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I met the guy I’m going to marry

I’m mid-fifties. I’ve played around, been in a long-term unmarried relationship before, but this is the real thing!

It’s only been three months, but I’m certain.

Please congratulate me.

by Anonymousreply 77February 21, 2024 12:44 AM

Finding something real is rare in this life, congratulations to you Tony!

by Anonymousreply 1February 11, 2024 4:37 AM

I just fucked him.

by Anonymousreply 2February 11, 2024 4:37 AM

We will need nudes to determine whether or not congratulations are in order.

by Anonymousreply 3February 11, 2024 4:40 AM
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by Anonymousreply 4February 11, 2024 4:41 AM

He just ate my bussy and I had chili for dinner.

by Anonymousreply 5February 11, 2024 4:45 AM

The cards say ... bitch, please.

by Anonymousreply 6February 11, 2024 4:52 AM

She is going to the chapel and she's gonna get married!

by Anonymousreply 7February 11, 2024 4:56 AM

Love you! Don’t leave me!

by Anonymousreply 8February 11, 2024 4:58 AM
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by Anonymousreply 9February 11, 2024 4:58 AM

Mazel tov.

by Anonymousreply 10February 11, 2024 5:09 AM


by Anonymousreply 11February 11, 2024 5:09 AM

This time she knows it's for real

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by Anonymousreply 12February 11, 2024 5:12 AM

I can’t sleep. I keep thinking about our last date.

by Anonymousreply 13February 11, 2024 5:32 AM

Are you sure you can afford him, OP?

by Anonymousreply 14February 11, 2024 5:44 AM

He gave you AIDS on the third date, OP. We had a bet to see how long it would take your whore ass to sleep with him. He gave you the bug after 3 dates. I won.

by Anonymousreply 15February 11, 2024 5:48 AM

This will end in tears and a drained bank account.

by Anonymousreply 16February 11, 2024 5:54 AM

Well at least you'll have someone to arrange your cremation when you die. ⚰️ 🔥

by Anonymousreply 17February 11, 2024 5:56 AM

We're all teasing you, OP, but you know that if it's real we're all jealous as fuck. Someone will doubtless post below that I can't speak for him and that he isn't at all interested in marriage, blah blah blah. But marriage or not, we all want to love and be loved.

by Anonymousreply 18February 11, 2024 6:08 AM

When you say "met" do you mean face to face or are they an Eastern European you've been emailing?

by Anonymousreply 19February 11, 2024 6:10 AM

3 months is a bit fast to know that. I'd want to get to know him more to be sure. Some people are good at love-bombing for example and then it suddenly turns bad.

by Anonymousreply 20February 11, 2024 6:58 AM

I met someone exactly 5 years ago while on vacation.

By the 4th day, he said he thought we'd eventually be married. We lived 2,700 miles apart. I thought it was a joke. By the second month, he'd visited me in my town, and I visited him in his. We commuted back and forth through COVID. We got married last October. He retired and lives with me now. The joke was on me.

It can happen.


by Anonymousreply 21February 11, 2024 7:15 AM

Congratulations darling! I wish you both a world of happiness.

by Anonymousreply 22February 11, 2024 7:19 AM

Not jealous. I've been with my guy for 30 years.

by Anonymousreply 23February 11, 2024 7:20 AM

Congratulations, indeed!

Good for you, OP! I hope this works out for you both, and are happy as can be together.

by Anonymousreply 24February 11, 2024 7:24 AM

I love falling in love; it’s the reality three months later that slaps me in the face.

by Anonymousreply 25February 11, 2024 8:56 AM

What's he like in bed?

by Anonymousreply 26February 11, 2024 8:13 PM

Hmmmm . . .

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by Anonymousreply 27February 11, 2024 8:40 PM

Op, here. We’ve had six in-person dates. We have so much in common. We haven’t slept together yet, but he is a passionate kisser. I’m head over heels and so is he. We tell each other everything. Actually, there is no rush. We are just so happy to let things develop.

by Anonymousreply 28February 11, 2024 11:14 PM

….this will end in tears.

by Anonymousreply 29February 11, 2024 11:19 PM

With you eternally mine

In love there is no measure of time

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by Anonymousreply 30February 11, 2024 11:21 PM

I congratulate you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 31February 11, 2024 11:23 PM

Congrats! does he have a huge cock?

by Anonymousreply 32February 11, 2024 11:40 PM

You've been together three months, but you've only had six in-person dates and haven't had sex? I met my husband thirty years ago, and we had sex on our first date and had more than six dates in the first three weeks.

by Anonymousreply 33February 11, 2024 11:48 PM

OP has been to Georgia and California and sipped champagne on a rock…

by Anonymousreply 34February 11, 2024 11:54 PM

Tony, he sounds GRRREEEAAATTT!!!

by Anonymousreply 35February 12, 2024 12:04 AM

No sex after 6 dates ? OP, he or you are hiding something. Has he asked for money yet ?

by Anonymousreply 36February 12, 2024 12:11 AM

Tanti auguri!

by Anonymousreply 37February 12, 2024 12:20 AM

“Reader, I married him.”

by Anonymousreply 38February 12, 2024 12:25 AM

[quote] You've been together three months, but you've only had six in-person dates and haven't had sex? I met my husband thirty years ago, and we had sex on our first date and had more than six dates in the first three weeks.

