Michael Musto Runs Into Fran Lebowitz
“On going into Cafeteria with friends tonight, I noticed Fran Lebowitz glumly standing alone near the entrance. I gave her a chirpy "Hi, Fran!" but she went totally stone faced and didn't respond in the least. Maybe it's because on the night of my recent, fateful Little Island encounter with Candice Bergen, Fran spotted me walking to the island (where she was also going) and seemed to want to say hi, but I shot her down by giving her side eye. I've been giving her hugely mixed messages, I admit.
I admire her a lot and think she's pricelessly hilarious--and she gave me a great interview in the '80s--but I've very vocally had a problem with her hiding her sexuality for so long and also for calling outing "McCarthyism", so I never know how to react when I spot the woman. I'm also never sure if her occasional glimmer of a half-smile might quickly turn into the mouth of a fire spitting dragon.
Well, my friends and I had snacks and beverages and left Cafeteria after about an hour, upon which I noticed that Fran was still standing by the entrance, looking like a cigar store Indian! It was so creepy and weird, if fascinatingly so. Only in New York, kids--especially as I muttered, "Bye, Fran!"”
- Michael Musto’s Facebook page, June 26, 2024
by Anonymous | reply 94 | June 29, 2024 4:16 AM
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If true Musto needs to leave Fran alone. Just stop, Michael.
by Anonymous | reply 1 | June 26, 2024 5:09 AM
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I know nothing about him, but this makes him seem like a tiresome little wench.
by Anonymous | reply 2 | June 26, 2024 5:17 AM
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He’s witty, she’s smart, kind of love that they’re feuding.
by Anonymous | reply 3 | June 26, 2024 5:19 AM
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Fran is timeless while Michael Musto has been irrelevant for years.
by Anonymous | reply 4 | June 26, 2024 5:21 AM
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She admits she loves to hold grudges and try to get revenge. I wish more people were out in the open about those kinds of emotions. Instead of: "I forgive him and set myself free."
by Anonymous | reply 5 | June 26, 2024 5:39 AM
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[quote] upon which I noticed that Fran was still standing by the entrance, looking like a cigar store Indian!
I once saw her doing the same thing outside Bar Pitti while I was walking by. I felt like I was the only person who recognized her.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 6 | June 26, 2024 5:44 AM
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Watch your back, Michael Musto
and sleep with one eye open
by Anonymous | reply 7 | June 26, 2024 5:44 AM
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[quote]I noticed that Fran was still standing by the entrance, looking like a cigar store Indian! It was so creepy and weird, if fascinatingly so.
She probably was outside smoking both times and Michael made a big deal out of it.
I don't think she's ever hidden her sexuality — when asked about it in the 1980s she said "I cover the waterfront," which was probably unacceptable to Musto because unless you say I'M G-A-Y in public he's not happy.
by Anonymous | reply 8 | June 26, 2024 5:44 AM
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I would ignore anyone who gave me "chirpy hello".
by Anonymous | reply 9 | June 26, 2024 5:55 AM
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Why bother with either of them, dear? They’re just a couple of faggots long past their prime.
by Anonymous | reply 10 | June 26, 2024 6:01 AM
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At least it wasn’t a big a disaster as his run in with Candice Bergen.
by Anonymous | reply 11 | June 26, 2024 6:03 AM
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You'd think people would, at the very least, recognize her from "Law & Order" where she often played a judge (against type, of course).
by Anonymous | reply 12 | June 26, 2024 6:08 AM
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Let Fran live!
Maybe she just doesn’t like you Michael. She’d hardly be in the minority.
by Anonymous | reply 13 | June 26, 2024 7:05 AM
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On Candice Bergen:
“ I spotted Candice Bergen at an event on Little Island tonight, so I rushed up to tell her I’m a fan. It’s very rare that I do that since I’m usually assuming my professional writer’s capacity, but I always felt she was underrated as an actress and was dying to tell her. I’m not talking about stuff like Murphy Brown or her Oscar nominated Starting Over, I’m talking about movies and plays she’s done where she was wildly underappreciated for her gifts.
