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Do I need therapy?

I had the weirdest scenario. I’m quite “visibly gay” (in my clothing and how I look) and yesterday while I was coming back from the supermarket I saw this very hot guy in front of me (he was rugged and looked like in his late twenties, tall, muscular with dirty blonde hair and was wearing a hoodie and track pants). I was checking him out when he turned to me and shouted “What are you looking at faggot?” and laughed in a mean and slightly threatening way. I felt horrible at that point and rushed back home. However, later in the evening, thinking about the incident made me super hot and I jerked off thinking of servicing him while he called me abusive names. Is it usual or am I just fucked up?

PS: I have never had humiliation and domination fetish before and this is just the first time and hence it makes me feel super weird. Not to mention the fact he was a homophobe.

by Anonymousreply 36February 12, 2024 1:25 PM

I was hoping when reading this for it to develop into a full blown Brick Shit House EST. Unfortunately not to be…

No OP. You don’t need therapy. You just jerked it over a hot guy.

by Anonymousreply 1February 12, 2024 12:52 AM

Omg R1 same here exactly! I kept thinking “Surely the next sentence will make reference to OP’s puny cocklet”.

by Anonymousreply 2February 12, 2024 12:55 AM

Doesn’t sound like you “need” it but if you want therapy, go for it. I just finished 18 years of therapy.. I wouldn’t have survived without.

by Anonymousreply 3February 12, 2024 1:00 AM


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by Anonymousreply 5February 12, 2024 1:04 AM

Literal Violence!!

by Anonymousreply 6February 12, 2024 1:05 AM

Man up, MARY.

by Anonymousreply 7February 12, 2024 1:05 AM

Chill OP. There's nothing wrong you. If it tuens into a fetish where you're actively seeking out humiliation then you may want to be more introspective about that, and therapy might help at that point if it bothers you. There are partnerships where it is their 'love language' after all....

by Anonymousreply 8February 12, 2024 1:09 AM

You should have asked him to smack you around, op.

That would have made your puny cocklet VERY aroused.

by Anonymousreply 9February 12, 2024 1:11 AM

Was your cocklet humiliated OP?

by Anonymousreply 10February 12, 2024 1:13 AM

Give me the couch!

by Anonymousreply 11February 12, 2024 1:18 AM

OP at link:

Offsite Link
by Anonymousreply 12February 12, 2024 1:36 AM


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by Anonymousreply 14February 12, 2024 1:42 AM

Maybe he rushed home and jerked off to you checking him out!

by Anonymousreply 15February 12, 2024 1:51 AM

Your response should have been "Not fucking much you stupid Fucking asshole"

"If your cock is as big as your brain, you really are in trouble, ya fucking cocksucker!! Fuck off faggot!!!

I would like to thank Bette Midler& The Rose for half of the second comment!

by Anonymousreply 16February 12, 2024 2:00 AM

I’ve had sexual fantasies about the guys who bullied me for being gay…still do… 🥴

by Anonymousreply 17February 12, 2024 2:07 AM

TRUE STORY = I have a friend and I do love him. He is gay and 70. He colors his hair jet black and it looks ridiculous. And I often hear his "this 20 year old cute guy was checking me out" stories. But I know the reality is guys are looking at the weird 70 year old singing Taylor Swift songs getting out of his car. OP reminds me of my friend.

by Anonymousreply 18February 12, 2024 2:17 AM

R18 I happen to be in my twenties. And R17, what makes you get so hot about it? What happened during the bullying?

by Anonymousreply 19February 12, 2024 2:33 AM

He was walking in front of you but knew that you were checking him out? Does he have eyes in the back of his head?

by Anonymousreply 20February 12, 2024 2:37 AM

I've come to realize that I need to have like 3-4 quick comebacks that I can whip out in situations like OP's.

What's a good response to that situation.

My first thought was to look him up down visibly, snort and say "not much."

Then again, these days that might get you punched. Other suggestions?

by Anonymousreply 21February 12, 2024 2:39 AM

R18 is your friend BILL TAYLOR?

by Anonymousreply 22February 12, 2024 2:39 AM


“I’m sucking your dick with my eyes and there is NOTHING you can do about it!”

by Anonymousreply 23February 12, 2024 2:40 AM

OP, if by therapy you mean castration, yes. You must cut off your dick and convert it into a front hole.

by Anonymousreply 24February 12, 2024 2:41 AM

You need therapy, but for other reason. Like making up a story for attention. That’s why you need therapy.

by Anonymousreply 25February 12, 2024 2:52 AM

If you hadnt made all the sex noises i am sure he never would have noticed that you were BEHIND HIM.

by Anonymousreply 26February 12, 2024 2:54 AM

Everyone could use therapy, OP.

by Anonymousreply 27February 12, 2024 3:32 AM

Yeah, I do think you need therapy if you're masturbating about someone who just humiliated you.

by Anonymousreply 28February 12, 2024 3:34 AM

OP, you should have sneered at him and said, "Nothing. Nothing at all." then walked away.

by Anonymousreply 29February 12, 2024 3:57 AM

R26, r26, he was walking in front of me from the opposite direction. Sorry, English isn’t my first language. I’m an Indian immigrant.

by Anonymousreply 30February 12, 2024 9:56 AM

Somehow that doesn't make this story any more believable, R30.

by Anonymousreply 31February 12, 2024 10:39 AM

“And rushed back home”

Careful you don’t trip on your caftan hon.

Sorry 0/10

by Anonymousreply 32February 12, 2024 10:49 AM

Don’t hate on yourself, OP. Just let it go. Flush the memory away as you launder the cum rag. Therapy is expensive. Be with people that make you feel sexy and worthy of good love.

by Anonymousreply 33February 12, 2024 11:13 AM

How do you dress?

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by Anonymousreply 35February 12, 2024 1:02 PM

R17- I have sexual fantasies about that chubby ex FAG Republican

Marco Rubio - I can’t stand his uppity- ness yet I would do him in a second.

by Anonymousreply 36February 12, 2024 1:25 PM
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