Neighbors from HELL

Okay, I've continued inside.

(con't) When I moved in, the house was occupied by a quiet older couple. The wife died and the husband evidently moved away. It sat vacant for a couple of months until it was apparently bought ("for a song", according to my (very nice) next door neighbor on my side of the street, who lives directly across from it. The purchaser was a tough looking broad who evidently is a retired parole officer. Since her move in, there has been an endless array of young adults she apparently "mentors" - they come and go all the time - slutty looking females, a couple with newborn infants, and various young males - all varying races (owner is white). I'm a pretty "live and let live" type, however, these people hit all the buttons: the dog that barks at all hours, sometimes hideously whimpering in the cold, until someone yells at it out the side door; cars of all description coming and going at odd hours after dark; various cars with no plates parked in the driveway for weeks on end; a garage crammed full of junk and old furniture (I only got a glimpse of it once); a barbecue grill on the front porch; and of course minimal to no lawn mowing. We have had a lot of rain this year and their grass is easily a foot high. They installed a motion detector flood light which shines directly into my poor neighbor's bedroom window.

I have done my best to be as tolerant as possible, however this past week on trash day, I was leaving my house to meet friends for lunch when I saw two large black trash bags parked next to my blue trash bin which was already on the curb! Thankfully they were gone when I got back from lunch a couple hours later, but I am afraid this is going to happen again. Every house on the block has a blue bin that the trash service uses - they have one, but it is parked outside the garage filled with scrap lumber and shit.

My nextdoor neighbor, who is an angel, tells me that the butch owner is an Uber driver, which accounts for her setting off the floodlight when she returns home after midnight. I'm retired but my poor neighbor still works and she is awakened by this nearly every night - of course, the barking dog is usually out at 1 am as well.

I am worried that they are going to put trash bags in my driveway again this week, especially since it's a holiday week and pickup is postponed until Wednesday. I am not sure whether our trash service will continue to pick these up. Please don't tell me to "go talk to them" as there is NO WAY I would engage these people in any way. The bags they left last week were too heavy for me to lift, even if I was inclined to put them back on their property. And I do not want to come home some afternoon and see my house "tagged" or a bag split open and spilled all over my driveway.

We live in an unincorporated area of the county, and I don't think there is anything a cop might do even if I called one. My angel neighbor next door says she has three or four cop friends she is going to ask for advice, and has also offered to have her son haul off any trash they might deposit this coming week. The county does have a "problem properties" hot line, and we both have a strong feeling that the local cops are familiar with this house to begin with. I wish they would get evicted, but I fear she owns the place outright.

Inside Daisy Clover? Inside who? Inside where?

Be patient!! It tool me awhile to explain the hideous details.....!

Is that it? I’m not going to start reading unless I know that’s it.

Not to suggest that I will actually read it. I reserve the right to stop if I’m bored. But let he know if I should start.

If the police don't police your cul de sac, why don't you poison them? To death, or very sick so they must live in hospitals forever.

I live in a building with a very mentally ill older woman above me. She is probably 65-70..

She sadly looks as ill as she is, walking around having full conversations with herself, making odd expressions- she also bursts out into laughter lately- during her self talks. These are long conversations with herself. She shakes her head back and forth, its very animated and kind of scary.. but I have tried to take the 'live and let live approach' And i have noticed that she is savvy enough to stop the behavior if another tenant pulls in or if you see her in the common areas- she will immediately stop the muttering..

She wakes up at 3 AM every day, walks in circles above me- muttering/chanting- whatever- pacing- its bad. (And she now stands in front of others homes on the street and stares at them, while muttering...from house to house- its a sad sight.

And the new thing is she sits upstairs and GIGGLES- for hours.. I figured at first she is watching something funny on youtube.. But it goes on for -hours- when I am home. (This is an old building with no sound proofing) She also snores like an old dog--

Long story short- I once again told my Management Company, and they admitted that she is not right (without saying it), her rich family ditched her there and pay all the bills. (they never-ever- see her- I work from home and this poor lady has no visitors. My management company says that she keeps the apt very nice- And the kicker is- the woman drives. She has a car. So she definitely has some capabilites.