Well, I introduced myself and said, “I love your acting. It’s so direct, with no filter or artifice. It just comes right out and you’re always playing a real person. I loved you in The Women [movie remake] and in The Best Man [Broadway revival].”
She looked like I was putting her on.
Mickey then swung around and said, “See, we have this movie club where we watch weird, offbeat movies…”
“I’m sure you do,” deadpanned Candice, who looked ready to spew.
Someone then shot a photo of me and her together and I muttered, “Well, maybe some of the movies aren’t the best, but you’re always the best thing in them.”
And again, she looked over it—either she thought I was mocking her or she simply couldn’t believe anyone really liked her in those projects--so I crawled away in horror.
I will never approach a celebrity as a fan again. But I still adore her (and I also find her first memoir, Knock Wood, to be one of the most brilliant books ever written by a celebrity).”
- Michael Musto, June 6, 2024
by Anonymous | reply 14 | June 26, 2024 1:29 PM
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"I'm sure you do" ...okay, that makes me like her even more.
by Anonymous | reply 15 | June 26, 2024 2:05 PM
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There's something dignified about an aging female celebrity who refuses to indulge a sycophantic queen.
by Anonymous | reply 17 | June 26, 2024 3:06 PM
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I get what she reacted the way she did. I’ve been around Musto and Boardman and they give off a bitchy vibe that would make me think they were fucking with me if they ever said anything nice,
by Anonymous | reply 18 | June 26, 2024 3:09 PM
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What or where is "Little Island" in these anecdotes?
by Anonymous | reply 19 | June 26, 2024 3:13 PM
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I've never been able to like Musto since I heard about him throwing a fit at a film festival a couple years ago during a COVID peak when they told him he had to wear a mask or leave and he left instead of putting on a mask
by Anonymous | reply 20 | June 26, 2024 3:14 PM
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Little Island is on the Hudson River. It’s this park with cool paths and things, and they have concerts there.
It’s been around maybe 4-5 years.
by Anonymous | reply 21 | June 26, 2024 3:33 PM
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Two passive-aggressives met.
by Anonymous | reply 22 | June 26, 2024 3:33 PM
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Maybe she's working as the hat check girl? New York is expensive.
by Anonymous | reply 23 | June 26, 2024 3:42 PM
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Oh thanks. Of course, I've seen pics of Little Island. And is Cafeteria a hip restaurant over there?
Is a restaurant hip if dinosaurs Musto and Lebowitz are patrons?
by Anonymous | reply 24 | June 26, 2024 4:17 PM
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She’s an uneducated buffoon and he’s a weirdo.
by Anonymous | reply 25 | June 26, 2024 5:44 PM
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It's not really the scorpion and the frog scenario.
Maybe the scorpion and the toady?
by Anonymous | reply 26 | June 26, 2024 5:45 PM
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Fran is an out lesbian.
Who doesn't ignore Michael Musto?
by Anonymous | reply 27 | June 26, 2024 5:49 PM
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[quote]She’s an uneducated buffoon
She's more intelligent than you could ever hope to be.
by Anonymous | reply 28 | June 26, 2024 5:51 PM
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She’s a weirdo, and he’s an uneducated buffoon.
by Anonymous | reply 29 | June 26, 2024 5:53 PM
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R25 wtf? Why would you call her an uneducated buffoon?
by Anonymous | reply 30 | June 26, 2024 5:54 PM
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Little Island is the brainchild of Diane von Furstenberg and Barry Diller.
Cafeteria is not particularly hip.
by Anonymous | reply 31 | June 26, 2024 5:54 PM
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Cafeteria is where you go at 4am when you're drunk AF and the bars are closed. Get a little food in you before you go home to pass the fuck out.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 32 | June 26, 2024 5:56 PM
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This thread is giving 2004 DL.
by Anonymous | reply 33 | June 26, 2024 6:20 PM
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I've never understood why people want to eat after drinking too much in the bars. Shouldn't you be puking in the alley?
by Anonymous | reply 34 | June 26, 2024 7:24 PM
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[quote] She's more intelligent than you could ever hope to be.
