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Could you commit to a throuple... or more?

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by Anonymousreply 14March 31, 2024 6:19 PM

Nope. A loving couple, but keeping things sexually open is the way to go. As for the vid, cringe, cringe, cringe.

by Anonymousreply 1March 30, 2024 4:59 AM

Threeways are fine, sexually, but they never work out romantically.

by Anonymousreply 2March 30, 2024 5:01 AM

Such hypocrisy on this thread!

by Anonymousreply 3March 30, 2024 5:08 AM

Do you actually know what that word means, R3??

by Anonymousreply 4March 30, 2024 5:16 AM

It’s been my life experience via my grandparents (one man in a throuple with two sisters) that polygyny works better than other forms of polyamory seem to. All my polyandrous friends have gone through bad breakups where no one is together after six or eight months. Like they all go their separate ways.

It’s also been my life experience that the bulk (heh) of modern polygamous families tend toward the less-attractive end of the scale. I’m not sure why it’s worked out that way, but I see it a lot.

by Anonymousreply 5March 30, 2024 5:16 AM

A thruple would not be for me but I kind of admire the open neediness and drama and big-heartedness of guys who pursue thruples.

by Anonymousreply 6March 30, 2024 5:24 AM

I would never do this. I know someone who has this arrangement with two older dudes in Florida. I saw him on PornHub once. Not with the grandpas.

by Anonymousreply 7March 30, 2024 5:26 AM

Meeting one man I’d like to marry is challenge enough. Two I could stand to live with seems far fetched.

by Anonymousreply 8March 30, 2024 5:28 AM

How do you know someone is in a polyamorous relationship? Don't worry. He will tell you. Every chance he gets.

by Anonymousreply 9March 31, 2024 3:19 PM

I often see a local throuple at the supermarket. Two unattractive bears and a hugely fat Disney princess. They make sure everyone knows the situation by kissing and holding hands.They seem desperate for the attention, and you can bet they would throw a massive drama if someone gave them a disapproving look.

by Anonymousreply 10March 31, 2024 3:26 PM

This is why… oh why even bother anymore

by Anonymousreply 11March 31, 2024 3:37 PM

This is why the hate everyone?

by Anonymousreply 12March 31, 2024 3:42 PM

In theory and the right circumstances I suppose might have been up for a throuple, but with the expectation that we were all fucking other people as well as that the likelihood of any long-term relationship was unlikely.

Practically, it's hard enough to be in a serious relationship with one other. It's difficult to imagine a situation balancing two without taking aides or having some weirdly asymmetrical division of...things.

Three adult gay friends sharing a big house each with space of their own and some common space seems a more realistic possibility: partners in a property or lease with an agreed upon annual opportunity to force a buy-out or joint sale. I've known people who followed something like this path with good results, but the fact of their not bring romantic partners helped keep things happy.

But yeah, most throuples -and certainly the ones interviewed- are weird as fuck.

by Anonymousreply 13March 31, 2024 3:44 PM

The odds of me finding one guy who doesn't get on my nerves [italic]and[/italic] is willing to fuck me are already infinitesimal. Any third faggot joining the mix would just as likely ride in on a unicorn and shit nickels.

by Anonymousreply 14March 31, 2024 6:19 PM
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