I have tried to talk with her kindly, but she has what they call a "flat affect"- Its like no one is home.. We have even cleaned her car off during snow and storms, ect

She has apparently lived here for 6 years and has not burned the place down-

And for me, I think its more 'my problem" - its not her fault that I work from home and am witness to this shit..

I recently found another apt- I should hear something tomrrow- I will likely move in July 1st and I am COUNTING THE DAYS

You’re too long winded OP and you lost me with the “all different races” detail.

I wonder if she is involved with drugs. The people coming in and out all the time is suspicious. Maybe she will be arrested or put in jail and the house will sell again.

Your post to God's ear!

OP, maybe you should have your property monitored by one of those home surveillance companies, with one of their signs prominently displayed, Or put up your own cameras. If you can get evidence they were on your property maybe the cops friends can arrest them for trespassing. Good luck.

Good luck, OP! They sound very trashy and low-level aggressive. I agree, do not engage! I would put up cameras with sound recording capability, they aren't that expensive, just in case. I hate people like this that make life unpleasant and ugly for the people around them.

Buildings burn. People are forced to move. Happens every day.

Where to start? I guess closest and spread out. I live in what is considered an overall nice and rather enviable neighborhood with a rather even mix of owner occupieds and rentals. There's still a few whakados though.

The skank cunt who lives directly above me (2 apartment house) is 24,has an 11 year, a 5 year old and Border line personal disorder. only the BPD libes with her full time. She abuses her male roommate and I get sick of being woken up by her screaming at 4am at him (former boyfriend), hasn't spayed her female cat who is constantly in heat and getting out. She doesn't look for said cat when she gets out.

She's an alcoholic who refuses to clean anything whatsoever including after her kids when they come on some weekends. I used to wish every weekend that it wouldn't be a weekend they were coming because her neglect and screaming at them was excessive but I can't do that in good conscience anymore since her 11 yo daughter told her that the guy mom abandoned daughter with is making daughter watch porn with him and cps won't do anything. I guess here is better than there. She's a lazy fucking whore. I have had worse neighbors but fuck.

A bit down the road is the one 'bad' building on the block. In that building lives the literal crack head who abuses her pitbulls and the police etc can't do anything. She's under the impression that if she screams at the ine dog enough that he will magically become a perfect off leash dog. He's been almost hit by a car daily and you just hear her screaming 'RYDER! RYDER! COME HERE YOU MOTHERFUCKER' all day long. I think she's breeding dogs too. Her husband made the news pretty big time here for stealing a car, a sailboat, a bicycle etc while escaping from the police. He's a crackhead too.

Is this Florida?

As for the light that wakes up your neighbor, she needs to get better blinds/curtains, as it doesn’t sound like anything can be done about the floodlight.

Also, in my beautiful enormous back yard that I have put scores of hours of work and a fair amount of money (900 square feet of wildflowers garden, bird feeders, fountains, furniture, vegetable garden, hanging baskets of flowers, cleaned, mole removal etc) there is also a large pile of weed vines, tree branches etc that her kids dragged and left in the overturned kiddie plastic pool. The pool had been overturned in the yard since last October and moles had set up home under it. It had a crack and was moldy and in April began breeding mosquitoes from it having rain water pooling in it. I threw it away. That was a scene, she was 'going to clean it and use it for the kids some day. how can you throw away children's toys?'. Whatever you pig.

The newest addition to the yard is a 'leather' recliner that I presume is filled with cat piss as the cat isn't spayed and a loveseat. Yesterday they tossed them over the railing of their upstairs porch. And there they sit. it's going to rain today and I am guessing every male cat in the neighborhood will come spray the upholstered indoor furniture that smells like female cat in heat. I would normally think that it's something they're going to remove but they've had a used mattress waiting for removal on their porch for 6 months. It all really adds some class to my shitty endeavors.