Honey, unlike Fran, I actually graduated high school. The woman is a well-known idiot.
by Anonymous | reply 36 | June 26, 2024 7:47 PM
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I'd never encroach on Lebowitz's cigarette time.
by Anonymous | reply 38 | June 26, 2024 7:55 PM
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Shut up and fuck off r36. Plenty of highly intelligent people drop out of high school and for all sorts of reasons.
by Anonymous | reply 39 | June 26, 2024 8:03 PM
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I met Candice Bergen in 1998 while I was twenty-five feet in a tree stringing lights for the holidays. She was extremely pleasant. I was told not to talk about her career, so I asked about her father. She had one of his original Charlie McCarthy dummies in her family room. At the time, she lived across the street from Gabe Kaplan, aka Mr. Kotter. He gave us the stink eye as he pulled into his driveway.
by Anonymous | reply 40 | June 26, 2024 8:31 PM
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Musto and his apartment are filthy, seriously.
by Anonymous | reply 41 | June 26, 2024 9:46 PM
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Just them within five feet of each other is comical. They are both freaks, though Fran is the more entertaining of the two.
by Anonymous | reply 42 | June 26, 2024 9:51 PM
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The title of this thread sounds like the start of a joke.
by Anonymous | reply 43 | June 26, 2024 9:53 PM
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Musto smells and wears filthy clothes. Like pecker tracks on his pants.
by Anonymous | reply 44 | June 26, 2024 9:56 PM
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What’s “pecker tracks”, precious? What’s “pecker tracks”?
by Anonymous | reply 45 | June 26, 2024 9:56 PM
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I remember the grime on his kitchen cabinets and around his front door when he did that apartment tour. I think he's clueless and doesn't even see the filth.
by Anonymous | reply 47 | June 26, 2024 10:02 PM
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[quote]I've never understood why people want to eat after drinking too much in the bars.
You'll have less of a hangover if you eat before you go to sleep.
by Anonymous | reply 48 | June 26, 2024 10:06 PM
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Cafeteria was the place you went after a night of whoring in the West Side Club. In 2004.
by Anonymous | reply 49 | June 26, 2024 10:10 PM
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I still love Cafeteria, good food, and fun memories of the early 2000s.
I also encountered Candy Bergen, she came up to my partner to admire his outfit (he was in drag) and I said hello and she gave me a look of death.
by Anonymous | reply 50 | June 26, 2024 10:23 PM
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Mickey Boardman is so fat and toad-like, the fact he’s now the editor of “PLAYGIRL” (ONLINE!!😂) has made us all laugh for months. Considering he’s a hag who can’t see his penis, and I’m sure the only sex he can get, he pays for….what would HE know about ANYTHING??? Oh I forgot, he had more estrogen pumping thru his veins before he became a menopausal cunt.
by Anonymous | reply 51 | June 26, 2024 11:48 PM
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[quote] I've never understood why people want to eat after drinking too much in the bars. Shouldn't you be puking in the alley?
For some reason, you just do become hungry. I remember going out for breakfast at maybe 4:00 a.m. after a night of drinking and dancing. It's the dancing (exercise) probably, that made me hungry.
by Anonymous | reply 52 | June 27, 2024 3:21 AM
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Booze can make a lot of people hungry. Like r52, back in my bar/club days my friends and I would hit up a diner at the end of the night when we were all drunk AF.
by Anonymous | reply 53 | June 27, 2024 3:30 AM
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R28 has delivered what has to be the most devastating retort ever delivered here .
by Anonymous | reply 54 | June 27, 2024 3:30 AM
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Drunkeness loosens inhibitions. People overspend, gamble too much, have sex with people who'd otherwise be unacceptable, get married, and overeat. Eating a lot (but not binging) was my thing. Full meal required.
by Anonymous | reply 55 | June 27, 2024 3:31 AM
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I want a My Dinner with Andre sequel with these two
Does Fran choke him out during her last cigarette, as the waitstaff removes the untouched Baked Alaskan plating
by Anonymous | reply 56 | June 27, 2024 3:49 AM
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Team Musto here. I find Lebowitz a bit overrated.
by Anonymous | reply 57 | June 27, 2024 3:55 AM
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I favor Lebowitz.