Well, but you're a slut. Remember that.

by Anonymousreply 39February 12, 2024 12:26 AM

We fucked the first night and knew right away we were going to be together. Twenty years this year we guess we were right.

by Anonymousreply 40February 12, 2024 12:42 AM

[quote]Well, but you're a slut. Remember that

But they’re both male. That’s how men work.

by Anonymousreply 41February 12, 2024 4:39 AM

I’m sure his wife is just as excited for you as we are, OP!!! Congrats.

by Anonymousreply 42February 12, 2024 7:23 AM

Marriage is for chumps and straights, OP. Stay single.

by Anonymousreply 43February 12, 2024 7:27 AM

The thing I learned after my much-missed first Mr S. passed away and finding my beloved second Mr. S. after 7 years of dating is that there's a companionate quality that you just "know". It makes all of the dating before that seem like a forced outcome. Hope that's what's happening for you, OP.

by Anonymousreply 44February 12, 2024 7:53 AM

It can happen. It did for me. Congratulations!

by Anonymousreply 45February 12, 2024 8:27 AM

Does he know he’s been selected as your chosen yet?

by Anonymousreply 46February 12, 2024 8:43 AM

Oh sure, you sound stable.

by Anonymousreply 47February 12, 2024 10:06 AM

I'm not sure I'd trust the judgement of someone who can't disambiguate a pronoun.

by Anonymousreply 48February 12, 2024 10:11 AM

OP you're just another needy bottom. You sound high maintenance and extremely wearisome.

by Anonymousreply 49February 12, 2024 10:51 AM

R49 = aromantic with zero self-awareness (think asexual, but only on the romantic side.)

Take all kinds to make a world. Quit judging people who don't do relationships like you.

by Anonymousreply 50February 12, 2024 11:05 AM

Register somewhere nice. None of this cheapo Pottery Barn crap. Also don’t wear matching tuxes, it’s boring. I suggest velvet tuxes in different colors if it’s a day wedding.

by Anonymousreply 51February 12, 2024 11:32 AM

Over my dead body.

by Anonymousreply 52February 12, 2024 11:39 AM

"I think I met the guy I'm going to bury".


by Anonymousreply 53February 12, 2024 12:45 PM

[quote]But they’re both male. That’s how men work.

That's how some men work.

by Anonymousreply 54February 12, 2024 12:58 PM

Adults who act like children think their experience of the world is exactly the same as everyone else's (or what everyone else's should be).

by Anonymousreply 55February 12, 2024 1:04 PM

Whatever, R55.

by Anonymousreply 56February 12, 2024 1:07 PM

r50 r49 also describes you but you’re a virgin.

by Anonymousreply 57February 13, 2024 12:23 AM

Op here. We live several hours away from each other. His dad has dementia and he is one of a few caregivers. Six dates in twelve weeks is enough. We talk several times everyday. I have made it clear that I will support him in every way possible.

Don’t worry about me, DL. Things are working as well as possible.

by Anonymousreply 58February 13, 2024 1:35 AM

Got married three years ago this April at age 55, have become a better man because of it. Congratulations and best of luck!

by Anonymousreply 59February 13, 2024 1:41 AM

OP. What is the quality of both his bedroom and bathroom linens?

by Anonymousreply 60February 13, 2024 1:49 AM

Now you can get fat and stop grooming your junk.

by Anonymousreply 61February 13, 2024 1:53 AM

We just got off the phone after two hours. Going to meet this weekend. God, I love to hear his voice.

by Anonymousreply 62February 13, 2024 6:42 AM

Will it be an open marriage?

by Anonymousreply 63February 13, 2024 7:11 AM

I’m in my mid 20’s and never been in a relationship ever. When I see posts like this it gives me hope I can meet someone one day.

by Anonymousreply 64February 13, 2024 7:18 AM

Will family members be okay with two cousins dating, fucking, and marrying each other or is it okay because you both live in KY?

by Anonymousreply 65February 15, 2024 9:37 PM

Not going to leave you babe R8, just behave.

by Anonymousreply 66February 16, 2024 12:04 AM

Best of everything for you too. Wonderful. ♥️♥️

by Anonymousreply 67February 16, 2024 12:07 AM

Congratulations Tony, ignore the bitter cunts who aren't as lucky as you.

by Anonymousreply 68February 17, 2024 9:07 PM

OP, I want you to be happy, but I see red flags. For goodness sake don’t get a pet or a car together. And don’t co-sign anything. Good luck.

by Anonymousreply 69February 18, 2024 2:13 AM

Who's the top??

by Anonymousreply 70February 18, 2024 4:46 AM

Did this happen yet?

by Anonymousreply 71February 18, 2024 10:43 PM

I’m in my mid 20’s and never been in a relationship ever. When I see posts like this it gives me hope I can one day get my bank account drained and lose all my financial assets

by Anonymousreply 72February 18, 2024 10:46 PM

I met a guy that I really liked. We saw each other for a month or so, and I was really into him. I thought that he could be the one. We finally decided to have sex, and it was horrible. What will you do if this happens to you, OP?

by Anonymousreply 73February 19, 2024 3:14 AM

^I continue to have sex with my boyfriend’s dad while my boyfriend watches and hopefully takes some good notes. Daddy dicks me soooooo gooooood.

by Anonymousreply 74February 19, 2024 8:17 AM

[quote] I met the guy I’m going to marry

That’s nice. Does his wife know?

by Anonymousreply 75February 19, 2024 8:25 AM

Is this one of those “open relationships”?

by Anonymousreply 76February 19, 2024 12:15 PM


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