I'm so glad I live in a condo where I barely interact with my neighbors and can rarely hear them. Fuck people.

Also, get a ring camera, OP.

Neighbors from hell? I dare you to beat a guy above me gunning his motorcycle INSIDE his apartment.

OMG, rescue-chick, I FEEL FOR YOU!!! The cat piss recliner and loveseat tossed over the balcony??!! Can you appeal to your landlord/owner of the building? Evictions take forever, but surely if you sent him a few photos, or better yet convinced him to do a drive by....?? I'm sure he'd much rather keep you as a tenant rather than these assholes. And WHY do they always have animals that they either neglect, abuse, or allow to roam?

I feel bad - my problem of trash pirating PALES in comparison to your situation. How on earth can you enjoy your beautiful yard?

2/10

Sleep mask and ear plugs are your friends.

OP r21, the ll was here yesterday to mow so he saw it, they said they were going to take care of it but, you know. I am going to give it a week and text him asking what an unreasonable amount of time is. Frankly, I want it as nasty as possible for them to have to deal with (it will just be the nice guy) in hopes it prompts them to kick her out. I tread carefully because I don't fuck with personality disorders unless I absolutely have to.

They work at a restaurant and get home, usually, very late. our paths don't cross that much during the week during the day as I work from home. If she wasn't suck a psycho pig, they would be ok neighbors.

The tenants next door to me refuse to cut their lawn, so the grass/weeds are not well over a foot high. Everyone in the neighborhood is aghast, since this is actually a city area and we're worried about rats and other vermin taking hold. Tall grass is a haven for these.

Thankfully I just discovered our local DPH has regulations regarding the height of grass in settled neighborhoods, they were called and said they'd send someone out to "talk to them" this week about the situation. They'll get a warning and if they don't comply, it's a $150 fine per month. You should contact your local DPH or Board of Health to see if they can assist.

rescue-chick I thought you moved recently... was that you and is this the new place?

it was me- exactly a year ago. and it is the new place. ll actually just called about a graduation party my friend may have here (he wants to be sure it's nicely mowed for th3m) and I straight up asked him about the furniture. They're supposed to be moving it, the mattress and picking up the 3000 cigarette butts. and spaying the cat.

Retired parole officer, OP? Sorry -- you are shit outta luck.

Police see P.O.s as "one of ours" and would never do anything to your neighbor. Doubtless (depending on the size of your town) the police may know this woman well and have had dealings with her "on the job."

Unless she is doing something obnoxiously and obviously illegal, they won't do anything to help you.

That said, good luck -- you're gonna need it!

That's not so bad really.

My friend lives with 2 fucking old, miserable hags;nosey cunts.

They lived in the building for 25 yrs. One of them asked the landlord if my friend paid his rent on time and told landlord that my friend went out every night!

They have no lives and would complain about noise at 9 pm!!! They would exaggerate and landlord believes them coz they've been there for decades.

[quote]I dare you to beat a guy above me gunning his motorcycle INSIDE his apartment.

I can't imagine a landlord being OK with this.

You and OP and rescue-chick all need to hire hitmen.

OK, R20 -- tell me how your neighbor managed to get a 400+ pound motorcycle UP the stairs to get it ABOVE your apartment OR get it into a regular passenger elevator unnoticed and unchallenged.

Some of these DLers might be dumb enough to fall for that, but I'm not. Unless, of course, you have a freight elevator in your building, in which case, you deserve whatever you get.

BTW, you know the exhaust fumes may kill you and your neighbor.

[quote]My friend lives with 2 fucking old, miserable hags;nosey cunts.

What a cozy setup.

OP, but the trash bags back in front of their house.

Never deal with the authorities, the owners (if there are any), or the hellacious neighbors causing the trouble. Be pleasant and show no rancor.

That's how one acquires room to do what is necessary.

First of all, those two bags were so heavy I couldn't lift them. Secondly, even though I immediately suspected they came from that house, I really couldn't prove it 100%.

