where you explain yourself, r30

by Anonymousreply 44July 7, 2024 6:50 AM

R42 has lost his GPS.

by Anonymousreply 45July 7, 2024 7:07 AM

He looks gross and she sounds gross, so let them take each other off the market and spare normal people.

by Anonymousreply 46July 7, 2024 7:51 AM

[quote]Chris Rock, when he got divorced, started dating one or two (or more) really young (20s-looking) women. There was a photo of him on one of his dates and he looked so embarrassed and awkward.

Must have been early after his divorce because he was papped more often with Megalyn Echikunwoke and then Lake Bell - neither were in their twenties.

[quote]I wouldn't be shocked if Tobey Maguire wandered onto the set of Babylon one day, and then Damien Chazelle told him it was a documentary and just started filming. I think that movie captured his actual personality better than any of the roles that made him famous.

I loved "Babylon" but the scenes with Maguire's character was drawn out and awful. But he was one of the producers so of course he made sure to get a chance to chew scenery.

by Anonymousreply 47July 7, 2024 8:03 AM

[quote]If they’re happy with each other, what’s it to you?

If DL-ers enjoy gossiping about preposterous showbiz couples, what's it to YOU?

by Anonymousreply 48July 7, 2024 8:06 AM

r30 "I wouldn't I'm 20 still usually my cut off."

Oh, ok

by Anonymousreply 49July 7, 2024 8:10 AM

How did he get any acting jobs? He’s terrible and not well liked. Someone more talented should replace him.

by Anonymousreply 50July 7, 2024 8:19 AM

All,the pictures from the White Party are kind of gross. Lots of rappers, athletes, D list celebs and escort type women. I think celebrity culture is done.

by Anonymousreply 51July 7, 2024 8:52 AM

I personally think that anything more than a 10 year age difference is just weird and gross. 6-9 years is borderline. I just can't imagine looking at a 20 year old woman, who was a goddamn infant when I graduated high school and see her as a potential candidate for a partner.

That's a kid to me. Moreover, when I was 20 myself, 30 was "old" in my eyes. Grey hairs meant they were damn-near elderly as far as I was concerned. So I don't understand how or why people in their early 20s can even find middle aged people physically attractive. Old, sagging, wrinkling, liver-spotted, dry, brittle, skin is not appealing.

by Anonymousreply 52July 7, 2024 9:06 AM

r52 Johnny Depp was 38 in the movie Blow and he was hotter than any 20-something guy.

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by Anonymousreply 53July 7, 2024 9:34 AM

This idea that some power or resource imbalance is inherently abuse is so stupid. Intellectual or experiential equality isn’t what makes romance work. It isn’t completely necessary to be on “the same level” whatever that means and I think there’s something going on with Americans who lack friends/social communities and therefore try to turn their partners into friends and parents too. I understand these two are cunts but some of us get to have hot ass forever. Let’s not be bitter about it.

by Anonymousreply 54July 7, 2024 10:09 AM

r54 I've always found it weird how if a younger person is dating an older person, it's automatically seen as abuse or "he/she has so much more power than that kid". Like, obviously anyone underage is off limits, but I don't believe for a second young people in their early 20s are innocent little lambs being led astray by old pervs. Look at the sluts on pornhub--they're mad for sex and would fuck anyone for money and attention. Look at the young trash on Love Island.

It's like saying a 40 year old poor redneck has more power than billionaire Kylie Jenner, just because she's younger.

by Anonymousreply 55July 7, 2024 10:23 AM

I never blame the young person or think it’s abuse. I just find it strange that someone in their late 40s (or above) is fine spending so much time with a 20 year old. What do they even talk about? It reflects poorly on the older person and how emotionally stunted they are.

If it’s just sex - whatever - go for it. But to be in an actual relationship with that big an age gap and the younger partner is under 25… that’s fucked up. And not for the younger one.

by Anonymousreply 56July 7, 2024 12:17 PM

This has been going on for so many decades in Hollywood.

by Anonymousreply 57July 7, 2024 12:25 PM

[quote]It reflects poorly on the older person and how emotionally stunted they are.

it could. or it could be a scenario of no one else wants to talk to the older person

by Anonymousreply 58July 7, 2024 12:38 PM

I don't know why it's assumed that a person in their 20s has nothing to talk about. Assuming the younger and older person are reasonably engaged in society, they have current events to talk about, maybe they have other things in common - liking the same movies or being the same religion, or having a similar philosophy of life. Maybe they both like the same sports teams, or like the same kinds of dogs, or horseback riding...you really don't know.

by Anonymousreply 59July 7, 2024 12:54 PM

[quote] So I don't understand how or why people in their early 20s can even find middle aged people physically attractive. Old, sagging, wrinkling, liver-spotted, dry, brittle, skin is not appealing.