Musto, aside from being criminally ugly, has the face of a gay man walking through a fish market on a hot day. And he always alternates between haughty and fawning, haughty, fawning. If you glare back at him as if he were something unpleasant found on the underside of a shoe (and who can help but to do?), he scurries right along. I reckon Leibowitz figured this out donkey's years ago.
by Anonymous | reply 59 | June 27, 2024 5:10 AM
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He was a proto-Andy Cohen in so many ways.
by Anonymous | reply 60 | June 27, 2024 5:16 AM
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Fran has undoubtedly come upon him many, many times in the last 40 years of going to parties in New York. He admits he snubbed her before this encounter, so I assume she didn't give a shit about snubbing him back.
by Anonymous | reply 61 | June 27, 2024 5:21 AM
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R55. What did you order??
by Anonymous | reply 62 | June 27, 2024 5:22 AM
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So, after SO MANY DECADES, Michael Musto still failed to learn proper social skills? Duh, says anyone in the "know" the little losers last "tactical" salvo for fame and clicks.
Wondering why he doesn't have a Substack. Or is he too uninvolved or stupidly naive to the world to shut up to improve his financial standing. Maybe Substack rejected him.
by Anonymous | reply 63 | June 27, 2024 6:50 AM
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The next Feud: Big Showdown on Little Island!
by Anonymous | reply 64 | June 27, 2024 7:01 AM
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[QUOTE][R55]. What did you order??
Fried fish (I think it's cod) and shellfish stuff, mostly, with fries, with plenty of cocktail and tartar sauce!!! Clams, of course fried for happiness!!!
The trick is getting piping hot food home, right!!!
by Anonymous | reply 65 | June 27, 2024 7:06 AM
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I love a few slices of pizza after drinking!
by Anonymous | reply 66 | June 27, 2024 7:56 AM
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I actually wouldn’t mind Datalounge being more like it was in 2004.
by Anonymous | reply 67 | June 27, 2024 12:58 PM
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29 years of being worse than last year!
by Anonymous | reply 68 | June 27, 2024 1:05 PM
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R67- What was the Datalounge like in 2004?
by Anonymous | reply 69 | June 27, 2024 1:14 PM
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It was the blog era, so the links were more diverse without the walled gardens of social media.
The WW2 generation was around, as were an unknown amount of regular posters who have died.
The self-policing here was SAVAGE. Lackluster posters were eviscerated.
And there's things and people that Muriel doesn't like brought up again, likely for legal reasons, so I'll respect that.
by Anonymous | reply 70 | June 27, 2024 1:18 PM
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Oh, hey- Fran's wearing makeup. Good, Fran...
by Anonymous | reply 71 | June 27, 2024 2:26 PM
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I don't care about this at all, but I wanted to say that the "precious" poster at r45 cracks me up everytime I read one of his posts.
I declare r45 to be one of DL's best trolls!!
by Anonymous | reply 72 | June 27, 2024 2:38 PM
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Post-drinking food (for me, in the past):
Jack in the Box bacon cheeseburger.
by Anonymous | reply 73 | June 27, 2024 3:44 PM
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[quote] still standing by the entrance, looking like a cigar store Indian
I think she's tremendous.
by Anonymous | reply 74 | June 27, 2024 3:57 PM
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Cigar Store Indian - isn’t that a racist trope?
by Anonymous | reply 75 | June 28, 2024 2:10 AM
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Yes, it's pretty much literally violence.
by Anonymous | reply 76 | June 28, 2024 1:31 PM
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Musto is a tiresome old queen.
by Anonymous | reply 77 | June 28, 2024 1:47 PM
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Who does that queen think she is, to snub Fran? Musto is a hack, a has-been who never was, a silly deluded queen and a fossil frozen in time. He’s a 68 year old “club kid”, a caricature, a sight gag, and a hackneyed writer.
by Anonymous | reply 78 | June 28, 2024 2:52 PM
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He's about 10 years too old to be a club kid, too. He just inserted himself into the scene and reported on it.