They have had two white trash bags parked in front of their garage door all this week. I took a snapshot of them from my bedroom window. If those bags show up on my driveway this Wednesday morning, I will be able to prove it came from their house. There is NO WAY I am going to engage with anyone in the house in any way - it is far too unpredictable.

If they would just empty out their blue trash bin and get rid of all that scrap wood, they would be able to use the blue bin - unless, of course, as I suspect, they have not paid their trash pickup bill.

God, I'm turning into Gladys Kravitz. Why can't people take basic responsibility as decent neighbors?

What will you do if those bags end up at your curb?

Definitely get a camera.

How do you get back at cunty neighbors? Put a roach outside their apt door and hope it crawls in?

Ok so the only real problem affecting you is the trash bags right? Send a letter first class certified mail return receipt to the County division that oversees trash and to the trash contractor telling them what's happening. And send one to code enforcement and the police. If anything I ng happens you're covered.

Move op, move.

Women are passive. That’s why you are having all these problems.

This is how it's done, OP.

how about sending them an anon letter in the mail about your concerns?

sometimes, the cunts don't know their behavior is a problem for others. you have to tell them!

Anon notes never accomplish anything beyond making the recipient suspicious toward/angry at every single neighbor.

Honestly, I hate HOAs for so many reasons but they are often a homeowner’s only protection against neighbors like this. This other being strict town ordinances about these nuisance issues, but you typically only find that in your tonier communities.

I live where it’s rural (blessedly, our property is surrounded by conservation trust land that can’t be used and other open property), and you can live in a $2 million house across from a dilapidated place with broken farm equipment strewn across the front yard, which features a manure pile.

If you’re a gay man NEVER directly engage in any way other than being cordial with a female neighbor. They will start slinging child molester accusations faster than you can say “cunt!”

^ Like Katy Buscemi.

Well Op, I would suggest you contact your HOA to deal with the problem. Ooops, Op is poor, so never mind.

R46- That is depressing-

I am THRILLED to report a good outcome to my situation!! Yesterday I was out all day at a family event. When I got home about 6 pm, my angel neighbor from next door came over. She told me that her son had come over to cut her grass, as he usually does every week. This kid is an ex Marine and is built like a linebacker. After she told him our story, he went across the street - with his lawn mower - and offered to mow the front yard, which he did. He then somehow helped clear their blue bin of enough of the scrap wood to make room for the two white bags of trash that was on the front porch. It is now parked on the curb in advance of pickup day tomorrow. Apparently the old butch didn't give him any trouble, stating that she has "been in physical therapy lately." The difference is ASTONISHING.

I am going to give them a $200 grocery store gift card today; I was going to get a restaurant one, but decided they can split it up as they like and it would go a lot further. And needless to say, my anxiety level has evaporated. I am concentrating today on sending as many positive vibes to rescue-chick, hoping that her story ends as well as mine, and the cat piss furniture and mattress disappear!!

The universe has SMILED on me today, all thanks to my angel neighbor's son!!

Eat shit , OP!

Wait until you see what we have in store for you NEXT, BITCH!!

wow! congrats OP! glad it's all worked out!

Thank you!! Let's all send energy to our rescue-chick now!

I honestly don't know what I would have done if those white bags had been plopped on my driveway!!

That was me at R53 -

Please hold your well intentioned wishes! I have decided that the longer this shit is out here in the rain (and, man, it POURED like god's wrath yesterday) and gets grosser and grosser the better it is. Hear me out. They don't know that the ll is coming again this weekend to 'do some more lawn maintenance'. I put that in quotes because I suspect he wants to see if that stuff is still here. If anything, I'd like to put something on the pile to attrack MORE male cats.

My big guy (dog) has way too much dignity to even bother looking at the pile unless it's with disdain so if he'll leave it alone it could all work in my favor with them thinking ll won't be around until the grass is tall again...