R52: “Imagine people having attractions that don’t conform precisely with mine! How is that possible??”

by Anonymousreply 60July 7, 2024 12:55 PM

She can show him the naked pictures of girls she bullied. I’m sure he’d be interested in that. So they do have some common interests.

by Anonymousreply 61July 7, 2024 12:58 PM

R60 Middle-aged people are between 40 and 60, they aren't 80.

by Anonymousreply 62July 7, 2024 1:03 PM

[QUOTE]Miss Chee sounds awful, bullying another girl and circulating underage nudes of her : (

If there's evidence of this, she could be prosecuted for distributing pornography of minors and be put on a sex offender list of found guilty.

One can hope.

by Anonymousreply 63July 7, 2024 1:06 PM

R59 good point, you’re right. I just find the interests of a 22 year old wildly different from my own (at 43) despite both being engaged in society. Even with coworkers that age, I’m aware of the age gap and how I’m closer in age to their father than them. We can chat and get along, but there’s a point where both of us are done talking and move onto people our own age group.

by Anonymousreply 64July 7, 2024 1:09 PM

[quote] I don't know why it's assumed that a person in their 20s has nothing to talk about.

Especially when even a 20 year-old could already have two or three years under their belt studying and attending classes at university, while the 40-something hasn’t attended a lecture in decades…

by Anonymousreply 65July 7, 2024 1:10 PM

I'm sure these two are equally superficial, so I strongly suspect conversation isn't valued much except for some industry talk with a sprinkling of jargon about global warming and other environmental causes to show their "care/concern" for the world. And their sensitivity.

by Anonymousreply 66July 7, 2024 1:24 PM

[post redacted because linking to dailymail.co.uk clearly indicates that the poster is either a troll or an idiot (probably both, honestly.) Our advice is that you just ignore this poster but whatever you do, don't click on any link to this putrid rag.]

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by Anonymousreply 67July 7, 2024 1:25 PM

Isn't he supposed to be weird as fuck? I mean, even weirder than most Hollywood stars. More like freaky weird.

by Anonymousreply 68July 7, 2024 1:34 PM

R56 maybe they have a similar sense of humor or enjoy doing the same things with their time. Their conversations might be more lighthearted. With Toby and Lilly they probably have a great time planning how to torment and exploit people together. On a more serious note - not every 20 something is a frivolous idiot and not everyone who’s older is terribly sophisticated or wants to talk deep about literature and politics with their partner.

by Anonymousreply 69July 7, 2024 1:46 PM

R68 yeah, he loansharks private poker games and talked about how he tries his hardest to loan people more than they can afford because he gets off on ruining lives

by Anonymousreply 70July 7, 2024 1:47 PM

Wasn't Jerry Seinfeld about 40 when he was dated a 17-year old?

by Anonymousreply 71July 7, 2024 1:47 PM

R70 - I didn't know about the loan sharking, but I recall he had a pretty rough childhood and assumed there was residual fallout from that.

by Anonymousreply 72July 7, 2024 1:51 PM

They must have such stimulating conversations.

by Anonymousreply 73July 7, 2024 2:16 PM

Tbh, if I didn’t recognize him and I saw OP’s pic, I wouldn’t necessarily notice the age gap.

by Anonymousreply 74July 7, 2024 2:26 PM

R74, she looks way old for her age.

by Anonymousreply 75July 7, 2024 2:29 PM

[quote] If DL-ers enjoy gossiping about preposterous showbiz couples, what's it to YOU?

I’m not objecting to gossip. I’m objecting to moralizing about their ages.

by Anonymousreply 76July 7, 2024 2:34 PM

She wasn't even born when his first Spider Man movie came out.

by Anonymousreply 77July 7, 2024 2:50 PM

It is amusing that some here are reacting to age, interests, and compatibility.

People, people. None of the above is why this pairing is risible.

by Anonymousreply 78July 7, 2024 2:50 PM

Tricks are for kids dude.

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by Anonymousreply 79July 7, 2024 3:06 PM

[quote]Eating Just Makes Everything Better

I think at least we can all agree that not eating eventually makes everything worse.

by Anonymousreply 80July 7, 2024 3:07 PM

Sorry, people. DL is loading so slowly for me tonight that I actually posted the above on a thread with that title, then opened this one, and you see the result.

