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What's the longest you've gone without an orgasm?

I'm at 15 days, which is the longest I can remember, and I'm 41. I know my dick still works because I'm rock hard every morning when I wake up, but my libido is just... gone. I'm taking the opportunity to try Nofap and quitting all porn, shooting for 90 days minimum. But I'm scared something is wrong with me as I don't even have the urge lately.

by Anonymousreply 27June 25, 2024 4:02 PM

Don't ask, I'm old.

by Anonymousreply 1June 11, 2024 4:19 AM

Just smoke copious amounts of pot, silly!

by Anonymousreply 2June 11, 2024 4:24 AM

I'm actually 51 days free of marijuana as a formerly lifelong, all day, every day smoker, so that might have something to do with the libido loss.

by Anonymousreply 3June 11, 2024 4:32 AM

I'm 58 & diabetic, I might go several days without an orgasm. When I get horny, a guy could wink at me & I'll spontaneously combust.

by Anonymousreply 4June 11, 2024 4:36 AM

Two hours.

by Anonymousreply 5June 11, 2024 4:42 AM

2/10.

by Anonymousreply 6June 11, 2024 4:43 AM

My boyfriend said, "How come you never tell me when you're having an orgasm?"

I said, "Because you're never around... so why bother?"

by Anonymousreply 7June 11, 2024 4:49 AM

Well now I'm up to day 30 with orgasms and no libido. I got a bit horny with boners twice in the last week which seems like progress, but it's so slow.

I feel like life would not be worth living without the prospect of sex, romance, and partnership anymore. Any tips on how to accept and enjoy being a sexless eldergay?

by Anonymousreply 8June 25, 2024 3:18 AM

The amount of energy expended during my quest for dick years is why my libido is now relegated to 'special guest star' status.

And not in the Locklear way.

by Anonymousreply 9June 25, 2024 3:23 AM

A few weeks at a time.

Used to be I would jack off 3, 4 times a day. Once 7 in a day!

Now it's about every two weeks or so.

by Anonymousreply 10June 25, 2024 3:25 AM

Here ya go, OP.

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by Anonymousreply 11June 25, 2024 3:34 AM

If I get really busy with the work I am doing, which I enjoy, I just kind of forget, or tell myself tomorrow. I still have the drive, but can go weeks without doing it just because my mind is totally fixated on other things, then I am too tired rinse and repeat.

by Anonymousreply 12June 25, 2024 4:23 AM

If your "libido is gone" but you're still "rock hard every morning," then those erections have nothing to do with sexual arousal.

by Anonymousreply 13June 25, 2024 4:26 AM

Maybe they sleep with a prostate stimulator up their ass.

by Anonymousreply 14June 25, 2024 4:28 AM

The last time I mastubated, about two weeks ago, it took me over an hour (and I wasn't edging) and I was sweating and felt like my blood pressure was dropping dangerously. I had to go to bed immediately and stayed there for over 12 hours.

by Anonymousreply 15June 25, 2024 4:37 AM

Doctor time r15

by Anonymousreply 16June 25, 2024 5:44 AM

Your blood pressure should not be dropping that much R15. Not unless you have a massive, massive cock taking all the blood away from your brain. You should talk to a doctor, you have some health shit going on unrelated to your sexual arousal attempt.

by Anonymousreply 17June 25, 2024 5:50 AM

I don’t think I’ve gone more than a day in months, if not at least a year. I aim for at least one a day, if not 2 or 3.

by Anonymousreply 18June 25, 2024 5:57 AM

Has their been any changes in your medications recently?

by Anonymousreply 19June 25, 2024 5:58 AM

r19 *there

Sorry.

by Anonymousreply 20June 25, 2024 6:30 AM

It's too much trouble. I hope it doesn't affect my prostate.

by Anonymousreply 21June 25, 2024 8:46 AM

There's are battery operated sleeves that will milk it for you, R21.

by Anonymousreply 22June 25, 2024 8:52 AM

The first 11 years 😉

by Anonymousreply 23June 25, 2024 9:03 AM

R15 can we have your stuff?

by Anonymousreply 24June 25, 2024 2:09 PM

I'm fine, I don't need a hip replacement

I'm doing just fine in the brooklyn basement

I'm doing just fine with my reputation

I'm doing fine I don't need to change shit, I'm doing just fine

by Anonymousreply 25June 25, 2024 2:14 PM

Sometime in 2013.

I miss how alive it made me feel.

by Anonymousreply 26June 25, 2024 3:47 PM

a week, tops

by Anonymousreply 27June 25, 2024 4:02 PM
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