by Anonymous | reply 79 | June 28, 2024 2:56 PM
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R78. Amen! His clothes are REALLY filthy and he smells, his “stylist” has severe mental issues that played out in real time as they bickered and sniped at each other on social media. The stylist then spent time in a “nervous hospital”. Musto carried on, scrubbing free meals and swag like he’s done for years. Musto, Boardman, and that REALLY STRANGE Lynne Yeager need to be taken out behind the barn…
by Anonymous | reply 80 | June 28, 2024 6:13 PM
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R72, technically, a halfling.
by Anonymous | reply 81 | June 28, 2024 9:36 PM
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I have always though of Fran as being the sort of person who seems just abut to say something funny and then doesn't.
Musto, I have never thought about.
by Anonymous | reply 82 | June 28, 2024 9:37 PM
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Musto's expiration date was 30+ years ago.
No one rang for her. No one has for years.
by Anonymous | reply 83 | June 28, 2024 11:02 PM
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R14. I've always liked Candice Bergen. I like her more now knowing her dry retorts aren't scripted for her.
by Anonymous | reply 84 | June 28, 2024 11:14 PM
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I saw Fran at Whole Foods, the one at 24th and 7th, earlier this year. she lives in the building above it, the Chelsea Mercantile. she was online and mulling over her upcoming purchases, keeping to herself. She is surprisingly petite.
Michael Musto's apartment is shocking in its lack of taste or style. It's one of the many red brick low-rise boxy apartments from the 50s or early 60s that my friend Gary would call 'cookie cutter.' His living room looks like an estate sale. It's just random pieces of furniture that has seen better days, and everything is pushed up against the walls. The only thing that's missing are price tags.
by Anonymous | reply 85 | June 28, 2024 11:42 PM
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Musto was sort of elven and cute when he was young and I remember laughing at his column back in the 80s. He seems a bit sad now, but so many gay men of his generation do and for reasons that have nothing to do with them on a personal level.
I don't find him as tiresome as Rex Reed although Reed was arguably better looking and is probably the more talented writer.
Fran has never impressed me but I have never minded her. She has the persona of an old and somewhat cranky piece of furniture that seems to add nothing until one day your mother redecorates and it is gone. And you spend the rest of your life very slightly missing it.
by Anonymous | reply 86 | June 29, 2024 1:20 AM
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r86 you clearly don't know much about Fran. Among other things, she perfectly articulated how AIDS devastated our culture. She has a very astute mind.
Offsite Linkby Anonymous | reply 87 | June 29, 2024 1:40 AM
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R87, that is indeed an astute analysis. I tip my hat.
But the majority of her output is akin to a tweed jacket we never want to stop wearing.
by Anonymous | reply 88 | June 29, 2024 1:47 AM
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Fran's awesome, though a little goes a long way.
Musto is quite a good writer, for the kind of writing he does. He often was on Theater Talk during their Tony Award predictions and he was very astute. He's got very good taste, at least in the commercial theater.
by Anonymous | reply 89 | June 29, 2024 1:58 AM
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I couldn't care less about that fatty catty old butterface queen Michael Musty bitching because the fabulous and timeless Fran Lesbowitz wouldn't give him the time of day.
by Anonymous | reply 90 | June 29, 2024 2:12 AM
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Fran and Martin Scorsese's "Pretend It's A City" on Netflix was great. Fran kvetching about the subway being shut down because a "foul odor" was detected had me howling.
by Anonymous | reply 91 | June 29, 2024 2:32 AM
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[quote] What’s “pecker tracks”, precious? What’s “pecker tracks”?
I’m assuming he means piss and/or cum stains.
by Anonymous | reply 92 | June 29, 2024 2:40 AM
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Maybe Michael’s finally coming out as a lesbian!?
by Anonymous | reply 93 | June 29, 2024 2:49 AM
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Poor guy being stuck with the last name MUSTO
It reminds one of something MUSTY.
He always seemed a bit musty to me.
by Anonymous | reply 94 | June 29, 2024 4:16 AM
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