Is anyone else having major loading problems?

by Anonymousreply 81July 7, 2024 3:45 PM

49 yr old women want a lot for sucking dick.

by Anonymousreply 82July 7, 2024 3:46 PM

She looks cheap.

by Anonymousreply 83July 7, 2024 3:47 PM

R31 is right.

It is widely believed (including by Michael Cera, who played him in the movie) that Maguire was in RL the high-stakes player known as "Player X" in the book and film Molly's Game. That character is a true psychopath. He tells Molly he doesn't even enjoy playing poker, he just enjoys the opportunities it gives him to destroy people. Then he goes ahead and destroys her.

by Anonymousreply 84July 7, 2024 3:57 PM

[quote] Surely there is a gorgeous wannabe in her late 20s or 30s who is equally as eager to fuck for connections.

Or 60s.

by Anonymousreply 85July 7, 2024 4:08 PM

This is from a DL thread 5 years ago. Some of these old threads were closed fairly early, wonder why.

[quote] I worked at a NYC boutique hotel way back in the day, and I distinctly remember Leo and a bunch of his male friends staying at the hotel. Leo's hair was so long at that time that he wore a girl's headband to keep the hair out of his eyes. I distinctly remember Tobey Maguire as one of the guys staying with Leo -how can you not remember those beady eyes of his? They called down to the front desk for a gay porn video, although for the life of me, I can't remember the title of the movie!

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by Anonymousreply 86July 7, 2024 4:44 PM

R51 is code language for too many blacks. Don’t beat around the bush.

by Anonymousreply 87July 7, 2024 4:47 PM

R84 People throw out the word sociopath too loosely nowadays. It’s a mafuckin gambling game. Can’t stand the heat get out in the kitchen.

by Anonymousreply 88July 7, 2024 4:48 PM

"get out in the kitchen"

It's "get out OF the kitchen," teafake.

by Anonymousreply 89July 7, 2024 4:51 PM

R89 I know it was a typo.

by Anonymousreply 90July 7, 2024 5:03 PM

As a lifelong member of The Profession, it bothers me greatly that they’re calling this little chit “an actress.”

When has the vulgar chi-chi ever “acted,” aside from acting [italic]thrilled[/italic] to receive the next bukkake blast to the face? I ask you!

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by Anonymousreply 91July 7, 2024 5:08 PM

R79, "Tricks"? Uh, no.

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by Anonymousreply 92July 7, 2024 5:15 PM

[quote] Isn't he a closet case?

Do he and Leo still hook up?

You're thinking of Lukas Haas R33 who is the true love of Leo's life. Leo and Toby do not 'hook up' with each other.

by Anonymousreply 93July 7, 2024 5:26 PM

OK GROOMER!!!

by Anonymousreply 94July 7, 2024 5:29 PM

His wife claims they aren't dating, but it's not as if he would tell her if they were.

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by Anonymousreply 95July 7, 2024 5:36 PM

Why even bother responding (Jen Meyer). Kindly helping a friend to her car. Whatever.

by Anonymousreply 96July 7, 2024 6:05 PM

Jen Meyer should just STFU and enjoy living off of daddy's money.

by Anonymousreply 97July 7, 2024 6:14 PM

To R31 and R84....you are correct!! Tobey is a whiny bitch!

I met Miss Tobey 3 times over the years while gambling with "Da big Dogs" in LA& Vegas.

BTW, I'm a terrible gambler but I have the ability to piss people off!!

by Anonymousreply 98July 7, 2024 6:35 PM

I'm more disgusted by white shirt-white pants-white sneakers combo

by Anonymousreply 99July 7, 2024 6:39 PM

100!

by Anonymousreply 100July 7, 2024 6:42 PM

More importantly: How is he 50 already?

by Anonymousreply 101July 7, 2024 6:52 PM

[QUOTE]Miss Chee sounds awful, bullying another girl and circulating underage nudes of her : ( If there's evidence of this, she could be prosecuted for distributing pornography of minors and be put on a sex offender list of found guilty.

[QUOTE]One can hope.