I am SUPER GLAD OPie that your situation worked out!!! BUT, don't you DARE give the offenders a gift card. Do you want to look like a mark? stop that :)

Jimmmaaaayyyy!

Hey rc, I think he was giving the gift card to his angel neighbor and son.

As I was reading your first post I thought 'oh no, please let this not be rescue chick with her much-wanted apt' - so sorry, but good luck with the skunt's discards.

(Those poor kids and their nightmare.)

[quote]The universe has SMILED on me today, all thanks to my angel neighbor's son!!

I'm sure he'd rather have a blow job than a gift card.

ahhhh, I misunderstand- please give the hot guy a gift card!!!

Let’s hope that gift card is not for the trash neighbors. Hopefully, the gift card is for the lawn-mowing Marine.

[quote] all varying races (owner is white).

Um, ok.

OP here - yes, the gift card is for my neighbor and her son. Along with a thank you note for their help. Also, my neighbor told me yesterday that she got blackout curtains a long time ago.

And - not that I need to justify myself - but the early description I gave of "all varying races" was a mere description of my attempts to determine who/how many individuals were actually living there. A process I have long since given up, since so many have come and gone. No other nefarious intent need apply.

Put in a call that you suspect drug trafficking. Sounds like that might be going on.

Is OP Frau or F@g? Did miss op bang the marine landscaper?

R50, You owe the Marine a slow, deep, nonstop rimming.

Kill thy neighbor.

Op, you’re the actual neighbour from hell. Stop spying on your neighbours. (Taking pictures of their garbage? That’s psychotic). Despite what you may think, your control over your neighbourhood ends at your property line.

Get a hobby and leave your poor neighbours alone.

I think neighbors from hell are more common than I thought. My sister and her husband had a problem with the neighbors they shared a driveway with many years ago. I just found out that my nephew and his wife have been having problems with two teenagers next to them for several years. It is a major contributing factor for them moving soon.

It’s getting worse, because people don’t know how to behave and they’re just tacky and have god-awful taste.

We never have problems like this where I lived.

Now THESE are true neighbors from DEEPEST HELL!!

Fuck these cunts

I always feel so bad for the pets of hellish neighbors.

set their house on fire.

There's one in every crowd.

I’m lucky, living in the country and being surrounded by open land, most of which can be developed.

We have just one neighbor right by. He recently died and the estate has accepted a bid and we don’t know whether a) we get cool new neighbors whom we will love; b) we get neighbors we can peaceably live alongside; or c) they are a horror show waiting to happen.

Because there is often nothing you can do!

Living next to trash is the worst. Frustrating thing is, they probably don’t even realize they are trash.

And god forbid you say anything to these people. They’ll jump down your throat.

I'm trying to figure out why all the houses near me have started parking in their yards.

Like literally on the lawn right in front of the front doors to their homes.

So tacky.

I have 2 vehicles, too but one is in the driveway and the other is parked on the street.

the furniture is still there. the squirrels seem to enjoy it.

Oh NO!!! I thought the landlord was coming over....

What is WRONG with people?!!

R278, that's happened in my neighborhood. One house graveled their front yard and parked about six jet skis and sport vehicles out there. Another graveled their front yard and parked a huge motor home there, partially blocking their picture window. These are not poor people but they've made poor choices. After they bought the motor home, which they rarely use, they installed a swimming pool in back. If you can't afford to park your massive motor home in storage, don't buy one. Their poor next door neighbors have a view of the monstrosity from their own front window.

They are not on my block. I'm pretty sure there are ordinance prohibiting such behavior, I'm surprised their neighbors haven't reported them.

I'm so relieved that the guy next door isn't selling his house as he thought would happen after his recent divorce. He said he's made arrangements with his ex and also most of his money went into buying it. He's a nice guy and my dog gets along with his.

r80, he just got here. I have been gardening and doing yard work all day and told him 'let me know when you want me to move MY lawn stuff and where for your mowing'. I am not moving their shit. and it's definitely still out there.