Why has "Miss Chee" been excuplated of sexually predatory behavior of a minor? Does Toby Maguire have Scientology plants inside the LAPD and the county Sheriff like Danny Masterson did through Scientology? That cult kept him out of prison for nearly TWO decades after horrific assaults covered up and obstructing justice through their relations with LA courts and law enforcement agencies.

by Anonymousreply 102July 7, 2024 6:53 PM

Maguire was almost fired from Spider Man 2 and replaced with Jake G because he was such a pain in the ass.

by Anonymousreply 103July 7, 2024 6:55 PM

Some men get off on being with a young woman they perceived as a blank skate that they can teach and mold into their Eliza Doolitle. Gross.

Other men don't think they age (at least consciously) and so dating a 20 yr old is no problem. A woman their actual age would be way too old for them! Wrinkles! Gross.

by Anonymousreply 104July 7, 2024 7:00 PM

As he aged, Cary Grant kept marrying younger and younger women. Sad.

by Anonymousreply 105July 7, 2024 7:01 PM

[quote][R52] Johnny Depp was 38 in the movie Blow and he was hotter than any 20-something guy.

r53 Bruh. He was 38. Not 58. That movie came out when I was in 9th grade. He seemed old to me then, and he seems old to me now. I saw people in their 30s as "grown-ups" and authority figures. Authority figures weren't attractive to me. Also, Johnny Depp is older than both of my parents. By default, anyone who is a peer of my parents is unattractive to me. I can't help it.

For example, Halle Berry is gorgeous to me even at 57, but not "I want to date her" gorgeous. I see her as an "elder" and elders aren't for dating. They're for mentorship and/or friendship only.

by Anonymousreply 106July 7, 2024 10:35 PM

YES, but Halle is a Super Duper CUNT of the First Class!!

by Anonymousreply 107July 7, 2024 11:09 PM

Tobey hasn't looked that clean in years.

by Anonymousreply 108July 7, 2024 11:32 PM

[quote]As a PA on one of his movies, I can confirm he is a DOUCHE. Also, a total pedo. He was overly interested in a 16 year old on set. Bleh.

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by Anonymousreply 109July 7, 2024 11:42 PM

Did David Blaine disappear up their old saggy closeted asses?

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by Anonymousreply 110July 7, 2024 11:47 PM

He is 50 already? Since he's always looked like a scrawny, ugly 12-year-old nerd, I thought that he was much younger. It's indeed creepy that he's with a girl who was born when he was already a grown man but, then again, he won't be the first wealthy guy to publicly display his power by "buying" himself a young piece of arm candy.

By the way, when was the last time that he appeared in an even moderately relevant film? I swear I hadn't heard anything about him since 2010.

by Anonymousreply 111July 8, 2024 12:02 AM

[quote]By the way, when was the last time that he appeared in an even moderately relevant film? I swear I hadn't heard anything about him since 2010.

He's a prima donna and difficult to work with and he was never a big enough star for people to put up with that kind of bullshit.

by Anonymousreply 112July 8, 2024 12:20 AM

[quote]I have friends that worked on Spiderman 3 and Wonderboys. They have nothing nice to say about Tobey at all. Basically the nice way to repeat what they said is that he is a spoiled dick that treats everyone like a servant. At the same time they praise Michael Douglas and Robert Downey Jr. For how they treated people

by Anonymousreply 113July 8, 2024 12:27 AM

R109 so much love for Tobey in that Reddit thread, lol. The best anyone has to say for him is "sure maybe he's a douche but we can't say for certain he's a pedo"

by Anonymousreply 114July 8, 2024 12:28 AM

Wasn’t he linked with Leo?

by Anonymousreply 115July 8, 2024 12:34 AM

He has psycho eyes in OP picture

by Anonymousreply 116July 8, 2024 12:36 AM

[QUOTE]he loansharks private poker games and talked about how he tries his hardest to loan people more than they can afford because he gets off on ruining lives

How is he still alive? A serious question if this really is his reputation. Does his ex father-in-law have guards shadowing him?

by Anonymousreply 117July 8, 2024 12:37 AM

[quote] For example, Halle Berry is gorgeous to me even at 57, but not "I want to date her" gorgeous.

Date me? Yeah, that won’t be an issue, sweetheart. 🤣

by Anonymousreply 118July 8, 2024 12:44 AM

[quote]Wasn’t he linked with Leo?

Yes. It's discussed in this thread, starting with r181.

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by Anonymousreply 119July 8, 2024 1:31 AM

She sounds as evil as he is.

Perfect pair.

by Anonymousreply 120July 8, 2024 2:08 AM

" "sure maybe he's a douche but we can't say for certain he's a pedo"

Just praise the Lord we can say he ain't no cocksucker!

by Anonymousreply 121July 8, 2024 2:10 AM

The only movie I like with him is Cider House Rules and it was mostly not because of him.

by Anonymousreply 122July 8, 2024 2:18 AM

His ex chimed in

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by Anonymousreply 123July 8, 2024 8:06 AM

R105 They wanted to marry him.

by Anonymousreply 124July 8, 2024 5:05 PM

As long as everyone is of age it does not matter. He could be 80 and her 20 and it does not matter.

by Anonymousreply 125July 8, 2024 5:16 PM

Poor Tobey is starting to look like the aged Jeff Stryker.

by Anonymousreply 126July 8, 2024 6:55 PM

r125 Well, yeah. No one is claiming it's illegal to weird and gross. People are free to be as weird and gross as that choose provided everything is legal.

by Anonymousreply 127July 8, 2024 7:03 PM

^ to be weird and gross

by Anonymousreply 128July 8, 2024 7:04 PM

When someone has to chime in that something isn’t illegal then it’s obvious they know it’s creepy or sleazy.

by Anonymousreply 129July 8, 2024 7:24 PM

There is nothing creepy about it. Get over yourselves.

by Anonymousreply 130July 8, 2024 7:37 PM

R130 = Rupert Murdoch.

by Anonymousreply 131July 8, 2024 7:45 PM

R130 whatever you say sweetie.

by Anonymousreply 132July 8, 2024 7:47 PM

r130 Yes. Yes it is. It is both creepy and gross. As I mentioned above, Johnny Depp seemed old as hell to me when I was 15, and he seems old to me today at the same age he was when "Blow" was released. I'm sure I seem old to 15 year olds, also. As I should. My ideal partner age sits somewhere around "old enough to remember 9/11, but young enough to think that it was the 'first and only attack' on the WTC the day that it happened."

by Anonymousreply 133July 8, 2024 7:49 PM

I was in line at the store yesterday and surrounded by people. I decided to let out a big smelly fart. Sure, people were mad but it’s not illegal so it’s not gross!

by Anonymousreply 134July 8, 2024 7:52 PM

[quote] My ideal partner age sits somewhere around "old enough to remember 9/11, but young enough to think that it was the 'first and only attack' on the WTC the day that it happened."

You sound like an insufferable, tedious person who would be unappealing to anyone of any age.

by Anonymousreply 135July 8, 2024 7:56 PM

I'm around the same age as Tobey Maguire and dating a 20 year old is kind of sickening. Even though 20 is a legal adult, at almost 50 years old I would feel like a creepy pervert. It would just be gross.

by Anonymousreply 136July 8, 2024 7:58 PM

My husband has a son from a previous marriage. The son just turned 18 yesterday and he’s always horny so I gave him a blow job. It’s not creepy because it’s not oklegal!

by Anonymousreply 137July 8, 2024 8:00 PM

Illegal*

by Anonymousreply 138July 8, 2024 8:01 PM

I'm glad the 50+ year old men I was hanging with at 20 weren't like the wretched uptight queens on this thread.

by Anonymousreply 139July 8, 2024 8:12 PM

Certainly they weren’t gross or creepy 50+ men. I mean, it’s not illegal therefore it’s not creepy!

by Anonymousreply 140July 8, 2024 8:17 PM

r135 You sound old as fuck and offended.

by Anonymousreply 141July 8, 2024 9:59 PM

R139 = Former pass-around bottom, missing the free booze, party favors and unscarred colon.

by Anonymousreply 142July 8, 2024 10:04 PM

[quote]As long as everyone is of age it does not matter. He could be 80 and her 20 and it does not matter.

20 goes into 80 a hell of a lot more than 80 goes into 20.

by Anonymousreply 143July 9, 2024 8:51 AM

R133 and a thousand other teens thought he was hot - your perspective doesn’t define what’s normal or proper

by Anonymousreply 144July 9, 2024 11:54 AM

Toby looks good in that photo. Looks like he's beefed up a bit. That tight shirt shows a nice thick chest.

by Anonymousreply 145July 9, 2024 1:29 PM

R145 = Lukas Haas

by Anonymousreply 146July 9, 2024 3:11 PM

r144 A thousand vs a million doesn't mean much. None of my peers, that I was surrounded by at the time, thought he was attractive. The girls seemed to be more into dudes like Usher, the members of Immature (later IMX), and B2K. The guys favored...females in general. -_-

by Anonymousreply 147July 10, 2024 3:45 AM

He is butt ugly with googly serial killer eyes

by Anonymousreply 148July 10, 2024 3:46 AM

R129 No, it's a response to someone making a judgment about something that society as a whole does not consider inappropriate and hasn't made a law about.

In other words, unless you think it should be against the law for a 49 year old to date a 20 year old, why are you clucking about it? It's their right, so just shut up and mind your own business.

by Anonymousreply 149July 11, 2024 4:08 PM

[quote] My ideal partner age sits somewhere around "old enough to remember 9/11, but young enough to think that it was the 'first and only attack' on the WTC the day that it happened."

Huh?

by Anonymousreply 150July 11, 2024 4:16 PM

[quote]On February 26, 1993, at about 17 minutes past noon, a thunderous explosion rocked lower Manhattan. The epicenter was the parking garage beneath the World Trade Center, where a massive eruption carved out a nearly 100-foot crater several stories deep and several more high. Six people were killed almost instantly.

From Google

by Anonymousreply 151July 11, 2024 4:38 PM

R149 or what? You’re going to flail your wrists and purse your lips?

Plenty of things that don’t have a law against it are considered immoral or gross.

by Anonymousreply 152July 11, 2024 5:44 PM

R152 If it was so immoral for two adults of differing ages to date, there would be a law forbidding it. Laws in the US are generally based on Judeo-Christian morality. By the way, that would be almost impossible to regulate. Unless you want to make 30 the age of consent.

I think a certain generation (not mine) has been brainwashed into seeing every age-gap relationship as a predatory one of some filthy-minded older person taking advantage of a younger person, when that is not anything provable, It happens, but so do a lot of other kinds. Actual good, decent relationships. And the opposite, where the young person takes advantage of the older person.

We're supposed to take care of ourselves, once we reach a certain age, for better or worse. It's not society's job. Do you really want society judging the nature of your relationships, or telling you what you should do, if you're an adult?

by Anonymousreply 153July 11, 2024 6:41 PM

r150 As r151 so kindly pointed out, the WTC was first attacked in 1993. I was in high school when 9/11 happened. I and every single one of my peers thought it was the first attack on the WTC. I didn't, and still don't, remember the attack in 1993 because I was only 6. I also don't remember the Waco, TX incident.

I've been told by many an eldergay et al that my not remembering these major events makes me "a baby." I didn't get their perspective and found it dumb, until I encountered a few 20 somethings who don't remember 9/11 because they were too young when it happened. Almost like magic, they became fetuses in my mind and were no longer seen as suitable candidates for a relationship.

TL;DR: I prefer dating my peers, only.

by Anonymousreply 154July 11, 2024 6:50 PM

You're young enough to assume TL;DR is a universally known expression.

by Anonymousreply 155July 11, 2024 6:53 PM

Just because you weren't born, yet, when something happened, doesn't mean you have no knowledge of it.

by Anonymousreply 156July 11, 2024 10:28 PM

R153 if it was immoral for married people to cheat, there would be a law forbidding it. Guess what, people still find it immoral.

by Anonymousreply 157July 11, 2024 10:35 PM

To me an almost 50 year old dating a 20 year old is likely to be a pattern of typical dating habits, not an isolated incident.

by Anonymousreply 158July 11, 2024 10:36 PM

Tobey is supposed to be another one who doesn’t like to bathe regularly…

by Anonymousreply 159July 12, 2024 12:22 AM

R157, [quote] Adultery is also a misdemeanor in Alabama, Arizona, Florida, Georgia, Illinois, Kansas, Maryland, New York, North Carolina, North Dakota, Rhode Island, South Carolina and Virginia. If New York's legislation passes, the Empire State would join a handful of other states that have recently repealed their adultery laws. Apr 5, 2024

by Anonymousreply 160July 12, 2024 12:35 AM

Oh give it a rest R160. You know no one gets legally punished for cheating on their spouse.

by Anonymousreply 161July 12, 2024 1:34 AM

R160 R161

"That's a relief"

by Anonymousreply 162July 12, 2024 1:35 AM

Why do people want time to stand still? They want to be 25 forever. Wasn't once enough?

by Anonymousreply 163July 12, 2024 2:15 AM

Peter Pan syndrome

by Anonymousreply 164July 12, 2024 2:37 AM

Am I the only one who thought he was wearing bullfighter pants? 😂

by Anonymousreply 165July 12, 2024 2:40 AM

r155 It's universally known to my peers, so...

by Anonymousreply 166July 12, 2024 3:39 AM
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